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Bigoted, entitled men on Fab. They can’t be here for sex!
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"I mean the stuff they are saying, they can’t be expecting to get them a shag or friends. Why are they here? What use are they apart from £5 a month? Did they try at first then realise they are unfuckable and now they are embittered wanking themselves off knowing they will never dip their wicks again till they are cold in the ground and the maggots can nibble on their pathetic little todgers?" That's a bit offensive actually. X | |||
"I mean the stuff they are saying, they can’t be expecting to get them a shag or friends. Why are they here? What use are they apart from £5 a month? Did they try at first then realise they are unfuckable and now they are embittered wanking themselves off knowing they will never dip their wicks again till they are cold in the ground and the maggots can nibble on their pathetic little todgers?" And Breathe  | |||
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"I mean the stuff they are saying, they can’t be expecting to get them a shag or friends. Why are they here? What use are they apart from £5 a month? Did they try at first then realise they are unfuckable and now they are embittered wanking themselves off knowing they will never dip their wicks again till they are cold in the ground and the maggots can nibble on their pathetic little todgers?" Get over yourselves... | |||
"I mean the stuff they are saying, they can’t be expecting to get them a shag or friends. Why are they here? What use are they apart from £5 a month? Did they try at first then realise they are unfuckable and now they are embittered wanking themselves off knowing they will never dip their wicks again till they are cold in the ground and the maggots can nibble on their pathetic little todgers?" Bit harsh OP. | |||
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"I’m not bigoted, I’m not entitled, and I’m not particularly here for sex. I like a bit of a chat and fun in the forums though. Oh, and looking at bums and boobs and willies on the odd occasion "This, lol  | |||
"I’m not bigoted, I’m not entitled, and I’m not particularly here for sex. I like a bit of a chat and fun in the forums though. Oh, and looking at bums and boobs and willies on the odd occasion "Thats 2 of us shall we get our coats then, ive to go and rot my maggot  | |||
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"Bit uncalled for tbh OP. I would suspect a lot won't want to meet you at all now. "She must owe one of biggots a lay by now | |||
"I mean the stuff they are saying, they can’t be expecting to get them a shag or friends. Why are they here? What use are they apart from £5 a month? Did they try at first then realise they are unfuckable and now they are embittered wanking themselves off knowing they will never dip their wicks again till they are cold in the ground and the maggots can nibble on their pathetic little todgers?" Does anyone else see the irony in this post? | |||
"I’m not bigoted, I’m not entitled, and I’m not particularly here for sex. I like a bit of a chat and fun in the forums though. Oh, and looking at bums and boobs and willies on the odd occasion " | |||
"I mean the stuff they are saying, they can’t be expecting to get them a shag or friends. Why are they here? What use are they apart from £5 a month? Did they try at first then realise they are unfuckable and now they are embittered wanking themselves off knowing they will never dip their wicks again till they are cold in the ground and the maggots can nibble on their pathetic little todgers? Does anyone else see the irony in this post?" Absolutely, seeing as one of the OP's is in fact.... "drum roll"..... MALE.  | |||
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"Ah it was the thread on the two women that got beaten up on a bus. In the thread they were being blamed for being being gay in public and the should keep it in the bedroom! I might understand that sort of post on a right wing white power message board. But on a swingers site!?! What kind of muppets would say that?" Narrow minded ones | |||
"Ah it was the thread on the two women that got beaten up on a bus. In the thread they were being blamed for being being gay in public and the should keep it in the bedroom! I might understand that sort of post on a right wing white power message board. But on a swingers site!?! What kind of muppets would say that?" Fozzy bear wakka wakka | |||
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"Ah it was the thread on the two women that got beaten up on a bus. In the thread they were being blamed for being being gay in public and the should keep it in the bedroom! I might understand that sort of post on a right wing white power message board. But on a swingers site!?! What kind of muppets would say that? Narrow minded ones "But that’s what I’m getting at. Why be on a site that’s all about open mindedness and be a closed nasty bigot. It’s a small percentage of guys. But they are in no way here in the spirit of the site. | |||
"Ah it was the thread on the two women that got beaten up on a bus. In the thread they were being blamed for being being gay in public and the should keep it in the bedroom! I might understand that sort of post on a right wing white power message board. But on a swingers site!?! What kind of muppets would say that?" Although I completely disagree with the "keep it in the bedroom" and am bi, i kind of understand what the guy was trying to say... If nobody displays affection in public nobody can use your sexuality as an excuse to attack you. It's completely fucking backwards but in a black and white world it would make sense, we dont live in black and white world though | |||
"Ah it was the thread on the two women that got beaten up on a bus. In the thread they were being blamed for being being gay in public and the should keep it in the bedroom! I might understand that sort of post on a right wing white power message board. But on a swingers site!?! What kind of muppets would say that? Narrow minded ones
But that’s what I’m getting at. Why be on a site that’s all about open mindedness and be a closed nasty bigot. It’s a small percentage of guys. But they are in no way here in the spirit of the site. "I agree, but then slagging them off and name calling isn’t really in the spirit of the site either | |||
"Ah it was the thread on the two women that got beaten up on a bus. In the thread they were being blamed for being being gay in public and the should keep it in the bedroom! I might understand that sort of post on a right wing white power message board. But on a swingers site!?! What kind of muppets would say that? Although I completely disagree with the "keep it in the bedroom" and am bi, i kind of understand what the guy was trying to say... If nobody displays affection in public nobody can use your sexuality as an excuse to attack you. It's completely fucking backwards but in a black and white world it would make sense, we dont live in black and white world though" I once got rice, chips and curry sauce thrown over me at school because I had short hair and that made me a ‘dyke’. I hadn’t came out as bi yet, I wasn’t even aware I was bi. I’ve had abuse hurled at me because my hair is short. I’ve been pinned against a wall and screamed at and punched because I turned down a guy. Automatically a lesbian! And these attacks are so tame! But yep, keep it in the bedroom folks. Be ashamed of who you are. | |||
"Ah it was the thread on the two women that got beaten up on a bus. In the thread they were being blamed for being being gay in public and the should keep it in the bedroom! I might understand that sort of post on a right wing white power message board. But on a swingers site!?! What kind of muppets would say that? Narrow minded ones
But that’s what I’m getting at. Why be on a site that’s all about open mindedness and be a closed nasty bigot. It’s a small percentage of guys. But they are in no way here in the spirit of the site.
I agree, but then slagging them off and name calling isn’t really in the spirit of the site either "You could be right. After all being a knob might be his kink. Perhaps they get a lot of whatever it is they want from that. | |||
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"Ah it was the thread on the two women that got beaten up on a bus. In the thread they were being blamed for being being gay in public and the should keep it in the bedroom! I might understand that sort of post on a right wing white power message board. But on a swingers site!?! What kind of muppets would say that? Although I completely disagree with the "keep it in the bedroom" and am bi, i kind of understand what the guy was trying to say... If nobody displays affection in public nobody can use your sexuality as an excuse to attack you. It's completely fucking backwards but in a black and white world it would make sense, we dont live in black and white world though I once got rice, chips and curry sauce thrown over me at school because I had short hair and that made me a ‘dyke’. I hadn’t came out as bi yet, I wasn’t even aware I was bi. I’ve had abuse hurled at me because my hair is short. I’ve been pinned against a wall and screamed at and punched because I turned down a guy. Automatically a lesbian! And these attacks are so tame! But yep, keep it in the bedroom folks. Be ashamed of who you are. " I wasn't agreeing with that mindset just trying to put his rhetoric into a less gibberish ranty thing and more of a coherent arguement | |||
"On that, block and ignore is the best way forward. Engage in the thread, not otherwise. It exists elsewhere too, but again: block and ignore. " you might be right. Why not just keep blocking and that’s that. | |||
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"Ah it was the thread on the two women that got beaten up on a bus. In the thread they were being blamed for being being gay in public and the should keep it in the bedroom! I might understand that sort of post on a right wing white power message board. But on a swingers site!?! What kind of muppets would say that? Narrow minded ones
But that’s what I’m getting at. Why be on a site that’s all about open mindedness and be a closed nasty bigot. It’s a small percentage of guys. But they are in no way here in the spirit of the site. "Pot.. kettle..... | |||
"I mean the stuff they are saying, they can’t be expecting to get them a shag or friends. Why are they here? What use are they apart from £5 a month? Did they try at first then realise they are unfuckable and now they are embittered wanking themselves off knowing they will never dip their wicks again till they are cold in the ground and the maggots can nibble on their pathetic little todgers?" You sound really angry today. | |||
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"This is an interesting debate. OP says that it's biggoted single guys, but I think we all know that every gender and orientation on here has thier moments of idiocy that leaves you banging your head into a table. I am fortunate enough that I have this single's profile, and share a couple's one with my FB, so I get sight of it from sides, as the decent single guy trying to engage with other members, to the reciever of some of the foulest writing I've ever read, and in truth, it is both men and women, and coupes that are guilty. As this site membership is not really moderated, there is literally nothing you can do about this issue. So, what is the solution? Simple, focus on why you joined and the people you want to speak to, if morons message you, ignore them. Don't let their small minds ruin why you signed up, don't let their agendas deter yours, who are they to you anyway? Are you going to see them somewhere, or be forced into speaking to them again, no, so move on. I appreciate it is hard when you get a lot of crap messages that are way off the mark of what this site is about, block them, move on, you won't get any more messages from that person again. I feel for you OP, and I get your frustrations, but this site is what it is, and threads like this, end up getting people time-outs from the Forum and even from messaging others. Smile, it's pissing down with rain and you can't change that either. " we are sitting on sun loungers by the pool, in Spain | |||
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"I can see where the OP is coming from, feels like there's been an influx of men/couples who are not verified/have no meets and are on the forums spouting bigoted crap, hell we even have a "couple" in the politics section who sympathise with white supremacist and say that slavery was fair game. We're surprised these kinds of posts were allowed on fab tbh." | |||
"I can see where the OP is coming from, feels like there's been an influx of men/couples who are not verified/have no meets and are on the forums spouting bigoted crap, hell we even have a "couple" in the politics section who sympathise with white supremacist and say that slavery was fair game. We're surprised these kinds of posts were allowed on fab tbh. " | |||
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"I mean the stuff they are saying, they can’t be expecting to get them a shag or friends. Why are they here? What use are they apart from £5 a month? Did they try at first then realise they are unfuckable and now they are embittered wanking themselves off knowing they will never dip their wicks again till they are cold in the ground and the maggots can nibble on their pathetic little todgers?" Ah come on OP, tell us who pissed u off and wat did they say | |||
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"This is an interesting debate. OP says that it's biggoted single guys, but I think we all know that every gender and orientation on here has thier moments of idiocy that leaves you banging your head into a table. I am fortunate enough that I have this single's profile, and share a couple's one with my FB, so I get sight of it from sides, as the decent single guy trying to engage with other members, to the reciever of some of the foulest writing I've ever read, and in truth, it is both men and women, and coupes that are guilty. As this site membership is not really moderated, there is literally nothing you can do about this issue. So, what is the solution? Simple, focus on why you joined and the people you want to speak to, if morons message you, ignore them. Don't let their small minds ruin why you signed up, don't let their agendas deter yours, who are they to you anyway? Are you going to see them somewhere, or be forced into speaking to them again, no, so move on. I appreciate it is hard when you get a lot of crap messages that are way off the mark of what this site is about, block them, move on, you won't get any more messages from that person again. I feel for you OP, and I get your frustrations, but this site is what it is, and threads like this, end up getting people time-outs from the Forum and even from messaging others. Smile, it's pissing down with rain and you can't change that either. we are sitting on sun loungers by the pool, in Spain "Then all the more reason to be focusing on the good things in life rather than the bad. I wasn't having a go by the way x | |||
"I mean the stuff they are saying, they can’t be expecting to get them a shag or friends. Why are they here? What use are they apart from £5 a month? Did they try at first then realise they are unfuckable and now they are embittered wanking themselves off knowing they will never dip their wicks again till they are cold in the ground and the maggots can nibble on their pathetic little todgers? Ah come on OP, tell us who pissed u off and wat did they say "They did say who pissed them off | |||
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"Ah it was the thread on the two women that got beaten up on a bus. In the thread they were being blamed for being being gay in public and the should keep it in the bedroom! I might understand that sort of post on a right wing white power message board. But on a swingers site!?! What kind of muppets would say that?" Would have made your OP a lot clearer if you'd have added this into it in the first place. | |||
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"Yeah but you can see how that actions of those put a really bad taint on being a single guy on here. We have met some really decent people in swinging. Never once come across anything like this in the real life swing world. Clubs and socials just loads of really nice people. I guess that’s the thing...... no verifications, not getting out and having real human interaction. " I have met a few who spout this stuff publicly. Most know not to though. | |||
"Ah it was the thread on the two women that got beaten up on a bus. In the thread they were being blamed for being being gay in public and the should keep it in the bedroom! I might understand that sort of post on a right wing white power message board. But on a swingers site!?! What kind of muppets would say that? Would have made your OP a lot clearer if you'd have added this into it in the first place. " I didn’t want to get specific. It’s just here in a percentage of post... | |||
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"I mean the stuff they are saying, they can’t be expecting to get them a shag or friends. Why are they here? What use are they apart from £5 a month? Did they try at first then realise they are unfuckable and now they are embittered wanking themselves off knowing they will never dip their wicks again till they are cold in the ground and the maggots can nibble on their pathetic little todgers? Ah come on OP, tell us who pissed u off and wat did they say
They did say who pissed them off"Oops, missed that bit... My bad! | |||
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"I mean I probably wouldn't have worded it quite as provocatively as yourself, but I get it. I lump him in the "has no idea about the real world" pot, along with the men on the forums have have a huge beef with feminism (which again feels somewhat counter productive to me, as it's my desire for an equal world and my feminist beliefs that mean I have liberation sexually) There were a couple attacked in the gay village in Manchester this weekend too. It just makes my little queer heart very sad. I wish I could be angry but I'm sad, with resilience. I will hold my girls hand, if I want to kiss her I will. And god help anyone who tries to do or say anything. " Yes and unfortunately there was another attack on two gay women in Southampton on Saturday. Its awful. Hate breeds hate. | |||
"I mean I probably wouldn't have worded it quite as provocatively as yourself, but I get it. I lump him in the "has no idea about the real world" pot, along with the men on the forums who have a huge beef with feminism (which again feels somewhat counter productive to me, as it's my desire for an equal world and my feminist beliefs that mean I have liberation sexually) There were a couple attacked in the gay village in Manchester this weekend too. It just makes my little queer heart very sad. I wish I could be angry but I'm sad, with resilience. I will hold my girls hand, if I want to kiss her I will. And god help anyone who tries to do or say anything. " Lots of women aren’t for feminism either. God knows why folk don’t want equality, I just stay away from those people | |||
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"Lots of women aren’t for feminism either. God knows why folk don’t want equality, I just stay away from those people "Being against the current feminist movement is not anti equality.. 3rd and 4th wave intersectional feminism is going beyond true equality of opportunity that is fair for all to instead promote equality of outcome. Equality of outcome is a horrible idea as it reduces individual choice if it's declared that all things must be like "x" | |||
