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Is my profile pic too raunchy for Instagram?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Women post photos of their kit half on, half off all the time. Sex sells.
I took the photo and I played with it. Subject matter aside, it's more than a selfie to me and I want to show it off 
Troubld is.. my friends, family and colleagues are on Instagram  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Weirdly if I saw a pic like that of one of my friends/family etc I'd find it amusing and probably take the piss for being poncy.
On here and because it's not someone close to me I like it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Weirdly if I saw a pic like that of one of my friends/family etc I'd find it amusing and probably take the piss for being poncy.
On here and because it's not someone close to me I like it. "
I fully appreciate I'd be taken the piss out of. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"Women post photos of their kit half on, half off all the time. Sex sells.
I took the photo and I played with it. Subject matter aside, it's more than a selfie to me and I want to show it off
Troubld is.. my friends, family and colleagues are on Instagram "
No. It’s lush. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Women post photos of their kit half on, half off all the time. Sex sells.
I took the photo and I played with it. Subject matter aside, it's more than a selfie to me and I want to show it off
Troubld is.. my friends, family and colleagues are on Instagram
No. It’s lush."
Thankyou  I'm thinking of venturing into realms of taking photos if other people. Sexual or non-sexual. I just want to show my pics off and I'm the only person I know who will model for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Post it! Well, depending on your family and how you think they'd react! Mine know I have secrets from them and know I take great pleasure in listening to them try to guess what we've been up to on our weekends away... A kind of erotic pic or two has found it's way onto my Instagram, I raise an eyebrow back to my sisters when they see them!
Or open a second 'naughty' account 
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's a nice pic. Not helped you though with your decision, sorry x"
You have, I'm just wondering and pondering. I may put it on, I might not. It's a difficult one for me to wrestle with. |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"Women post photos of their kit half on, half off all the time. Sex sells.
I took the photo and I played with it. Subject matter aside, it's more than a selfie to me and I want to show it off
Troubld is.. my friends, family and colleagues are on Instagram "
It's a great pic. I'm not on instagram so I can't really answer your question sorry. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Women post photos of their kit half on, half off all the time. Sex sells.
I took the photo and I played with it. Subject matter aside, it's more than a selfie to me and I want to show it off
Troubld is.. my friends, family and colleagues are on Instagram
No. It’s lush.
Thankyou I'm thinking of venturing into realms of taking photos if other people. Sexual or non-sexual. I just want to show my pics off and I'm the only person I know who will model for me "
I’d model for you. I’m gawky and klutzy though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You would be popular with the ladies with a photo like that on it x "
Thankyou. I'm getting the odd ambassador request, it's all about horse stuff at the moment! I cant ride a horse! I'd love someone to teach me though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Post it! Well, depending on your family and how you think they'd react! Mine know I have secrets from them and know I take great pleasure in listening to them try to guess what we've been up to on our weekends away... A kind of erotic pic or two has found it's way onto my Instagram, I raise an eyebrow back to my sisters when they see them!
Or open a second 'naughty' account
Peach x"
thought about dual accounts.. but this pic is also just a selfie and has captured a bit of me that I kind of want people to know about. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Women post photos of their kit half on, half off all the time. Sex sells.
I took the photo and I played with it. Subject matter aside, it's more than a selfie to me and I want to show it off
Troubld is.. my friends, family and colleagues are on Instagram
It's a great pic. I'm not on instagram so I can't really answer your question sorry. "
Would you put it on a poster for everyone to see? if it were you? is the question I'm asking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Women post photos of their kit half on, half off all the time. Sex sells.
I took the photo and I played with it. Subject matter aside, it's more than a selfie to me and I want to show it off
Troubld is.. my friends, family and colleagues are on Instagram
No. It’s lush.
Thankyou I'm thinking of venturing into realms of taking photos if other people. Sexual or non-sexual. I just want to show my pics off and I'm the only person I know who will model for me
I’d model for you. I’m gawky and klutzy though."
Well I'd hope to capture both.. as well as your classy intelligence and fearlessness. |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"Women post photos of their kit half on, half off all the time. Sex sells.
I took the photo and I played with it. Subject matter aside, it's more than a selfie to me and I want to show it off
Troubld is.. my friends, family and colleagues are on Instagram
It's a great pic. I'm not on instagram so I can't really answer your question sorry.
Would you put it on a poster for everyone to see? if it were you? is the question I'm asking "
Fuck me if I ever looked that good in a picture your damn right I'd buy a billboard and put it on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Post it but i’d say be prepared for some not nice comments if profile is public. It seems to be the done thing on Instagram to troll folk and make shitty remarks from what i’ve seen  "
James Blunt ain't got nothin' on me  I can back and forth with the best of them. Fab forum and its moderators have trained me to Platinum Level Bullshit Bafflers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Women post photos of their kit half on, half off all the time. Sex sells.
I took the photo and I played with it. Subject matter aside, it's more than a selfie to me and I want to show it off
Troubld is.. my friends, family and colleagues are on Instagram
It's a great pic. I'm not on instagram so I can't really answer your question sorry.
Would you put it on a poster for everyone to see? if it were you? is the question I'm asking
Fuck me if I ever looked that good in a picture your damn right I'd buy a billboard and put it on."
Faaaack orrrrrffff |
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It might be rather risqué if your friends and family don’t know that side of you???
If they know your an exhibitionist or like showing off your body parts, the GO FOR IT!!!
It’s a great pic!
I would!!  |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Women post photos of their kit half on, half off all the time. Sex sells.
I took the photo and I played with it. Subject matter aside, it's more than a selfie to me and I want to show it off
Troubld is.. my friends, family and colleagues are on Instagram
No. It’s lush.
Thankyou I'm thinking of venturing into realms of taking photos if other people. Sexual or non-sexual. I just want to show my pics off and I'm the only person I know who will model for me
I’d model for you. I’m gawky and klutzy though.
Well I'd hope to capture both.. as well as your classy intelligence and fearlessness."
Awwww you big charmer, you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It might be rather risqué if your friends and family don’t know that side of you???
If they know your an exhibitionist or like showing off your body parts, the GO FOR IT!!!
It’s a great pic!
I would!! "
My friends, boss, colleagues all know I swing. Elements of my family probably suspect it. None of them have seen a photo of me in a "modelling pose" with or without my kit on. My Army friends would have a field day. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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Great artistic image OP. Well taken pictures speak a thousand words about you and keep the audience thinking.
Something I've tried to achieve at times. Not sure I'd put it on instagram though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's a really good photo and you obviously like it, so my advice would be "What the Hell, go for it".
If I did that sort of thing, some of my boudoir photos would have been on."
You take good photos. Maybe you should..? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Great artistic image OP. Well taken pictures speak a thousand words about you and keep the audience thinking.
Something I've tried to achieve at times. Not sure I'd put it on instagram though. "
You take great photos, so that's high praise to my ears x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just post it Ghengis ..and I’ll model for you 
So many lil devils on my shoulder! What if my Aunty joins Instagram? She'll have a breakdown "
It’s not rude, it’s a piece of art |
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"It might be rather risqué if your friends and family don’t know that side of you???
If they know your an exhibitionist or like showing off your body parts, the GO FOR IT!!!
It’s a great pic!
I would!!
My friends, boss, colleagues all know I swing. Elements of my family probably suspect it. None of them have seen a photo of me in a "modelling pose" with or without my kit on. My Army friends would have a field day."
Oh then go for it!!! You only live once... if I were a fella with that bod.. I’d do it!! Lol
Women put boudoir shots on all the time.. why can’t men?
Do it!!! And let us know how many hearts you got!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just post it Ghengis ..and I’ll model for you
So many lil devils on my shoulder! What if my Aunty joins Instagram? She'll have a breakdown
It’s not rude, it’s a piece of art "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a great pic
In terms of physique, you have the body I'd love to have
Alas genetics has other ideas
I'm not on Insta, so unaware of the rules, but it is a great pic either way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It might be rather risqué if your friends and family don’t know that side of you???
If they know your an exhibitionist or like showing off your body parts, the GO FOR IT!!!
It’s a great pic!
I would!!
My friends, boss, colleagues all know I swing. Elements of my family probably suspect it. None of them have seen a photo of me in a "modelling pose" with or without my kit on. My Army friends would have a field day.
Oh then go for it!!! You only live once... if I were a fella with that bod.. I’d do it!! Lol
Women put boudoir shots on all the time.. why can’t men?
Do it!!! And let us know how many hearts you got! "
To be fair.. I think the photo has improved my figure a bit. I've not deliberately doctored it to do so. All I added were two filters for mood and cropped it. I was quite surprised to see myself like that. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"It's a great pic
In terms of physique, you have the body I'd love to have
Alas genetics has other ideas
I'm not on Insta, so unaware of the rules, but it is a great pic either way "
I’d love to ‘have’ your body.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a great pic
In terms of physique, you have the body I'd love to have
Alas genetics has other ideas
I'm not on Insta, so unaware of the rules, but it is a great pic either way "
Thanks dude |
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"I think it's a really good photo and you obviously like it, so my advice would be "What the Hell, go for it".
If I did that sort of thing, some of my boudoir photos would have been on.
You take good photos. Maybe you should..?"
Thanks but apart from Fab, I don't really do social media. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a great pic
In terms of physique, you have the body I'd love to have
Alas genetics has other ideas
I'm not on Insta, so unaware of the rules, but it is a great pic either way
I’d love to ‘have’ your body. "
There's plenty to go at  |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"It's a great pic
In terms of physique, you have the body I'd love to have
Alas genetics has other ideas
I'm not on Insta, so unaware of the rules, but it is a great pic either way
I’d love to ‘have’ your body.
There's plenty to go at "
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"It might be rather risqué if your friends and family don’t know that side of you???
If they know your an exhibitionist or like showing off your body parts, the GO FOR IT!!!
It’s a great pic!
I would!!
My friends, boss, colleagues all know I swing. Elements of my family probably suspect it. None of them have seen a photo of me in a "modelling pose" with or without my kit on. My Army friends would have a field day.
Oh then go for it!!! You only live once... if I were a fella with that bod.. I’d do it!! Lol
Women put boudoir shots on all the time.. why can’t men?
Do it!!! And let us know how many hearts you got!
To be fair.. I think the photo has improved my figure a bit. I've not deliberately doctored it to do so. All I added were two filters for mood and cropped it. I was quite surprised to see myself like that."
Oh it’s quite surprising what the correct angle and just the right amount of filter can do for your photos... having said that, you’ve got to have it to begin with... confidence is key to looking good in photos.. and by the looks of it, you have it ten fold! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wouldn't.
Not that it is not a great picture because it is .
But on 323 pictures I have posted on insta, two are actually me, others are just my street photograohies. I don't use insta to boost my ego, I do that on here |
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It’s a great photo
As to whether it goes on Instagram all I would comment is
1) how do you think your family would react; and
2) you say colleagues might see it, is it the sort of photo that would be frowned upon by your company, some have strict rules and you wouldn’t wish to jeopardise your job |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a great pic. I'm pretty sure you don't have to add people if you don't want to. My modern kids said they'd ignore my 'add' if I joined "
more adds the merrier.. I'm basing it around military history when I get going and viewing myself more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It might be rather risqué if your friends and family don’t know that side of you???
If they know your an exhibitionist or like showing off your body parts, the GO FOR IT!!!
It’s a great pic!
I would!!
My friends, boss, colleagues all know I swing. Elements of my family probably suspect it. None of them have seen a photo of me in a "modelling pose" with or without my kit on. My Army friends would have a field day.
Oh then go for it!!! You only live once... if I were a fella with that bod.. I’d do it!! Lol
Women put boudoir shots on all the time.. why can’t men?
Do it!!! And let us know how many hearts you got!
To be fair.. I think the photo has improved my figure a bit. I've not deliberately doctored it to do so. All I added were two filters for mood and cropped it. I was quite surprised to see myself like that.
Oh it’s quite surprising what the correct angle and just the right amount of filter can do for your photos... having said that, you’ve got to have it to begin with... confidence is key to looking good in photos.. and by the looks of it, you have it ten fold! "
Not as much as youd suspect probably I still need a support team of strong friends to push me and advise me. A little trusted tribe. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn't.
Not that it is not a great picture because it is .
But on 323 pictures I have posted on insta, two are actually me, others are just my street photograohies. I don't use insta to boost my ego, I do that on here "
I'm not on insta or here to have my ego boosted. It's pretty high as it is. I'd like to something that is me.. possibly earn from just being myself in some way.
I think I agree with you though. Despite the little devils whispers in my ear. I think I'll continue to pose and shoot. But my page will be more tribal and historical in theme.
A similar photo with similar angle.. but in authentic costume.. pirate.. viking.. Roman.. whatever.. would match the subject matter I want to talk about. Going naked is going to help me really |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn't.
Not that it is not a great picture because it is .
But on 323 pictures I have posted on insta, two are actually me, others are just my street photograohies. I don't use insta to boost my ego, I do that on here
I'm not on insta or here to have my ego boosted. It's pretty high as it is. I'd like to something that is me.. possibly earn from just being myself in some way.
I think I agree with you though. Despite the little devils whispers in my ear. I think I'll continue to pose and shoot. But my page will be more tribal and historical in theme.
A similar photo with similar angle.. but in authentic costume.. pirate.. viking.. Roman.. whatever.. would match the subject matter I want to talk about. Going naked is going to help me really "
*ISNT going to help me*  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s a great photo
As to whether it goes on Instagram all I would comment is
1) how do you think your family would react; and
2) you say colleagues might see it, is it the sort of photo that would be frowned upon by your company, some have strict rules and you wouldn’t wish to jeopardise your job "
1. probably poorly.
2. Work are fine with it. Totally. We have rude calendars in the back and the women are worse than us men are |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You have great photos 
If most know who you are then I'd say go for it!
As for you squaddies, they are probably all on here too "
Oh I'm not fussed about people knowing I'm on here.. but knowing that about someone.. then seeing the actual photos are two different things entirely.
The page is related to military.. or will be. If there are any ex forces on here whod be willing go chat to me on camera about their experiences. Emergency Services as well. I'd be very interested to hear from you. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"Post it but i’d say be prepared for some not nice comments if profile is public. It seems to be the done thing on Instagram to troll folk and make shitty remarks from what i’ve seen
James Blunt ain't got nothin' on me I can back and forth with the best of them. Fab forum and its moderators have trained me to Platinum Level Bullshit Bafflers."
i do love James Blunt.
Then go for it. I’d definately  it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you heard of Micheal Stokes the photograph? He’s done some very sexy shoots of ex servicemen who are scarred, burnt and had limbs amputated all very tastefully done x |
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"Women post photos of their kit half on, half off all the time. Sex sells.
I took the photo and I played with it. Subject matter aside, it's more than a selfie to me and I want to show it off
Troubld is.. my friends, family and colleagues are on Instagram "
Do it and give your instant friends a treat |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have you heard of Micheal Stokes the photograph? He’s done some very sexy shoots of ex servicemen who are scarred, burnt and had limbs amputated all very tastefully done x"
No but I'm going to hashtag search him now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you heard of Micheal Stokes the photograph? He’s done some very sexy shoots of ex servicemen who are scarred, burnt and had limbs amputated all very tastefully done x"
Micheal Stokes work is bloody beautiful! There is definitely room for a UK equivalent  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you heard of Micheal Stokes the photograph? He’s done some very sexy shoots of ex servicemen who are scarred, burnt and had limbs amputated all very tastefully done x
Micheal Stokes work is bloody beautiful! There is definitely room for a UK equivalent "
Was just about to say the same! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you heard of Micheal Stokes the photograph? He’s done some very sexy shoots of ex servicemen who are scarred, burnt and had limbs amputated all very tastefully done x
No but I'm going to hashtag search him now"
Very hot pics , I’ve got his calendar lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have you heard of Micheal Stokes the photograph? He’s done some very sexy shoots of ex servicemen who are scarred, burnt and had limbs amputated all very tastefully done x
Micheal Stokes work is bloody beautiful! There is definitely room for a UK equivalent "
Well if anyone is willing I'd happily try and capture their image. I dont think I can match that level though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you heard of Micheal Stokes the photograph? He’s done some very sexy shoots of ex servicemen who are scarred, burnt and had limbs amputated all very tastefully done x
Micheal Stokes work is bloody beautiful! There is definitely room for a UK equivalent "
He’s amazing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you heard of Micheal Stokes the photograph? He’s done some very sexy shoots of ex servicemen who are scarred, burnt and had limbs amputated all very tastefully done x
Micheal Stokes work is bloody beautiful! There is definitely room for a UK equivalent
Was just about to say the same! "
Super hot! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you heard of Micheal Stokes the photograph? He’s done some very sexy shoots of ex servicemen who are scarred, burnt and had limbs amputated all very tastefully done x
Micheal Stokes work is bloody beautiful! There is definitely room for a UK equivalent
Well if anyone is willing I'd happily try and capture their image. I dont think I can match that level though "
I have one of his books too !! |
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"It’s a great photo
As to whether it goes on Instagram all I would comment is
1) how do you think your family would react; and
2) you say colleagues might see it, is it the sort of photo that would be frowned upon by your company, some have strict rules and you wouldn’t wish to jeopardise your job
1. probably poorly.
2. Work are fine with it. Totally. We have rude calendars in the back and the women are worse than us men are "
Well based on that it all comes down to your family’s reaction and could you handle it.
Or as people suggested an alternative account for your photos and your proposed project and then you can invite who can see it. Leaving your other account for your other work |
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By (user no longer on site)
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All you have to ask yourself is, how would you feel if your family members or work colleagues saw these types of selfies? Knowing you, if you are comfortable with these pictures being out there then all who know you wouldn't have a problem with them either!
PS definitely want photos next time!!! X |
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