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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?
(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its human nature. Open couples aren't always as open and exclusive couples aren't always exclusive!!
This has been my experience from being on here for many years. |
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"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?
(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)
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Is one of you cheating? |
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I had secret from my husband for 2 years...my work hours changed and I finished an hour earlier than he thought I did. I used to go to a mates house for a cuppa or park up near the beach or somewhere and read a book. Lmao |
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"I had secret from my husband for 2 years...my work hours changed and I finished an hour earlier than he thought I did. I used to go to a mates house for a cuppa or park up near the beach or somewhere and read a book. Lmao "
Sometimes you have to give yourself a bit of "me" time |
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"I had secret from my husband for 2 years...my work hours changed and I finished an hour earlier than he thought I did. I used to go to a mates house for a cuppa or park up near the beach or somewhere and read a book. Lmao "
Hahahahahaha |
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"I had secret from my husband for 2 years...my work hours changed and I finished an hour earlier than he thought I did. I used to go to a mates house for a cuppa or park up near the beach or somewhere and read a book. Lmao
Sometimes you have to give yourself a bit of "me" time"
Exactly that  |
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"I had secret from my husband for 2 years...my work hours changed and I finished an hour earlier than he thought I did. I used to go to a mates house for a cuppa or park up near the beach or somewhere and read a book. Lmao
Hahahahahaha "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?
(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)
Is one of you cheating?"
No, not cheating.
Just not being as forthcoming with our actions as we were when we got first here. |
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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?
(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)
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Damn it... I thought the post was about Secrets the nightclub..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?
(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)
Damn it... I thought the post was about Secrets the nightclub.. "
Whoops, sorry  |
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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?
(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)
Damn it... I thought the post was about Secrets the nightclub..
Whoops, sorry "
No trouble... my mistake..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don’t have any. We know each others passwords for stuff. My finger print unlocks his phone and visa versa...it’s always the best way, cards on the table nothingbheld back |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am USELESS at keeping secrets
Even down to if I’ve snuck some biscuits and I’m meant to be trying to be good. I end up telling Mr P.
Mrs P"
Lol, same x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am USELESS at keeping secrets
Even down to if I’ve snuck some biscuits and I’m meant to be trying to be good. I end up telling Mr P.
Mrs P
Lol, same x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am USELESS at keeping secrets
Even down to if I’ve snuck some biscuits and I’m meant to be trying to be good. I end up telling Mr P.
Mrs P
Lol, same x
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It’s not really keeping secrets, just not thinking to share |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?
(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)
Is one of you cheating?
No, not cheating.
Just not being as forthcoming with our actions as we were when we got first here."
Talk more. Secrets in swinging can lead to issues. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?
(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)
Is one of you cheating?
No, not cheating.
Just not being as forthcoming with our actions as we were when we got first here.
Talk more. Secrets in swinging can lead to issues."
It’s not all totally related to swinging to be fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?
(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)
Is one of you cheating?
No, not cheating.
Just not being as forthcoming with our actions as we were when we got first here.
Talk more. Secrets in swinging can lead to issues.
It’s not all totally related to swinging to be fair"
Depends on the secrets then I suppose. If it's a monster bar of Dairy Milk hidden at the back of the cupboard, or a secret family in Hull. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm completely honest with my partner. He supports my choices. He's not cuckold etc but knows I can't do monogamy so is fine with the relationship I've built up with my fwb. I feel lucky that I can be honest and open with him. |
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