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By *eo OP Man over a year ago

Sutton-In-Ashfield

It does confuse me why some read messages then quickly unread them. Anyone shed any light on the reason for this?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe they are a couple, one of them has read it but want to come back when the other is around?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do that if I want to come back to it and maybe reply when I get chance.

Couple's may do it incase 1 of them have read it but they want the OH to read it too.

If I leave mine read then I'd forget to reply.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It does confuse me why some read messages then quickly unread them. Anyone shed any light on the reason for this?"

Probs dont have time to reply right there and then, Or both partners are not present. Could be 101 reasons dont let it play on your mind bigman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I unread the interesting ones if I’ve got a lot to get through. It’s my way of highlighting it to answer later

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By *eo OP Man over a year ago

Sutton-In-Ashfield

Maybe, but it’s mostly on single profiles I message it happens though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cause I can

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It does confuse me why some read messages then quickly unread them. Anyone shed any light on the reason for this?"

sometimes i do, so i can go back to it and reply later when i have time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe, but it’s mostly on single profiles I message it happens though. "

Yep it could be a good sign that they want to reply when they can.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

All of the above. Normally for us means it’s worthy of some kind of response.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It boosts my ego to have unread messages. The yellow Inbox icon makes me feel better about myself.

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By *eo OP Man over a year ago

Sutton-In-Ashfield

ow right I never thought of it that way. Thought it was just a polite way to just not answer, I hope that’s the case with my other messages lol x

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By *c1989Woman over a year ago

Manchester

I do it so I can reply later when I have time and I may just whittling down my inbox.

That said if the sender then questions why I have marked unread or asks why I'm not talking or generally follows up before I have had the chance to respond it really doesn't go down well with me and an unread message will quickly become a deleted one.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I do it so I can reply later when I have time and I may just whittling down my inbox.

This ^^^!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I read them to see if they are worth replying to..if not, i unread them... then delete them for good measure...

It beats trying to remain calm whilst replying 'sorry not what I'm looking for'

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