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As we all get older , some people seem to worry about dieing more than others.
Is it something you consciously think about , or are you are " I'll worry about when the time comes " kinda person .
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over a year ago
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I was listening to pink floyd in the car yesterday
‘The time is gone, the song is over, thought I’d something more to say....’
I don’t want to look back and feel like that |
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over a year ago
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No.
I've no kids to worry about, any animals I have will always be taken care of as far as arrangements if anything were to happen to me.
I just hope I get to do some of the fun shit I want to before it happens |
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"No.
I've no kids to worry about, any animals I have will always be taken care of as far as arrangements if anything were to happen to me.
I just hope I get to do some of the fun shit I want to before it happens "
You've got many many years ahead of you dont you worry x |
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"No I don't. We've made our wills, it remains for us to ensure we don't die regretting things we haven't done.
As to what happens after death, that's something we'll find out when it happens."
That's cool , more organised than me then  |
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Hell naw, i suffer with anxiety so whilst i can sit and stress about a bus/shop/crowd/worrying about feeling ok and not worrying at the moment but knowing i will worry soon..
I really don't stress the big stuff, I'm a totally chilled out person who happens to suffer panic attacks  |
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"Hell naw, i suffer with anxiety so whilst i can sit and stress about a bus/shop/crowd/worrying about feeling ok and not worrying at the moment but knowing i will worry soon..
I really don't stress the big stuff, I'm a totally chilled out person who happens to suffer panic attacks "
Oh dear , again, I cant answer that as i dont suffer from it , i can only sympathise  |
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The hardest thing to comprehend is that we are there for our children through the small things but can't be there for them through one of life's biggest heart breaks and that's losing a parent.
Apart from that, I am looking forward to organising my funeral, love organising things, it will be my last heraa!  |
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"The hardest thing to comprehend is that we are there for our children through the small things but can't be there for them through one of life's biggest heart breaks and that's losing a parent.
Apart from that, I am looking forward to organising my funeral, love organising things, it will be my last heraa! "
That's one way of looking at it |
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I just worry about not having my shit in order before it happens. So need to start to de clutter!
My parents must have had the same worry as they’ve de cluttered. Even boxed things up with our names on! Lol the stuff they didn’t want to get rid but didn’t know what to do with they sent to me and my brother already! They also got rid of the things they didn’t want us to know about!  bless them! |
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"I just worry about not having my shit in order before it happens. So need to start to de clutter!
My parents must have had the same worry as they’ve de cluttered. Even boxed things up with our names on! Lol the stuff they didn’t want to get rid but didn’t know what to do with they sent to me and my brother already! They also got rid of the things they didn’t want us to know about! bless them! "
That's similar to my Grandparents. They did that and had both of there funerals paid and sorted years before they died . They didnt want us to worry about cost or organisation worries |
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"I was listening to pink floyd in the car yesterday
‘The time is gone, the song is over, thought I’d something more to say....’
I don’t want to look back and feel like that "
Also on the same album
’and I am not frightened of dying, any time will do, i
Don’t mind. why should I be frightened of dying?
There’s no reason for it, you’ve gotta go sometime.’
’i never said I was frightened of dying.’ |
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"Nope, I shall welcome death like an old friend. Let's just hope he comes before I'm 50 Why ??"
Well I dont want to get old. Also the planet is fucked and overpopulated. Lastly depression caused by anxiety and a rock bottom self esteem. |
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No worries, although I’d prefer it to happen in the distant future of course.
I just hope it is a swift exit. Can’t be doing with the thought of being in constant pain, having my arse cleaned for me awaiting the inevitable!
The sooner they allow assisted suicide the better as far as I am concerned. |
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I'm starting to have more thoughts about it, I wouldn't call them worries tho, more like a flash of "oh fuck" but that's about it for now.
Example being I rushed out the door to work the other day, then I pondered whilst on the way there "I really should tidy up after myself more, if I die before I make it home some poor fucker is gonna be confronted by a pair of my dirty knickers sunny side up on the bathroom floor"
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"Nope, I shall welcome death like an old friend. Let's just hope he comes before I'm 50 Why ??
Well I dont want to get old. Also the planet is fucked and overpopulated. Lastly depression caused by anxiety and a rock bottom self esteem."
I agree about the first statement . But why are you having depression , you have a partner dont you ?? Can she help at all ?? |
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"I'm starting to have more thoughts about it, I wouldn't call them worries tho, more like a flash of "oh fuck" but that's about it for now.
Example being I rushed out the door to work the other day, then I pondered whilst on the way there "I really should tidy up after myself more, if I die before I make it home some poor fucker is gonna be confronted by a pair of my dirty knickers sunny side up on the bathroom floor"
P"
A least they’d be able to sell em on Gumtree.  |
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"I'm starting to have more thoughts about it, I wouldn't call them worries tho, more like a flash of "oh fuck" but that's about it for now.
Example being I rushed out the door to work the other day, then I pondered whilst on the way there "I really should tidy up after myself more, if I die before I make it home some poor fucker is gonna be confronted by a pair of my dirty knickers sunny side up on the bathroom floor"
P"
You do brighten the day up you do |
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"No worries, although I’d prefer it to happen in the distant future of course.
I just hope it is a swift exit. Can’t be doing with the thought of being in constant pain, having my arse cleaned for me awaiting the inevitable!
The sooner they allow assisted suicide the better as far as I am concerned. "
I agree |
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"I'm starting to have more thoughts about it, I wouldn't call them worries tho, more like a flash of "oh fuck" but that's about it for now.
Example being I rushed out the door to work the other day, then I pondered whilst on the way there "I really should tidy up after myself more, if I die before I make it home some poor fucker is gonna be confronted by a pair of my dirty knickers sunny side up on the bathroom floor"
P
A least they’d be able to sell em on Gumtree. "
My legacy |
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"I'm starting to have more thoughts about it, I wouldn't call them worries tho, more like a flash of "oh fuck" but that's about it for now.
Example being I rushed out the door to work the other day, then I pondered whilst on the way there "I really should tidy up after myself more, if I die before I make it home some poor fucker is gonna be confronted by a pair of my dirty knickers sunny side up on the bathroom floor"
P You do brighten the day up you do "
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"Nope, I shall welcome death like an old friend. Let's just hope he comes before I'm 50 Why ??
Well I dont want to get old. Also the planet is fucked and overpopulated. Lastly depression caused by anxiety and a rock bottom self esteem. I agree about the first statement . But why are you having depression , you have a partner dont you ?? Can she help at all ??"
I've suffered with it since I was at least 7. She has her own issues that seem to outweigh my own. |
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"Nope, I shall welcome death like an old friend. Let's just hope he comes before I'm 50 Why ??
Well I dont want to get old. Also the planet is fucked and overpopulated. Lastly depression caused by anxiety and a rock bottom self esteem. I agree about the first statement . But why are you having depression , you have a partner dont you ?? Can she help at all ??
I've suffered with it since I was at least 7. She has her own issues that seem to outweigh my own. "
Oh I see . I hope you get the help you need |
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"Nope, I shall welcome death like an old friend. Let's just hope he comes before I'm 50 Why ??
Well I dont want to get old. Also the planet is fucked and overpopulated. Lastly depression caused by anxiety and a rock bottom self esteem. I agree about the first statement . But why are you having depression , you have a partner dont you ?? Can she help at all ??
I've suffered with it since I was at least 7. She has her own issues that seem to outweigh my own. Oh I see . I hope you get the help you need "
Cheers bud! |
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"Nope, I shall welcome death like an old friend. Let's just hope he comes before I'm 50 Why ??
Well I dont want to get old. Also the planet is fucked and overpopulated. Lastly depression caused by anxiety and a rock bottom self esteem. I agree about the first statement . But why are you having depression , you have a partner dont you ?? Can she help at all ??
I've suffered with it since I was at least 7. She has her own issues that seem to outweigh my own. Oh I see . I hope you get the help you need
Cheers bud! "
Look at it like this , you've had sex more recently than me  |
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"My body keeps trying to die on me so the thought of death isn't anything new.
Id like to keep living but I know one day my stupid body will get its own way.
Brat Oh no that's awful "
I'm used to it. It's usually my heart but last time was my appendix. That was fun  |
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"Nope, I shall welcome death like an old friend. Let's just hope he comes before I'm 50 Why ??
Well I dont want to get old. Also the planet is fucked and overpopulated. Lastly depression caused by anxiety and a rock bottom self esteem. I agree about the first statement . But why are you having depression , you have a partner dont you ?? Can she help at all ??
I've suffered with it since I was at least 7. She has her own issues that seem to outweigh my own. Oh I see . I hope you get the help you need
Cheers bud! Look at it like this , you've had sex more recently than me "
Only because the mrs risked losing me if the dry spell continued |
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"Nope, I shall welcome death like an old friend. Let's just hope he comes before I'm 50 Why ??
Well I dont want to get old. Also the planet is fucked and overpopulated. Lastly depression caused by anxiety and a rock bottom self esteem.
I've suffered with it since I was at least 7."
Exactly this |
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No I don’t worry about it, it will happen to us all one day. It could be tomorrow or it could be another 40 years.
So live your life, never go to sleep on an argument and tell your loved ones you love them every day, as we never know when it will end, only fate does |
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"Nope, I shall welcome death like an old friend. Let's just hope he comes before I'm 50 Why ??
Well I dont want to get old. Also the planet is fucked and overpopulated. Lastly depression caused by anxiety and a rock bottom self esteem. I agree about the first statement . But why are you having depression , you have a partner dont you ?? Can she help at all ??
I've suffered with it since I was at least 7. She has her own issues that seem to outweigh my own. Oh I see . I hope you get the help you need
Cheers bud! Look at it like this , you've had sex more recently than me
Only because the mrs risked losing me if the dry spell continued "
Oh I see lol |
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"No I don’t worry about it, it will happen to us all one day. It could be tomorrow or it could be another 40 years.
So live your life, never go to sleep on an argument and tell your loved ones you love them every day, as we never know when it will end, only fate does "
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"I don't care ill be dead. But my worry would be the people I've left behind. I am expecting to die young Why ??"
All my family are dead. Ie mum dad sister. Kind of makes you think you won't be here long either |
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"I don't care ill be dead. But my worry would be the people I've left behind. I am expecting to die young Why ??
All my family are dead. Ie mum dad sister. Kind of makes you think you won't be here long either "
Me too . Mum went at 53 and Dad at 63. Not good . But hopefully it doesn't mean you will |
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It's sobering to occasionally be reminded that I have more time behind me than in front, but hey, I have no dependents and can pretty much live for the moment. .. |
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"I just worry about not having my shit in order before it happens. So need to start to de clutter!
My parents must have had the same worry as they’ve de cluttered. Even boxed things up with our names on! Lol the stuff they didn’t want to get rid but didn’t know what to do with they sent to me and my brother already! They also got rid of the things they didn’t want us to know about! bless them! That's similar to my Grandparents. They did that and had both of there funerals paid and sorted years before they died . They didnt want us to worry about cost or organisation worries "
My parents are fitter than most people I know they prob did it more cause they didn’t want the grandchildren to deal with stuff as they’ll prob outlive me! Lol |
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Not anymore, well mostly not anymore, I nursed my brother through a horrible cancer and was with him as he fell asleep and went off to be an angel, this left me permanently convinced that I was going to die, everyday, every new ache or pain, I was convinced it was cancer I was driving myself crazy I have amazing small people and an amazing hubby and realised it’s not fair to them for me to be as I was being, so step by step I have taught myself that no matter what or how hard we try to, we will never know what tomorrow brings and so worrying yourself to death about it is fruitless, I’m a much more calm and happier person I still have the odd mad thought but I think that’s ok and a rational, we all have the odd thought about what if ...... don’t we 
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