Afternoon all,
I'm successful when I go out, on Tinder, POF, Match etc and I thought this site would be no different - Wow how wrong was I.
I've been a member for a few years, but never participated. This week, with a fresh attitude and more understanding I see the big difference between all the sites / the ladies on this site, to others.
My inbox hasn't been bursting at the seams but I've had constructive criticism which I've excepted and also the old fab ( Mainly from blokes - But a fab is a fab right ha ha )
I finally understand this site and I'm enjoying the forums and getting to know what it's all about.
Girls, for any newbie joining the site and had the wrong attitude like I did what 3 bits of advice would you give them ...
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I think the difference between dating and swinger sites is that on dating sites women want love, whereas there would be very, very few who might consider swinging. Plus there's so many guys willing to cheat - sorry if I'm being dismissive. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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My go to three point mantra is:
Attitude
Approach
Expectations
Get those three right and you won't be going far wrong 
The key is how to get them right though
That can only come through finding put for yourself mostly, as they may well be an individual thing - but a decent profile and pics help, as does being respectful and considerate, and graciously accepting rejection when it happens |
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"I think the difference between dating and swinger sites is that on dating sites women want love, whereas there would be very, very few who might consider swinging. Plus there's so many guys willing to cheat - sorry if I'm being dismissive."
This is not being dismissive at all, I fully understand where your coming from and 100% right ... |
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"My go to three point mantra is:
Attitude
Approach
Expectations
Get those three right and you won't be going far wrong
The key is how to get them right though
That can only come through finding put for yourself mostly, as they may well be an individual thing - but a decent profile and pics help, as does being respectful and considerate, and graciously accepting rejection when it happens "
Those are the 3 things I got wrong .... But feel now I get it .... Just need to get them in order |
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over a year ago
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Assuming that the majority of women on here are sat ready and waiting for your offer of "fun" and are up for sex any time day or night, at the click of your fingers, and will drive right over to you is not good.
Ours (women) to give .... not yours (men) to take.
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire |
Dating sites are very different and I approach both with different mindsets.
Fab needs patience and perseverance and an excellent 6th sense. As well as respecting boundaries people have put up.
The boundaries are there for a reason. So read profiles, understand what people are after before taking a leap. |
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"Dating sites are very different and I approach both with different mindsets.
Fab needs patience and perseverance and an excellent 6th sense. As well as respecting boundaries people have put up.
The boundaries are there for a reason. So read profiles, understand what people are after before taking a leap."
I've come to learn all about boundaries  |
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"Assuming that the majority of women on here are sat ready and waiting for your offer of "fun" and are up for sex any time day or night, at the click of your fingers, and will drive right over to you is not good.
Ours (women) to give .... not yours (men) to take.
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This is very true, I've learnt that .... |
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