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over a year ago
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No, it’s not what we’re about we have four kids ages from16-6 they’re old enough to I understand things and it’s not fair to be bringing folk round for noisy crazy sex sessions when they’re in bed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, it’s not what we’re about we have four kids ages from16-6 they’re old enough to I understand things and it’s not fair to be bringing folk round for noisy crazy sex sessions when they’re in bed."
But what if whoever you invited round pinky promises to be quiet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, it’s not what we’re about we have four kids ages from16-6 they’re old enough to I understand things and it’s not fair to be bringing folk round for noisy crazy sex sessions when they’re in bed.
But what if whoever you invited round pinky promises to be quiet?"
No, it won’t happen in our house. What if one of the kids happens to come downstairs. In our opinion it’s not really the best way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was in a position where I could invite someone around, I wouldn’t choose to do so, it’s my families home.
Keeping private life separate from Fabs is the sensible approach. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was in a position where I could invite someone around, I wouldn’t choose to do so, it’s my families home.
Keeping private life separate from Fabs is the sensible approach."
That’s the best way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, not a chance. My child's safety comes first and I could not have sex with a man who isn't her father if she was in the house with me.
I read something the other day about a guy on here who turned up at a woman's house for sex and her young daughter was off school! It makes me uncomfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No not when kids are in its not right
Why isn’t it?
When you hold your beautiful baby in your arms you will understand xx"
Oh, I would never do it anyway. I’m just wondering why others wouldn’t |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a chance, 1 if they woke up there would be questions and 2, who in their right mind would let a stranger off fab into their house while there kids slept, imagine them going to the toilet and having a sneak around your childs bedroom  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not a chance, 1 if they woke up there would be questions and 2, who in their right mind would let a stranger off fab into their house while there kids slept, imagine them going to the toilet and having a sneak around your childs bedroom "
Many people, apparently  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't want to go to someones house knowing there were kids there.
I have had it offered to me, twice
Both instant no-goes from me
If I meet someone, I want their attention 100%, I want to know there will be no interruptions, I don't want to feel awkward, I don't want to be looking over my shoulder, I don't want them to be looking over theirs
I want to meet with wild abandon
All the above detract from the potential for that |
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I would have to really really k kw them, and even then only for a cuppa lol mine are 12 and 13. The older will dit on their room and go to bed like a dream. The younger comes down every 5 minutes for hot chocolate, who was on the phone mum? Mum I got scratch on the back I cant reach, they split the hot chocolate, decides at 10:45pm homework is the most important thing and wants help to do it...now...argument about how I will not be helping at this time...11pm..its quiet...then they need a dump and shout where is the loo roll? can you make me another sandwich? Where is my pe kit for tomorrow?. Chance to sit down with a mate for a rum and a variety of potatoe based snacks would be great, the chances of being left alone with a " real life " man in the house while the kids are home...0  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a family home and sex isn't that important that I'd put it before my daughter and her needs and safety, and this applies even if she was a teenager and didn't need anyone checking up on her.
I don't want her seeing men come into the house who will never have any kind of involvement in her life just so I can have a quick fuck. I'd arrange it away from home if I really wanted a meet.
My next door neighbour brings home different men and you can hear her moaning and them banging against the wall and her daughter playing in the other room. I hate to judge people but I can't help but feel very uncomfortable! |
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"How could you relax knowing your children could wake up any minute ?
You could relax by getting fucked I assume "
Doesn’t matter what the person feels like, just think about how the kids would feel like if they knew, scared laying in bed really worried about what happening to mum, who the person is and will they get harmed.
It’s quite shocking those people that do this. worse case is they could cause quite a lot of damage to the kids |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How could you relax knowing your children could wake up any minute ?
You could relax by getting fucked I assume
Doesn’t matter what the person feels like, just think about how the kids would feel like if they knew, scared laying in bed really worried about what happening to mum, who the person is and will they get harmed.
It’s quite shocking those people that do this. worse case is they could cause quite a lot of damage to the kids"
Yep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was in a position where I could invite someone around, I wouldn’t choose to do so, it’s my families home.
Keeping private life separate from Fabs is the sensible approach."
 I’m with you on that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would take a lot. I mean it’s circumstasial as well at times but I’d have to have an understanding with that person and then with me.
I get that for some people it might be an only option but there’s no bigger passion killer than a baby monitor going off and having to go in and sort your child out in nothing but a condom... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a chance, 1 if they woke up there would be questions and 2, who in their right mind would let a stranger off fab into their house while there kids slept, imagine them going to the toilet and having a sneak around your childs bedroom
Many people, apparently "
Madness, i dont even put pics of my children on social media, cause i just dont know who might be looking at them!!! |
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The thing about children is they immediately change something in you(or should) the moment you hold your own, the fire you have in your belly to protect and keep them safe is hotter than the sun, so whilst "logistically" it may be possible and the reasoning for not doing it may be easy to poke holes in the fact of the matter is to most it just feels wrong and that is reason enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not a chance, 1 if they woke up there would be questions and 2, who in their right mind would let a stranger off fab into their house while there kids slept, imagine them going to the toilet and having a sneak around your childs bedroom
Many people, apparently
Madness, i dont even put pics of my children on social media, cause i just dont know who might be looking at them!!! "
This. I think people without kids or who’s kids have grown and flown the nest struggle to understand.
This is my family’s home and I don’t really want anyone in it off of fabs or similar while my kids are sleeping upstairs! |
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"Would any of you lovely people invite someone from fab to your home, while your children were tucked up in bed?
Why?
Why not?"
Definitely not !
This is our territory and safe zone why would I threaten that.
I don’t play at home and the only time I have in 4.5 years was with someone I’d met for three months prior so the trust was there, but my lad was never here |
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That not even taking in to consideration the safety issues..
Ine man wanted to go for a drive one night..sorry got kids. He tells me they will be on on their own..I said no, I wont leave them together ( war on an epic scale over a plastic bag last time I went to top of road to shop ) he moans that we wont be long..again I say no, its not happening...he then suggested...I fucking kid you not..that he bring some sweets and stuff round for them to sit in their rooms with or in lounge while I take him upstairs!! I thought it was a bad joke but after asking twice if it was, sadly no. He was serious. He was dressed for work so could say he was fixing something. Thst I should loosen up. I sent a message back of how I did t even k ow where to start with what was wrong with it all then blocked.. ok if that's how you wanna do things but not me. Been pretty much single since they were 19mths and 6mths old. I've not lived like a nun..but my kids have never, bumped Into, met, seen me with, or even heard of anyone I have had " sexy time" with. I introduced them to 1 fella I had a brief relationship with. The rest they dont to see, be around, hear of. And do you really know who your letting in? With your kids there? In your family home? That they can remember where it is? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a chance, 1 if they woke up there would be questions and 2, who in their right mind would let a stranger off fab into their house while there kids slept, imagine them going to the toilet and having a sneak around your childs bedroom "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a chance, 1 if they woke up there would be questions and 2, who in their right mind would let a stranger off fab into their house while there kids slept, imagine them going to the toilet and having a sneak around your childs bedroom
Many people, apparently
Madness, i dont even put pics of my children on social media, cause i just dont know who might be looking at them!!!
This. I think people without kids or who’s kids have grown and flown the nest struggle to understand.
This is my family’s home and I don’t really want anyone in it off of fabs or similar while my kids are sleeping upstairs! "
If your a parent, then your chikdren come first!!! If they dont then these parents need to take a good long look at themselvez and have a serious think about their parenting skills!!
Im having anxiety even thinking about this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea, obviously I'd load them up with calpol and lock them in their room first. Parenting 101."
Piriton works better than calpol helps them sleep haha
I wouldn't have a meet with my kids at home not on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has made me chuckle
I can't tell you how many "gentlemen" tried to convince me to allow them into my home when boy child was still living here.
The amount of these "gentlemen" that thought it was not only acceptable but actively encouraged me "to put the little one to bed"
I took great pleasure in informing them the "little one" was a teenager who'd knock them the fuck out for being in his home
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not?
Because I’m a decent parent that’s why."
Exactly. I wouldn’t even think of meeting anyone who suggested this. Whether it be my kids or theirs. I don’t usually judge on here but I will with this. It’s disgusting. Anyone who doesn’t put their children before everything else wouldn’t be for me anyway. |
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"This has made me chuckle
I can't tell you how many "gentlemen" tried to convince me to allow them into my home when boy child was still living here.
The amount of these "gentlemen" that thought it was not only acceptable but actively encouraged me "to put the little one to bed"
I took great pleasure in informing them the "little one" was a teenager who'd knock them the fuck out for being in his home
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It's disgusting isnt it. Ine of my biggest pet hates its other people telling me what's ok to do regarding my kids...and also when they know the score..ask for meets they know I csnt do or make. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done in the past, when my small child was still in a cot. Only 1 person who I then had a relationship with.
Tried again last year with a trusted long term friend from here, but couldn't fully relax so decided against it from then on. |
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We have done before but only with the youngest.
Our older kids are away on weekends. Our baby sleeps through so if we don't have a sitter were okay to invite people over fter he's asleep. He's in his own room and sleeps through any noise.
We do warn people before they come though because we understand its not for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has made me chuckle
I can't tell you how many "gentlemen" tried to convince me to allow them into my home when boy child was still living here.
The amount of these "gentlemen" that thought it was not only acceptable but actively encouraged me "to put the little one to bed"
I took great pleasure in informing them the "little one" was a teenager who'd knock them the fuck out for being in his home
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It's disgusting isnt it. Ine of my biggest pet hates its other people telling me what's ok to do regarding my kids...and also when they know the score..ask for meets they know I csnt do or make. "
Absolutely.
Don't get me wrong, there are people who I WOULD have allowed into my home with my son here, those being people I knew well, knew would be respectful of the fact my lad was here and people I considered friends. There wouldn't have been any rudies occurring, but a pizza and chatting shit.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How about a tent in the garden, make sure it has an internal bonfire and put the wee one out in it.
I'm now wondering if anyone anywhere has actually suggested this
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck him/her in the coal shed.
Or just take the baby monitor out to the car and bang em on the back seat.
P"
Now why sacrifice the comfort. Strap the critter into the car seat and lock it up. Bedrooms free that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck him/her in the coal shed.
Or just take the baby monitor out to the car and bang em on the back seat.
P
Now why sacrifice the comfort. Strap the critter into the car seat and lock it up. Bedrooms free that way. "
I've been doing it so wrong all these years  |
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By *imbo59seMan
over a year ago
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I met a couple (from another site) a few years ago, turned up at their place for a first meet & chat.
She was only interested in the soaps on TV, he was standing in the kitchen doorway smoking . Kids (either side of 10 y/o) kept coming in and being curious about me. Asked them what the score was with the kids if we were going to play.... "its ok, we just lock them in their rooms and lock our bedroom door.....works fine" they replied!
They seemed quite surprised when I made my excuses and left.....rapidly!!
(their 3 staffies which had spent the whole time jumping all over me was the icing on the cake)
Some people!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met a couple (from another site) a few years ago, turned up at their place for a first meet & chat.
She was only interested in the soaps on TV, he was standing in the kitchen doorway smoking . Kids (either side of 10 y/o) kept coming in and being curious about me. Asked them what the score was with the kids if we were going to play.... "its ok, we just lock them in their rooms and lock our bedroom door.....works fine" they replied!
They seemed quite surprised when I made my excuses and left.....rapidly!!
(their 3 staffies which had spent the whole time jumping all over me was the icing on the cake)
Some people!!!!!! "
Oh wow. This makes me really sad reading this |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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The one time i met a man at my home (when my children were away) i’d done so after chatting and skyping for ages.
When we met he turned out to be someone i felt unsafe with and i had great difficulty in getting him out of my house.
He then went on to try and bl*ckmail me and harrass me to meet again until i had to resort to telling him if be contacted me again i’d be contacting the Police with evidence of what he’d said/done.
I would NEVER meet someone at my home again. Regardless of who was there.
However, i appreciate that some folk use the option to meet at their home (when kids are not home) and that is up to them.
I’d just say be aware of the risks.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just no and wouldn’t visit someone who has unless they are a very very young age in a cot etc but after a certain age it’s a no go, just our preference. |
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"I would have to really really k kw them, and even then only for a cuppa lol mine are 12 and 13. The older will dit on their room and go to bed like a dream. The younger comes down every 5 minutes for hot chocolate, who was on the phone mum? Mum I got scratch on the back I cant reach, they split the hot chocolate, decides at 10:45pm homework is the most important thing and wants help to do it...now...argument about how I will not be helping at this time...11pm..its quiet...then they need a dump and shout where is the loo roll? can you make me another sandwich? Where is my pe kit for tomorrow?. Chance to sit down with a mate for a rum and a variety of potatoe based snacks would be great, the chances of being left alone with a " real life " man in the house while the kids are home...0 "
liked the rum and crisps part |
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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago
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Nope never. We don't have meets at our home at all. It's our children's home. Their safe space. We don't like the thought of inviting strangers into our kids safe space. We meet at clubs for this reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not a chance, 1 if they woke up there would be questions and 2, who in their right mind would let a stranger off fab into their house while there kids slept, imagine them going to the toilet and having a sneak around your childs bedroom "
What sort of men do you meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, it won’t happen in our house. What if one of the kids happens to come downstairs. In our opinion it’s not really the best way."
This for us too.
If the couple became genuine friends and it was more like a social then yes, even with a bit of light flirting/touching.
But a full session of sexy time - not with kids in the house, no never! |
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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago
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I’m assuming the case where, if there weren’t any kids in the house, you would invite partners into your home, but there are, in fact, kids the house.
I’m in two minds.
I *suspect* some people may be reluctant to expose their children to non-monogamy because of an underlying sense that our lifestyle is not quite normal and maybe even a bit wrong or a little shameful. But it’s not. So, on the one hand, I’d like to be honest with my kids about my relationship with my wife and other partners. As a former religious person, I deeply regret the decades of feeling ashamed of my vanilla sexual desire, let alone my kinky quirks. I don’t want that for my children. And being respectfully upfront with them seems better than omitting.
On the other hand, there is something to be said about educating children at the right time on the right things. Children are not ready, in my view, to conceptionally learn about say a Dom/sub dynamic. These, I do feel is more of an adult topic requiring some maturity. Perhaps, a swinger’s relationship falls in this domain, something to learn about a little later in life.
There is, of course, just the personal preference of people who might just feel awkward to know their children know *and* that the children are in the house. There’s a difference between that and for the children to know, but for you to be out of the house.
Personally, I err on the side of caution. And also, I think most people are just more comfortable without having to worry about children. I will educate my children about all things sex over many years as they grow, introducing topics when I think they’re ready for it. I’ve already started with my boy (he’s 10 now) and that went very well.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is, of course, just the personal preference of people who might just feel awkward to know their children know *and* that the children are in the house. There’s a difference between that and for the children to know, but for you to be out of the house.
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I think the objection is more along the lines of you wouldn't want your 10 year old to walk in while you, Martin and Gladys from a few streets away are indulging in a bit of DVP on the lounge floor. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would any of you lovely people invite someone from fab to your home, while your children were tucked up in bed?
Why?
Why not?"
Not having kids of my own doesn't change my feelings on this. No chance of any play if I did and they were there. Never mind that they may wake and see stuff that will be tricky to explain if they were old enough to talk and ask. I just wouldn't want to. I can't really elaborate further on it. Just the ways I feels on that one. |
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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago
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"There is, of course, just the personal preference of people who might just feel awkward to know their children know *and* that the children are in the house. There’s a difference between that and for the children to know, but for you to be out of the house.
I think the objection is more along the lines of you wouldn't want your 10 year old to walk in while you, Martin and Gladys from a few streets away are indulging in a bit of DVP on the lounge floor. "
Sure, if the adults will feel embarrassed or if rumours may start in the neighbourhood. But I don’t see it as much different to my kids walking in on me fucking my wife while she’s retrained to the kitchen table. |
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"Not a chance, 1 if they woke up there would be questions and 2, who in their right mind would let a stranger off fab into their house while there kids slept, imagine them going to the toilet and having a sneak around your childs bedroom
What sort of men do you meet? "
I don’t think that sort give out any red flags, you shouldn’t trust any strange man that comes into your home |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve had a few people explain to me why they WOULD do it, i wish they’d respond to this post though
Maybe you can voice their thoughts?"
Not my place to do so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would any of you lovely people invite someone from fab to your home, while your children were tucked up in bed?
Why?
Why not?"
No way it's not like you know these people. The safety of my child comes first I'm afraid. |
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I had a meet once years ago where upon arriving i discovered the lady had her four year old son sleeping in the bedroom. We played in her living room and it was an excellent meet but somewhat odd. In one occasion the boy awoke and was making noises so naturally she went to check on him. I didn't go back there a second time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hard enough to have sex in a full house as it is without it being a new person to boot so No I wouldn't.
Laws must get relaxed in new relationship type situations though or how would people ever have sex again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, not a chance. My child's safety comes first and I could not have sex with a man who isn't her father if she was in the house with me.
I read something the other day about a guy on here who turned up at a woman's house for sex and her young daughter was off school! It makes me uncomfortable. "
It's disrespectful. It's the child's home not a brothel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a chance, 1 if they woke up there would be questions and 2, who in their right mind would let a stranger off fab into their house while there kids slept, imagine them going to the toilet and having a sneak around your childs bedroom
What sort of men do you meet?
I don’t think that sort give out any red flags, you shouldn’t trust any strange man that comes into your home"
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The safety of your children should be every parents priority.
A much as we may not like to think about it, there are people online who deliberately befriend people with children in order to have access to the kids. How do you know that the person you’re chatting with isn’t one of these people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My child is far more important to me than a sex life.
How many times did you used to hear your parents at it when you was a child and they thought you were asleep |
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"I had a meet once years ago where upon arriving i discovered the lady had her four year old son sleeping in the bedroom. We played in her living room and it was an excellent meet but somewhat odd. In one occasion the boy awoke and was making noises so naturally she went to check on him. I didn't go back there a second time. "
You should of left the second you found out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have kids, nor will I, but I wouldn't have a meet with kids in the house if i did. I don't think I'd have meets at the house even when they weren't there unless it was someone I'd known a while.
I find it quite shocking people do if I'm honest.
There have been 2 occasions where I've arrived at someone's house for a meet only to discover their kids are in bed. Both times I left the second I found out. |
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"I had a meet once years ago where upon arriving i discovered the lady had her four year old son sleeping in the bedroom. We played in her living room and it was an excellent meet but somewhat odd. In one occasion the boy awoke and was making noises so naturally she went to check on him. I didn't go back there a second time.
You should of left the second you found out"
He wouldn't have got his fuck then. |
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"I had a meet once years ago where upon arriving i discovered the lady had her four year old son sleeping in the bedroom. We played in her living room and it was an excellent meet but somewhat odd. In one occasion the boy awoke and was making noises so naturally she went to check on him. I didn't go back there a second time.
You should of left the second you found out
He wouldn't have got his fuck then. "
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over a year ago
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"Not a chance, 1 if they woke up there would be questions and 2, who in their right mind would let a stranger off fab into their house while there kids slept, imagine them going to the toilet and having a sneak around your childs bedroom
What sort of men do you meet? "
The same as most other people on fab, do i really know anything about them?? Not really!! Its not like there advertising there a peado!! Would i jeopardise my children's safety for a meet with someone from fab or anywhere else.... Not a fuckin chance
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"I’ve had a few people explain to me why they WOULD do it, i wish they’d respond to this post though"
If people choose to tell you privately why then that’s good. But also respect why they wouldn’t post here as may get judged to harshly.
Everyone has their reasons why they do something or not and we should not judge others as everyone’s situation is different |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve had a few people explain to me why they WOULD do it, i wish they’d respond to this post though
If people choose to tell you privately why then that’s good. But also respect why they wouldn’t post here as may get judged to harshly.
Everyone has their reasons why they do something or not and we should not judge others as everyone’s situation is different "
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"Not a chance, 1 if they woke up there would be questions and 2, who in their right mind would let a stranger off fab into their house while there kids slept, imagine them going to the toilet and having a sneak around your childs bedroom
What sort of men do you meet?
The same as most other people on fab, do i really know anything about them?? Not really!! Its not like there advertising there a peado!! Would i jeopardise my children's safety for a meet with someone from fab or anywhere else.... Not a fuckin chance
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over a year ago
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"Not a chance, 1 if they woke up there would be questions and 2, who in their right mind would let a stranger off fab into their house while there kids slept, imagine them going to the toilet and having a sneak around your childs bedroom
What sort of men do you meet?
The same as most other people on fab, do i really know anything about them?? Not really!! Its not like there advertising there a peado!! Would i jeopardise my children's safety for a meet with someone from fab or anywhere else.... Not a fuckin chance
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over a year ago
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"I’ve had a few people explain to me why they WOULD do it, i wish they’d respond to this post though
If people choose to tell you privately why then that’s good. But also respect why they wouldn’t post here as may get judged to harshly.
Everyone has their reasons why they do something or not and we should not judge others as everyone’s situation is different "
If someone is putting their child's wellbeing at risk for a shag with a stranger, why shouldn't we judge them? |
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"I’ve had a few people explain to me why they WOULD do it, i wish they’d respond to this post though
If people choose to tell you privately why then that’s good. But also respect why they wouldn’t post here as may get judged to harshly.
Everyone has their reasons why they do something or not and we should not judge others as everyone’s situation is different
If someone is putting their child's wellbeing at risk for a shag with a stranger, why shouldn't we judge them?"
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"I’ve had a few people explain to me why they WOULD do it, i wish they’d respond to this post though
If people choose to tell you privately why then that’s good. But also respect why they wouldn’t post here as may get judged to harshly.
Everyone has their reasons why they do something or not and we should not judge others as everyone’s situation is different
If someone is putting their child's wellbeing at risk for a shag with a stranger, why shouldn't we judge them?"
I agree I’m off to get the hay fork too |
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over a year ago
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"I’ve had a few people explain to me why they WOULD do it, i wish they’d respond to this post though
If people choose to tell you privately why then that’s good. But also respect why they wouldn’t post here as may get judged to harshly.
Everyone has their reasons why they do something or not and we should not judge others as everyone’s situation is different
If someone is putting their child's wellbeing at risk for a shag with a stranger, why shouldn't we judge them?"
but what if u met 2 times for cake and popcorn that makes them good people |
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"I’ve had a few people explain to me why they WOULD do it, i wish they’d respond to this post though
If people choose to tell you privately why then that’s good. But also respect why they wouldn’t post here as may get judged to harshly.
Everyone has their reasons why they do something or not and we should not judge others as everyone’s situation is different
If someone is putting their child's wellbeing at risk for a shag with a stranger, why shouldn't we judge them?but what if u met 2 times for cake and popcorn that makes them good people"
Wrong on so many levels
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Lots of people on here talk about having sex in public(day and night)Is there a lot of difference,in terms of being caught by children??.
My children are now adults but for some(esp single parent both m and f) it maybe the only opportunity.... |
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"I’ve had a few people explain to me why they WOULD do it, i wish they’d respond to this post though
If people choose to tell you privately why then that’s good. But also respect why they wouldn’t post here as may get judged to harshly.
Everyone has their reasons why they do something or not and we should not judge others as everyone’s situation is different
If someone is putting their child's wellbeing at risk for a shag with a stranger, why shouldn't we judge them?"
This is precisely why people won’t speak up in here... everyone quick to judge and say they are automatically putting their kids at risk and making assumptions, when no one knows the facts ! |
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"I’ve had a few people explain to me why they WOULD do it, i wish they’d respond to this post though
If people choose to tell you privately why then that’s good. But also respect why they wouldn’t post here as may get judged to harshly.
Everyone has their reasons why they do something or not and we should not judge others as everyone’s situation is different
If someone is putting their child's wellbeing at risk for a shag with a stranger, why shouldn't we judge them?"
The other assumption that so many of you are making is that the person they are inviting is a complete stranger... OP’s question was “invite someone from fab to your home”. There was no mention of the length of time that you might have known that person or the number of times you would have meet previously before inviting them to their home |
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I have been invited, but at the time I did not know until I was in their house. We were quiet and all was good I suppose depend on the character of both involved. Actually, have happened to me on a couple of times. |
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over a year ago
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"I’ve had a few people explain to me why they WOULD do it, i wish they’d respond to this post though
If people choose to tell you privately why then that’s good. But also respect why they wouldn’t post here as may get judged to harshly.
Everyone has their reasons why they do something or not and we should not judge others as everyone’s situation is different
If someone is putting their child's wellbeing at risk for a shag with a stranger, why shouldn't we judge them?
This is precisely why people won’t speak up in here... everyone quick to judge and say they are automatically putting their kids at risk and making assumptions, when no one knows the facts ! "
If they were happy and comfortable with their decision they wouldn't care what other people think. |
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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago
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"I’ve had a few people explain to me why they WOULD do it, i wish they’d respond to this post though
If people choose to tell you privately why then that’s good. But also respect why they wouldn’t post here as may get judged to harshly.
Everyone has their reasons why they do something or not and we should not judge others as everyone’s situation is different
If someone is putting their child's wellbeing at risk for a shag with a stranger, why shouldn't we judge them?
This is precisely why people won’t speak up in here... everyone quick to judge and say they are automatically putting their kids at risk and making assumptions, when no one knows the facts !
If they were happy and comfortable with their decision they wouldn't care what other people think. "
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"I’ve had a few people explain to me why they WOULD do it, i wish they’d respond to this post though
If people choose to tell you privately why then that’s good. But also respect why they wouldn’t post here as may get judged to harshly.
Everyone has their reasons why they do something or not and we should not judge others as everyone’s situation is different
If someone is putting their child's wellbeing at risk for a shag with a stranger, why shouldn't we judge them?
This is precisely why people won’t speak up in here... everyone quick to judge and say they are automatically putting their kids at risk and making assumptions, when no one knows the facts !
If they were happy and comfortable with their decision they wouldn't care what other people think. "
Who’s to say they are not happy with their decision. However, they might not want to disclose the full details on a public message boards to strangers |
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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago
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"I’ve had a few people explain to me why they WOULD do it, i wish they’d respond to this post though
If people choose to tell you privately why then that’s good. But also respect why they wouldn’t post here as may get judged to harshly.
Everyone has their reasons why they do something or not and we should not judge others as everyone’s situation is different
If someone is putting their child's wellbeing at risk for a shag with a stranger, why shouldn't we judge them?
This is precisely why people won’t speak up in here... everyone quick to judge and say they are automatically putting their kids at risk and making assumptions, when no one knows the facts !
If they were happy and comfortable with their decision they wouldn't care what other people think.
Who’s to say they are not happy with their decision. However, they might not want to disclose the full details on a public message boards to strangers"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can imagine the conversation over Sunday lunch at the grandparents house now ‘well Uncle Tony was there Monday, Uncle Bryan and Uncle Steve Tuesday, Auntie Sue Wednesday’
‘That’s a lot of uncles little man’
‘Mum takes them to the bedroom when she thinks I’m asleep, they make lots of noise, how they think I can sleep with’ (doing the noises)
Meanwhile little mans actual uncle is about to shove a sausage in his mouth but let’s it drop as nanny and grandad stare at their daughter in horror.
Yeah, not for me. |
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over a year ago
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"I remember someone posting that they d.rugge.d their kids and locked them in their rooms so they could fuck strangers.
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Calpol and lock on the outside of the door iirc |
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over a year ago
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I was thinking on this thread earlier on and I remember speaking to a woman who under no circumstance would accommodate at hers, supposedly because of kids.
When I said I wouldn’t either due to my own, I got called all sorts and labelled everything from a cheat to a liar.
Strange that. |
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over a year ago
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"I was thinking on this thread earlier on and I remember speaking to a woman who under no circumstance would accommodate at hers, supposedly because of kids.
When I said I wouldn’t either due to my own, I got called all sorts and labelled everything from a cheat to a liar.
Strange that. "
Men who can’t accommodate are married, duh!  |
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"I was thinking on this thread earlier on and I remember speaking to a woman who under no circumstance would accommodate at hers, supposedly because of kids.
When I said I wouldn’t either due to my own, I got called all sorts and labelled everything from a cheat to a liar.
Strange that.
Men who can’t accommodate are married, duh! "
I had someone ask me just that earlier because I have two kids, one of which is still drinking milk.
I do find it hard having to explain things sometimes. |
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"I was thinking on this thread earlier on and I remember speaking to a woman who under no circumstance would accommodate at hers, supposedly because of kids.
When I said I wouldn’t either due to my own, I got called all sorts and labelled everything from a cheat to a liar.
Strange that.
Men who can’t accommodate are married, duh! "
Or live at home or might house share? Don’t be so judgemental queenie |
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over a year ago
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"I was thinking on this thread earlier on and I remember speaking to a woman who under no circumstance would accommodate at hers, supposedly because of kids.
When I said I wouldn’t either due to my own, I got called all sorts and labelled everything from a cheat to a liar.
Strange that.
Men who can’t accommodate are married, duh!
Or live at home or might house share? Don’t be so judgemental queenie "
It was sarcasm, I’m well aware that there are other reasons men do not accommodate |
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"I was thinking on this thread earlier on and I remember speaking to a woman who under no circumstance would accommodate at hers, supposedly because of kids.
When I said I wouldn’t either due to my own, I got called all sorts and labelled everything from a cheat to a liar.
Strange that.
Men who can’t accommodate are married, duh!
Or live at home or might house share? Don’t be so judgemental queenie
It was sarcasm, I’m well aware that there are other reasons men do not accommodate "
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"I was thinking on this thread earlier on and I remember speaking to a woman who under no circumstance would accommodate at hers, supposedly because of kids.
When I said I wouldn’t either due to my own, I got called all sorts and labelled everything from a cheat to a liar.
Strange that. "
Rather than they ask why’s that then, they jump to the obvious. I know a few single dad’s that have their kids full time |
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By *100Man
over a year ago
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Omg no they'd be scared for life if they woke to anything.
Although a lady friend of mine was caught by her dad being spit roast by two guys when she was younger she said he shut the door with a bang and couldn't look her in the eyes for a while but never spoke about it. |
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By *htcMan
over a year ago
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Maybe. I live in a 3 story house. Rooms and wide and large, walls/ floors very good. Children on second floor me on top floor rooms.
They can't hear a subwoofer on while sleep, so doubt any issues |
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over a year ago
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"It happens a lot on Fabs.
Speaking from experience
I know. So I’m asking if you would do it "
I guess you just have to be true to what you believe to be right at the end of the day. |
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"If I was in a position where I could invite someone around, I wouldn’t choose to do so, it’s my families home.
Keeping private life separate from Fabs is the sensible approach."
This! X |
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"Would any of you lovely people invite someone from fab to your home, while your children were tucked up in bed?
Why?
Why not?"
Is it necessary to explain why?  |
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"Would any of you lovely people invite someone from fab to your home, while your children were tucked up in bed?
Why?
Why not?
Is it necessary to explain why? "
NOT * |
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over a year ago
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"Would any of you lovely people invite someone from fab to your home, while your children were tucked up in bed?
Why?
Why not?
Is it necessary to explain why?
NOT *"
Nope |
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I went around to this womans house I met off a dating site before I knew about this we were laid in bed just chatting after the wildness and I heard someone downstairs I asked her and she told me her son (18) had been in the lounge the whole time... I was a bit freaked out because we weren't exactly quiet... |
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"Just no!! Never. I dont see the need to explain why, it should go without saying. "
You don’t need to explain. But many people would do it, so that’s why I asked why |
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