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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wonder the ratios of married men vs married women on here. I prefer a married woman in my scenario as.. well.. there is a mutual understanding. But finding those honest enough to admit it is tough... |
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I honestly don't know. I suspect it's more than you think. I can't see your profile but if you haven't mentioned that you prefer a married woman maybe think about doing so, if they know you're actively seeking they might be a bit more forthcoming |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Interested to know why the ratios matter? Surely it's about finding people you are attracted to and who are attracted to you?
The number of married men could exactly equal the number of married women on the site and you still might not find someone you are attracted to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Married women are definitely more discrete. But still.. do they avoid approaches.. search for what they want.. mix.. all.. down to the woman. It’s a minefield. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a guy cannot accommodate he probably is married it does not take much to work out and yes there are loads of married men on here and I guess a lot less married woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a guy cannot accommodate he probably is married it does not take much to work out and yes there are loads of married men on here and I guess a lot less married woman "
That’s crap. It doesn’t probably mean he’s married at all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a guy cannot accommodate he probably is married it does not take much to work out and yes there are loads of married men on here and I guess a lot less married woman
That’s crap. It doesn’t probably mean he’s married at all!"
Beat me to it. What about the single guys with kids? I was one until my son went to university.
Nothing like jumping to a false representation is there.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a guy cannot accommodate he probably is married it does not take much to work out and yes there are loads of married men on here and I guess a lot less married woman "
That's a fallacy ... many people won't accommodate - male, female and couples. There are all sorts of reasons for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a guy cannot accommodate he probably is married it does not take much to work out and yes there are loads of married men on here and I guess a lot less married woman
That’s crap. It doesn’t probably mean he’s married at all!
Beat me to it. What about the single guys with kids? I was one until my son went to university.
Nothing like jumping to a false representation is there...."
Exactly. I have 3 good friends on here who have joint custody of their children and therefore won’t accommodate. One who rents in someone’s house and one who had a horrendous time with a nutter stalker woman. So there’s 5 for you out of my friends! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a guy cannot accommodate he probably is married it does not take much to work out and yes there are loads of married men on here and I guess a lot less married woman
That’s crap. It doesn’t probably mean he’s married at all!
Beat me to it. What about the single guys with kids? I was one until my son went to university.
Nothing like jumping to a false representation is there....
Exactly. I have 3 good friends on here who have joint custody of their children and therefore won’t accommodate. One who rents in someone’s house and one who had a horrendous time with a nutter stalker woman. So there’s 5 for you out of my friends!"
I do love the speed that others rush to judgement based on their own prejudices before they engage their brains. Still I'm not here to educate the foolish, so thanks Nora for getting there before I said something that may have got me a holiday.
And I still wont meet at home. The only time that may change is if it was someone significant in my life.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a guy cannot accommodate he probably is married it does not take much to work out and yes there are loads of married men on here and I guess a lot less married woman
That’s crap. It doesn’t probably mean he’s married at all!
Beat me to it. What about the single guys with kids? I was one until my son went to university.
Nothing like jumping to a false representation is there....
Exactly. I have 3 good friends on here who have joint custody of their children and therefore won’t accommodate. One who rents in someone’s house and one who had a horrendous time with a nutter stalker woman. So there’s 5 for you out of my friends!
I do love the speed that others rush to judgement based on their own prejudices before they engage their brains. Still I'm not here to educate the foolish, so thanks Nora for getting there before I said something that may have got me a holiday.
And I still wont meet at home. The only time that may change is if it was someone significant in my life...."
I wouldn’t accommodate in a million years. No matter what my situation.
And I can’t imagine you getting a holiday! You’re always lovely on here  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a guy cannot accommodate he probably is married it does not take much to work out and yes there are loads of married men on here and I guess a lot less married woman
That’s crap. It doesn’t probably mean he’s married at all!
Beat me to it. What about the single guys with kids? I was one until my son went to university.
Nothing like jumping to a false representation is there....
Exactly. I have 3 good friends on here who have joint custody of their children and therefore won’t accommodate. One who rents in someone’s house and one who had a horrendous time with a nutter stalker woman. So there’s 5 for you out of my friends!
I do love the speed that others rush to judgement based on their own prejudices before they engage their brains. Still I'm not here to educate the foolish, so thanks Nora for getting there before I said something that may have got me a holiday.
And I still wont meet at home. The only time that may change is if it was someone significant in my life....
I wouldn’t accommodate in a million years. No matter what my situation.
And I can’t imagine you getting a holiday! You’re always lovely on here x"
 Awww thank you.
Maybe if I wander around fab for a million years that someone significant may eventually stumble across me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a guy cannot accommodate he probably is married it does not take much to work out and yes there are loads of married men on here and I guess a lot less married woman
That’s crap. It doesn’t probably mean he’s married at all!
Beat me to it. What about the single guys with kids? I was one until my son went to university.
Nothing like jumping to a false representation is there....
Exactly. I have 3 good friends on here who have joint custody of their children and therefore won’t accommodate. One who rents in someone’s house and one who had a horrendous time with a nutter stalker woman. So there’s 5 for you out of my friends!
I do love the speed that others rush to judgement based on their own prejudices before they engage their brains. Still I'm not here to educate the foolish, so thanks Nora for getting there before I said something that may have got me a holiday.
And I still wont meet at home. The only time that may change is if it was someone significant in my life....
I wouldn’t accommodate in a million years. No matter what my situation.
And I can’t imagine you getting a holiday! You’re always lovely on here x
Awww thank you.
Maybe if I wander around fab for a million years that someone significant may eventually stumble across me..."
I think most of us are wandering aimlessly around fab!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a guy cannot accommodate he probably is married it does not take much to work out and yes there are loads of married men on here and I guess a lot less married woman
That’s crap. It doesn’t probably mean he’s married at all!
Beat me to it. What about the single guys with kids? I was one until my son went to university.
Nothing like jumping to a false representation is there....
Exactly. I have 3 good friends on here who have joint custody of their children and therefore won’t accommodate. One who rents in someone’s house and one who had a horrendous time with a nutter stalker woman. So there’s 5 for you out of my friends!
I do love the speed that others rush to judgement based on their own prejudices before they engage their brains. Still I'm not here to educate the foolish, so thanks Nora for getting there before I said something that may have got me a holiday.
And I still wont meet at home. The only time that may change is if it was someone significant in my life....
I wouldn’t accommodate in a million years. No matter what my situation.
And I can’t imagine you getting a holiday! You’re always lovely on here x
Awww thank you.
Maybe if I wander around fab for a million years that someone significant may eventually stumble across me...
I think most of us are wandering aimlessly around fab! "
It's harder to hit a moving target |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We’re all massively walking aimlessly. Best description of this place ever. That and we all jump to conclusions about people’s situations.
I guess all that means that when it works.. and you find that “meeting of minds” it make it all the more special. I’m after a connection.. not to get laid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find the assumption that not accommodating means married quite amusing.
No chance will I ever give my address out to someone I don’t know, or have only met for a drink.
It’s far too risky when you live alone to hand your address to complete strangers. Especially on here when so many guys get aggressive over a polite “no thank you”. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a guy cannot accommodate he probably is married it does not take much to work out and yes there are loads of married men on here and I guess a lot less married woman
That’s crap. It doesn’t probably mean he’s married at all!"
That's right I cant accommodate as I have a child living with me, I'm certainly not married!! |
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"If a guy cannot accommodate he probably is married it does not take much to work out and yes there are loads of married men on here and I guess a lot less married woman
That’s crap. It doesn’t probably mean he’s married at all!
Beat me to it. What about the single guys with kids? I was one until my son went to university.
Nothing like jumping to a false representation is there...."
I'm a single dad with young kids so accommodating was always difficult. But OP did say probably means he's married so I read that as in general but not always. However if people go about with a general assumption the man who can't accommodate = married man then that is bad news the other men who for innocent reasons can't accommodate. |
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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"I honestly don't know. I suspect it's more than you think. I can't see your profile but if you haven't mentioned that you prefer a married woman maybe think about doing so, if they know you're actively seeking they might be a bit more forthcoming"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're connecting well enough with someone, marital status chat will usually figure in it somewhere, if its not already on the profile. I initially gravitated towards those that are as it suited my own situation better too. |
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