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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey folks,
So I was wondering how useful is the adding/scheduling a meet feature? On fabguys it works and people are interested as many don’t mind a last minute meet. On fabswingers I feel like people (females, couples, i.e not most men as they seem to be on fabguys instead) require time and socialising before a meet (which is great! Love to build a connection).
So how useful is the “meet” feature? Has anyone ever set a date and met a person they haven’t spoke to before? And how many folks meet during the daytime or should I expect meets to be more towards the evenings?
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If you use it occasionally you might get lucky. But if you use it all the time it may go against you. If a guy I’m chatting to had a meet request up all the time I’ll stop chatting. It suggests desperation and a fuck anyone attitude. I know other women do the same as me but I’m not suggesting that all women do it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not too fussy single female = highly successful
Not too fussy MF couple = fairly successful
Not too fussy single male = don't hold your breath"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you use it occasionally you might get lucky. But if you use it all the time it may go against you. If a guy I’m chatting to had a meet request up all the time I’ll stop chatting. It suggests desperation and a fuck anyone attitude. I know other women do the same as me but I’m not suggesting that all women do it. "
This is it. I wasn’t sure as it feels like it comes across as if you’re up for anything as long as it meets that time. I’ve never used it for a meet on here or fabguys but I’ll see if it’s any use. I prefer select meets with regulars to be honest. Always deterred about those with a million veris! |
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I've never used it, pretty much all of my meets have been with forumites as I've not sent a preemptive faf message for about 10 years now.
I usually engage in a bit of flirting on here, then take it to pm, if a meet is on the cards, then we exchange phone numbers  |
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