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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Would you choose to stay with someone who wasnt really suitable for your needs and wait for someone better to come along.

Finish your friendship/relationship and then go looking?

Are you happy on your own or is something better than nothing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m happy on my own

I’ll never ‘settle’

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If that was the case, I'd much rather be on my own and wait for something that was right!

Too much hassle staying with something just so you aren't alone! Move on and find something great!

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By *estSussexGuy76Man over a year ago

copthorne

"Would you choose to stay with someone who wasnt really suitable for your needs and wait for someone better to come along.

Finish your friendship/relationship and then go looking?

Are you happy on your own or is something better than nothing? "

I would never disrespect someone that way .... I would wouldn't want someone to stay with me for that reason.

I'm very comfortable on my own and when I'm not in a relationship I enjoy myself with like minded people ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The latter would work best for me, i couldn't stay as i would end up resenting them

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Definitely better to be on your own rather than putting up with something your not happy in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I couldn't be with someone just for the sake of being with someone. I'd rather be alone than be with someone who knew wasn't right for me.

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By *osie xWoman over a year ago

wolverhampton

Single and looking.

Nothing worse than limping along, it's not healthy or fair to either party

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was in a similar situation and decided to walk. As a previous responder said you'd just end up resenting them. Besides life is too short.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I wouldn't go looking but I would spend time not with anyone. I couldn't settle, it wouldn't be fair to me or them.

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By *eclanHMan over a year ago

Liphook

"Single and looking.

Nothing worse than limping along, it's not healthy or fair to either party"

Was just about to say, it’s a disservice to both parties.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Single and looking.

Nothing worse than limping along, it's not healthy or fair to either party"

My sentiments entirely.

It's worse when one is besotted with the one who is looking.

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