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By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago
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Interested to hear your views regarding to publish verifications or keep them private, or maybe just a summary.
I prefer to keep them private as I don’t feel it is necessary to have all the details for public view, that ‘details’ are between myself and who ever I’ve met, but I do publish the summary to show I am real and do meet ....
what’s your preference and why ?
S xx |
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over a year ago
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"Interested to hear your views regarding to publish verifications or keep them private, or maybe just a summary.
I prefer to keep them private as I don’t feel it is necessary to have all the details for public view, that ‘details’ are between myself and who ever I’ve met, but I do publish the summary to show I am real and do meet ....
what’s your preference and why ?
S xx"
I don’t publish them or the summary because they all say I’m a shit shag |
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To be fair I don't give much credence to varifications either way. Because I, like many do not seek, leave or recieve a verification every time I meet. Some people like to keep them private (not shifty per se) and I have yet to see one bad verification published on here. Plus some people are just new. Personally I prefer talk to people and judge for my self. However a varification or two does at least help me to decide if the person is genuine at least (but not guaranteed).
Nice photos by the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont mind public or private. I just dont want my verifications to be the typical talk about the sex. I prefer a veri to discuss me and who I am as a person, keeping the sexual side a bit more secretive |
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over a year ago
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I keep the last few public but hide the others. I used to display them like my CV.....display the most appropriate veri to the current job application haha |
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By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago
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"To be fair I don't give much credence to varifications either way. Because I, like many do not seek, leave or recieve a verification every time I meet. Some people like to keep them private (not shifty per se) and I have yet to see one bad verification published on here. Plus some people are just new. Personally I prefer talk to people and judge for my self. However a varification or two does at least help me to decide if the person is genuine at least (but not guaranteed).
Nice photos by the way."
I completely understand what you say and agree ..... and thanks  |
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I mix it up, sometimes they’re on show other times I’ll hide them, depends on my mood. I don’t tend to have graphic ones but if I did I wouldn’t display them.
I wish more people would display them, I’m a nosey mare  |
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By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I keep the last few public but hide the others. I used to display them like my CV.....display the most appropriate veri to the current job application haha"
To be honest, a billboard of published verification is a tad off putting for me .... without wanting to offend anyone, I would rather see just a summary, it shows an element of modesty and I find that more appealing than a showcase of explicit prowess  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I keep the last few public but hide the others. I used to display them like my CV.....display the most appropriate veri to the current job application haha
To be honest, a billboard of published verification is a tad off putting for me .... without wanting to offend anyone, I would rather see just a summary, it shows an element of modesty and I find that more appealing than a showcase of explicit prowess "
Ignoring my own profile I’d say this is exactly what I look for in potential partners. I always look out for a veri describing personality rather than what they did |
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By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Interested to hear your views regarding to publish verifications or keep them private, or maybe just a summary.
I prefer to keep them private as I don’t feel it is necessary to have all the details for public view, that ‘details’ are between myself and who ever I’ve met, but I do publish the summary to show I am real and do meet ....
what’s your preference and why ?
S xx
I don’t publish them or the summary because they all say I’m a shit shag"
Now, I’m sure that’s not true  |
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I publish mine unless they show something like my name. I'm inclined to think that veris say more about the person writing them (while I have a few obscene ones, I don't write them that way). But I personally look for patterns in veris as part of a picture of a person (not sexual prowess, more character). While it's hardly foolproof, it is a tool in my arsenal, so I provide it for others to use with me.
Also if anyone wants to get their knickers in a twist over what I've done or with whom, they're more than welcome to block me. Saves me drama. |
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By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I mix it up, sometimes they’re on show other times I’ll hide them, depends on my mood. I don’t tend to have graphic ones but if I did I wouldn’t display them.
I wish more people would display them, I’m a nosey mare "
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"I mix it up, sometimes they’re on show other times I’ll hide them, depends on my mood. I don’t tend to have graphic ones but if I did I wouldn’t display them.
I wish more people would display them, I’m a nosey mare "
I’ll show you mine if you show me yours |
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"I mix it up, sometimes they’re on show other times I’ll hide them, depends on my mood. I don’t tend to have graphic ones but if I did I wouldn’t display them.
I wish more people would display them, I’m a nosey mare
I’ll show you mine if you show me yours "
That's what she said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I go through phases of showing mine. I’ve met people who haven’t left me a verification and with blocking/people leaving the site it has left me only one to display anyways haha |
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I’ll probably keep private
Should have a separate section to name timewasters 
So it works for me 