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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How would they get verified first before using the site  "
Sorry I simply mean on sign up they photo verify with admin and then pay to become a site supporter and that gives them access to the site |
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"I wouldn't make guys pay, it'd make the entitlement even worse.
Quite .. they'd insist that because they're supporters they must have a reply to all messages they send"
Or that we must be getting some cut therefore we owed them sex.
I pay to support the site myself! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't make guys pay, it'd make the entitlement even worse.
Quite .. they'd insist that because they're supporters they must have a reply to all messages they send
Or that we must be getting some cut therefore we owed them sex.
I pay to support the site myself! "
My thoughts behind this are simply to reduce the amount who come and go and give us genuine guys a bad name, this is just me thinking out loud, I’m not saying it would solve the issue but definitely help in my opinion |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Not sure how either of those would be beneficial to be honest OP - as has been pointed out being forced to pay for the site will just cause a greater sense of entitlement - and photo verification wouldn't achieve a great deal.
Even with both those things you wouldn't reduce the number of men who think the streets of Fab are paved with sex either.
Is usually better to focus on your own experience of the site and not worry about how others use it I've found - they don't impact you in any way so aren't worth worrying about  |
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"No refusals allowed when an approach is made it would be like The Dice Man! Fuc*in Crazy!!
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Right?!
I have a life. My pussy can't take that much pounding. And there's a lot of people I wouldn't fuck if they were the last people on earth.
Plus, like, I'm not a slave... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No refusals allowed when an approach is made it would be like The Dice Man! Fuc*in Crazy!!
Right?!
I have a life. My pussy can't take that much pounding. And there's a lot of people I wouldn't fuck if they were the last people on earth.
Plus, like, I'm not a slave... "
Today alone I have 300 unread messages. How the fuck am I getting through all those shags?! I’ll be lucky to be attracted to 10 men who have sent those messages
Not a chance man |
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"No refusals allowed when an approach is made it would be like The Dice Man! Fuc*in Crazy!!
Right?!
I have a life. My pussy can't take that much pounding. And there's a lot of people I wouldn't fuck if they were the last people on earth.
Plus, like, I'm not a slave...
Today alone I have 300 unread messages. How the fuck am I getting through all those shags?! I’ll be lucky to be attracted to 10 men who have sent those messages
Not a chance man"
I've hit a message slow point, but it's still physically impossible territory. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile must be so many characters long.
Your message to someone must also be so many characters.
And you can’t send any pictures to anyone until you have both messaged each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No refusals allowed when an approach is made it would be like The Dice Man! Fuc*in Crazy!!
Right?!
I have a life. My pussy can't take that much pounding. And there's a lot of people I wouldn't fuck if they were the last people on earth.
Plus, like, I'm not a slave... "
My Dice Man suggestion, was a bit of fun. |
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"Your profile must be so many characters long.
Your message to someone must also be so many characters.
And you can’t send any pictures to anyone until you have both messaged each other "
Oohhhh the pictures until you’ve both messaged each other is a good one! |
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"Your profile must be so many characters long.
Your message to someone must also be so many characters.
And you can’t send any pictures to anyone until you have both messaged each other "
Ooh I love that last one. It'd cut way down on penis in my inbox. |
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"Your profile must be so many characters long.
Your message to someone must also be so many characters.
And you can’t send any pictures to anyone until you have both messaged each other
Ooh I love that last one. It'd cut way down on penis in my inbox. "
Mmmm penis in your box .. ooops... that was my outside voice   |
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"Your profile must be so many characters long.
Your message to someone must also be so many characters.
And you can’t send any pictures to anyone until you have both messaged each other
Ooh I love that last one. It'd cut way down on penis in my inbox.
Mmmm penis in your box .. ooops... that was my outside voice "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications can be accepted or denied. I’ve had fake verifications and I know people who host parties receive some, in the hope they will verify back, thinking ‘oh I didn’t see you but you must have been there’
If you are interested in more than one sex/couples as well, different age ranges for them. My age range is at 30-54 but if I were wanting to meet women, I’d have to lower it to 20, but I don’t want to meet men that age.
If you message someone 3 times and they don’t reply, you cannot message again. You can still view their profile, see their pics etc, just can’t message.
If you put new filters up, they must apply for everyone. Even if they have messaged you before. Exceptions being for your friends list, and those you have verified. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ban all begging for photos to be fabbed so we can perv over the actual top photos..
Get rid of the body type ‘fabulous’, it’s way too confusing for most..
Bigger clamp down on hookers..
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But can you fab my new pic please x |
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"Verifications can be accepted or denied. I’ve had fake verifications and I know people who host parties receive some, in the hope they will verify back, thinking ‘oh I didn’t see you but you must have been there’
If you are interested in more than one sex/couples as well, different age ranges for them. My age range is at 30-54 but if I were wanting to meet women, I’d have to lower it to 20, but I don’t want to meet men that age.
If you message someone 3 times and they don’t reply, you cannot message again. You can still view their profile, see their pics etc, just can’t message.
If you put new filters up, they must apply for everyone. Even if they have messaged you before. Exceptions being for your friends list, and those you have verified. "
The different age ranges for different sexes / couples is a great idea |
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"I wouldn't make guys pay, it'd make the entitlement even worse.
Quite .. they'd insist that because they're supporters they must have a reply to all messages they send
Or that we must be getting some cut therefore we owed them sex.
I pay to support the site myself!
My thoughts behind this are simply to reduce the amount who come and go and give us genuine guys a bad name, this is just me thinking out loud, I’m not saying it would solve the issue but definitely help in my opinion "
Us genuine guys? You're only photo verified so how can you claim moral high ground?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Set it so people only within a certain number of miles can message ya. I don’t wanna meet anyone who doesn’t live in Scotland and can travel. Yet I have men in England, Ireland etc saying they will travel to me from there. Nope. Puts faaaaar too much pressure on me to not be able to cancel if I need too/too much pressure to fuck you.
Not realistic, but have all photos reverse image searched before they’re allowed onto fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't make guys pay, it'd make the entitlement even worse.
Quite .. they'd insist that because they're supporters they must have a reply to all messages they send
Or that we must be getting some cut therefore we owed them sex.
I pay to support the site myself!
My thoughts behind this are simply to reduce the amount who come and go and give us genuine guys a bad name, this is just me thinking out loud, I’m not saying it would solve the issue but definitely help in my opinion "
Nobody gives anyone a bad name. The only person who can help these issues are the person themselves. Someone being a total arsehole isn’t gonna affect how another man is gonna use/be seen on the site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it would be every single guy would have to be a site supporter and be verified before they can use the site and set up a profile."
Why just the guys, too many in your opinion? Whoever complained about having choice?
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I wouldn't make guys pay, it'd make the entitlement even worse.
Quite .. they'd insist that because they're supporters they must have a reply to all messages they send
Or that we must be getting some cut therefore we owed them sex.
I pay to support the site myself!
My thoughts behind this are simply to reduce the amount who come and go and give us genuine guys a bad name, this is just me thinking out loud, I’m not saying it would solve the issue but definitely help in my opinion "
No one here gives me a bad name apart from me and that goes for every other member too - the sooner people stop looking for others to blame for their lack of "success" the better |
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"Set it so people only within a certain number of miles can message ya. I don’t wanna meet anyone who doesn’t live in Scotland and can travel. Yet I have men in England, Ireland etc saying they will travel to me from there. Nope. Puts faaaaar too much pressure on me to not be able to cancel if I need too/too much pressure to fuck you.
Not realistic, but have all photos reverse image searched before they’re allowed onto fab. "
I'd love a distance message filter. |
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"I wouldn't make guys pay, it'd make the entitlement even worse.
Quite .. they'd insist that because they're supporters they must have a reply to all messages they send
Or that we must be getting some cut therefore we owed them sex.
I pay to support the site myself!
My thoughts behind this are simply to reduce the amount who come and go and give us genuine guys a bad name, this is just me thinking out loud, I’m not saying it would solve the issue but definitely help in my opinion
No one here gives me a bad name apart from me and that goes for every other member too - the sooner people stop looking for others to blame for their lack of "success" the better "
Yeah ... the grumbling just gives the rest of us a bad name .. |
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"I wouldn't make guys pay, it'd make the entitlement even worse.
Quite .. they'd insist that because they're supporters they must have a reply to all messages they send
Or that we must be getting some cut therefore we owed them sex.
I pay to support the site myself!
My thoughts behind this are simply to reduce the amount who come and go and give us genuine guys a bad name, this is just me thinking out loud, I’m not saying it would solve the issue but definitely help in my opinion
No one here gives me a bad name apart from me and that goes for every other member too - the sooner people stop looking for others to blame for their lack of "success" the better "
I think the numpties have made me more wary... And while that may be bad for genuine guys, it's probably good for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Set it so people only within a certain number of miles can message ya. I don’t wanna meet anyone who doesn’t live in Scotland and can travel. Yet I have men in England, Ireland etc saying they will travel to me from there. Nope. Puts faaaaar too much pressure on me to not be able to cancel if I need too/too much pressure to fuck you.
Not realistic, but have all photos reverse image searched before they’re allowed onto fab.
I'd love a distance message filter. "
But then I couldn’t message people from the forum. Hmmmmm. See. It’s difficult!  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Your profile must be so many characters long.
Your message to someone must also be so many characters.
And you can’t send any pictures to anyone until you have both messaged each other
Ooh I love that last one. It'd cut way down on penis in my inbox. "
B-b-but it'd kill Face Pic Friday  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile must be so many characters long.
Your message to someone must also be so many characters.
And you can’t send any pictures to anyone until you have both messaged each other
Ooh I love that last one. It'd cut way down on penis in my inbox.
B-b-but it'd kill Face Pic Friday "
I know so many flaws in my rules! |
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"Set it so people only within a certain number of miles can message ya. I don’t wanna meet anyone who doesn’t live in Scotland and can travel. Yet I have men in England, Ireland etc saying they will travel to me from there. Nope. Puts faaaaar too much pressure on me to not be able to cancel if I need too/too much pressure to fuck you.
Not realistic, but have all photos reverse image searched before they’re allowed onto fab.
I'd love a distance message filter.
But then I couldn’t message people from the forum. Hmmmmm. See. It’s difficult! "
True! But it'd cut down on "come to Cornwall you're wearing a petticoat" |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I wouldn't make guys pay, it'd make the entitlement even worse.
Quite .. they'd insist that because they're supporters they must have a reply to all messages they send
Or that we must be getting some cut therefore we owed them sex.
I pay to support the site myself!
My thoughts behind this are simply to reduce the amount who come and go and give us genuine guys a bad name, this is just me thinking out loud, I’m not saying it would solve the issue but definitely help in my opinion
No one here gives me a bad name apart from me and that goes for every other member too - the sooner people stop looking for others to blame for their lack of "success" the better
I think the numpties have made me more wary... And while that may be bad for genuine guys, it's probably good for me. "
But surely wary is a good thing regardless? I'm not saying I'm "genuine" (that's not for me to decide) but if I were I'd be perfectly happy that anyone was wary, and certainly wouldn't see it as a bad thing - if I were genuinely genuine that would be seen regardless of wariness |
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"And Granny-Crumpet must provide us with Crumpets on the 22nd Sunday of the year
When is that ?
22nd of December!"
But the 22nd Sunday would be around the end of may or beginning of June each year, depending what day the year starts on |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I would suggest IP/number banning as standard practices  "
Trouble is that's no longer as simple as it once was - someone only has to get a VPN connection, or switch to their mobile data, or go and sit in Costa to get a completely new IP address. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And Granny-Crumpet must provide us with Crumpets on the 22nd Sunday of the year
When is that ?
22nd of December!
But the 22nd Sunday would be around the end of may or beginning of June each year, depending what day the year starts on"
I googled it, maybe it worked out 22 Sunday’s from today |
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"And Granny-Crumpet must provide us with Crumpets on the 22nd Sunday of the year
When is that ?
22nd of December!
But the 22nd Sunday would be around the end of may or beginning of June each year, depending what day the year starts on
I googled it, maybe it worked out 22 Sunday’s from today"
Haha ...I think the Sunday just gone was the 22nd one this year |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And Granny-Crumpet must provide us with Crumpets on the 22nd Sunday of the year
When is that ?
22nd of December!
But the 22nd Sunday would be around the end of may or beginning of June each year, depending what day the year starts on
I googled it, maybe it worked out 22 Sunday’s from today
Haha ...I think the Sunday just gone was the 22nd one this year "
Yep! Darn it |
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"And Granny-Crumpet must provide us with Crumpets on the 22nd Sunday of the year
When is that ?
22nd of December!
But the 22nd Sunday would be around the end of may or beginning of June each year, depending what day the year starts on
I googled it, maybe it worked out 22 Sunday’s from today
Haha ...I think the Sunday just gone was the 22nd one this year "
Then I want 2 next year  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't make guys pay, it'd make the entitlement even worse. "
Ahh the forums do make me giggle.
Anyway, as for me if I had to pick one it would be this:
If you are in a relationship, and you don't play seperately, and your partner will be involved in all of your play, what you need is a couples profile, not a single females profile so that you can cream off some of their attention. Such profiles should be banned. |
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"And Granny-Crumpet must provide us with Crumpets on the 22nd Sunday of the year
When is that ?
22nd of December!
But the 22nd Sunday would be around the end of may or beginning of June each year, depending what day the year starts on
I googled it, maybe it worked out 22 Sunday’s from today
Haha ...I think the Sunday just gone was the 22nd one this year
Yep! Darn it"
She should be berated for missing the day then |
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"I wouldn't make guys pay, it'd make the entitlement even worse.
Quite .. they'd insist that because they're supporters they must have a reply to all messages they send
Or that we must be getting some cut therefore we owed them sex.
I pay to support the site myself!
My thoughts behind this are simply to reduce the amount who come and go and give us genuine guys a bad name, this is just me thinking out loud, I’m not saying it would solve the issue but definitely help in my opinion
No one here gives me a bad name apart from me and that goes for every other member too - the sooner people stop looking for others to blame for their lack of "success" the better
I think the numpties have made me more wary... And while that may be bad for genuine guys, it's probably good for me.
But surely wary is a good thing regardless? I'm not saying I'm "genuine" (that's not for me to decide) but if I were I'd be perfectly happy that anyone was wary, and certainly wouldn't see it as a bad thing - if I were genuinely genuine that would be seen regardless of wariness "
Definitely, but the shock of the really bad stuff made me be more careful. |
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"No refusals allowed when an approach is made it would be like The Dice Man! Fuc*in Crazy!!
Right?!
I have a life. My pussy can't take that much pounding. And there's a lot of people I wouldn't fuck if they were the last people on earth.
Plus, like, I'm not a slave... My Dice Man suggestion, was a bit of fun."
Are your nice loaded |
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The owners have reportedly said that they like the free to use site - so unless they were convinced, it's not going to happen, charging for single men only.
Putting any barrier in place always reduces the number of people. This will potentially mean less good and less good single men for others - so this wouldn't please everybody, as many of us like the range of choice that we have. We don't like people who are messers etc but the onus is on each of us to always filter out those who are unsuitable etc. And that would continue, even if there's a mandatory charge for men. Less men here could also make it more attractive for the wrong people to come here, as it potentially makes it easier for them to get what they want.
I'd enforce profiles to have a minimum word count, which others have suggested before. And the Sydney uni words would not count towards it |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I think that there should be a check box type screen before you enter the site on signing up and for the duration of your newbie week, just to make sure that people have read and understood the rules. That goes for the forum rules too.
I also think that a life ban from the forums or chat rooms should get you removed from the site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't make guys pay, it'd make the entitlement even worse.
Quite .. they'd insist that because they're supporters they must have a reply to all messages they send
Or that we must be getting some cut therefore we owed them sex.
I pay to support the site myself!
My thoughts behind this are simply to reduce the amount who come and go and give us genuine guys a bad name, this is just me thinking out loud, I’m not saying it would solve the issue but definitely help in my opinion "
Oh dear. Another giving us genuine guys a bad name thread.
Just who determines which guys are genuine, and which are giving you or others a bad name OP? |
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"No cock profile avatars! In your photos only?
I’d like the option to look instead of being poked in the eye at first sight! "
I might not go that far, but I might put some pictures behind a "do you really want to see this? You might not like it" warning. (taboo but within the rules stuff) |
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"No cock profile avatars! In your photos only?
I’d like the option to look instead of being poked in the eye at first sight!
I might not go that far, but I might put some pictures behind a "do you really want to see this? You might not like it" warning. (taboo but within the rules stuff) "
Good idea! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't make guys pay, it'd make the entitlement even worse.
Ahh the forums do make me giggle.
Anyway, as for me if I had to pick one it would be this:
If you are in a relationship, and you don't play seperately, and your partner will be involved in all of your play, what you need is a couples profile, not a single females profile so that you can cream off some of their attention. Such profiles should be banned. "
If you report them Admin usually make them into a couples profile. |
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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago
Mid-Cheshire |
I’d like to see a standard feedback sheet
Tick boxes, showing all the questions we want to know
Smell nice
Slim as her photos
Diva
As fun as she says
Etc etc
Please add
Ps Girls you can do you own |
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"I’d like to see a standard feedback sheet
Tick boxes, showing all the questions we want to know
Smell nice
Slim as her photos
Diva
As fun as she says
Etc etc
Please add
Ps Girls you can do you own"
Is he really 6ft |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No cock profile avatars! In your photos only?
I’d like the option to look instead of being poked in the eye at first sight! *poke* ooops sorry
Tut tut "
sorry  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d like to see a standard feedback sheet
Tick boxes, showing all the questions we want to know
Smell nice
Slim as her photos
Diva
As fun as she says
Etc etc
Please add
Ps Girls you can do you own"
What a way to make me feel even more like a piece of meat |
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"And you look lovely
Sadly you can’t call me slim though... I am as curvy as my pictures though ha!
Who wants a chicken leg thats aint got no meat"
Ahhhh but your tick list said “slim as her photos” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And you look lovely
Sadly you can’t call me slim though... I am as curvy as my pictures though ha!
Who wants a chicken leg thats aint got no meat"
Oh I’d also ban body shamers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And you look lovely
Sadly you can’t call me slim though... I am as curvy as my pictures though ha!
Who wants a chicken leg thats aint got no meat
Oh I’d also ban body shamers "
if you did that I don't think anyone would be left on the sight haha |
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When you select your parameters of who can message you, ie females and couples 18-50 for example your entire profile should not be visible to people outwith the age range and sex you are interested in.
Also dr*gs need to get clamped down on properly. Constantly see status updates and the odd message looking for some.
Also I think 1 public picture minimum should be required before a profile goes live. Just something that indicates they are genuine and who they say they are. Far too many "couples" on here that are definitely just guys pic collecting |
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