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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So has anyone met someone from here and then ended up in a relationship with them? If so was it a private relationship or did you use FAB then as a couple? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yep. I met my man here.
Social turned hotel fuckfest on the first meet...we caught feelings soon after.
3 and a half years later and no regrets  "
That's great to hear. Love at first fuck then haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep. I met my man here.
Social turned hotel fuckfest on the first meet...we caught feelings soon after.
3 and a half years later and no regrets
That's great to hear. Love at first fuck then haha"
Well, not quite....but I knew I wouldn't just be seeing him the once   |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yeeep. Social. Dungeon. Fucked for a year or so before I realised I quite liked him. We took time away from fab to focus on us and work out things without the distractions of others. We're engaged now and it works wonderfully (that's not to say we don't bicker!). We did meet as a couple, currently he doesn't want to meet as a couple or single. Works for us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yep. I met my man here.
Social turned hotel fuckfest on the first meet...we caught feelings soon after.
3 and a half years later and no regrets
That's great to hear. Love at first fuck then haha
Well, not quite....but I knew I wouldn't just be seeing him the once "
Cheeky |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeeep. Social. Dungeon. Fucked for a year or so before I realised I quite liked him. We took time away from fab to focus on us and work out things without the distractions of others. We're engaged now and it works wonderfully (that's not to say we don't bicker!). We did meet as a couple, currently he doesn't want to meet as a couple or single. Works for us."
Fair enough, he doesn't want to meet then but does he still allow you to? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So has anyone met someone from here and then ended up in a relationship with them? If so was it a private relationship or did you use FAB then as a couple?"
Yes, we met and fucked for about a year and then had a 2.5 Yr relationship, had a couples profile. Relationship didn't work out but we are still friends. |
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By *eliWoman
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"Yeeep. Social. Dungeon. Fucked for a year or so before I realised I quite liked him. We took time away from fab to focus on us and work out things without the distractions of others. We're engaged now and it works wonderfully (that's not to say we don't bicker!). We did meet as a couple, currently he doesn't want to meet as a couple or single. Works for us.
Fair enough, he doesn't want to meet then but does he still allow you to?"
There is no "allowing". Hands up I admit I'm being wanky but I dislike the concept of allow - I'm my own person with body autonomy. But yes, he's cool with it. Actively encourages it at times. He likes me being happy. And having sex.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So has anyone met someone from here and then ended up in a relationship with them? If so was it a private relationship or did you use FAB then as a couple?
Yes, we met and fucked for about a year and then had a 2.5 Yr relationship, had a couples profile. Relationship didn't work out but we are still friends. "
That's interesting, do you still fuck about with each other? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yeeep. Social. Dungeon. Fucked for a year or so before I realised I quite liked him. We took time away from fab to focus on us and work out things without the distractions of others. We're engaged now and it works wonderfully (that's not to say we don't bicker!). We did meet as a couple, currently he doesn't want to meet as a couple or single. Works for us.
Fair enough, he doesn't want to meet then but does he still allow you to?
There is no "allowing". Hands up I admit I'm being wanky but I dislike the concept of allow - I'm my own person with body autonomy. But yes, he's cool with it. Actively encourages it at times. He likes me being happy. And having sex. "
Apologies, I should have phrased it better, I'd never insinuate anything like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So has anyone met someone from here and then ended up in a relationship with them? If so was it a private relationship or did you use FAB then as a couple?
Yes, we met and fucked for about a year and then had a 2.5 Yr relationship, had a couples profile. Relationship didn't work out but we are still friends.
That's interesting, do you still fuck about with each other?"
Now and again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep. I met my man here.
Social turned hotel fuckfest on the first meet...we caught feelings soon after.
3 and a half years later and no regrets
That's great to hear. Love at first fuck then haha
Well, not quite....but I knew I wouldn't just be seeing him the once
Cheeky"
We have a couple's profile and go to clubs as often as we can. I am open to meeting other women on my own, same goes for him and other men, so we have individual profiles too.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So has anyone met someone from here and then ended up in a relationship with them? If so was it a private relationship or did you use FAB then as a couple?"
Yep we did and getting married next year and still living the lifestyle on here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yep. I met my man here.
Social turned hotel fuckfest on the first meet...we caught feelings soon after.
3 and a half years later and no regrets
That's great to hear. Love at first fuck then haha
Well, not quite....but I knew I wouldn't just be seeing him the once
Cheeky
We have a couple's profile and go to clubs as often as we can. I am open to meeting other women on my own, same goes for him and other men, so we have individual profiles too.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So has anyone met someone from here and then ended up in a relationship with them? If so was it a private relationship or did you use FAB then as a couple?
Yep we did and getting married next year and still living the lifestyle on here "
WOW. Congratulations, and a lovely looking couple as well. I'm wishing you all the best in the future with your lives together x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Fair enough, he doesn't want to meet then but does he still allow you to?
There is no "allowing". Hands up I admit I'm being wanky but I dislike the concept of allow - I'm my own person with body autonomy. But yes, he's cool with it. Actively encourages it at times. He likes me being happy. And having sex.
Apologies, I should have phrased it better, I'd never insinuate anything like that"
You're fine Op. I'm destressing after work and being a wankster. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So has anyone met someone from here and then ended up in a relationship with them? If so was it a private relationship or did you use FAB then as a couple?
Yep we did and getting married next year and still living the lifestyle on here
WOW. Congratulations, and a lovely looking couple as well. I'm wishing you all the best in the future with your lives together x"
Cheers...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fair enough, he doesn't want to meet then but does he still allow you to?
There is no "allowing". Hands up I admit I'm being wanky but I dislike the concept of allow - I'm my own person with body autonomy. But yes, he's cool with it. Actively encourages it at times. He likes me being happy. And having sex.
Apologies, I should have phrased it better, I'd never insinuate anything like that
You're fine Op. I'm destressing after work and being a wankster."
Tough day? I'm currently chilling with a large Jack Daniel's |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It happens OP
My best wee fab chum met his now wife on here. Married two years this coming July. "
Awww, it's nice to hear that it can work. Liking the batgirl top by the way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also my friend and his wife haven't really swung since being engaged I think. I think she still meets ladies in clubs but he feels he's outgrown it a bit I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met here and have discussed continuing as a couple but we agree we need time to be just us first, to make sure our relationship is secure and it's what we both want.
Dotty x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We met here and have discussed continuing as a couple but we agree we need time to be just us first, to make sure our relationship is secure and it's what we both want.
Dotty x"
I think that's very wise, build the foundations, ensure its strong enough and then it's possibly a discussion to have again,or never again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Also my friend and his wife haven't really swung since being engaged I think. I think she still meets ladies in clubs but he feels he's outgrown it a bit I think. "
Honestly that surprises me, I probably very incorrectly had the idea the fella would have been the one wanting to continue |
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I’ve never found that on this site but I have on a site I was originally on, he was quite shy so we never met anyone else as a couple, we talked about going to clubs but even that made him go a bit  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve never found that on this site but I have on a site I was originally on, he was quite shy so we never met anyone else as a couple, we talked about going to clubs but even that made him go a bit "
Was it a similar site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope
Wouldn’t rule it out now though
You say now... Would you have ruled it out? What changes your mind if so"
I did in the past as my child was younger and I wouldn’t date then. They’re older now so I’m open to it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope
Wouldn’t rule it out now though
You say now... Would you have ruled it out? What changes your mind if so
I did in the past as my child was younger and I wouldn’t date then. They’re older now so I’m open to it "
So the next question is would you focus then on just you 2 or would you want to consider carrying on fabbing either as individuals or together? |
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"I’ve never found that on this site but I have on a site I was originally on, he was quite shy so we never met anyone else as a couple, we talked about going to clubs but even that made him go a bit
Was it a similar site?"
Yes I had been a member for years, we met in the chat room, he was quite local to me and I thought that would be great for a regular meet, however it turned into us meeting several times a week, going away together and meeting family, he was wonderful and I didn’t want to meet anyone else whilst we were together |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve never found that on this site but I have on a site I was originally on, he was quite shy so we never met anyone else as a couple, we talked about going to clubs but even that made him go a bit
Was it a similar site?
Yes I had been a member for years, we met in the chat room, he was quite local to me and I thought that would be great for a regular meet, however it turned into us meeting several times a week, going away together and meeting family, he was wonderful and I didn’t want to meet anyone else whilst we were together "
Fair enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I met Saff here and couldn't be happier Neither of us are proper swingers though so we don't meet anyone else, we just dick around on the forums in the gaps between meeting....
Steve x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, I met Saff here and couldn't be happier Neither of us are proper swingers though so we don't meet anyone else, we just dick around on the forums in the gaps between meeting....
Steve x"
Cheers Steve. Good to see we have a few northerners here today. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I had. It was a private. Would I do it again ? I don't know. Probably not.
Interesting, why probably not?"
I don't really believe in Love anymore.
I think a lot of people love the idea of love, the idea of someone than rather the person. Beside, in my opinion, especially at the beginning of a relation most people confuse love and lust because they are interwoven when you get intimate with someone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not for me but wouldn’t rule it out.
My friends found each other on here though..
Fellow Stockport dweller, welcome. Are they still together?
They are yes
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Here's wishing them all the luck for the future |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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"Not for me but wouldn’t rule it out.
My friends found each other on here though..
I'm so gonna find you a man, a so macho man! "
It’s proving very difficult beany..... but if you do you can be maid of honour x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I had. It was a private. Would I do it again ? I don't know. Probably not.
Interesting, why probably not?
I don't really believe in Love anymore.
I think a lot of people love the idea of love, the idea of someone than rather the person. Beside, in my opinion, especially at the beginning of a relation most people confuse love and lust because they are interwoven when you get intimate with someone. "
I agree with the latter end of that but surely Love still exists somewhere doesn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not for me but wouldn’t rule it out.
My friends found each other on here though..
I'm so gonna find you a man, a so macho man!
It’s proving very difficult beany..... but if you do you can be maid of honour x"
Why the difficulty? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I met Saff here and couldn't be happier Neither of us are proper swingers though so we don't meet anyone else, we just dick around on the forums in the gaps between meeting....
Steve x
Cheers Steve. Good to see we have a few northerners here today. "
I'm actually from Bath, SW, but I treck up to Manchester weekly for Saff, when Lexi gives us some peace that is.... I'm so committed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I had. It was a private. Would I do it again ? I don't know. Probably not.
Interesting, why probably not?
I don't really believe in Love anymore.
I think a lot of people love the idea of love, the idea of someone than rather the person. Beside, in my opinion, especially at the beginning of a relation most people confuse love and lust because they are interwoven when you get intimate with someone.
I agree with the latter end of that but surely Love still exists somewhere doesn't it?"
I guess it does exist to some extent but not as Hollywood sold it to us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes, I met Saff here and couldn't be happier Neither of us are proper swingers though so we don't meet anyone else, we just dick around on the forums in the gaps between meeting....
Steve x
Cheers Steve. Good to see we have a few northerners here today.
I'm actually from Bath, SW, but I treck up to Manchester weekly for Saff, when Lexi gives us some peace that is.... I'm so committed "
Bath, the home town of Tears for Fears |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes I had. It was a private. Would I do it again ? I don't know. Probably not.
Interesting, why probably not?
I don't really believe in Love anymore.
I think a lot of people love the idea of love, the idea of someone than rather the person. Beside, in my opinion, especially at the beginning of a relation most people confuse love and lust because they are interwoven when you get intimate with someone.
I agree with the latter end of that but surely Love still exists somewhere doesn't it?
I guess it does exist to some extent but not as Hollywood sold it to us. "
100% agree with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not for me but wouldn’t rule it out.
My friends found each other on here though..
I'm so gonna find you a man, a so macho man!
It’s proving very difficult beany..... but if you do you can be maid of honour x"
Can I choose my own dress and everything and fuck the best lady, aka Saff, at the reception?
I thought you had a posh man lined up? He seems alright |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, I met Saff here and couldn't be happier Neither of us are proper swingers though so we don't meet anyone else, we just dick around on the forums in the gaps between meeting....
Steve x
Cheers Steve. Good to see we have a few northerners here today.
I'm actually from Bath, SW, but I treck up to Manchester weekly for Saff, when Lexi gives us some peace that is.... I'm so committed
Bath, the home town of Tears for Fears"
Never knew that, thanks, you learn something every day here if you listen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes, I met Saff here and couldn't be happier Neither of us are proper swingers though so we don't meet anyone else, we just dick around on the forums in the gaps between meeting....
Steve x
Cheers Steve. Good to see we have a few northerners here today.
I'm actually from Bath, SW, but I treck up to Manchester weekly for Saff, when Lexi gives us some peace that is.... I'm so committed
Bath, the home town of Tears for Fears
Never knew that, thanks, you learn something every day here if you listen "
Every day is a learning day my friend |
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"Yes I had. It was a private. Would I do it again ? I don't know. Probably not.
Interesting, why probably not?
I don't really believe in Love anymore.
I think a lot of people love the idea of love, the idea of someone than rather the person. Beside, in my opinion, especially at the beginning of a relation most people confuse love and lust because they are interwoven when you get intimate with someone. "
To truly love someone you have to overlook those little imperfections and just accept that person for who they really are, none of us are perfect and we spend so much time trying to find perfection in others that it is a wonderful thing when you find someone as crazy and imperfect as yourself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I met a man and we got on great and the sex was anazing. We did date for awhile but then it went a bit Pete Tong.
Still chat and are friends. We didn’t meet anyone else. I’m a one man woman in a relationship and expect my men to only have ehes for me. Old fashioned maybe but it’s how i roll.
Would i date someone from here again? Probably not. I have serious trust issues thanks to a past relationship experience and i would find it hard to be with a man who was perusing other women, even if they were merely looking and not touching, plus i can be extremely jealous and it would just do my head in. And to be honest, a lot of men on here play on those type of insecurities like it’s a big game. Well it’s not, It’s misery inducing, and i just can’t be arsed with that anymore.
So I’m looking for a nice vanilla man who’s never heard of Fab or such sites. Someone who is happy just to knob me.
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Croeso y chat. I'm originally from South Wales. I get what your saying but going from here to Vanilla, would that satisfy your needs fully? |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I met a man and we got on great and the sex was anazing. We did date for awhile but then it went a bit Pete Tong.
Still chat and are friends. We didn’t meet anyone else. I’m a one man woman in a relationship and expect my men to only have eyes for me. Old fashioned maybe but it’s how i roll.
Would i date someone from here again? Probably not. I have serious trust issues thanks to a past relationship experience and i would find it hard to be with a man who was perusing other women, even if they were merely looking and not touching, plus i can be extremely jealous and it would just do my head in. To be honest, a lot of men on here play on those type of insecurities like it’s a big game. Well it’s not, It’s misery inducing.
So I’m looking for a nice vanilla man who’s never heard of Fab or such sites. Someone who is happy just to knob me.
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"I met a man and we got on great and the sex was anazing. We did date for awhile but then it went a bit Pete Tong.
Still chat and are friends. We didn’t meet anyone else. I’m a one man woman in a relationship and expect my men to only have ehes for me. Old fashioned maybe but it’s how i roll.
Would i date someone from here again? Probably not. I have serious trust issues thanks to a past relationship experience and i would find it hard to be with a man who was perusing other women, even if they were merely looking and not touching, plus i can be extremely jealous and it would just do my head in. And to be honest, a lot of men on here play on those type of insecurities like it’s a big game. Well it’s not, It’s misery inducing, and i just can’t be arsed with that anymore.
So I’m looking for a nice vanilla man who’s never heard of Fab or such sites. Someone who is happy just to knob me.
Croeso y chat. I'm originally from South Wales. I get what your saying but going from here to Vanilla, would that satisfy your needs fully?"
Re done it cos of my typos
Yes vanilla would be fine. I don’t need kinky. I just need good quality sex, often. The best sex i’ve had has been in relationships. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I met a man and we got on great and the sex was anazing. We did date for awhile but then it went a bit Pete Tong.
Still chat and are friends. We didn’t meet anyone else. I’m a one man woman in a relationship and expect my men to only have ehes for me. Old fashioned maybe but it’s how i roll.
Would i date someone from here again? Probably not. I have serious trust issues thanks to a past relationship experience and i would find it hard to be with a man who was perusing other women, even if they were merely looking and not touching, plus i can be extremely jealous and it would just do my head in. And to be honest, a lot of men on here play on those type of insecurities like it’s a big game. Well it’s not, It’s misery inducing, and i just can’t be arsed with that anymore.
So I’m looking for a nice vanilla man who’s never heard of Fab or such sites. Someone who is happy just to knob me.
Croeso y chat. I'm originally from South Wales. I get what your saying but going from here to Vanilla, would that satisfy your needs fully?
Re done it cos of my typos
Yes vanilla would be fine. I don’t need kinky. I just need good quality sex, often. The best sex i’ve had has been in relationships."
I understand this, is more passion and sensual when together rather than just a fuck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I had. It was a private. Would I do it again ? I don't know. Probably not.
Interesting, why probably not?
I don't really believe in Love anymore.
I think a lot of people love the idea of love, the idea of someone than rather the person. Beside, in my opinion, especially at the beginning of a relation most people confuse love and lust because they are interwoven when you get intimate with someone.
To truly love someone you have to overlook those little imperfections and just accept that person for who they really are, none of us are perfect and we spend so much time trying to find perfection in others that it is a wonderful thing when you find someone as crazy and imperfect as yourself "
Yes it is, I agree but wonder if it can last though |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"We met here and have discussed continuing as a couple but we agree we need time to be just us first, to make sure our relationship is secure and it's what we both want.
Dotty x"
I was about to say that! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We met here and have discussed continuing as a couple but we agree we need time to be just us first, to make sure our relationship is secure and it's what we both want.
Dotty x
I was about to say that! "
The other half I presume? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did. Met on here, started casual then it became pretty clear we both had fallen for each other. I was in a polyamorous relationship and was quite happy for him to have other partners as long as there was honest, open communication. He said he didn't want to. Found out 8 months later he had been cheating on me for 7 months and she didn't have a clue either. I walked away after his lies, she decided to keep seeing him.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met back in September for a social, followed by several more socials!....was quite a few weeks before we took it further! Neither of us are really meeting other people on our own even though we still have our own profiles...have had a couple of socials and parties together! We are still very much finding our feet and working out what we want and where we are going with it all!!
I'm a great believer that we all meet people for a reason...its not just a random coincidence! We were definitely destined to meet....where we end up though who knows!! It's exciting and sometimes challenging finding out but wouldn't change it!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We met back in September for a social, followed by several more socials!....was quite a few weeks before we took it further! Neither of us are really meeting other people on our own even though we still have our own profiles...have had a couple of socials and parties together! We are still very much finding our feet and working out what we want and where we are going with it all!!
I'm a great believer that we all meet people for a reason...its not just a random coincidence! We were definitely destined to meet....where we end up though who knows!! It's exciting and sometimes challenging finding out but wouldn't change it!!
PT x "
Relationships are always a challenge but so worth working at to get the most out of it for the pair of you. You seem like your both honest with each other and use this more as a social thing, focusing on your relationship solely just the pair of you. I really hope it works for you |
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We met on here, both came of to concentrate on us for around 18 months then came back on as a couple and enjoyed our time on here meeting others along the way either as a couple or occasionally individually |
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over a year ago
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"We met on here, both came of to concentrate on us for around 18 months then came back on as a couple and enjoyed our time on here meeting others along the way either as a couple or occasionally individually "
And are you still strong together now? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"We met here and have discussed continuing as a couple but we agree we need time to be just us first, to make sure our relationship is secure and it's what we both want.
Dotty x
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Do you think remaining on here helps it just be you two? And makes sure your relationship is secure? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We met here and have discussed continuing as a couple but we agree we need time to be just us first, to make sure our relationship is secure and it's what we both want.
Dotty x
Do you think remaining on here helps it just be you two? And makes sure your relationship is secure? "
Great question |
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I met someone on here and quickly caught feelings. Maybe I confused love with lust because I couldn't let go, even after he told me he wasn't after commitment, even after I found out after 3 years he had a girlfriend! Now I see him for who he really is and it has made me wary..but my ideal situation would be to meet someone on here who would like to carry on with the lifestyle! |
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over a year ago
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"Yes, I've had a couple over the years.. wouldn't rule it out again either
So they were good enough to not put you off then"
No not at all.. i think thats the main reason i keep returning lol |
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"I met someone on here and quickly caught feelings. Maybe I confused love with lust because I couldn't let go, even after he told me he wasn't after commitment, even after I found out after 3 years he had a girlfriend! Now I see him for who he really is and it has made me wary..but my ideal situation would be to meet someone on here who would like to carry on with the lifestyle!"
Yher I can see how that felt knowing he'd lied from the start |
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over a year ago
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"We met here and have discussed continuing as a couple but we agree we need time to be just us first, to make sure our relationship is secure and it's what we both want.
Dotty x
Do you think remaining on here helps it just be you two? And makes sure your relationship is secure? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, I've had a couple over the years.. wouldn't rule it out again either
So they were good enough to not put you off then
No not at all.. i think thats the main reason i keep returning lol"
And your gorgeous, I'm sure you'll be snapped up soon |
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over a year ago
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"Does make me more cynical than I was!
No just far too trusting
Not any more I am not. I am definitely more cynical now.
How so?"
Well, I am less likely to believe people. |
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over a year ago
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"Does make me more cynical than I was!
No just far too trusting
Not any more I am not. I am definitely more cynical now.
How so?
Well, I am less likely to believe people. "
Isn't that a trust issue rather than cynical? Anyway that's not important, what is, is I understand what your saying and you seem to have had the bad deal in all this |
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"We met on here, both came of to concentrate on us for around 18 months then came back on as a couple and enjoyed our time on here meeting others along the way either as a couple or occasionally individually
And are you still strong together now?"
Very much so |
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"We met on here, both came of to concentrate on us for around 18 months then came back on as a couple and enjoyed our time on here meeting others along the way either as a couple or occasionally individually
And are you still strong together now?
Very much so"
Excellent, I wish you happiness and success as long as your together x |
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"Does make me more cynical than I was!
No just far too trusting
Not any more I am not. I am definitely more cynical now.
How so?
Well, I am less likely to believe people.
Isn't that a trust issue rather than cynical? Anyway that's not important, what is, is I understand what your saying and you seem to have had the bad deal in all this"
Cynical = distrustful of human sincerity or integrity. Thanks. Not meaning to go off track re definitions.
It is heartening to see the positive stories on this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does make me more cynical than I was!
No just far too trusting
Not any more I am not. I am definitely more cynical now.
How so?
Well, I am less likely to believe people.
Isn't that a trust issue rather than cynical? Anyway that's not important, what is, is I understand what your saying and you seem to have had the bad deal in all this
Cynical = distrustful of human sincerity or integrity. Thanks. Not meaning to go off track re definitions.
It is heartening to see the positive stories on this thread. "
It is, it's honestly surprised me a little and makes me happy to see so many success stories |
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"I did. Met on here, started casual then it became pretty clear we both had fallen for each other. I was in a polyamorous relationship and was quite happy for him to have other partners as long as there was honest, open communication. He said he didn't want to. Found out 8 months later he had been cheating on me for 7 months and she didn't have a clue either. I walked away after his lies, she decided to keep seeing him.
Does"
That's one of the main reasons I'd never date anyone off here. I wouldn't trust them not to fuck around. |
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"I did. Met on here, started casual then it became pretty clear we both had fallen for each other. I was in a polyamorous relationship and was quite happy for him to have other partners as long as there was honest, open communication. He said he didn't want to. Found out 8 months later he had been cheating on me for 7 months and she didn't have a clue either. I walked away after his lies, she decided to keep seeing him.
Does
That's one of the main reasons I'd never date anyone off here. I wouldn't trust them not to fuck around. "
Why not? If you were both honest with one another? |
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"I met someone on here and quickly caught feelings. Maybe I confused love with lust because I couldn't let go, even after he told me he wasn't after commitment, even after I found out after 3 years he had a girlfriend! Now I see him for who he really is and it has made me wary..but my ideal situation would be to meet someone on here who would like to carry on with the lifestyle!"
Been in a similar situation myself. Didn’t last 3 years though and he didn’t have a girlfriend but a wife instead. Very hard when in that moment to distinguish love from lust. I’m thankful for it though as I learned a lot about myself from that situation. I would love to meet someone, have amazing sex and still be play on here together...my search continues |
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"I did. Met on here, started casual then it became pretty clear we both had fallen for each other. I was in a polyamorous relationship and was quite happy for him to have other partners as long as there was honest, open communication. He said he didn't want to. Found out 8 months later he had been cheating on me for 7 months and she didn't have a clue either. I walked away after his lies, she decided to keep seeing him.
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That's one of the main reasons I'd never date anyone off here. I wouldn't trust them not to fuck around.
Why not? If you were both honest with one another?"
I wouldn't trust them. |
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"I did. Met on here, started casual then it became pretty clear we both had fallen for each other. I was in a polyamorous relationship and was quite happy for him to have other partners as long as there was honest, open communication. He said he didn't want to. Found out 8 months later he had been cheating on me for 7 months and she didn't have a clue either. I walked away after his lies, she decided to keep seeing him.
Does
That's one of the main reasons I'd never date anyone off here. I wouldn't trust them not to fuck around.
Why not? If you were both honest with one another?
I wouldn't trust them. "
So would you want it to be exclusive just the pair of you and no one else? |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"We met here and have discussed continuing as a couple but we agree we need time to be just us first, to make sure our relationship is secure and it's what we both want.
Dotty x
Do you think remaining on here helps it just be you two? And makes sure your relationship is secure?
I think they meant before taking the plunge as swingers..... I could be wrong.... "
That's exactly what was meant, yes.
I don't think that having a couples profile means that we can't be just us nor that we have to meet right now or at all. |
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"We met here and have discussed continuing as a couple but we agree we need time to be just us first, to make sure our relationship is secure and it's what we both want.
Dotty x
Do you think remaining on here helps it just be you two? And makes sure your relationship is secure?
I think they meant before taking the plunge as swingers..... I could be wrong....
That's exactly what was meant, yes.
I don't think that having a couples profile means that we can't be just us nor that we have to meet right now or at all. "
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I met someone on here few years ago n just expected it to be a one off fun thing but we ended up seeing each other 3-4times a week for over 10 months but due to him moving away with his job it had to end but it was fun n we are still good mates now so alls well that ended well! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"We met here and have discussed continuing as a couple but we agree we need time to be just us first, to make sure our relationship is secure and it's what we both want.
Dotty x
Do you think remaining on here helps it just be you two? And makes sure your relationship is secure?
I think they meant before taking the plunge as swingers..... I could be wrong....
That's exactly what was meant, yes.
I don't think that having a couples profile means that we can't be just us nor that we have to meet right now or at all. "
I was more interested in Dotty's response about it Tea.
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We met from the chat rooms on Fab way back in August 2013. We celebrated our 4th wedding anniversary last month
Finding a life partner can happen anywhere, often when you least expect it. I think the key to having a successful relationship which starts on an adult site is being 100% honest with each other, constant communication and taking time to let the relationship grow and evolve naturally into a strong partnership rather than rushing headlong into swinging together in the infancy days |
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"Bah, I'm too old for all that love and relationship nonsense! Had plenty of that when I was younger
Youre only ever as old as the person you feel "
Ageless, in that case |
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"We met from the chat rooms on Fab way back in August 2013. We celebrated our 4th wedding anniversary last month
Finding a life partner can happen anywhere, often when you least expect it. I think the key to having a successful relationship which starts on an adult site is being 100% honest with each other, constant communication and taking time to let the relationship grow and evolve naturally into a strong partnership rather than rushing headlong into swinging together in the infancy days"
Congratulations guys, long may it continue |
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"Bah, I'm too old for all that love and relationship nonsense! Had plenty of that when I was younger
Youre only ever as old as the person you feel
Ageless, in that case"
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I met my partner on FAB. We were at the time totally not in the market for relationships. Our first meet was a bit slow to start (she took me to a terrible tea rooms, with terrible luke warm tea). But things soon picked up once she agreed to go for a drive with me. Made so great memories that day and it was clear to me there was something special happening outside of my trousers. Before long it was love and I honestly can't imagine anyone better to spend my life with. We have our couples profile for if there is one person in this would I want to explore and share my adventures with its her. As a couple we've had so many great adventures in the scene and so many still to come. I love we that we can share and delight in each other's deviance and perversions as much as we do in the other aspects of life.
So yes all thanks to FAB we found each other. |
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"I met my partner on FAB. We were at the time totally not in the market for relationships. Our first meet was a bit slow to start (she took me to a terrible tea rooms, with terrible luke warm tea). But things soon picked up once she agreed to go for a drive with me. Made so great memories that day and it was clear to me there was something special happening outside of my trousers. Before long it was love and I honestly can't imagine anyone better to spend my life with. We have our couples profile for if there is one person in this would I want to explore and share my adventures with its her. As a couple we've had so many great adventures in the scene and so many still to come. I love we that we can share and delight in each other's deviance and perversions as much as we do in the other aspects of life.
So yes all thanks to FAB we found each other."
Brilliant, that's so nice. Hope you stay together for ever |
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"I did. Met on here, started casual then it became pretty clear we both had fallen for each other. I was in a polyamorous relationship and was quite happy for him to have other partners as long as there was honest, open communication. He said he didn't want to. Found out 8 months later he had been cheating on me for 7 months and she didn't have a clue either. I walked away after his lies, she decided to keep seeing him.
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That's one of the main reasons I'd never date anyone off here. I wouldn't trust them not to fuck around.
Why not? If you were both honest with one another?
I wouldn't trust them.
So would you want it to be exclusive just the pair of you and no one else?"
I wouldn't ever date anyone off here. Because I wouldn't trust them at all. |
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"I did. Met on here, started casual then it became pretty clear we both had fallen for each other. I was in a polyamorous relationship and was quite happy for him to have other partners as long as there was honest, open communication. He said he didn't want to. Found out 8 months later he had been cheating on me for 7 months and she didn't have a clue either. I walked away after his lies, she decided to keep seeing him.
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That's one of the main reasons I'd never date anyone off here. I wouldn't trust them not to fuck around.
Why not? If you were both honest with one another?
I wouldn't trust them.
So would you want it to be exclusive just the pair of you and no one else?
I wouldn't ever date anyone off here. Because I wouldn't trust them at all. "
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I met my guy on Fab and we have been seeing each other for two and a half years now. A life partner? Probably not. But we are making hay while the sun is still shining. We have separate profiles which is of no consequence to me but two and a half years ago I would never have guessed that a meet on Fab could lead to such a long term relationship. Shows it can happen to anyone |
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"I met my guy on Fab and we have been seeing each other for two and a half years now. A life partner? Probably not. But we are making hay while the sun is still shining. We have separate profiles which is of no consequence to me but two and a half years ago I would never have guessed that a meet on Fab could lead to such a long term relationship. Shows it can happen to anyone "
It can and usually does given time |
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"I would like to say I’m hopefully you can meet people in the most unlikely of places - even fab!
Your stories are lovely and give a little hope "
They do indeed |
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"I met someone on here and quickly caught feelings. Maybe I confused love with lust because I couldn't let go, even after he told me he wasn't after commitment, even after I found out after 3 years he had a girlfriend! Now I see him for who he really is and it has made me wary..but my ideal situation would be to meet someone on here who would like to carry on with the lifestyle!
Been in a similar situation myself. Didn’t last 3 years though and he didn’t have a girlfriend but a wife instead. Very hard when in that moment to distinguish love from lust. I’m thankful for it though as I learned a lot about myself from that situation. I would love to meet someone, have amazing sex and still be play on here together...my search continues "
Let me know if you're successful.
I can't imagine finding anyone else with as much chemistry as I had with this guy..I hope I'm wrong! |
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I've had two relationships from fab. One was a 3 year relationship. We have a child together. Despite it not working out, we are still very close friends. I'm now in another relationship and it's going wonderfully. We never saw our first time meeting as a fab meet. We called it our first date, as you know when the chemistry and the friendship is so natural, that it has the potential for something so very special. We are planning to make the move for each other at some point, when we are able and have more time under our belt
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"I've had two relationships from fab. One was a 3 year relationship. We have a child together. Despite it not working out, we are still very close friends. I'm now in another relationship and it's going wonderfully. We never saw our first time meeting as a fab meet. We called it our first date, as you know when the chemistry and the friendship is so natural, that it has the potential for something so very special. We are planning to make the move for each other at some point, when we are able and have more time under our belt
Holly"
To add, we have no plans to swing. We enjoy the forums, though we are winding down our online presence and will likely delete at some point. I didn't swing with my ex either. I left fab
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"I've had two relationships from fab. One was a 3 year relationship. We have a child together. Despite it not working out, we are still very close friends. I'm now in another relationship and it's going wonderfully. We never saw our first time meeting as a fab meet. We called it our first date, as you know when the chemistry and the friendship is so natural, that it has the potential for something so very special. We are planning to make the move for each other at some point, when we are able and have more time under our belt
Holly"
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