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absolutely nofukkingway!!
just because you know about it doesnt mean you have to condone it, let alone help him cheat on his poor OH.
would you like it if he helped your missus do it on you? (i know your single, but when you had someone) |
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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago
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"absolutely nofukkingway!!
just because you know about it doesnt mean you have to condone it, let alone help him cheat on his poor OH.
would you like it if he helped your missus do it on you? (i know your single, but when you had someone)"
Him??? Who said him?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"would you let your married best friend use your spare bed room to meet lover "
It would very much depend on the relationship my friend had with their partner. I have some friends I would not even contemplate it and another I have urged to escape her situation in the past I would.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No!!!!!!!!!! Z Mind you if you need to ask then your own moral compass must be broken! Z"
might just be curious of how others would respond not asking for guidance so to speak
no i wouldn't i'd kick their arses for even asking me |
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"would you let your married best friend use your spare bed room to meet lover
It would very much depend on the relationship my friend had with their partner. I have some friends I would not even contemplate it and another I have urged to escape her situation in the past I would.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"plus it someone that they all think should leave a d*unken husband just d*unk not vilent"
If its a serious question not a hypothetical what if one then you probably need to give more details of the situation and the people involved. Then you should hopefully get some serious answers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"plus it someone that they all think should leave a d*unken husband just d*unk not vilent"
still a no
an affair will never make things better only worse she should be supported in making better decisions in who she has a relationship with not supported in having an affair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"plus it someone that they all think should leave a d*unken husband just d*unk not vilent"
If her reaction to his behaviour is to start an affair, then she really needs to have a good think about leaving him.
Just my opinion, of course. |
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first thoughts no, and shame on the for asking me.
They have their reasons for doing what they are doing, whether or not i agree with is is another matter but i wouldnot want to be involved or implicated i the inevitable fall out.
As for the comment saying they would tell the OH, i wouldnt feel that was my place either. leave well enough alone is my view. |
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An affair can also be an escape from a bad situation ...
..... soon you lot will be going along the " think about the kids " route, who may or may not exist.
As has has been said before the OP needs to add more info if not to only attract knee jerk reactions. |
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"absolutely nofukkingway!!
just because you know about it doesnt mean you have to condone it, let alone help him cheat on his poor OH.
would you like it if he helped your missus do it on you? (i know your single, but when you had someone)
Him??? Who said him??"
apologies, that was a little presumtuous.
however, i would guess that if OP was not certain about THIS question, then if the best friend was of the female variety, he would be having his bit also, not just not sure whether to help or not .lol |
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"plus it someone that they all think should leave a d*unken husband just d*unk not vilent"
so surely the offer should be 'i have a spare room, leave him' not 'i have a spare room, come and fuck someone behind his back and possibly make him violent as well as d*unk, if he ever found out' |
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"absolutely nofukkingway!!
just because you know about it doesnt mean you have to condone it, let alone help him cheat on his poor OH.
would you like it if he helped your missus do it on you? (i know your single, but when you had someone)
Him??? Who said him??
apologies, that was a little presumtuous.
however, i would guess that if OP was not certain about THIS question, then if the best friend was of the female variety, he would be having his bit also, not just not sure whether to help or not .lol"
so now you are saying tht as the OP is male and his friend is female they are having sex together? |
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"absolutely nofukkingway!!
just because you know about it doesnt mean you have to condone it, let alone help him cheat on his poor OH.
would you like it if he helped your missus do it on you? (i know your single, but when you had someone)
Him??? Who said him??
apologies, that was a little presumtuous.
however, i would guess that if OP was not certain about THIS question, then if the best friend was of the female variety, he would be having his bit also, not just not sure whether to help or not .lol
so now you are saying tht as the OP is male and his friend is female they are having sex together?"
nope, not having, i said he would want to if he found out she was having an affair.
just an opinion |
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"absolutely nofukkingway!!
just because you know about it doesnt mean you have to condone it, let alone help him cheat on his poor OH.
would you like it if he helped your missus do it on you? (i know your single, but when you had someone)
Him??? Who said him??
apologies, that was a little presumtuous.
however, i would guess that if OP was not certain about THIS question, then if the best friend was of the female variety, he would be having his bit also, not just not sure whether to help or not .lol
so now you are saying tht as the OP is male and his friend is female they are having sex together?
nope, not having, i said he would want to if he found out she was having an affair.
just an opinion"
because he asked this question?
sorry for all the questions but i dont understand the leap between asking this question and them sleeping with each other.
to me the question was should he turn a blind eye, not if i let her do you think she will let me slip her one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"An affair can also be an escape from a bad situation ...
..... soon you lot will be going along the " think about the kids " route, who may or may not exist.
As has has been said before the OP needs to add more info if not to only attract knee jerk reactions."
I agree more would help avoid anyone making assumptions
But, as you have said yourself, the affair could be her escaping a bad situation ....that's why I said she should be thinking about leaving her husband (kids or no kids involved). |
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She has her own bedroom. Let her do it there. Why should you go out or clean sheets or be part of what goes on. She's disgusting for asking you. Why can't she just do it when her husband ( who incidentally is ill ) blacks out from booze.
Don't even consider it. If she falls out with you you've lost nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To be honest if one of my close friends put me in such a compromising position as to even ask that then they would probably not be a close friend for much longer... |
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For some reason this thread reminds me of when me and my ex were at a nudie camping for the first time ever.
My ex went to the toilet or somewhere after a certain hour, and everyone looked at her weird because she was topless and they were all clothed.
Guess I just don't know what the rules are.
It's only sex, it's only a spare room.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would not let my friend use one of my rooms for sex, but I wouldn't say anything about her having an affair.
I have 3 very close girlfriends and whatever they do, regardless of whether I feel its wrong, I would be there for them, and support them and not judge them. The husbands wouldn't be able to drag any info about them out of me as I am loyal to them.
If they asked me I would tell them that I'd feel uncomfortable about them being with a lover in my house using it for sex. But I know they wouldn't ever ask that, even if they were having an affair, as I wouldn't go around their houses for sex either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest if one of my close friends put me in such a compromising position as to even ask that then they would probably not be a close friend for much longer..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't judge em but no I wouldn't help em either xx"
That's a far thing to say but I couldn't have it on my conscience I was a co conspirator though as someone always gets hurt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't judge em but no I wouldn't help em either xx
That's a far thing to say but I couldn't have it on my conscience I was a co conspirator though as someone always gets hurt."
The reason behind that is shameful to say I'm in no position to judge
Many years ago I succumbed it's something I'm not proud of and have never repeated xx  |
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