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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's more guys on this site than females, the ladies are pestered everyday by guys and cock pics and messages like "wanna fuck"
I find it hard to hold a convo on here but it is what it is
But there's some genuine ladies on here, all you have to do is be different on your messages and be genuine and it will flow from there...
Also if anyone has any tip please share them |
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"Definitely not ugly. Its only been 9 weeks and you already got a veri. Id say you doing better than most. "
It took me 9 months before I got a meet off here, but even then I wasn't sending faf messages. Get to know people on the forums, show a little humour and respect, and treat it as another tool in your box. I bet you would do better at pulling a lady in a pub than I would   |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Nothing to do with looks OP- yes attraction comes into it and you can't be physically attractive to all, but regardless of looks it comes down to a number of factors ultimately.
Profile - is yours the best reflection of you, what you're looking for, and can offer possible? Does it entice and pique interest? Take a look and be honest with yourself, would you reply to you if you sent yourself a message? People will look at your profile before even opening a message, and often make a decision based on that.
Pics - do they show your body off, and tease and tantalise, making someone want to see more?
Attitude - be positive at all times, without being arrogant
Approach - often guys think sending cold messages is the only way to interact, if you find that's not working for you, think about how else you could use the site and the lifestyle to get to know people and them you - the forums are a great way, and the chat rooms too, or clubs and group socials.
Expectations - set them to the lowest possible setting and then take them down a notch further.
None of the above is a guarantee of course, but it will enhance your experience of the site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I join this thread?? I feel ugly inside because I'm too nice and respectful and it doesn't get me anywhere on here or in clubs 
Being respectful isn't a bad thing at all... "
I'm a shy kind of respectful atm |
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