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Are you a Narcissist ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you suspect you could be one, do you have Narcissistic traits, if you do, then you’re not one, narcissists have no self awareness, so if you don’t think you are one, then you could well be one. Enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course I'm not. You're always picking on me. Every thread you write is a dig at me. Look at my threads, they're the best. I own this forum, you'd be nothing without me. Now where is that guy I was talking to, he's infatuated with me. |
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"Of course I'm not. You're always picking on me. Every thread you write is a dig at me. Look at my threads, they're the best. I own this forum, you'd be nothing without me. Now where is that guy I was talking to, he's infatuated with me. "
Give a woman an enormous penis and look what happens...... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I can be at times, at others I am full of self doubt."
This. Just looked at the traits and it doesn’t look good, I think I could be one, therefore I’m not one, phew. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course I'm not. You're always picking on me. Every thread you write is a dig at me. Look at my threads, they're the best. I own this forum, you'd be nothing without me. Now where is that guy I was talking to, he's infatuated with me.
Give a woman an enormous penis and look what happens...... "
She will walk funny |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Of course I'm not. You're always picking on me. Every thread you write is a dig at me. Look at my threads, they're the best. I own this forum, you'd be nothing without me. Now where is that guy I was talking to, he's infatuated with me.
Give a woman an enormous penis and look what happens...... "
It’s amazing how I stay so humble, give me a massive pair of tits and I’d be unbearable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course I'm not. You're always picking on me. Every thread you write is a dig at me. Look at my threads, they're the best. I own this forum, you'd be nothing without me. Now where is that guy I was talking to, he's infatuated with me.
Give a woman an enormous penis and look what happens...... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you suspect you could be one, do you have Narcissistic traits, if you do, then you’re not one, narcissists have no self awareness, so if you don’t think you are one, then you could well be one. Enjoy."
Actually a lot of narcissists know they are but don’t care. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you suspect you could be one, do you have Narcissistic traits, if you do, then you’re not one, narcissists have no self awareness, so if you don’t think you are one, then you could well be one. Enjoy."
I'm more of a sadistic masochist but pleased to meet you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Narcissism is different from narcissistic abuse in a relationship. And yeah if you question if you are then you aren't as narcs will never question themselves, they believe they are superior and would never admit to faults or weaknesses.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Narcissism is different from narcissistic abuse in a relationship. And yeah if you question if you are then you aren't as narcs will never question themselves, they believe they are superior and would never admit to faults or weaknesses.
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I know one exactly like that in the forums  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does a narcissist know they are a narcissist?
No, they’re totally Oblivious."
Even when you tell them and give examples of their behaviour they still can't see it. It's very frustrating. |
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"Narcissism is different from narcissistic abuse in a relationship. And yeah if you question if you are then you aren't as narcs will never question themselves, they believe they are superior and would never admit to faults or weaknesses.
I know one exactly like that in the forums "
If I give you a mirror, you can see one  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does a narcissist know they are a narcissist?
No, they’re totally Oblivious.
No they aren’t necessarily "
I’ve studied this for over two minutes now by googling some bollocks on google, don’t question my authority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Narcissism is different from narcissistic abuse in a relationship. And yeah if you question if you are then you aren't as narcs will never question themselves, they believe they are superior and would never admit to faults or weaknesses.
I know one exactly like that in the forums
If I give you a mirror, you can see one "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does a narcissist know they are a narcissist?
No, they’re totally Oblivious.
No they aren’t necessarily
I’ve studied this for over two minutes now by googling some bollocks on google, don’t question my authority."
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/speaking-of-science/wp/2014/08/05/you-only-need-a-one-question-test-to-identify-a-narcissist/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.2c356e7b36b8
Another perspective |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Narcissism is different from narcissistic abuse in a relationship. And yeah if you question if you are then you aren't as narcs will never question themselves, they believe they are superior and would never admit to faults or weaknesses.
I know one exactly like that in the forums "
Ooh, I wonder who you mean. It’s okay, I know.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Narcissism is different from narcissistic abuse in a relationship. And yeah if you question if you are then you aren't as narcs will never question themselves, they believe they are superior and would never admit to faults or weaknesses.
I know one exactly like that in the forums
Ooh, I wonder who you mean. It’s okay, I know. "
I know you know and that I know you know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What, Tame? Narcissistic?
Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.
We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What, Tame? Narcissistic?
Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.
We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare. "
Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What, Tame? Narcissistic?
Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.
We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.
Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!! "
No, you Apologised once. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What, Tame? Narcissistic?
Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.
We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.
Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!! "
That is top of the diagnostic criteria..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What, Tame? Narcissistic?
Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.
We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.
Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!
That is top of the diagnostic criteria..... "
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"What, Tame? Narcissistic?
Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.
We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.
Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!
No, you Apologised once."
Never apologising doesn't = narcissism. It doesn't even = not being sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What, Tame? Narcissistic?
Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.
We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.
Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!
No, you Apologised once.
Never apologising doesn't = narcissism. It doesn't even = not being sorry."
Not everything I write is = serious. |
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"What, Tame? Narcissistic?
Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.
We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.
Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!
No, you Apologised once.
Never apologising doesn't = narcissism. It doesn't even = not being sorry.
Not everything I write is = serious."
Yeah I know. What I wrote = serious. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What, Tame? Narcissistic?
Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.
We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.
Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!
No, you Apologised once.
Never apologising doesn't = narcissism. It doesn't even = not being sorry.
Not everything I write is = serious.
Yeah I know. What I wrote = serious. "
Huh ?! |
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"What, Tame? Narcissistic?
Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.
We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.
Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!
No, you Apologised once.
Never apologising doesn't = narcissism. It doesn't even = not being sorry.
Not everything I write is = serious.
Yeah I know. What I wrote = serious.
Huh ?! "
Good God Y'all ... what is it good fuh ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What, Tame? Narcissistic?
Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.
We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.
Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!
No, you Apologised once.
Never apologising doesn't = narcissism. It doesn't even = not being sorry.
Not everything I write is = serious.
Yeah I know. What I wrote = serious.
Huh ?!
Good God Y'all ... what is it good fuh ?"
Nice deflection, even you didn’t know what you meant. |
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"What, Tame? Narcissistic?
Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.
We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.
Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!
No, you Apologised once.
Never apologising doesn't = narcissism. It doesn't even = not being sorry.
Not everything I write is = serious.
Yeah I know. What I wrote = serious.
Huh ?!
Good God Y'all ... what is it good fuh ?
Nice deflection, even you didn’t know what you meant. "
I know what I meant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay you were wrong. Okay ?
Narcissistic trait never admitting you’re wrong!
you serious ?
Why, is that a narcissist trait too ?"
Argumentative=narcissistic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay you were wrong. Okay ?
Narcissistic trait never admitting you’re wrong!
you serious ?
Why, is that a narcissist trait too ?
Argumentative=narcissistic
No it doesn't "
OK you win |
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"Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous.
Yes. As I recall. You are.
Want your teeth back granny? I could write you a song 
Life is thuckin' without them. x "
As I recall that’s why I stole them. I’ll dhl them, your posts need more bite |
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"Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous.
Yes. As I recall. You are.
Want your teeth back granny? I could write you a song
Life is thuckin' without them. x
As I recall that’s why I stole them. I’ll dhl them, your posts need more bite "
I've metamorphosised. It's emote emote emote all the way these days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous.
Yes. As I recall. You are.
Want your teeth back granny? I could write you a song
Life is thuckin' without them. x
As I recall that’s why I stole them. I’ll dhl them, your posts need more bite "
Ahhhhh good evening pauly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's a narcissist?"
This!
The DSM-5 indicates that persons with NPD usually display some or all of the following symptoms, typically without the commensurate qualities or accomplishments:
Grandiosity with expectations of superior treatment from other people
Fixation on fantasies of power, success, intelligence, attractiveness, etc.
Self-perception of being unique, superior, and associated with high-status people and institutions
Need for continual admiration from others
Sense of entitlement to special treatment and to obedience from others
Exploitation of others to achieve personal gain
Unwillingness to empathize with the feelings, wishes, and needs of other people
Intense envy of others, and the belief that others are equally envious of them
Constantly demeans, bullies and belittles others |
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"Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous.
Yes. As I recall. You are.
Want your teeth back granny? I could write you a song
Life is thuckin' without them. x
As I recall that’s why I stole them. I’ll dhl them, your posts need more bite
I've metamorphosised. It's emote emote emote all the way these days."
Your words, like your teeth, are a loss to the world..... I’m going to start a crowdfunder |
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"Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous.
Yes. As I recall. You are.
Want your teeth back granny? I could write you a song
Life is thuckin' without them. x
As I recall that’s why I stole them. I’ll dhl them, your posts need more bite
Ahhhhh good evening pauly"
Nope try again, but really really close xx |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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"Do you suspect you could be one, do you have Narcissistic traits, if you do, then you’re not one, narcissists have no self awareness, so if you don’t think you are one, then you could well be one. Enjoy."
Ah a form of Catch22 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's a narcissist?
This!
The DSM-5 indicates that persons with NPD usually display some or all of the following symptoms, typically without the commensurate qualities or accomplishments:
Grandiosity with expectations of superior treatment from other people
Fixation on fantasies of power, success, intelligence, attractiveness, etc.
Self-perception of being unique, superior, and associated with high-status people and institutions
Need for continual admiration from others
Sense of entitlement to special treatment and to obedience from others
Exploitation of others to achieve personal gain
Unwillingness to empathize with the feelings, wishes, and needs of other people
Intense envy of others, and the belief that others are equally envious of them
Constantly demeans, bullies and belittles others"
I'm definitely not narcissistic then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous.
Yes. As I recall. You are.
Want your teeth back granny? I could write you a song
Life is thuckin' without them. x
As I recall that’s why I stole them. I’ll dhl them, your posts need more bite
Ahhhhh good evening pauly
Nope try again, but really really close xx"
Is it Paul or pauly or am I on the wrong bloke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's a narcissist?
This!
The DSM-5 indicates that persons with NPD usually display some or all of the following symptoms, typically without the commensurate qualities or accomplishments:
Grandiosity with expectations of superior treatment from other people
Fixation on fantasies of power, success, intelligence, attractiveness, etc.
Self-perception of being unique, superior, and associated with high-status people and institutions
Need for continual admiration from others
Sense of entitlement to special treatment and to obedience from others
Exploitation of others to achieve personal gain
Unwillingness to empathize with the feelings, wishes, and needs of other people
Intense envy of others, and the belief that others are equally envious of them
Constantly demeans, bullies and belittles others"
That sounds very familiar...
Tea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's a narcissist?
This!
The DSM-5 indicates that persons with NPD usually display some or all of the following symptoms, typically without the commensurate qualities or accomplishments:
Grandiosity with expectations of superior treatment from other people
Fixation on fantasies of power, success, intelligence, attractiveness, etc.
Self-perception of being unique, superior, and associated with high-status people and institutions
Need for continual admiration from others
Sense of entitlement to special treatment and to obedience from others
Exploitation of others to achieve personal gain
Unwillingness to empathize with the feelings, wishes, and needs of other people
Intense envy of others, and the belief that others are equally envious of them
Constantly demeans, bullies and belittles others
That sounds very familiar...
Tea"
I was thinking of you as I read this the first time. 'wow!' I said to myself, 'this is exactly like Tea Monkey and all the terrible things he says and does to people on the forums. What a diva!'.
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"What's a narcissist?
This!
The DSM-5 indicates that persons with NPD usually display some or all of the following symptoms, typically without the commensurate qualities or accomplishments:
Grandiosity with expectations of superior treatment from other people
Fixation on fantasies of power, success, intelligence, attractiveness, etc.
Self-perception of being unique, superior, and associated with high-status people and institutions
Need for continual admiration from others
Sense of entitlement to special treatment and to obedience from others
Exploitation of others to achieve personal gain
Unwillingness to empathize with the feelings, wishes, and needs of other people
Intense envy of others, and the belief that others are equally envious of them
Constantly demeans, bullies and belittles others"
That’s me ex right there. He was also diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. Living with him was quite an eye opener to say the least  |
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I was married to a narcissist for 17 yes but didn’t know till 5 yrs after we split so I took great pleasure in telling him he was.
Result was he tells everyone I’m narcissistic as I’m the controlling one. I question whether I am quite often but then realize I can’t be if I am questioning myself.
Oh and I’m not controlling it’s just my way is always best!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You’re thinking of narcissistic personality disorder, which is different from narcissism. Every human being on the planet has narcissistic traits, though, not to the degree that it would be labelled as a disorder.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it the same thing as being an utter twat? I reckon most things in life tend to belong on a scale or spectrum, I'd say we're all a bit narcy at times. Don't fear the label, innit....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You’re thinking of narcissistic personality disorder, which is different from narcissism. Every human being on the planet has narcissistic traits, though, not to the degree that it would be labelled as a disorder.
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I’m fully aware what the difference between the two is authority on everything guy, I think I stated both. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is it the same thing as being an utter twat? I reckon most things in life tend to belong on a scale or spectrum, I'd say we're all a bit narcy at times. Don't fear the label, innit....
Xteve"
Nah, twats have a level of self awareness.
We’re all on the spectrum but some people are so far along they’re out of sight.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My understanding of NPD is that there are three different types of narcissist and five subtypes.
Narcissistism isn't necessarily a bad thing. Most successful people are narcissists. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You’re thinking of narcissistic personality disorder, which is different from narcissism. Every human being on the planet has narcissistic traits, though, not to the degree that it would be labelled as a disorder.
I’m fully aware what the difference between the two is authority on everything guy, I think I stated both. "
No, you never. I’m right and you’re wrong. It’s so f*cking hard always being more intelligent than everyone else!
The world couldn’t handle there being more of me. I’m too god damn perfect. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You’re thinking of narcissistic personality disorder, which is different from narcissism. Every human being on the planet has narcissistic traits, though, not to the degree that it would be labelled as a disorder.
I’m fully aware what the difference between the two is authority on everything guy, I think I stated both.
No, you never. I’m right and you’re wrong. It’s so f*cking hard always being more intelligent than everyone else!
The world couldn’t handle there being more of me. I’m too god damn perfect. "
See what you did there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's a narcissist?
This!
The DSM-5 indicates that persons with NPD usually display some or all of the following symptoms, typically without the commensurate qualities or accomplishments:
Grandiosity with expectations of superior treatment from other people
Fixation on fantasies of power, success, intelligence, attractiveness, etc.
Self-perception of being unique, superior, and associated with high-status people and institutions
Need for continual admiration from others
Sense of entitlement to special treatment and to obedience from others
Exploitation of others to achieve personal gain
Unwillingness to empathize with the feelings, wishes, and needs of other people
Intense envy of others, and the belief that others are equally envious of them
Constantly demeans, bullies and belittles others
That’s me ex right there. He was also diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. Living with him was quite an eye opener to say the least "
Blumin' eck - that’s like a whole corporate office worth of people all in one!
Respect to you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we're over complicating narcissism here, just look for those that are always starting threads about themselves and you've found your subject matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well .......... I just did a narcy test. Can't vouch for it but obvs I believe in it cos I scored reet low.....
So there you have it. Dr. Internet says i'm great. "
Which test was it? I think we should all do it. |
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