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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hehe Sorry, It just slipped out 
Our main reason is normally because they are to far away or after a couple of messages find they have no sence of humour.
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Reckon myself that it's too easy to set things up from behind the keyboard, but when it comes to the crunch it's like, "fucking weather, can't really afford it, too far to travel, Match of the Day on the beeb" might as well have a wank.
- said from the point of view from a couple who don't come here to organize meets.
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Well if im not interested in what they say in the first message it doesnt get any further. Sometimes ive sent a few messages backwards and forwards and then theyve bored me or i didnt like something they said. Its not often i get as far as someone actually asking me for a meet properly(ie getting to know me first) that i turn someone down. Usually if they have gotten as far as asking me properly im going to accept |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They don't want NSA fun. Many singles are looking for a relationship.
I'm happy to have a meaningful relationship once or twice a month, date, drinks, meal, sleepover.
on most occasions they have wanted more than NSA. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One on one meets can't really compete with the thrill of a club and as my OH is travelling either around this country or in Germany then time is the biggest factor for arranging meets. Clubs need no planning to the nth degree and don't require a long list of criteria to be met, so that's mainly why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One on one meets can't really compete with the thrill of a club and as my OH is travelling either around this country or in Germany then time is the biggest factor for arranging meets. Clubs need no planning to the nth degree and don't require a long list of criteria to be met, so that's mainly why "
i agree with that, the no planning bit, tho i have to be honest i do prefer private meets over clubs as i just prefer the intamacy, a real bed and not having everyone groping at you at times i get so fed up with guys off here arranging meets then pulling out it just seems to make more sence to get ready and go to a club |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
because they end up asking me stuff so i know they haven't read me profile....
that and doing a job with unsocialable shifts meand that i am unavailable a lot.... well.. that is what i tell meself! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not read my profile - just perved the pics and have nothing in common in terms of interests or wants! Expecting that as a single guy i'll obviously say yes to all and sundry! Getting stroppy when you can't drop everything else in your life just to fit in with their schedule!
Oh - and if i've got something else plannes - another meet/work/spartacus is on! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Either I don't find myself attracted to them for whatever reason such as they are illiterate, dull, have poor hygiene or suchlike.
Or a meet is scuppered due to my working hours, which at times can be nothing short of ridiculous.
I also agree with NN, a first time meet arranged with someone I quite fancy (ironically she herself fits extremely well into this bracket) is usually much more intimate when conducted in a private setting. You also have a lot more carte blanche to explore your raw animal side and indulge in any naughty little kinks that make both of you horny as hell, without the possibility of others frowning upon your deviant behaviour...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me its down to people not living up to their profile. Either not looking much like pictures or pushing on cam to let them wank off for you. So failing to live up to their own hype would be about right. |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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"for turning down a meet?"
to short (for k), to young for either of us (but if pushed  )to far away, single guys obviously playing away, we just don't like the profile.
Well that should get us a few meets lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age and location are 2 of our biggest rejections. If they are really young we just don't feel comfortable and also if they are the other end of the country just rules them out for us. |
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