Just a curious question I have a women in my friends list i won't say who but I think we have exchanged messages to each other once whenever she is online I messages her but I get nothing back not even a read msg and no I don't expect a reply she's been getting stood up and I want to show I care but she doesn't notice my msg I know women get ridiculous amount of messages on a daily occasion which isn't fair but should I keep trying or should I just unfriendly her and just leave it be I don't want to feel like I'm annoying her so I don't know what to do any input would be great  |
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"Just a curious question I have a women in my friends list i won't say who but I think we have exchanged messages to each other once whenever she is online I messages her but I get nothing back not even a read msg and no I don't expect a reply she's been getting stood up and I want to show I care but she doesn't notice my msg I know women get ridiculous amount of messages on a daily occasion which isn't fair but should I keep trying or should I just unfriendly her and just leave it be I don't want to feel like I'm annoying her so I don't know what to do any input would be great "
Block her that works wonders!!!! |
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"Just a curious question I have a women in my friends list i won't say who but I think we have exchanged messages to each other once whenever she is online I messages her but I get nothing back not even a read msg and no I don't expect a reply she's been getting stood up and I want to show I care but she doesn't notice my msg I know women get ridiculous amount of messages on a daily occasion which isn't fair but should I keep trying or should I just unfriendly her and just leave it be I don't want to feel like I'm annoying her so I don't know what to do any input would be great
Block her that works wonders!!!!"
you obviously like her mate so try again |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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Blocking, ignoring and deleting messages are often the only way to get rid of those that aren’t aware they’re coming across as irritating or overly pushy or butthurt.
That’s not at all saying that this is what you’re doing OP. But it probably does relate to some people. |
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over a year ago
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Erm you want to show her you care?
Is it only me that is concerned by that statement?
I'm guessing you messaged maybe once or twice and have never spoken on the phone or met. And now you are wanting to show her you care about her!
Red flag to me that one and very worrying!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"look it's obvious this woman is leading you on
How can she possibly leading him on? She’s not replying to him 
exactly "
Exactly what?!
She isn’t leading him on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You think or you know? You tend to know if someone has messaged you once. It's when it gets into double figures that you think it was 27 or 18, etc.
I know...I'm a cynic. |
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Oh wow this exploded fairly quick lol ah thanks for the replies yeah I don't want to sound pushy by keep sending messages cos I know how annoying that can get I might just let her be and just move on just confused with being on her friends list is all unless she was completely pissed at the time she accepted the request lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It sounds like she's not interested, so I'm a bit bemused as to why she's not unfriended you. You should get shot of her. "
 Sounds like she just likes the attention OP. Get rid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh wow this exploded fairly quick lol ah thanks for the replies yeah I don't want to sound pushy by keep sending messages cos I know how annoying that can get I might just let her be and just move on just confused with being on her friends list is all unless she was completely pissed at the time she accepted the request lol"
I’ve accidentally accepted requests before and not noticed for months. Especially when I had first joined |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a curious question I have a women in my friends list i won't say who but I think we have exchanged messages to each other once whenever she is online I messages her but I get nothing back not even a read msg and no I don't expect a reply she's been getting stood up and I want to show I care but she doesn't notice my msg I know women get ridiculous amount of messages on a daily occasion which isn't fair but should I keep trying or should I just unfriendly her and just leave it be I don't want to feel like I'm annoying her so I don't know what to do any input would be great "
Is she someone you have previously met or just someone you sent a request to and you're reading about her misfortunes on your local updates? Id unfriend her tbh |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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As somebody who has been on the receiving end of such behaviour (and I don't mean just on here, on a much grander scale that I won't go in to),just accept that she is not interested. The less you have chatted/know the people doing this the easier it is to accept, so be thankful and move on.
Yeah sure it is a shitty thing for a person to do in general (again, talking on a wider scale than just fab) by ignoring somebody but people do such things because they take the easy route and find it much simpler for them to just ghost you/ignore you. |
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"Just a curious question I have a women in my friends list i won't say who but I think we have exchanged messages to each other once whenever she is online I messages her but I get nothing back not even a read msg and no I don't expect a reply she's been getting stood up and I want to show I care but she doesn't notice my msg I know women get ridiculous amount of messages on a daily occasion which isn't fair but should I keep trying or should I just unfriendly her and just leave it be I don't want to feel like I'm annoying her so I don't know what to do any input would be great
Is she someone you have previously met or just someone you sent a request to and you're reading about her misfortunes on your local updates? Id unfriend her tbh"
Well I didn't randomly send a friend request to her we chatted for a little before hand then nothing after that just annoys me when you think your getting somewhere then the door gets slammed in your face but I do try to not let it get to me not easy tho lol |
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