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over a year ago
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Am i the uglyiest man on here. Can't seem to get any attention. I know men are blah blah blah to dozen. But come on. Don't judge me on what you see. I'm more than meet's the eye |
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"Am i the uglyiest man on here. Can't seem to get any attention. I know men are blah blah blah to dozen. But come on. Don't judge me on what you see. I'm more than meet's the eye"
Nahhhhh, I look rough too, it makes no difference. A confident but ugly man can very easily beat the good looking ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am i the uglyiest man on here. Can't seem to get any attention. I know men are blah blah blah to dozen. But come on. Don't judge me on what you see. I'm more than meet's the eye"
I think everyone can struggle on here at times. It's usually nothing to do with looks.
You get what you put in.
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You look good op, I fabbed a couple of your pics 
Getting meets is only about having good looks - and beauty is always in the eyes of the beholder - it's about personality and matched preferences. Plus, as you state, the competition is high for you single guys, so someone else may just have a better match of something else that's important, such as availability or they manage to communicate their essence in a way that captivates someone at the right point in time.
There's loads of advice in the forum on how to make the best of fab, covering how you promote yourself, meeting at socials etc. A key thing can often be to ensure that expectations are realistic. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You’re certainly not the ugliest guy on here, so I’m guessing it’s the numbers game or something else, maybe the way you message for example?
You haven’t asked for profile critique so I won’t go there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, you're far from the ugliest man on Fab, but the numbers are a huge problem. Men need to work hard to get meets on here, mostly. "
This. Though sometimes hard work still isn't enough op, it takes patience and a ducks back also  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are okay to me yet I am homosexual who only fuck women in their asses.
True
He’s actually balls deep in me now "
Not deep enough as she can still write on the forums |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"You are okay to me yet I am homosexual who only fuck women in their asses.
True
He’s actually balls deep in me now
Not deep enough as she can still write on the forums "
Your profile pics are proving very distracting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are okay to me yet I am homosexual who only fuck women in their asses.
True
He’s actually balls deep in me now
Not deep enough as she can still write on the forums
Your profile pics are proving very distracting "
Send me your hairy minge please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are okay to me yet I am homosexual who only fuck women in their asses.
True
He’s actually balls deep in me now
Not deep enough as she can still write on the forums "
I’m good at multitasking |
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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago
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"Am i the uglyiest man on here. Can't seem to get any attention. I know men are blah blah blah to dozen. But come on. Don't judge me on what you see. I'm more than meet's the eye"
Happens to loads of men mate. You're not the only one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, you're far from the ugliest man on Fab, but the numbers are a huge problem. Men need to work hard to get meets on here, mostly. Thank you. If i could change the number's i would "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You’re certainly not the ugliest guy on here, so I’m guessing it’s the numbers game or something else, maybe the way you message for example?
You haven’t asked for profile critique so I won’t go there. What should i do to make my profile stand out "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You are okay to me yet I am homosexual who only fuck women in their asses.
True
He’s actually balls deep in me now
Not deep enough as she can still write on the forums
Your profile pics are proving very distracting "
What do you mean my pics are distracting |
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I don't think you're bad looking at all but you ask not to be judged on your looks then you say you don't want skinny women or women with loads of verifications. We all have a type granted on the first bit, but the second part definitely has a judgment there. I'd probably aim to take some of that out of your profile and focus on being more positive about yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't fall into the trap of believing its all about looks. To do well you have to be patient and be yourself.
You'll do alright mate, give it time."
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"You’ve been on for 5 months and had one meet that’s not bad going I know some who haven’t had one since 2016
Shame it will happen for you....  maybe I do my meeting elsewhere "
Yeh back of Lidl by the bins.... |
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"You’ve been on for 5 months and had one meet that’s not bad going I know some who haven’t had one since 2016
Shame it will happen for you.... maybe I do my meeting elsewhere
Yeh back of Lidl by the bins.... "
Waitrose I don’t shop at cheap shops |
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"You’ve been on for 5 months and had one meet that’s not bad going I know some who haven’t had one since 2016
Shame it will happen for you.... maybe I do my meeting elsewhere
Yeh back of Lidl by the bins.... Waitrose I don’t shop at cheap shops "
*Cough* errrrrrr ok.... |
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"You’ve been on for 5 months and had one meet that’s not bad going I know some who haven’t had one since 2016
Shame it will happen for you.... maybe I do my meeting elsewhere
Yeh back of Lidl by the bins.... Waitrose I don’t shop at cheap shops
*Cough* errrrrrr ok.... "
There's a Waitrose in Rhyl now?!? Jeez, whatever next! Xxx |
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"You’ve been on for 5 months and had one meet that’s not bad going I know some who haven’t had one since 2016
Shame it will happen for you.... maybe I do my meeting elsewhere
Yeh back of Lidl by the bins.... Waitrose I don’t shop at cheap shops
*Cough* errrrrrr ok.... "
Ahh, excuse me, I misread.. lol |
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"You’ve been on for 5 months and had one meet that’s not bad going I know some who haven’t had one since 2016
Shame it will happen for you.... maybe I do my meeting elsewhere
Yeh back of Lidl by the bins.... Waitrose I don’t shop at cheap shops
*Cough* errrrrrr ok....
There's a Waitrose in Rhyl now?!? Jeez, whatever next! Xxx"
Oi!!!!  |
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"You’ve been on for 5 months and had one meet that’s not bad going I know some who haven’t had one since 2016
Shame it will happen for you.... maybe I do my meeting elsewhere
Yeh back of Lidl by the bins.... Waitrose I don’t shop at cheap shops
*Cough* errrrrrr ok....
There's a Waitrose in Rhyl now?!? Jeez, whatever next! Xxx
Oi!!!! "
Looool, but seriously, imagine it! A Waitrose in Rhyl! :D I'd put it in bath street. Lol. |
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"You’ve been on for 5 months and had one meet that’s not bad going I know some who haven’t had one since 2016
Shame it will happen for you.... maybe I do my meeting elsewhere
Yeh back of Lidl by the bins.... Waitrose I don’t shop at cheap shops
*Cough* errrrrrr ok....
There's a Waitrose in Rhyl now?!? Jeez, whatever next! Xxx
Oi!!!!
Looool, but seriously, imagine it! A Waitrose in Rhyl! :D I'd put it in bath street. Lol."
Douche  |
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"You’ve been on for 5 months and had one meet that’s not bad going I know some who haven’t had one since 2016
Shame it will happen for you.... maybe I do my meeting elsewhere
Yeh back of Lidl by the bins.... Waitrose I don’t shop at cheap shops
*Cough* errrrrrr ok....
There's a Waitrose in Rhyl now?!? Jeez, whatever next! Xxx
Oi!!!!
Looool, but seriously, imagine it! A Waitrose in Rhyl! :D I'd put it in bath street. Lol.
Douche "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You’re certainly not the ugliest guy on here, so I’m guessing it’s the numbers game or something else, maybe the way you message for example?
You haven’t asked for profile critique so I won’t go there. What should i do to make my profile stand out "
I’ve looked again and you’ve changed the wording for the better. I thought it was quite negative before leading with DONT.
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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago
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"You’re certainly not the ugliest guy on here, so I’m guessing it’s the numbers game or something else, maybe the way you message for example?
You haven’t asked for profile critique so I won’t go there. What should i do to make my profile stand out
I’ve looked again and you’ve changed the wording for the better. I thought it was quite negative before leading with DONT.
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I agree, it reads much better now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get about a message week on here, the odd one on Fet and the same with other sites. My gf gets about 70 a day (we have separate accounts). The vast majority of messages she receives are completely cringeworthy and barely readable - not at all surprised that men get such a bad name on dating/swinging sites in general, we’re an embarrassment and incredibly fragile little things! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You’re certainly not the ugliest guy on here, so I’m guessing it’s the numbers game or something else, maybe the way you message for example?
You haven’t asked for profile critique so I won’t go there. What should i do to make my profile stand out
I’ve looked again and you’ve changed the wording for the better. I thought it was quite negative before leading with DONT.
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Thank you. I'll work on it more x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get about a message week on here, the odd one on Fet and the same with other sites. My gf gets about 70 a day (we have separate accounts). The vast majority of messages she receives are completely cringeworthy and barely readable - not at all surprised that men get such a bad name on dating/swinging sites in general, we’re an embarrassment and incredibly fragile little things! "
Why do you think that message imbalance is? Because we are fragile? Because we're more prone to thinking about sex? Objectify more? There's more men on these sites? Genuinely curious! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You’re certainly not the ugliest guy on here, so I’m guessing it’s the numbers game or something else, maybe the way you message for example?
You haven’t asked for profile critique so I won’t go there. "
Oooo, is there anywhere on here to ask for a profile critique?? Could definitely do with one myself! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get about a message week on here, the odd one on Fet and the same with other sites. My gf gets about 70 a day (we have separate accounts). The vast majority of messages she receives are completely cringeworthy and barely readable - not at all surprised that men get such a bad name on dating/swinging sites in general, we’re an embarrassment and incredibly fragile little things!
Why do you think that message imbalance is? Because we are fragile? Because we're more prone to thinking about sex? Objectify more? There's more men on these sites? Genuinely curious!"
Because for the most part, men are discourteous, think with their dicks, hound women with messages and have a severe lack of self-awareness. Yes, not ALL men, but the majority of men ruin it for other men. Of course, I’m generalising, but that’s my view on it. |
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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago
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"I get about a message week on here, the odd one on Fet and the same with other sites. My gf gets about 70 a day (we have separate accounts). The vast majority of messages she receives are completely cringeworthy and barely readable - not at all surprised that men get such a bad name on dating/swinging sites in general, we’re an embarrassment and incredibly fragile little things!
Why do you think that message imbalance is? Because we are fragile? Because we're more prone to thinking about sex? Objectify more? There's more men on these sites? Genuinely curious!
Because for the most part, men are discourteous, think with their dicks, hound women with messages and have a severe lack of self-awareness. Yes, not ALL men, but the majority of men ruin it for other men. Of course, I’m generalising, but that’s my view on it. "
I certainly wouldn't agree that it's the majority. Most messages I receive are polite and interesting. There are just a few bad apples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get about a message week on here, the odd one on Fet and the same with other sites. My gf gets about 70 a day (we have separate accounts). The vast majority of messages she receives are completely cringeworthy and barely readable - not at all surprised that men get such a bad name on dating/swinging sites in general, we’re an embarrassment and incredibly fragile little things!
Why do you think that message imbalance is? Because we are fragile? Because we're more prone to thinking about sex? Objectify more? There's more men on these sites? Genuinely curious!
Because for the most part, men are discourteous, think with their dicks, hound women with messages and have a severe lack of self-awareness. Yes, not ALL men, but the majority of men ruin it for other men. Of course, I’m generalising, but that’s my view on it.
I certainly wouldn't agree that it's the majority. Most messages I receive are polite and interesting. There are just a few bad apples. "
I’m just talking from my own experiences* with partners on and off here, and other sites, over the last 15 or so years.
*Experiences may differ from person to person. Batteries not included. No refunds! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get about a message week on here, the odd one on Fet and the same with other sites. My gf gets about 70 a day (we have separate accounts). The vast majority of messages she receives are completely cringeworthy and barely readable - not at all surprised that men get such a bad name on dating/swinging sites in general, we’re an embarrassment and incredibly fragile little things!
Why do you think that message imbalance is? Because we are fragile? Because we're more prone to thinking about sex? Objectify more? There's more men on these sites? Genuinely curious!
Because for the most part, men are discourteous, think with their dicks, hound women with messages and have a severe lack of self-awareness. Yes, not ALL men, but the majority of men ruin it for other men. Of course, I’m generalising, but that’s my view on it.
I certainly wouldn't agree that it's the majority. Most messages I receive are polite and interesting. There are just a few bad apples.
I’m just talking from my own experiences* with partners on and off here, and other sites, over the last 15 or so years.
*Experiences may differ from person to person. Batteries not included. No refunds!"
Interesting! So it's all relative it seems. Certainly the impression I get from other people is the same - that men ruin it for other people (very generally speaking). Its sad, but also hopeful and encouraging when woman say they've had mostly polite and nice messages |
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By *uxomBloomsWoman
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"I get about a message week on here, the odd one on Fet and the same with other sites. My gf gets about 70 a day (we have separate accounts). The vast majority of messages she receives are completely cringeworthy and barely readable - not at all surprised that men get such a bad name on dating/swinging sites in general, we’re an embarrassment and incredibly fragile little things!
Why do you think that message imbalance is? Because we are fragile? Because we're more prone to thinking about sex? Objectify more? There's more men on these sites? Genuinely curious!
Because for the most part, men are discourteous, think with their dicks, hound women with messages and have a severe lack of self-awareness. Yes, not ALL men, but the majority of men ruin it for other men. Of course, I’m generalising, but that’s my view on it.
I certainly wouldn't agree that it's the majority. Most messages I receive are polite and interesting. There are just a few bad apples.
I’m just talking from my own experiences* with partners on and off here, and other sites, over the last 15 or so years.
*Experiences may differ from person to person. Batteries not included. No refunds!
Interesting! So it's all relative it seems. Certainly the impression I get from other people is the same - that men ruin it for other people (very generally speaking). Its sad, but also hopeful and encouraging when woman say they've had mostly polite and nice messages "
I do like to see the positive in people. I know I couldn't do the initial contacting, I wouldn't have the courage so I'm not going to be too critical of men who do. |
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"I get about a message week on here, the odd one on Fet and the same with other sites. My gf gets about 70 a day (we have separate accounts). The vast majority of messages she receives are completely cringeworthy and barely readable - not at all surprised that men get such a bad name on dating/swinging sites in general, we’re an embarrassment and incredibly fragile little things!
Why do you think that message imbalance is? Because we are fragile? Because we're more prone to thinking about sex? Objectify more? There's more men on these sites? Genuinely curious!
Because for the most part, men are discourteous, think with their dicks, hound women with messages and have a severe lack of self-awareness. Yes, not ALL men, but the majority of men ruin it for other men. Of course, I’m generalising, but that’s my view on it.
I certainly wouldn't agree that it's the majority. Most messages I receive are polite and interesting. There are just a few bad apples.
I’m just talking from my own experiences* with partners on and off here, and other sites, over the last 15 or so years.
*Experiences may differ from person to person. Batteries not included. No refunds!
Interesting! So it's all relative it seems. Certainly the impression I get from other people is the same - that men ruin it for other people (very generally speaking). Its sad, but also hopeful and encouraging when woman say they've had mostly polite and nice messages
I do like to see the positive in people. I know I couldn't do the initial contacting, I wouldn't have the courage so I'm not going to be too critical of men who do. "
Aww, well it's very much appreciated and a good perspective to have generally in life |
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"I get about a message week on here, the odd one on Fet and the same with other sites. My gf gets about 70 a day (we have separate accounts). The vast majority of messages she receives are completely cringeworthy and barely readable - not at all surprised that men get such a bad name on dating/swinging sites in general, we’re an embarrassment and incredibly fragile little things!
Why do you think that message imbalance is? Because we are fragile? Because we're more prone to thinking about sex? Objectify more? There's more men on these sites? Genuinely curious!
Because for the most part, men are discourteous, think with their dicks, hound women with messages and have a severe lack of self-awareness. Yes, not ALL men, but the majority of men ruin it for other men. Of course, I’m generalising, but that’s my view on it. "
I agree with this comment. I've had many female friends on here and I've seen the messages which they get. For the most part, they're disgusting. Most of the messages show lack of respect, sexual desperation and major insecurities.
However, and this is a big deal... These guys do not spoil it for the rest of us - quite the opposite! Given the ratios on here, how on earth would I stand a chance if my competition were respectful, non-desperate, thinking men without insecurities? I wouldn't! Women are easily able to identify who is a freak and who isn't - so idiots actually increase my chances by making me look special (when I'm not particularly special at all!).
Regarding the actual numbers though, men are just generally more sexual. Men seem to instinctively look to sow their seed whereas women generally don't. It's a trend which goes through the animal kingdom. That's why the ratios on here are massively different, in my opinion anyway. |
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"I get about a message week on here, the odd one on Fet and the same with other sites. My gf gets about 70 a day (we have separate accounts). The vast majority of messages she receives are completely cringeworthy and barely readable - not at all surprised that men get such a bad name on dating/swinging sites in general, we’re an embarrassment and incredibly fragile little things!
Why do you think that message imbalance is? Because we are fragile? Because we're more prone to thinking about sex? Objectify more? There's more men on these sites? Genuinely curious!
Because for the most part, men are discourteous, think with their dicks, hound women with messages and have a severe lack of self-awareness. Yes, not ALL men, but the majority of men ruin it for other men. Of course, I’m generalising, but that’s my view on it.
I agree with this comment. I've had many female friends on here and I've seen the messages which they get. For the most part, they're disgusting. Most of the messages show lack of respect, sexual desperation and major insecurities.
However, and this is a big deal... These guys do not spoil it for the rest of us - quite the opposite! Given the ratios on here, how on earth would I stand a chance if my competition were respectful, non-desperate, thinking men without insecurities? I wouldn't! Women are easily able to identify who is a freak and who isn't - so idiots actually increase my chances by making me look special (when I'm not particularly special at all!).
Regarding the actual numbers though, men are just generally more sexual. Men seem to instinctively look to sow their seed whereas women generally don't. It's a trend which goes through the animal kingdom. That's why the ratios on here are massively different, in my opinion anyway."
Town shaming is one of em..... |
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Town shaming is one of em.....
One of what?
Lack of respect msgs.....on or off forum's....
Yes, that could be seen as a lack of respect too, amongst a hundred other things.. "
I saw it how it was....have a smashing night |
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Town shaming is one of em.....
One of what?
Lack of respect msgs.....on or off forum's....
Yes, that could be seen as a lack of respect too, amongst a hundred other things..
I saw it how it was....have a smashing night "
What? Ok, you have a smashing night too! Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am i the uglyiest man on here. Can't seem to get any attention. I know men are blah blah blah to dozen. But come on. Don't judge me on what you see. I'm more than meet's the eye"
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"OP, you're far from the ugliest man on Fab, but the numbers are a huge problem. Men need to work hard to get meets on here, mostly. "
is there an ugliest man on fab, beauty should be in the eye of the beholder, surely |
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