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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just me or does it really piss you off at times when people send you an invite. Or add you and then never engage you in any form of conversation at all. Or even make an effort full stop with you??? |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or does it really piss you off at times when people send you an invite. Or add you and then never engage you in any form of conversation at all. Or even make an effort full stop with you???"
It may be done because they want to see your pictures? For that reason I dont accept friend invites from anybody unless we had contact before.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does my head in to be honest but yeah pic collectors deffo. So there are female pic collectors then as well as males on here I spose grrrr
Fancy wanting to collect pics of my ugle mug hey haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not half!! It pisses us off big time and we get more couples just add themselves than anyone else.
It's like they think they're immune from the message asking people not too  |
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"Does my head in to be honest but yeah pic collectors deffo. So there are female pic collectors then as well as males on here I spose grrrr
Fancy wanting to collect pics of my ugle mug hey haha"
I would not say you are ugly...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only accept friends requests once we have had a conversation via messages & only then if we are looking to meet the people.
A lot of single guys posing as couples on these sites who just want free wank material.
Surprising how many disappear once you ask for fem-fem phone chat before adding them. lol |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or does it really piss you off at times when people send you an invite. Or add you and then never engage you in any form of conversation at all. Or even make an effort full stop with you???"
don't add 'em then.... simple as that....
if i get a friends invite before they talk.. i send them back one saying i am flattered but i prefer talking a little first before adding.. so say hi and we will take it from there..
if they then want to get to know.. they get back, if not... i know they are just interested in looking at pics (not that they are that interesting anyway....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does my head in to be honest but yeah pic collectors deffo. So there are female pic collectors then as well as males on here I spose grrrr
Fancy wanting to collect pics of my ugle mug hey haha
I would not say you are ugly... "
Aww bless ya hun cheers lol x |
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"Does my head in to be honest but yeah pic collectors deffo. So there are female pic collectors then as well as males on here I spose grrrr
Fancy wanting to collect pics of my ugle mug hey haha
I would not say you are ugly...
Aww bless ya hun cheers lol x"
No worries... Just make sure you get get your head out the door... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or does it really piss you off at times when people send you an invite. Or add you and then never engage you in any form of conversation at all. Or even make an effort full stop with you???"
No, not really.
Then again tolerance is my middle name, lol |
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"Does my head in to be honest but yeah pic collectors deffo. So there are female pic collectors then as well as males on here I spose grrrr
Fancy wanting to collect pics of my ugle mug hey haha
I would not say you are ugly... "
I'd think it but just not say it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We never lose 1 nanosecond of sleep worrying about it.
Lots more important things in life to worry about than friends requests on a swingers site"
So why take the time to read this and reply then? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can someone please read my friends invite topic in the 'swingers support and advice' room and answer my question please 
I swear I'm like the kiss of death to these forums lol  |
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"We never lose 1 nanosecond of sleep worrying about it.
Lots more important things in life to worry about than friends requests on a swingers site"
With you on that one, as per not getting bothered by tons of stuff people do on Fab/elsewhere.
It still surprises me that so many people do send friend requests to us all, without so much as a 'hi' or something. Maybe social skills are in short supply. Good reminder tho, I'm going to add a 'it's ok to wink' type line to the profile tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does my head in to be honest but yeah pic collectors deffo. So there are female pic collectors then as well as males on here I spose grrrr
Fancy wanting to collect pics of my ugle mug hey haha
I would not say you are ugly..
Aww bless ya hun cheers lol x"
I [ mrs ] think you are indeed quite a handsome chap, and with a good profile too, you can't beat someone with a good sense of humour. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We never lose 1 nanosecond of sleep worrying about it.
Lots more important things in life to worry about than friends requests on a swingers site
So why take the time to read this and reply then? lol"
Because it's an open forum and I'm entitled to express my views and opinions in exactly the same way as you and everybody else is |
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"Can someone please read my friends invite topic in the 'swingers support and advice' room and answer my question please
I swear I'm like the kiss of death to these forums lol "
tumble as no-one else posts lol |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"Is it just me or does it really piss you off at times when people send you an invite. Or add you and then never engage you in any form of conversation at all. Or even make an effort full stop with you???"
Bugs the shite outta me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can someone please read my friends invite topic in the 'swingers support and advice' room and answer my question please
I swear I'm like the kiss of death to these forums lol
tumble as no-one else posts lol"
It happens everytime lol
Sorry  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We never lose 1 nanosecond of sleep worrying about it.
Lots more important things in life to worry about than friends requests on a swingers site
So why take the time to read this and reply then? lol
Because it's an open forum and I'm entitled to express my views and opinions in exactly the same way as you and everybody else is"
lol chill out I no you are entitled to your views and opinion lol
Was only pulling your leg!. Ooooooow its come off in my hand as well hey they make um pretty good these arties these days dont they |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We never lose 1 nanosecond of sleep worrying about it.
Lots more important things in life to worry about than friends requests on a swingers site
So why take the time to read this and reply then? lol
Because it's an open forum and I'm entitled to express my views and opinions in exactly the same way as you and everybody else is
lol chill out I no you are entitled to your views and opinion lol
Was only pulling your leg!. Ooooooow its come off in my hand as well hey they make um pretty good these arties these days dont they "
OK fella, you got me that time lol
Nice one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does my head in to be honest but yeah pic collectors deffo. So there are female pic collectors then as well as males on here I spose grrrr
Fancy wanting to collect pics of my ugle mug hey haha
I would not say you are ugly..
Aww bless ya hun cheers lol x
I [ mrs ] think you are indeed quite a handsome chap, and with a good profile too, you can't beat someone with a good sense of humour. xx "
Wey hey and I didnt even have to pay you to say that lol hmmmm me thinks you can deffo come again haha
Thanx tho xx |
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"Can someone please read my friends invite topic in the 'swingers support and advice' room and answer my question please
I swear I'm like the kiss of death to these forums lol
tumble as no-one else posts lolIt happens everytime lol
Sorry "
I think you'll find there are now posts on your thread xx |
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"Does my head in to be honest but yeah pic collectors deffo. So there are female pic collectors then as well as males on here I spose grrrr
Fancy wanting to collect pics of my ugle mug hey haha
I would not say you are ugly...
I'd think it but just not say it "
oi, timbers - can you at least act insulted or react badly when I'm trying to troll ya?  |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
I do think its a bit strange when someone does that, but it doesnt annoy me as I just delete them.
Pic collectors? Not sure why someone would need to send a friends invite to collect pics when there are hundreds posted on here everyday, and god only knows how many 1000s on the internet if someone was that fussed...
Think its more likely they just want to see your private pics so they can decide whether or not they can be bothered sending a message.
Either way I just delete them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or does it really piss you off at times when people send you an invite. Or add you and then never engage you in any form of conversation at all. Or even make an effort full stop with you???"
Nope
I couldn't give a flying fuck about it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does my head in to be honest but yeah pic collectors deffo. So there are female pic collectors then as well as males on here I spose grrrr
Fancy wanting to collect pics of my ugle mug hey haha
I would not say you are ugly...
I'd think it but just not say it
oi, timbers - can you at least act insulted or react badly when I'm trying to troll ya? "
NOPE not at all! as I am in a happy mood today.This man I met down the market yesterday said my car was a health hazzard and he would take it off my hands and make it better for me. He then offered me some magic beans as a straight swap for the car and told me that I will soon be very very rich and my cupbards will never be bare.
I woke up this morning to a packet of rich tea bikkies, 4 of which sadly broke off in my cup due to sogginess. Hey a mere slight teathing problem no doubt. I will soon be a very very wealthy man.You troll and snipe away as sticks n stones wont hurt me now I have my magic beans xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or does it really piss you off at times when people send you an invite. Or add you and then never engage you in any form of conversation at all. Or even make an effort full stop with you???
Nope
I couldn't give a flying fuck about it "
Your well fit hunni id be your friend any day of the week. Can you lend me a tenner please M8 xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think its more likely they just want to see your private pics so they can decide whether or not they can be bothered sending a message."
A game which is easily reversed.
Wait until they're offline, then accept the request. Check out *their* private pics and see if *you* can be bothered to send a message. If not, block 'em! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We just delete them to be honest. not something we worry about at all, although we do have a lot of filters on, just to save our time and the time of others if they're not what we are looking for, However we do answer every message that we receive, even if it's just a polite " no thank you "... |
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"Does my head in to be honest but yeah pic collectors deffo. So there are female pic collectors then as well as males on here I spose grrrr
Fancy wanting to collect pics of my ugle mug hey haha
I would not say you are ugly...
I'd think it but just not say it
oi, timbers - can you at least act insulted or react badly when I'm trying to troll ya?
NOPE not at all! as I am in a happy mood today.This man I met down the market yesterday said my car was a health hazzard and he would take it off my hands and make it better for me. He then offered me some magic beans as a straight swap for the car and told me that I will soon be very very rich and my cupbards will never be bare.
I woke up this morning to a packet of rich tea bikkies, 4 of which sadly broke off in my cup due to sogginess. Hey a mere slight teathing problem no doubt. I will soon be a very very wealthy man.You troll and snipe away as sticks n stones wont hurt me now I have my magic beans xxx"
Fair do's Timber - I will wait to troll ya another day and make sure you don't climb the beanstalk from those magic beans - the size of the giant's cock might make you feel inferior |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does my head in to be honest but yeah pic collectors deffo. So there are female pic collectors then as well as males on here I spose grrrr
Fancy wanting to collect pics of my ugle mug hey haha
I would not say you are ugly...
I'd think it but just not say it
oi, timbers - can you at least act insulted or react badly when I'm trying to troll ya?
NOPE not at all! as I am in a happy mood today.This man I met down the market yesterday said my car was a health hazzard and he would take it off my hands and make it better for me. He then offered me some magic beans as a straight swap for the car and told me that I will soon be very very rich and my cupbards will never be bare.
I woke up this morning to a packet of rich tea bikkies, 4 of which sadly broke off in my cup due to sogginess. Hey a mere slight teathing problem no doubt. I will soon be a very very wealthy man.You troll and snipe away as sticks n stones wont hurt me now I have my magic beans xxx
Fair do's Timber - I will wait to troll ya another day and make sure you don't climb the beanstalk from those magic beans - the size of the giant's cock might make you feel inferior "
Its not the size of the giant its what he can do with it that matters lol big balls as well no doubt |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"Think its more likely they just want to see your private pics so they can decide whether or not they can be bothered sending a message.
A game which is easily reversed.
Wait until they're offline, then accept the request. Check out *their* private pics and see if *you* can be bothered to send a message. If not, block 'em! "
Oooo I would never do that!!  |
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Fair do's Timber - I will wait to troll ya another day and make sure you don't climb the beanstalk from those magic beans - the size of the giant's cock might make you feel inferior
Its not the size of the giant its what he can do with it that matters lol big balls as well no doubt"
Well be careful anyway timber - the giant might want to smash yer back doors in for trespassing and I'd hate to see you hurt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or does it really piss you off at times when people send you an invite. Or add you and then never engage you in any form of conversation at all. Or even make an effort full stop with you???"
Not something that bothers either of us tbh, if we like the look of them we accept, if we dont we dont lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get them all the time, no conversation, just a friendship request, they haven't even read my profile first as I can usually tell by how far they are away from me.
And I don't accept them, one couple got blocked as they kept doing it all the time; one weekend was about 4 times, think that is just taking the piss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people havent had the good grace to read my profile, and speak to me first before they send me a friends invite, i block them. They dont take the time to make an effort, so why should i? |
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