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"How is it funny?" The juxtaposition | |||
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"How is it funny? The juxtaposition " It's full of bunny boilers on regular dating apps  | |||
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"How is it funny? The juxtaposition It's full of bunny boilers on regular dating apps "And those are the good ones | |||
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"Just because someone is on a dating site like myself doesn't mean to say they can't enjoy sex in the meantime. If I had to wait before I was in a relationship I'd never have sex. " 1. That's not what I said 2. I wasn't referencing you directly. Don't get so touchy | |||
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"Kind of funny how you bump into people on here on other traditional dating sites. You read profiles and they talk about how they want a nice gentle sweet guy or something to that affect, all serious, no timewasters. I'm reading it like, I've seen your fanny and you had 10 dicks stretch you out in the last gang bang haha oh what double lives we lead. This site is a good way to study the human condition "  I get what you're saying. If I'm setting up a dating profile youd rest assured it would in a far more polite way reflect what I'm looking for as on here. Also just because someone enjoyed 10 dicks in them once doesn't mean is an every day occurrence or an necessity. Whilst sex is awesome some people crave the connection more. Let's face it for a single this is a stop gap for 80% of them | |||
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"Just because someone is on a dating site like myself doesn't mean to say they can't enjoy sex in the meantime. If I had to wait before I was in a relationship I'd never have sex. " | |||
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"You're not exactly going to plaster on a dating site what you like sexually are you." perhaps not right out no! If you write things in certain ways people who know will contact you. | |||
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"You're not exactly going to plaster on a dating site what you like sexually are you." Also never said that either. But ok | |||
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"Just because someone is on a dating site like myself doesn't mean to say they can't enjoy sex in the meantime. If I had to wait before I was in a relationship I'd never have sex. 1. That's not what I said 2. I wasn't referencing you directly. Don't get so touchy" Ha ha I'm so not touchy trust me,I know what you're saying,I'm just saying we're not going to put on a dating site what we like sexually are we. Don't be so defensive. | |||
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"Its like when you see someone in Asda who you know is on fab, and they’re not walking about with their cock out asking if anyone fancies making them cum today" Hahahahahaha made me chuckle | |||
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"Its like when you see someone in Asda who you know is on fab, and they’re not walking about with their cock out asking if anyone fancies making them cum today" | |||
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"Its like when you see someone in Asda who you know is on fab, and they’re not walking about with their cock out asking if anyone fancies making them cum today" What I said has nothing to do with what you just said. I'm talking apples you're talking pears | |||
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"You're not exactly going to plaster on a dating site what you like sexually are you. Also never said that either. But ok" Oh my God I'll leave you to it,some people just can't have a conversation. | |||
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"Its like when you see someone in Asda who you know is on fab, and they’re not walking about with their cock out asking if anyone fancies making them cum today"  | |||
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"I don't see the problem or why it's funny? One is dating and one is swinging, 2 separate parts of their life. " I never said there was a problem and already mentioned I find the juxtaposition funny. | |||
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"Just because someone is on a dating site like myself doesn't mean to say they can't enjoy sex in the meantime. If I had to wait before I was in a relationship I'd never have sex. " This. | |||
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"You're not exactly going to plaster on a dating site what you like sexually are you. Also never said that either. But ok Oh my God I'll leave you to it,some people just can't have a conversation." Conversations usually happen when the person understands the comment. You're talking about something completely different to what I'm saying | |||
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"Its like when you see someone in Asda who you know is on fab, and they’re not walking about with their cock out asking if anyone fancies making them cum today" | |||
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"Its like when you see someone in Asda who you know is on fab, and they’re not walking about with their cock out asking if anyone fancies making them cum today What I said has nothing to do with what you just said. I'm talking apples you're talking pears" Double life’s! | |||
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"I don't see the problem or why it's funny? One is dating and one is swinging, 2 separate parts of their life. I never said there was a problem and already mentioned I find the juxtaposition funny. " But you haven't explained why it's funny? You're just dismissing everyone's comments without explaining why our interpretations of your post are wrong?  | |||
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"Just because someone is on a dating site like myself doesn't mean to say they can't enjoy sex in the meantime. If I had to wait before I was in a relationship I'd never have sex. 1. That's not what I said 2. I wasn't referencing you directly. Don't get so touchy Ha ha I'm so not touchy trust me,I know what you're saying,I'm just saying we're not going to put on a dating site what we like sexually are we. Don't be so defensive." I get that but thats not what I'm talking about | |||
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"Just because someone is on a dating site like myself doesn't mean to say they can't enjoy sex in the meantime. If I had to wait before I was in a relationship I'd never have sex. " Exactly this | |||
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"Threads like this should be a discussion not a your right or wrong session we are all different and have different views, I enjoy having a debate and also value other people opinions even when I don’t agree with them " At no point did I say my opinion is right and others are wrong. I'm talking about something I found funny, doesn't mean i think it's wrong. Few have made comments about something totally different. | |||
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"I don't see the problem or why it's funny? One is dating and one is swinging, 2 separate parts of their life. I never said there was a problem and already mentioned I find the juxtaposition funny. But you haven't explained why it's funny? You're just dismissing everyone's comments without explaining why our interpretations of your post are wrong? "I just told you I find the juxtaposition funny. I don't get why you don't understand | |||
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"Just out of curiosity what are the best dating apps/sites out there? What do most people use?" We can’t name other sites | |||
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"Just out of curiosity what are the best dating apps/sites out there? What do most people use? We can’t name other sites "Ahh ok sorry didn’t realise that  | |||
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"Just out of curiosity what are the best dating apps/sites out there? What do most people use?" None of them, they are all the same. I think its luck of the draw so just try them all | |||
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"I understand what your saying OP.. My dating site profile probably doesn't truly reflect my sexulity but that's because people are so judgemental and also if I posted fab pics on there then it would just attract the guys who just want a shag. So it's a no win situation. "Most of them don’t allow nudity anyway. | |||
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"I understand what your saying OP.. My dating site profile probably doesn't truly reflect my sexulity but that's because people are so judgemental and also if I posted fab pics on there then it would just attract the guys who just want a shag. So it's a no win situation.
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"Just out of curiosity what are the best dating apps/sites out there? What do most people use? None of them, they are all the same. I think its luck of the draw so just try them all "Ok will do thanks | |||
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"Ok people don't get what juxtaposition is and what In find funny so I'll dumb it down for the leyman. Essentially both sites... lets say match and fabswingers are dating sites of some sort. On the dating site you put down your interest and hobbies and talk about what kind of man you're looking for. You tend to portray an image of yourself that may not be accurate because we all like to show our best sides. If a man approached you with sex talk you'll delete or block and some women on there are rather prudish. Then you see their fab profiles and its debauchery, fetishes and taboos. You approach them and ask them out for a drink perhaps and their block you because they aren't after getting to know you, they just want to be violated and fucked to within an inch of their life. I find the juxtaposition of this funny. The contrast of the same person on dating sites looking for contrasting things. I said it's a great way of studying the human condition and what people are about and how we are all walking contradictions. As someone who is into and studies psychology I find it facinating. I'm not saying its right or wrong or whatever. I just find it interesting. Hope that clears it up" I got that. I just didn’t understand how it was funny. Must be my sense of humour | |||
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"Is it the exact same people on both sites with different profile types? Sexual vs prudish? " Yes literally both their profiles contradict each other about who they are and what they are looking for | |||
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"Fab isn’t a dating site though." Technically it is. It has the same function. | |||
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"The same as a bloke on a dating site saying he wants a relationship not nsa & then on here fucking anything that walks. " Exactly but I don't check out dudes so I couldn't verify that even though I'm sure its true | |||
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"I’m sure the OP hasn’t got cock pics and a bio about how much of a heavy cummer he is on match.com "Wow after I explain it you still don't get what I'm actually saying. I made it as simple as I can too | |||
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"Is it the exact same people on both sites with different profile types? Sexual vs prudish? Yes literally both their profiles contradict each other about who they are and what they are looking for" That might be the case for some but I don't think you can generalise that for everyone. My fab profile is different because even though I want to date, fab isn't a dating site. I actually have similar elements on both and my face pics are the same. I try to be as honest as I can but it's getting the balance. | |||
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"I’m sure the OP hasn’t got cock pics and a bio about how much of a heavy cummer he is on match.com
Wow after I explain it you still don't get what I'm actually saying. I made it as simple as I can too"I completely understood your very condescending “explanation” but thought it was bullshit. You are comparing two very separate and disparate entities. One is a dating site. One is a very different and unrelated site. Therefore, there is no possibility of a juxtaposition as both are unrelated. | |||
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"Hi op! I get you and agree in part! I think any profile I’ve had on a dating site - particularly recent ones now I know more what I want out of a relationship - are fairly in line with my profile on fab - though obviously I can be more direct on my fab profile! However - there are also those who join fab during a period of singledom purely to carry out sexual desires/fantasies that they want to try - to fuck people they’d never fuck in the real world and do things they’d never dream of doing off fab! To make some memories they can smile at in later life as it were! Therefore what people want in a long term relationship can differ considerably to what they want from fab! I think this applies equally to both males and females! " There is so much in that comment I want to analyse and unpack but text on here just wont do it justice. Again it's the human contradiction. | |||
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"I’m sure the OP hasn’t got cock pics and a bio about how much of a heavy cummer he is on match.com
Wow after I explain it you still don't get what I'm actually saying. I made it as simple as I can too"People understand what you're saying they're just discussing the scenario you described. That's what happens, conversation flows that way. No one is having a go at you or saying you're wrong for finding it funny. | |||
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"Is it the exact same people on both sites with different profile types? Sexual vs prudish? Yes literally both their profiles contradict each other about who they are and what they are looking for That might be the case for some but I don't think you can generalise that for everyone. My fab profile is different because even though I want to date, fab isn't a dating site. I actually have similar elements on both and my face pics are the same. I try to be as honest as I can but it's getting the balance. "Correct. fab is not a dating site. We might need to dumb it down for OP, he’s not getting it. | |||
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"I’m sure the OP hasn’t got cock pics and a bio about how much of a heavy cummer he is on match.com
Wow after I explain it you still don't get what I'm actually saying. I made it as simple as I can too
I completely understood your very condescending “explanation” but thought it was bullshit.
You are comparing two very separate and disparate entities. One is a dating site. One is a very different and unrelated site. Therefore, there is no possibility of a juxtaposition as both are unrelated.
"Or maybe you find it bullshit because you didn't understand it so because you don't get it or know what a juxtaposition is it must be bullshit to you. Good day. | |||
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"I’m sure the OP hasn’t got cock pics and a bio about how much of a heavy cummer he is on match.com
Wow after I explain it you still don't get what I'm actually saying. I made it as simple as I can too
People understand what you're saying they're just discussing the scenario you described. That's what happens, conversation flows that way. No one is having a go at you or saying you're wrong for finding it funny. "A few people did but at the same time they commented on something i never said so they took it side ways. I'm trying to stay on track. | |||
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"I’m sure the OP hasn’t got cock pics and a bio about how much of a heavy cummer he is on match.com
Wow after I explain it you still don't get what I'm actually saying. I made it as simple as I can too
I completely understood your very condescending “explanation” but thought it was bullshit.
You are comparing two very separate and disparate entities. One is a dating site. One is a very different and unrelated site. Therefore, there is no possibility of a juxtaposition as both are unrelated.
Or maybe you find it bullshit because you didn't understand it so because you don't get it or know what a juxtaposition is it must be bullshit to you.
Good day. "You know it’s okay for people to disagree with you? | |||
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"Wow, people present themselves differently in different contexts. Who'd have thought. " Correct! | |||
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"People portray themselves in whichever way gives them the best opportunity to get what they want. It is different sides of the same coin, and doesn't make them bad people. You only have to look at the "Straight" guys who happen to have profiles on fab guys to know that people will sell themselves as they see fit." And the ‘straight’ guys who have secret TV profiles  | |||
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"Its like when you see someone in Asda who you know is on fab, and they’re not walking about with their cock out asking if anyone fancies making them cum today" Looooool | |||
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"Is it the exact same people on both sites with different profile types? Sexual vs prudish? Yes literally both their profiles contradict each other about who they are and what they are looking for That might be the case for some but I don't think you can generalise that for everyone. My fab profile is different because even though I want to date, fab isn't a dating site. I actually have similar elements on both and my face pics are the same. I try to be as honest as I can but it's getting the balance.
Correct. fab is not a dating site.
We might need to dumb it down for OP, he’s not getting it."You're having a blonde moment. Not all dating sites have the same outcome or are the same. A casual sex site is technically a dating site but you're not dating the person, you're just fucking them. Any site where you're meeting people and hanging out is a form of dating site. Not all dates are romantic in nature. Fabswingers is technically a dating site though not many dates happen as its more of a swingers site though some people have been known to date off here and form relationships. Adios | |||
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"Wow, people present themselves differently in different contexts. Who'd have thought. Correct! " I can just picture it now. Job interview. "how do you deal with competing urgent priorities?" Insert description of a gangbang here. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. " But for there to be a juxtaposition the two entities being compared and contrasted must be similar or at least related in nature. In many peoples view, FAB and a dating site are completely unrelated! That was my point but the OP didn’t like the discussion that disagreed with him | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. " Thank you, at least you get it | |||
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"Wow, people present themselves differently in different contexts. Who'd have thought. " Who knew | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it" I think mostly everyone got it | |||
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"I’m sure the OP hasn’t got cock pics and a bio about how much of a heavy cummer he is on match.com
Wow after I explain it you still don't get what I'm actually saying. I made it as simple as I can too
People understand what you're saying they're just discussing the scenario you described. That's what happens, conversation flows that way. No one is having a go at you or saying you're wrong for finding it funny.
A few people did but at the same time they commented on something i never said so they took it side ways. I'm trying to stay on track."But your track is a single "I find this funny" where the only option is to go oh yeah, it is funny how we sell ourselves in different ways in different places. The forums are a place for discussion and that often goes off at a tangent, the same way conversation does in real life. You're basically chastising people for chatting and that's not coming across well. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. But for there to be a juxtaposition the two entities being compared and contrasted must be similar or at least related in nature. In many peoples view, FAB and a dating site are completely unrelated! That was my point but the OP didn’t like the discussion that disagreed with him "Yeah. The last thing Fab is for me is a dating site. But even if it is, the OP isn't handling it well. | |||
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"Wow, people present themselves differently in different contexts. Who'd have thought. Correct! I can just picture it now. Job interview. "how do you deal with competing urgent priorities?" Insert description of a gangbang here. " Haha imagine! | |||
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. " I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it "You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. But for there to be a juxtaposition the two entities being compared and contrasted must be similar or at least related in nature. In many peoples view, FAB and a dating site are completely unrelated! That was my point but the OP didn’t like the discussion that disagreed with him
Yeah. The last thing Fab is for me is a dating site.
But even if it is, the OP isn't handling it well. "Me too, and everyone I know on here! Definitely not a dating site in any way. | |||
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"Wow, people present themselves differently in different contexts. Who'd have thought. Correct! I can just picture it now. Job interview. "how do you deal with competing urgent priorities?" Insert description of a gangbang here. Haha imagine! " Freshly pressed suit, appearance as offensive as tiny CZ studs. How do you decide which cock to attend to first, how much attention? Taking turns versus pushiness etc. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site. "I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck. | |||
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"I’m sure the OP hasn’t got cock pics and a bio about how much of a heavy cummer he is on match.com
Wow after I explain it you still don't get what I'm actually saying. I made it as simple as I can too
People understand what you're saying they're just discussing the scenario you described. That's what happens, conversation flows that way. No one is having a go at you or saying you're wrong for finding it funny.
A few people did but at the same time they commented on something i never said so they took it side ways. I'm trying to stay on track.
But your track is a single "I find this funny" where the only option is to go oh yeah, it is funny how we sell ourselves in different ways in different places.
The forums are a place for discussion and that often goes off at a tangent, the same way conversation does in real life. You're basically chastising people for chatting and that's not coming across well. "Yeah lets talk about the benefits of.pineapples | |||
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"I don't see the problem or why it's funny? One is dating and one is swinging, 2 separate parts of their life. " Absolutely | |||
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"I’m sure the OP hasn’t got cock pics and a bio about how much of a heavy cummer he is on match.com
Wow after I explain it you still don't get what I'm actually saying. I made it as simple as I can too
People understand what you're saying they're just discussing the scenario you described. That's what happens, conversation flows that way. No one is having a go at you or saying you're wrong for finding it funny.
A few people did but at the same time they commented on something i never said so they took it side ways. I'm trying to stay on track.
But your track is a single "I find this funny" where the only option is to go oh yeah, it is funny how we sell ourselves in different ways in different places.
The forums are a place for discussion and that often goes off at a tangent, the same way conversation does in real life. You're basically chastising people for chatting and that's not coming across well.
Yeah lets talk about the benefits of.pineapples"It seems more productive than talking about the subject and being told that you're wrong or stupid. | |||
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. " I do get it Completely, I'm not naive either. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site. "I got it perfectly well thank you. I even managed to understand it before you dumbed it down for everyone | |||
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"Kind of funny how you bump into people on here on other traditional dating sites. You read profiles and they talk about how they want a nice gentle sweet guy or something to that affect, all serious, no timewasters. I'm reading it like, I've seen your fanny and you had 10 dicks stretch you out in the last gang bang haha oh what double lives we lead. This site is a good way to study the human condition " Well OP you're on here and on a dating site. Do you state on your dating site profile that you're on fab and have links and fetishes? Sounds like you're judging someone who is looking for a relationship on a dating site but also wants to enjoy the sexual side of their life. So what if she was being stretched by 10 docks? I bet if it's a guy fucking 5 females on his profile on fab and goes on a dating site saying he's looking for a good girl that would be fine. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck. "Me too. I don’t even mention the word “date” on here! | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck. "I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word. "I view dating as with a view to a relationship. I don't and won't do that on Fab. | |||
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"Kind of funny how you bump into people on here on other traditional dating sites. You read profiles and they talk about how they want a nice gentle sweet guy or something to that affect, all serious, no timewasters. I'm reading it like, I've seen your fanny and you had 10 dicks stretch you out in the last gang bang haha oh what double lives we lead. This site is a good way to study the human condition Well OP you're on here and on a dating site. Do you state on your dating site profile that you're on fab and have links and fetishes? Sounds like you're judging someone who is looking for a relationship on a dating site but also wants to enjoy the sexual side of their life. So what if she was being stretched by 10 docks? I bet if it's a guy fucking 5 females on his profile on fab and goes on a dating site saying he's looking for a good girl that would be fine. " Sounds like you didn't read the thread and understood what I said to me. | |||
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"I think fab is for the broad minded, people on other sites are just conforming. Maybe they don't want there work colleagues to know that they like a good spanking etc. I have to say though, I have had far more meets and sexual experiences away from here on other sites. But the ones on here tend to be the kinkier ones and worth the wait. "
I think people who meet on dating sites are likely to introduce the person to their friends at some point.
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
Me too. I don’t even mention the word “date” on here!"I don't even like it when people ask me on a date. Social yes, date no. | |||
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"I’m sure the OP hasn’t got cock pics and a bio about how much of a heavy cummer he is on match.com
Wow after I explain it you still don't get what I'm actually saying. I made it as simple as I can too
People understand what you're saying they're just discussing the scenario you described. That's what happens, conversation flows that way. No one is having a go at you or saying you're wrong for finding it funny.
A few people did but at the same time they commented on something i never said so they took it side ways. I'm trying to stay on track.
But your track is a single "I find this funny" where the only option is to go oh yeah, it is funny how we sell ourselves in different ways in different places.
The forums are a place for discussion and that often goes off at a tangent, the same way conversation does in real life. You're basically chastising people for chatting and that's not coming across well.
Yeah lets talk about the benefits of.pineapples"
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word. "Nope. That’s not a date. Maybe we have different ideas of what dating and a dating site is. I’m sure you’ll tell me I’m dumb and wrong anyway though. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word. "
There's a definite crossover. | |||
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. " I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word.
Nope. That’s not a date. Maybe we have different ideas of what dating and a dating site is.
I’m sure you’ll tell me I’m dumb and wrong anyway though. "Let's all be dumb and wrong together. | |||
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"Kind of funny how you bump into people on here on other traditional dating sites. You read profiles and they talk about how they want a nice gentle sweet guy or something to that affect, all serious, no timewasters. I'm reading it like, I've seen your fanny and you had 10 dicks stretch you out in the last gang bang haha oh what double lives we lead. This site is a good way to study the human condition Well OP you're on here and on a dating site. Do you state on your dating site profile that you're on fab and have links and fetishes? Sounds like you're judging someone who is looking for a relationship on a dating site but also wants to enjoy the sexual side of their life. So what if she was being stretched by 10 docks? I bet if it's a guy fucking 5 females on his profile on fab and goes on a dating site saying he's looking for a good girl that would be fine. Sounds like you didn't read the thread and understood what I said to me. " Maybe you need to read your post and understand it. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word.
I view dating as with a view to a relationship. I don't and won't do that on Fab. "Hmmm that's a subjective argument. That's what dating means to you. May mean something different to someone else. If i meet a girl for a one night stand its technically a date. If i see a girl regularly for sex its technically a date. May not be in the romantic relationship sense but still a date. I guess the word "date" is a poor description which is why people get it confused | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word.
Nope. That’s not a date. Maybe we have different ideas of what dating and a dating site is.
I’m sure you’ll tell me I’m dumb and wrong anyway though.
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying." Why? If I'm looking for a car I might be interested in the suspension. If I'm looking for a towel I won't be. They're both things to buy. Why can't I be consistent! | |||
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"Kind of funny how you bump into people on here on other traditional dating sites. You read profiles and they talk about how they want a nice gentle sweet guy or something to that affect, all serious, no timewasters. I'm reading it like, I've seen your fanny and you had 10 dicks stretch you out in the last gang bang haha oh what double lives we lead. This site is a good way to study the human condition Well OP you're on here and on a dating site. Do you state on your dating site profile that you're on fab and have links and fetishes? Sounds like you're judging someone who is looking for a relationship on a dating site but also wants to enjoy the sexual side of their life. So what if she was being stretched by 10 docks? I bet if it's a guy fucking 5 females on his profile on fab and goes on a dating site saying he's looking for a good girl that would be fine. Sounds like you didn't read the thread and understood what I said to me. Maybe you need to read your post and understand it. " Sure I wrote something and didn't understand it. That makes more sense then random dude commenting without reading. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word.
I view dating as with a view to a relationship. I don't and won't do that on Fab.
Hmmm that's a subjective argument. That's what dating means to you. May mean something different to someone else. If i meet a girl for a one night stand its technically a date. If i see a girl regularly for sex its technically a date. May not be in the romantic relationship sense but still a date. I guess the word "date" is a poor description which is why people get it confused"I bow to your superior wisdom and will continue to be dumb and wrong. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word.
I view dating as with a view to a relationship. I don't and won't do that on Fab.
Hmmm that's a subjective argument. That's what dating means to you. May mean something different to someone else. If i meet a girl for a one night stand its technically a date. If i see a girl regularly for sex its technically a date. May not be in the romantic relationship sense but still a date. I guess the word "date" is a poor description which is why people get it confused
I bow to your superior wisdom and will continue to be dumb and wrong. "Know your place woman! | |||
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"Kind of funny how you bump into people on here on other traditional dating sites. You read profiles and they talk about how they want a nice gentle sweet guy or something to that affect, all serious, no timewasters. I'm reading it like, I've seen your fanny and you had 10 dicks stretch you out in the last gang bang haha oh what double lives we lead. This site is a good way to study the human condition Well OP you're on here and on a dating site. Do you state on your dating site profile that you're on fab and have links and fetishes? Sounds like you're judging someone who is looking for a relationship on a dating site but also wants to enjoy the sexual side of their life. So what if she was being stretched by 10 docks? I bet if it's a guy fucking 5 females on his profile on fab and goes on a dating site saying he's looking for a good girl that would be fine. Sounds like you didn't read the thread and understood what I said to me. Maybe you need to read your post and understand it. Sure I wrote something and didn't understand it. That makes more sense then random dude commenting without reading. " Calm down buster lol. If someone wants to be stretched by 10 cocks and still wants to be on a normal dating site that's fine. | |||
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying. Why? If I'm looking for a car I might be interested in the suspension. If I'm looking for a towel I won't be. They're both things to buy. Why can't I be consistent! " A car and a towel aren't juxtapositions though. You don't go on fab a d say "I'm long for a man" then go on a dating site and say "I'm looking for a pineapple " | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word.
I view dating as with a view to a relationship. I don't and won't do that on Fab.
Hmmm that's a subjective argument. That's what dating means to you. May mean something different to someone else. If i meet a girl for a one night stand its technically a date. If i see a girl regularly for sex its technically a date. May not be in the romantic relationship sense but still a date. I guess the word "date" is a poor description which is why people get it confused
I bow to your superior wisdom and will continue to be dumb and wrong. "I never said you're dumb or wrong. I said it was subjective. Do you know what that means? Why do you people get so touchy when someone doesn't agree with you and resort to passive aggressiveness? | |||
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"Kind of funny how you bump into people on here on other traditional dating sites. You read profiles and they talk about how they want a nice gentle sweet guy or something to that affect, all serious, no timewasters. I'm reading it like, I've seen your fanny and you had 10 dicks stretch you out in the last gang bang haha oh what double lives we lead. This site is a good way to study the human condition Well OP you're on here and on a dating site. Do you state on your dating site profile that you're on fab and have links and fetishes? Sounds like you're judging someone who is looking for a relationship on a dating site but also wants to enjoy the sexual side of their life. So what if she was being stretched by 10 docks? I bet if it's a guy fucking 5 females on his profile on fab and goes on a dating site saying he's looking for a good girl that would be fine. Sounds like you didn't read the thread and understood what I said to me. Maybe you need to read your post and understand it. Sure I wrote something and didn't understand it. That makes more sense then random dude commenting without reading. Calm down buster lol. If someone wants to be stretched by 10 cocks and still wants to be on a normal dating site that's fine. " Did I say it wasn't fine? | |||
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying. Why? If I'm looking for a car I might be interested in the suspension. If I'm looking for a towel I won't be. They're both things to buy. Why can't I be consistent! A car and a towel aren't juxtapositions though. You don't go on fab a d say "I'm long for a man" then go on a dating site and say "I'm looking for a pineapple "" Depends on how you're defining your terms. A car and a towel are both consumer items. They can be a juxtaposition, in the same way as "seeking primarily sexual contact" and "seeking relationship which will involve sexual contact" might (or might not) be. I can define terms badly too, but I'm not going to insult you for it. | |||
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"Kind of funny how you bump into people on here on other traditional dating sites. You read profiles and they talk about how they want a nice gentle sweet guy or something to that affect, all serious, no timewasters. I'm reading it like, I've seen your fanny and you had 10 dicks stretch you out in the last gang bang haha oh what double lives we lead. This site is a good way to study the human condition " There are men who use this site to fill a gap too, whilst looking for the girl next door. Don't understand your somewhat misogynistic approach. | |||
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"I just laugh at the ones that say they're not after sex but they're barebacking every tom dick and Harry on here "Why do you laugh? | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word.
I view dating as with a view to a relationship. I don't and won't do that on Fab.
Hmmm that's a subjective argument. That's what dating means to you. May mean something different to someone else. If i meet a girl for a one night stand its technically a date. If i see a girl regularly for sex its technically a date. May not be in the romantic relationship sense but still a date. I guess the word "date" is a poor description which is why people get it confused
I bow to your superior wisdom and will continue to be dumb and wrong.
I never said you're dumb or wrong. I said it was subjective. Do you know what that means? Why do you people get so touchy when someone doesn't agree with you and resort to passive aggressiveness?"Because your condescension, in the face of varying opinion and wider discussion than you want (to be expected on a public forum) is palpable. | |||
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying. Why? If I'm looking for a car I might be interested in the suspension. If I'm looking for a towel I won't be. They're both things to buy. Why can't I be consistent! A car and a towel aren't juxtapositions though. You don't go on fab a d say "I'm long for a man" then go on a dating site and say "I'm looking for a pineapple " Depends on how you're defining your terms. A car and a towel are both consumer items. They can be a juxtaposition, in the same way as "seeking primarily sexual contact" and "seeking relationship which will involve sexual contact" might (or might not) be. I can define terms badly too, but I'm not going to insult you for it. " OP classes this as a type of dating site. So for him, the comparison is (loosely) relevant. I (and others) don’t. Therefore , the comparison is irrelevant. | |||
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying. Why? If I'm looking for a car I might be interested in the suspension. If I'm looking for a towel I won't be. They're both things to buy. Why can't I be consistent! A car and a towel aren't juxtapositions though. You don't go on fab a d say "I'm long for a man" then go on a dating site and say "I'm looking for a pineapple " Depends on how you're defining your terms. A car and a towel are both consumer items. They can be a juxtaposition, in the same way as "seeking primarily sexual contact" and "seeking relationship which will involve sexual contact" might (or might not) be. I can define terms badly too, but I'm not going to insult you for it. " You just contradicted your own argument and ironically defined a term incorrectly by using sarcasm. Firstly a towel and a car serve 2 seperate purposes. The idea of looking isn't a juxtaposition. For it to be a juxtaposition they have to be identical. You just said both websites may have the same outcome, relationship and sex. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word.
I view dating as with a view to a relationship. I don't and won't do that on Fab.
Hmmm that's a subjective argument. That's what dating means to you. May mean something different to someone else. If i meet a girl for a one night stand its technically a date. If i see a girl regularly for sex its technically a date. May not be in the romantic relationship sense but still a date. I guess the word "date" is a poor description which is why people get it confused
I bow to your superior wisdom and will continue to be dumb and wrong.
I never said you're dumb or wrong. I said it was subjective. Do you know what that means? Why do you people get so touchy when someone doesn't agree with you and resort to passive aggressiveness?
Because your condescension, in the face of varying opinion and wider discussion than you want (to be expected on a public forum) is palpable. "I love how he on the one hand says he isn’t being condescending whilst asking in the same paragraph if you know what “subjective” means | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word.
I view dating as with a view to a relationship. I don't and won't do that on Fab.
Hmmm that's a subjective argument. That's what dating means to you. May mean something different to someone else. If i meet a girl for a one night stand its technically a date. If i see a girl regularly for sex its technically a date. May not be in the romantic relationship sense but still a date. I guess the word "date" is a poor description which is why people get it confused
I bow to your superior wisdom and will continue to be dumb and wrong.
I never said you're dumb or wrong. I said it was subjective. Do you know what that means? Why do you people get so touchy when someone doesn't agree with you and resort to passive aggressiveness?
Because your condescension, in the face of varying opinion and wider discussion than you want (to be expected on a public forum) is palpable.
I love how he on the one hand says he isn’t being condescending whilst asking in the same paragraph if you know what “subjective” means "Quite! I suspect there's a bit of ontological insecurity going on here | |||
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying. Why? If I'm looking for a car I might be interested in the suspension. If I'm looking for a towel I won't be. They're both things to buy. Why can't I be consistent! A car and a towel aren't juxtapositions though. You don't go on fab a d say "I'm long for a man" then go on a dating site and say "I'm looking for a pineapple " Depends on how you're defining your terms. A car and a towel are both consumer items. They can be a juxtaposition, in the same way as "seeking primarily sexual contact" and "seeking relationship which will involve sexual contact" might (or might not) be. I can define terms badly too, but I'm not going to insult you for it. You just contradicted your own argument and ironically defined a term incorrectly by using sarcasm. Firstly a towel and a car serve 2 seperate purposes. The idea of looking isn't a juxtaposition. For it to be a juxtaposition they have to be identical. You just said both websites may have the same outcome, relationship and sex. " Firstly Fab and a dating site serve two separate purposes. For there to be a juxtaposition, they have to be identical. | |||
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying. Why? If I'm looking for a car I might be interested in the suspension. If I'm looking for a towel I won't be. They're both things to buy. Why can't I be consistent! A car and a towel aren't juxtapositions though. You don't go on fab a d say "I'm long for a man" then go on a dating site and say "I'm looking for a pineapple " Depends on how you're defining your terms. A car and a towel are both consumer items. They can be a juxtaposition, in the same way as "seeking primarily sexual contact" and "seeking relationship which will involve sexual contact" might (or might not) be. I can define terms badly too, but I'm not going to insult you for it. OP classes this as a type of dating site. So for him, the comparison is (loosely) relevant. I (and others) don’t. Therefore , the comparison is irrelevant. "Well if you take it in it’s simplest terms. Person looking for another person. Different requirements for each search but both looking to date. Can see why he pointed it out. | |||
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"I just laugh at the ones that say they're not after sex but they're barebacking every tom dick and Harry on here
Why do you laugh?"because I find it amusing ...
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying. Why? If I'm looking for a car I might be interested in the suspension. If I'm looking for a towel I won't be. They're both things to buy. Why can't I be consistent! A car and a towel aren't juxtapositions though. You don't go on fab a d say "I'm long for a man" then go on a dating site and say "I'm looking for a pineapple " Depends on how you're defining your terms. A car and a towel are both consumer items. They can be a juxtaposition, in the same way as "seeking primarily sexual contact" and "seeking relationship which will involve sexual contact" might (or might not) be. I can define terms badly too, but I'm not going to insult you for it. OP classes this as a type of dating site. So for him, the comparison is (loosely) relevant. I (and others) don’t. Therefore , the comparison is irrelevant. "Ive ignored you but you're talking some utter nonsense there. Do people form relationships on this site? Even hook up and get married? By your logic it should be no because this isn't a dating site. Do people meet up on here for social drinks, dinner or even sugar daddy type relationships that involve dinners, holidays etc? Your answer should be No since its not a dating site. Do people have exclusive relationships forming on here? The answer again should be No since its a dating site. All those things happen on here. So much for it not being a "form" of dating. Oh dear | |||
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"I just laugh at the ones that say they're not after sex but they're barebacking every tom dick and Harry on here
Why do you laugh?
because I find it amusing ...
Yes I'm on dating apps but I'm not looking for relationships I state that im looking for casual fun etc."But why do you find it amusing? I could be on here getting gangbanged every second night, and on another site looking for marriage. And that’s okay. I wouldn’t go on fab looking for marriage, or on another traditional dating site looking for a gangbang Ah well | |||
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"I just laugh at the ones that say they're not after sex but they're barebacking every tom dick and Harry on here
Why do you laugh?
because I find it amusing ...
Yes I'm on dating apps but I'm not looking for relationships I state that im looking for casual fun etc.
But why do you find it amusing?
I could be on here getting gangbanged every second night, and on another site looking for marriage. And that’s okay. I wouldn’t go on fab looking for marriage, or on another traditional dating site looking for a gangbang
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word.
I view dating as with a view to a relationship. I don't and won't do that on Fab.
Hmmm that's a subjective argument. That's what dating means to you. May mean something different to someone else. If i meet a girl for a one night stand its technically a date. If i see a girl regularly for sex its technically a date. May not be in the romantic relationship sense but still a date. I guess the word "date" is a poor description which is why people get it confused
I bow to your superior wisdom and will continue to be dumb and wrong.
I never said you're dumb or wrong. I said it was subjective. Do you know what that means? Why do you people get so touchy when someone doesn't agree with you and resort to passive aggressiveness?
Because your condescension, in the face of varying opinion and wider discussion than you want (to be expected on a public forum) is palpable.
I love how he on the one hand says he isn’t being condescending whilst asking in the same paragraph if you know what “subjective” means
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying. Why? If I'm looking for a car I might be interested in the suspension. If I'm looking for a towel I won't be. They're both things to buy. Why can't I be consistent! A car and a towel aren't juxtapositions though. You don't go on fab a d say "I'm long for a man" then go on a dating site and say "I'm looking for a pineapple " Depends on how you're defining your terms. A car and a towel are both consumer items. They can be a juxtaposition, in the same way as "seeking primarily sexual contact" and "seeking relationship which will involve sexual contact" might (or might not) be. I can define terms badly too, but I'm not going to insult you for it. OP classes this as a type of dating site. So for him, the comparison is (loosely) relevant. I (and others) don’t. Therefore , the comparison is irrelevant.
Ive ignored you but you're talking some utter nonsense there.
Do people form relationships on this site? Even hook up and get married? By your logic it should be no because this isn't a dating site. Do people meet up on here for social drinks, dinner or even sugar daddy type relationships that involve dinners, holidays etc? Your answer should be No since its not a dating site. Do people have exclusive relationships forming on here? The answer again should be No since its a dating site.
All those things happen on here. So much for it not being a "form" of dating. Oh dear"To some (like you) it is a dating site of some kind. To some (like me) it is as far away from a dating site as it could be. That’s why I disagree with your initial opening statement. | |||
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying. Why? If I'm looking for a car I might be interested in the suspension. If I'm looking for a towel I won't be. They're both things to buy. Why can't I be consistent! A car and a towel aren't juxtapositions though. You don't go on fab a d say "I'm long for a man" then go on a dating site and say "I'm looking for a pineapple " Depends on how you're defining your terms. A car and a towel are both consumer items. They can be a juxtaposition, in the same way as "seeking primarily sexual contact" and "seeking relationship which will involve sexual contact" might (or might not) be. I can define terms badly too, but I'm not going to insult you for it. You just contradicted your own argument and ironically defined a term incorrectly by using sarcasm. Firstly a towel and a car serve 2 seperate purposes. The idea of looking isn't a juxtaposition. For it to be a juxtaposition they have to be identical. You just said both websites may have the same outcome, relationship and sex. Firstly Fab and a dating site serve two separate purposes. For there to be a juxtaposition, they have to be identical." Well, a juxtaposition is just two things next to each other and the comparison of that. But I feel nuance has been missed, which along with an inability to think outside poorly defined or undefined terms, has led to this thread not being all that... fortunate. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word.
I view dating as with a view to a relationship. I don't and won't do that on Fab.
Hmmm that's a subjective argument. That's what dating means to you. May mean something different to someone else. If i meet a girl for a one night stand its technically a date. If i see a girl regularly for sex its technically a date. May not be in the romantic relationship sense but still a date. I guess the word "date" is a poor description which is why people get it confused
I bow to your superior wisdom and will continue to be dumb and wrong.
I never said you're dumb or wrong. I said it was subjective. Do you know what that means? Why do you people get so touchy when someone doesn't agree with you and resort to passive aggressiveness?
Because your condescension, in the face of varying opinion and wider discussion than you want (to be expected on a public forum) is palpable.
I love how he on the one hand says he isn’t being condescending whilst asking in the same paragraph if you know what “subjective” means
Quite! I suspect there's a bit of ontological insecurity going on here
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"I just laugh at the ones that say they're not after sex but they're barebacking every tom dick and Harry on here
Why do you laugh?
because I find it amusing ...
Yes I'm on dating apps but I'm not looking for relationships I state that im looking for casual fun etc.
But why do you find it amusing?
I could be on here getting gangbanged every second night, and on another site looking for marriage. And that’s okay. I wouldn’t go on fab looking for marriage, or on another traditional dating site looking for a gangbang
Ah well "I don't get your need to know why people find certain things funny. They just do. What i find funny he may not. If you don't get why it's funny thats cool analysing the "why" isn't suddenly going to make you find it funny too | |||
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"I just laugh at the ones that say they're not after sex but they're barebacking every tom dick and Harry on here
Why do you laugh?
because I find it amusing ...
Yes I'm on dating apps but I'm not looking for relationships I state that im looking for casual fun etc.
But why do you find it amusing?
I could be on here getting gangbanged every second night, and on another site looking for marriage. And that’s okay. I wouldn’t go on fab looking for marriage, or on another traditional dating site looking for a gangbang
Ah well "I don't really know why I find it amusing , maybe something to do with alternative personality in different situations. | |||
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying. Why? If I'm looking for a car I might be interested in the suspension. If I'm looking for a towel I won't be. They're both things to buy. Why can't I be consistent! A car and a towel aren't juxtapositions though. You don't go on fab a d say "I'm long for a man" then go on a dating site and say "I'm looking for a pineapple " Depends on how you're defining your terms. A car and a towel are both consumer items. They can be a juxtaposition, in the same way as "seeking primarily sexual contact" and "seeking relationship which will involve sexual contact" might (or might not) be. I can define terms badly too, but I'm not going to insult you for it. OP classes this as a type of dating site. So for him, the comparison is (loosely) relevant. I (and others) don’t. Therefore , the comparison is irrelevant.
Ive ignored you but you're talking some utter nonsense there.
Do people form relationships on this site? Even hook up and get married? By your logic it should be no because this isn't a dating site. Do people meet up on here for social drinks, dinner or even sugar daddy type relationships that involve dinners, holidays etc? Your answer should be No since its not a dating site. Do people have exclusive relationships forming on here? The answer again should be No since its a dating site.
All those things happen on here. So much for it not being a "form" of dating. Oh dear
To some (like you) it is a dating site of some kind.
To some (like me) it is as far away from a dating site as it could be.
That’s why I disagree with your initial opening statement.
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"I just laugh at the ones that say they're not after sex but they're barebacking every tom dick and Harry on here
Why do you laugh?
because I find it amusing ...
Yes I'm on dating apps but I'm not looking for relationships I state that im looking for casual fun etc.
But why do you find it amusing?
I could be on here getting gangbanged every second night, and on another site looking for marriage. And that’s okay. I wouldn’t go on fab looking for marriage, or on another traditional dating site looking for a gangbang
Ah well
I don't get your need to know why people find certain things funny. They just do. What i find funny he may not. If you don't get why it's funny thats cool analysing the "why" isn't suddenly going to make you find it funny too"Because I like to understand the human mind and how it works | |||
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying. Why? If I'm looking for a car I might be interested in the suspension. If I'm looking for a towel I won't be. They're both things to buy. Why can't I be consistent! A car and a towel aren't juxtapositions though. You don't go on fab a d say "I'm long for a man" then go on a dating site and say "I'm looking for a pineapple " Depends on how you're defining your terms. A car and a towel are both consumer items. They can be a juxtaposition, in the same way as "seeking primarily sexual contact" and "seeking relationship which will involve sexual contact" might (or might not) be. I can define terms badly too, but I'm not going to insult you for it. You just contradicted your own argument and ironically defined a term incorrectly by using sarcasm. Firstly a towel and a car serve 2 seperate purposes. The idea of looking isn't a juxtaposition. For it to be a juxtaposition they have to be identical. You just said both websites may have the same outcome, relationship and sex. Firstly Fab and a dating site serve two separate purposes. For there to be a juxtaposition, they have to be identical. Well, a juxtaposition is just two things next to each other and the comparison of that. But I feel nuance has been missed, which along with an inability to think outside poorly defined or undefined terms, has led to this thread not being all that... fortunate. " Well it was correctly defined just poorly understood. But then again that is subjective too isn't it. | |||
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying. Why? If I'm looking for a car I might be interested in the suspension. If I'm looking for a towel I won't be. They're both things to buy. Why can't I be consistent! A car and a towel aren't juxtapositions though. You don't go on fab a d say "I'm long for a man" then go on a dating site and say "I'm looking for a pineapple " Depends on how you're defining your terms. A car and a towel are both consumer items. They can be a juxtaposition, in the same way as "seeking primarily sexual contact" and "seeking relationship which will involve sexual contact" might (or might not) be. I can define terms badly too, but I'm not going to insult you for it. OP classes this as a type of dating site. So for him, the comparison is (loosely) relevant. I (and others) don’t. Therefore , the comparison is irrelevant.
Ive ignored you but you're talking some utter nonsense there.
Do people form relationships on this site? Even hook up and get married? By your logic it should be no because this isn't a dating site. Do people meet up on here for social drinks, dinner or even sugar daddy type relationships that involve dinners, holidays etc? Your answer should be No since its not a dating site. Do people have exclusive relationships forming on here? The answer again should be No since its a dating site.
All those things happen on here. So much for it not being a "form" of dating. Oh dear
To some (like you) it is a dating site of some kind.
To some (like me) it is as far away from a dating site as it could be.
That’s why I disagree with your initial opening statement.
Good you disagree. Now you can move on. No need for the negative comments and ad hominems. You've ejected yourself from the discussion "Firstly, I can comment on whatever I like. Secondly, I’m disagreeing with you and that’s allowed. I haven’t ejected myself from anything thanks. Anyone who disagrees with you is being negative? You have called people dumb and been mostly condescending throughout because people dared to disagree with you. | |||
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"Juxtaposition-the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect. The OP is finding the two different approaches amusing. He isn't saying there is anything wrong with it. Thank you, at least you get it I think mostly everyone got it
You didn't and the others didn't. Got a girl arguing with me that fab isn't a dating site.
I certainly don't date on Fab. I meet people to fuck.
I never said fab was a dating site. I said it was a form of dating site. If you're meeting someone for a fuck its a date is it not? Dating isn't necessarily ways dinner and drinks and a chat about feelings. It's a common misconception for lack of a better word.
I view dating as with a view to a relationship. I don't and won't do that on Fab.
Hmmm that's a subjective argument. That's what dating means to you. May mean something different to someone else. If i meet a girl for a one night stand its technically a date. If i see a girl regularly for sex its technically a date. May not be in the romantic relationship sense but still a date. I guess the word "date" is a poor description which is why people get it confused
I bow to your superior wisdom and will continue to be dumb and wrong.
I never said you're dumb or wrong. I said it was subjective. Do you know what that means? Why do you people get so touchy when someone doesn't agree with you and resort to passive aggressiveness?
Because your condescension, in the face of varying opinion and wider discussion than you want (to be expected on a public forum) is palpable.
I love how he on the one hand says he isn’t being condescending whilst asking in the same paragraph if you know what “subjective” means
Quite! I suspect there's a bit of ontological insecurity going on here
Thats right ad hominems will help you on your argument.
I didn't call you anything. And I'm not intimidated by a bit of poorly understood Latin slung around. "Perhaps i need to explain what an ad hominem is too. I suggest you also vacate from the discussion since you're inability to understand someone to create a straw man argument is becoming tedious. No one is trying to intimidate you get over yourself | |||
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"I just laugh at the ones that say they're not after sex but they're barebacking every tom dick and Harry on here
Why do you laugh?
because I find it amusing ...
Yes I'm on dating apps but I'm not looking for relationships I state that im looking for casual fun etc.
But why do you find it amusing?
I could be on here getting gangbanged every second night, and on another site looking for marriage. And that’s okay. I wouldn’t go on fab looking for marriage, or on another traditional dating site looking for a gangbang
Ah well
I don't get your need to know why people find certain things funny. They just do. What i find funny he may not. If you don't get why it's funny thats cool analysing the "why" isn't suddenly going to make you find it funny too
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"So, OP, does your other site dating profile have the same info as your Fab one? " Point is that being fervently for one relationship type then another. While classing then as the same thing is amusing. They might contain the same info but hold different connotations which is I’ll assume, funnier. Everyone loves a pun. | |||
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"I do admire a person who has the ability to keep their arrogance up and belittle people when they lack the ability to make thing's clear from the get go and then throws it back on them. It's quite stunning isn't it. " It's certainly a skill in p*ssing people off. | |||
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"I do admire a person who has the ability to keep their arrogance up and belittle people when they lack the ability to make thing's clear from the get go and then throws it back on them. It's quite stunning isn't it. It's certainly a skill in p*ssing people off." High level condescension skills. | |||
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying. Why? If I'm looking for a car I might be interested in the suspension. If I'm looking for a towel I won't be. They're both things to buy. Why can't I be consistent! A car and a towel aren't juxtapositions though. You don't go on fab a d say "I'm long for a man" then go on a dating site and say "I'm looking for a pineapple " Depends on how you're defining your terms. A car and a towel are both consumer items. They can be a juxtaposition, in the same way as "seeking primarily sexual contact" and "seeking relationship which will involve sexual contact" might (or might not) be. I can define terms badly too, but I'm not going to insult you for it. OP classes this as a type of dating site. So for him, the comparison is (loosely) relevant. I (and others) don’t. Therefore , the comparison is irrelevant.
Ive ignored you but you're talking some utter nonsense there.
Do people form relationships on this site? Even hook up and get married? By your logic it should be no because this isn't a dating site. Do people meet up on here for social drinks, dinner or even sugar daddy type relationships that involve dinners, holidays etc? Your answer should be No since its not a dating site. Do people have exclusive relationships forming on here? The answer again should be No since its a dating site.
All those things happen on here. So much for it not being a "form" of dating. Oh dear
To some (like you) it is a dating site of some kind.
To some (like me) it is as far away from a dating site as it could be.
That’s why I disagree with your initial opening statement.
Good you disagree. Now you can move on. No need for the negative comments and ad hominems. You've ejected yourself from the discussion
Firstly, I can comment on whatever I like.
Secondly, I’m disagreeing with you and that’s allowed.
I haven’t ejected myself from anything thanks.
Anyone who disagrees with you is being negative? You have called people dumb and been mostly condescending throughout because people dared to disagree with you."Loooool once again failed to read a reply and responded with something i never said. At no point did i can you dumb nor did i say you can't disagree with me. I believe you're the one throwing petty insults and names around. We disagreed so thats the end of the conversation isn't it? What more do you hope to get out of it? | |||
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"But do you understand why the profiles would be different OP? It's not necessarily about being deceptive which is how it sounds in your original comment. I'm not naive and i explained it better later. I made the incorrect assumption that people would get something basic. I get what the OP means. There’s double standards within the profiles. It’s a mixed message as they can have different things they are looking for. Fab person might not want to dye when they actually want to date. Dating person might not want to be hanging her from the rafters, fucking her and the gimp at the same time. Sure a few messages would sort it out but I get what he is saying. Why? If I'm looking for a car I might be interested in the suspension. If I'm looking for a towel I won't be. They're both things to buy. Why can't I be consistent! A car and a towel aren't juxtapositions though. You don't go on fab a d say "I'm long for a man" then go on a dating site and say "I'm looking for a pineapple " Depends on how you're defining your terms. A car and a towel are both consumer items. They can be a juxtaposition, in the same way as "seeking primarily sexual contact" and "seeking relationship which will involve sexual contact" might (or might not) be. I can define terms badly too, but I'm not going to insult you for it. OP classes this as a type of dating site. So for him, the comparison is (loosely) relevant. I (and others) don’t. Therefore , the comparison is irrelevant.
Ive ignored you but you're talking some utter nonsense there.
Do people form relationships on this site? Even hook up and get married? By your logic it should be no because this isn't a dating site. Do people meet up on here for social drinks, dinner or even sugar daddy type relationships that involve dinners, holidays etc? Your answer should be No since its not a dating site. Do people have exclusive relationships forming on here? The answer again should be No since its a dating site.
All those things happen on here. So much for it not being a "form" of dating. Oh dear
To some (like you) it is a dating site of some kind.
To some (like me) it is as far away from a dating site as it could be.
That’s why I disagree with your initial opening statement.
Good you disagree. Now you can move on. No need for the negative comments and ad hominems. You've ejected yourself from the discussion
Firstly, I can comment on whatever I like.
Secondly, I’m disagreeing with you and that’s allowed.
I haven’t ejected myself from anything thanks.
Anyone who disagrees with you is being negative? You have called people dumb and been mostly condescending throughout because people dared to disagree with you.
Loooool once again failed to read a reply and responded with something i never said. At no point did i can you dumb nor did i say you can't disagree with me.
I believe you're the one throwing petty insults and names around. We disagreed so thats the end of the conversation isn't it? What more do you hope to get out of it? "You haven’t read my reply. Where did I say that you called me in particular dumb? I didn’t. Where have I directly insulted you? I’ve disagreed with you for sure but I haven’t insulted you. Again, please read before replying. | |||
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"Every time op uses the word “juxtaposition” or some Latin - shall we take a shot?
"Everytime OP says something we don't understand shall we take a shot?" You'll be d*unk by the next sentence "Haha I love that you assume that everyone who disagrees must be lacking in intelligence. Hahaha | |||
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"I do admire a person who has the ability to keep their arrogance up and belittle people when they lack the ability to make thing's clear from the get go and then throws it back on them. It's quite stunning isn't it. It's certainly a skill in p*ssing people off. High level condescension skills." Anyway back to those shots! | |||
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"Every time op uses the word “juxtaposition” or some Latin - shall we take a shot?
"Everytime OP says something we don't understand shall we take a shot?" You'll be d*unk by the next sentence
Haha I love that you assume that everyone who disagrees must be lacking in intelligence. Hahaha "There is a difference between disagreeing with someone talking about the same topic and disagreeing with someone based on something they never said because you didn't understand the point. Anyway you and the other 2 bore me. You can talk amongst yourselves since you have nothing intelligent to say. | |||
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"I do admire a person who has the ability to keep their arrogance up and belittle people when they lack the ability to make thing's clear from the get go and then throws it back on them. It's quite stunning isn't it. It's certainly a skill in p*ssing people off. High level condescension skills. Anyway back to those shots!" You can pour | |||
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"Every time op uses the word “juxtaposition” or some Latin - shall we take a shot?
"Everytime OP says something we don't understand shall we take a shot?" You'll be d*unk by the next sentence
Haha I love that you assume that everyone who disagrees must be lacking in intelligence. Hahaha "Dunning Krueger indeed. | |||
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"Women are a paradox OP. Never try to understand them and, never trust them. " Wise word's. | |||
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"I do admire a person who has the ability to keep their arrogance up and belittle people when they lack the ability to make thing's clear from the get go and then throws it back on them. It's quite stunning isn't it. It's certainly a skill in p*ssing people off. High level condescension skills. Anyway back to those shots! You can pour "I can't I'm completely piddled,you'll have too. | |||
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"I do admire a person who has the ability to keep their arrogance up and belittle people when they lack the ability to make thing's clear from the get go and then throws it back on them. It's quite stunning isn't it. It's certainly a skill in p*ssing people off. High level condescension skills. Anyway back to those shots! You can pour
I can't I'm completely piddled,you'll have too."Oh go on then. But I have to warn you, I pour extra large measures | |||
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"Every time op uses the word “juxtaposition” or some Latin - shall we take a shot?
"Everytime OP says something we don't understand shall we take a shot?" You'll be d*unk by the next sentence
Haha I love that you assume that everyone who disagrees must be lacking in intelligence. Hahaha
Dunning Krueger indeed. "Dunning Krueger? Do you know what that means or did you just throw in that term to make yourself sound intelligent? Because you're using it incorrectly. For Dunning Krueger effect to me valid I would need to say "I'm right and you're wrong" despite being proven wrong. However I mentioned there was nothing wrong with having different types of profiles and wanting different things on different sites and I said it was all subjective. On the other hand you're stating you're correct and I'm wrong... so the iromy is you've mentioned an effect you suffer from. Oh dear | |||
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"Women are a paradox OP. Never try to understand them and, never trust them. " Words of a prophet | |||
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"I do admire a person who has the ability to keep their arrogance up and belittle people when they lack the ability to make thing's clear from the get go and then throws it back on them. It's quite stunning isn't it. It's certainly a skill in p*ssing people off. High level condescension skills. Anyway back to those shots! You can pour
I can't I'm completely piddled,you'll have too.
Oh go on then. But I have to warn you, I pour extra large measures "Pour an extra extra large one for the op as well it may make him,erm how can I put this... | |||
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"I do admire a person who has the ability to keep their arrogance up and belittle people when they lack the ability to make thing's clear from the get go and then throws it back on them. It's quite stunning isn't it. It's certainly a skill in p*ssing people off. High level condescension skills. Anyway back to those shots! You can pour
I can't I'm completely piddled,you'll have too.
Oh go on then. But I have to warn you, I pour extra large measures
Pour an extra extra large one for the op as well it may make him,erm how can I put this..."Haha understood. Let me get him a pint glass | |||
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"Every time op uses the word “juxtaposition” or some Latin - shall we take a shot?
"Everytime OP says something we don't understand shall we take a shot?" You'll be d*unk by the next sentence
Haha I love that you assume that everyone who disagrees must be lacking in intelligence. Hahaha
Dunning Krueger indeed.
Dunning Krueger? Do you know what that means or did you just throw in that term to make yourself sound intelligent? Because you're using it incorrectly. For Dunning Krueger effect to me valid I would need to say "I'm right and you're wrong" despite being proven wrong. However I mentioned there was nothing wrong with having different types of profiles and wanting different things on different sites and I said it was all subjective.
On the other hand you're stating you're correct and I'm wrong... so the iromy is you've mentioned an effect you suffer from.
Oh dear"Err... It's the inverse correlation of confidence and ability, but, whatever you like. | |||
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"Every time op uses the word “juxtaposition” or some Latin - shall we take a shot?
"Everytime OP says something we don't understand shall we take a shot?" You'll be d*unk by the next sentence
Haha I love that you assume that everyone who disagrees must be lacking in intelligence. Hahaha
Dunning Krueger indeed.
Dunning Krueger? Do you know what that means or did you just throw in that term to make yourself sound intelligent? Because you're using it incorrectly. For Dunning Krueger effect to me valid I would need to say "I'm right and you're wrong" despite being proven wrong. However I mentioned there was nothing wrong with having different types of profiles and wanting different things on different sites and I said it was all subjective.
On the other hand you're stating you're correct and I'm wrong... so the iromy is you've mentioned an effect you suffer from.
Oh dear"Suppose but your appeal to ridicule and ad hominem, poisoning the well approach. Is the actual irony.  | |||
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"Is it the exact same people on both sites with different profile types? Sexual vs prudish? Yes literally both their profiles contradict each other about who they are and what they are looking for That might be the case for some but I don't think you can generalise that for everyone. My fab profile is different because even though I want to date, fab isn't a dating site. I actually have similar elements on both and my face pics are the same. I try to be as honest as I can but it's getting the balance.
Correct. fab is not a dating site.
We might need to dumb it down for OP, he’s not getting it."You see, I use fab and dating sites in exactly the same way. I go on dates from both as looking for a kinky swinger to explore life with. People use sites in the way they want. Many use dating sites as just a hook up place also. | |||
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