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over a year ago
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is there a fine line between a bloke being attentive and being full on in your face?
I was accused the other day of being FULL ON. I just thought I was being polite!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes there is a fine line and someone being too full on could be off putting. However it will vary from person to person (men could find it a turn off too) so best to try and read the signs if you can. Also, in a group situation, try and share the attention out as equally as you can. |
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So, hyperthetically, if i spend and evening with a lady, drinks dinner sex etc etc. We swap numbers, have coffee next day, then i message here just saying hi a day or so later. What is that classed as? |
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"So, hyperthetically, if i spend and evening with a lady, drinks dinner sex etc etc. We swap numbers, have coffee next day, then i message here just saying hi a day or so later. What is that classed as?"
It's classed as misreading what she actually wanted without telling you. Women do that. They're wierd fookers.  |
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There is a line but more to the point it's a line which will move around to here, there and everywhere, rather than being a fine one...... depending on how much the woman fancies you.
If you say "hello" to a woman and she says you are being 'full on' it means she thinks you are a fuck pig. |
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"So, hyperthetically, if i spend and evening with a lady, drinks dinner sex etc etc. We swap numbers, have coffee next day, then i message here just saying hi a day or so later. What is that classed as?"
She probably wants to see someone else, it can be off putting when someone seems too keen, maybe she thinks you should be looking for someone else to see. |
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Some people, if they like and hit off with someone, they can chat for hours, and make each other feel at ease without much efforts.
However, if they do not like someone, a "Hello, how are you?" via PM would be considered as an irritation.
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There's also the issue of attraction.
If she's equally attracted to you then there won't be a problem. But if you're more attracted to her than she is to you then, this is when 'too attentive' can be a problem. |
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"So, hyperthetically, if i spend and evening with a lady, drinks dinner sex etc etc. We swap numbers, have coffee next day, then i message here just saying hi a day or so later. What is that classed as?
It's classed as misreading what she actually wanted without telling you. Women do that. They're wierd fookers. "
Dead right there!! |
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i think full on to me is when you log on here you get a message and you get bombarded with meet requests.
i know the person is eager to meet but sometimes a message after a message sounds full on and can be a bit desperate |
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"sitting in a car outside their house with binoculars and a listening device.... more needy, than full on attentive.
works for both sexes......"
If that's your attitude View , I'll leave. Nice curtains btw x |
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"sitting in a car outside their house with binoculars and a listening device.... more needy, than full on attentive.
works for both sexes......
If that's your attitude View , I'll leave. Nice curtains btw x"
Oh good. I can park my car in Grannys space now coz it's cold in these bushes!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, hyperthetically, if i spend and evening with a lady, drinks dinner sex etc etc. We swap numbers, have coffee next day, then i message here just saying hi a day or so later. What is that classed as?
It's classed as misreading what she actually wanted without telling you. Women do that. They're wierd fookers. "
Yeah, I do that, but I am not wierd when I fook. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Clingy 
I dislike anyone that puts kisses at the end of every line, as per facebook, IM, texts. You don't kiss someone after every sentence in real life so why online????
Love to all xx |
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"is there a fine line between a bloke being attentive and being full on in your face?
I was accused the other day of being FULL ON. I just thought I was being polite!! "
I wouldn't say a fine line as you get the irritating stage inbetween the 2. |
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