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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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There isnt really a set limit
600 miles has been my longest so far. Def worth it and met more than once. Used to do a 90 mile round trip almost daily at one point. Currently I'd say 2-3 hrs travel but only if worth it |
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"There isnt really a set limit
600 miles has been my longest so far. Def worth it and met more than once. Used to do a 90 mile round trip almost daily at one point. Currently I'd say 2-3 hrs travel but only if worth it "
See you at around 10am...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done a 600 mile round trip before now. I used to regularly drive 2 hours when my ex, who I met on here, was still an fb. I really don't mind the driving. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First time meets there are limits, I've driven to Bournemouth from home, so 50 miles, but not sure if to any further. Drive to Swindon once, same distance, only for the woman to say changed her mind when texted to say I'd arrived.
If it was someone is already met or knew there'd be no limit to distance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've done a 600 mile round trip before now. I used to regularly drive 2 hours when my ex, who I met on here, was still an fb. I really don't mind the driving."
Snap! Plus I love getting to know new people |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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"Yes, it is first time meets we are asking about, not people or couples meeting on a regular or ongoing basis?
25 miles i reckon. "
So someone would be shit outta luck if 27 miles away?
What I don't get it putting a mileage to it.
I've guys live 10-15 miles from me who complain it's a trek and too much to drive half an hour yet others who will drive 3 hours. 90+ miles |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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"There isnt really a set limit
600 miles has been my longest so far. Def worth it and met more than once. Used to do a 90 mile round trip almost daily at one point. Currently I'd say 2-3 hrs travel but only if worth it
See you at around 10am... "
Am I road tripping again?? |
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"600 miles??? For a one off meet, Christ we wouldn’t do that lol
Yeah but from that I've now met them several times over the last 3 years so it worked out "
Glad it worked out, but still think 600 miles is a long way to travel to meet someone for the first time, unless you happen to be travelling there for a secondary reason like holiday or work? |
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"Yes, it is first time meets we are asking about, not people or couples meeting on a regular or ongoing basis?
25 miles i reckon.
So someone would be shit outta luck if 27 miles away?
What I don't get it putting a mileage to it.
I've guys live 10-15 miles from me who complain it's a trek and too much to drive half an hour yet others who will drive 3 hours. 90+ miles"
I was just thinking that 2 major towns are about that distance away, so i might end up travelling about that distance. Southampton and basingstoke. It was just a ball park figure. |
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"There isnt really a set limit
600 miles has been my longest so far. Def worth it and met more than once. Used to do a 90 mile round trip almost daily at one point. Currently I'd say 2-3 hrs travel but only if worth it "
If I'm travelling 2-3 hours I prefer an overnighter TBH and that's only if I've met them socially first |
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"I would happily drive to Dublin for a meet, for a one off though with someone I really fancied I wouldn't mind getting on a plane  "
What if you got a plane and then when you got there the other fab member decided there was no chemistry?? |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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"I would happily drive to Dublin for a meet, for a one off though with someone I really fancied I wouldn't mind getting on a plane
What if you got a plane and then when you got there the other fab member decided there was no chemistry??"
Then you make best of and have a social then part ways. Go explore where you are and have a good time. |
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It's going to depend on personal circumstances. If you're single (let's face it, most of you are) then you'll be inclined to travel further. As a couple, we have travelled 2 or 3 hours to go to clubs together. But would i do that on my own? No. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From my couch to the front door
Knock knock 
It’s open couldn’t be bothered moving
 charming......I was at the wrong house....  "
Damn, need to stop being lazy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For a first time, where there is significant verification that we aren't wasting our time, 100 miles would probably be the limit.
If it was someone we knew, we'd go further and probably stay over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How far would you go for a one off meet if there was potential for nawty play, and we are talking distance, or, what’s the furthest you’ve travelled for a meet and was it worth the journey???  "
Years ago I got friendly with an American and often met her when I was in the states. Didnt specifically go to meet her but always met her while I was there for some filthy fun. Does that count?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Milan to Finchley was my longest detour
It started with an early morning message from me
'Why are you bored?'
(It wasn't from here, so I can say (I hope I can anyway) that his username was 'bored')
Same night I was sat in his lounge and later in bed |
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"How far would you go for a one off meet if there was potential for nawty play, and we are talking distance, or, what’s the furthest you’ve travelled for a meet and was it worth the journey???
Years ago I got friendly with an American and often met her when I was in the states. Didnt specifically go to meet her but always met her while I was there for some filthy fun. Does that count? "
No. It wasn't a one off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How far would you go for a one off meet if there was potential for nawty play, and we are talking distance, or, what’s the furthest you’ve travelled for a meet and was it worth the journey???
Years ago I got friendly with an American and often met her when I was in the states. Didnt specifically go to meet her but always met her while I was there for some filthy fun. Does that count?
Oh dear - dead right. Lazy reading and I missed the whole point
No. It wasn't a one off."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Milan to Finchley was my longest detour
It started with an early morning message from me
'Why are you bored?'
(It wasn't from here, so I can say (I hope I can anyway) that his username was 'bored')
Same night I was sat in his lounge and later in bed "
Was he boring? |
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"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.
Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x "
Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!
I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.
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"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.
Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x
Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!
I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.
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Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x
Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.
Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x
Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!
I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.
Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x
Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons???? "
Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed
I wouldn't travel far personally |
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Surely ALL meetings start as a one off, so where's the difference. I've done an hours' drive to sit and twiddle my thumbs and find a message at home that she didn't think I looked like my photos. I was pi****d at that I must admit.
I've also done two plus hours' drive for a lunch that became an overnight, followed by three weekends. And have more than once done an hour plus for first meets that have been great. So, "yer pays yer money and yer takes yer choice" |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.
Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x
Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!
I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.
Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x
Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????
Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed
I wouldn't travel far personally "
Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before. |
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"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.
Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x
Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!
I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.
Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x
Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????
Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed
I wouldn't travel far personally
Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before."
Game set and match |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't do a 'one off meet' but the ex fwb was a 280 mile 5hour round trip.
The current fwb is 90 mile 2ish hour round trip.
I'm happy to travel for the right guys |
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I'm reasonably open minded but usually don't travel. An hours travel is nothing, for example and can be part of a short trip out. Some used to travel for miles, camp out at a store overnight, just to get an iPhone, so I consider equivalent effort for someone who is going to be better than a little phone, to be realistic. Not that I ever bought one, mind. |
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"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.
Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x
Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!
I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.
Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x
Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????
Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed
I wouldn't travel far personally
Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before."
Interesting, can we ask them why you have joined a swingers site? And yes, it is a swingers site, the clue is in the name? Our default position is to assume anyone here is a swinger - if not shouldn’t you just be in a standard dating site, or tinder, or POF or something??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.
Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x
Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!
I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.
Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x
Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????
Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed
I wouldn't travel far personally
Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before.
Interesting, can we ask them why you have joined a swingers site? And yes, it is a swingers site, the clue is in the name? Our default position is to assume anyone here is a swinger - if not shouldn’t you just be in a standard dating site, or tinder, or POF or something???"
What is a swinger? What is the difference between this site and a "standard dating site"? |
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"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.
Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x
Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!
I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.
Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x
Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????
Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed
I wouldn't travel far personally
Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before.
Interesting, can we ask them why you have joined a swingers site? And yes, it is a swingers site, the clue is in the name? Our default position is to assume anyone here is a swinger - if not shouldn’t you just be in a standard dating site, or tinder, or POF or something???
What is a swinger? What is the difference between this site and a "standard dating site"?"
Anyone that doesn’t know what a swinger is shouldn’t really join a swingers site on our opinion.... probably get stated for that, but that’s the truth in our honest opinion. |
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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago
Stockport |
"Yes, we find that strange too, we spend about twenty hours a week travelling for work, so a couple of hours drive for sexy fun is no problem at all x "
I drive a truck, so adding on a few hours of my life in a car isn't really much!
But at same time, if local would probably walk as having driven all day, stretching legs is good!
So if walking 1 mile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.
Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x
Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!
I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.
Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x
Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????
Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed
I wouldn't travel far personally
Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before.
Interesting, can we ask them why you have joined a swingers site? And yes, it is a swingers site, the clue is in the name? Our default position is to assume anyone here is a swinger - if not shouldn’t you just be in a standard dating site, or tinder, or POF or something???
What is a swinger? What is the difference between this site and a "standard dating site"?
Anyone that doesn’t know what a swinger is shouldn’t really join a swingers site on our opinion.... probably get stated for that, but that’s the truth in our honest opinion. "
So what is a swinger?
There are many different descriptions. What is yours? |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
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"How far would you go for a one off meet if there was potential for nawty play, and we are talking distance, or, what’s the furthest you’ve travelled for a meet and was it worth the journey??? "
So far, about 200 miles. Was worth it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Distance doesn't really matter if you plan it in advance.
But would have to be someone I have chatted to for a while if it's was more than a hours drive away.
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Yea I drove 200 miles to a meet then back again after hours of naughtiness, would happly travel again for meets as for what I would do , always play safe and the rest depends on the persons interests and desires x |
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"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.
Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x
Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!
I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.
Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x
Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????
Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed
I wouldn't travel far personally
Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before.
Interesting, can we ask them why you have joined a swingers site? And yes, it is a swingers site, the clue is in the name? Our default position is to assume anyone here is a swinger - if not shouldn’t you just be in a standard dating site, or tinder, or POF or something???
What is a swinger? What is the difference between this site and a "standard dating site"?
Anyone that doesn’t know what a swinger is shouldn’t really join a swingers site on our opinion.... probably get stated for that, but that’s the truth in our honest opinion.
So what is a swinger?
There are many different descriptions. What is yours?"
An official description of swinging is as follows. Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from spontaneous sexual activity involving partner swapping or adding a third or more participants at an informal gathering of friends to planned regular social meetings to "hooking up" with like-minded people at a sex club.what swinging isn’t is just having a one on one friend with benefits. That’s just called having a fuck buddy. Starting to think we should start a separate threat on people’s different interpretation of what swinging is..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.
Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x
Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!
I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.
Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x
Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????
Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed
I wouldn't travel far personally
Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before.
Interesting, can we ask them why you have joined a swingers site? And yes, it is a swingers site, the clue is in the name? Our default position is to assume anyone here is a swinger - if not shouldn’t you just be in a standard dating site, or tinder, or POF or something???
What is a swinger? What is the difference between this site and a "standard dating site"?
Anyone that doesn’t know what a swinger is shouldn’t really join a swingers site on our opinion.... probably get stated for that, but that’s the truth in our honest opinion.
So what is a swinger?
There are many different descriptions. What is yours?
An official description of swinging is as follows. Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from spontaneous sexual activity involving partner swapping or adding a third or more participants at an informal gathering of friends to planned regular social meetings to "hooking up" with like-minded people at a sex club.what swinging isn’t is just having a one on one friend with benefits. That’s just called having a fuck buddy. Starting to think we should start a separate threat on people’s different interpretation of what swinging is..... "
Do a thread.
Fuck buddies and fwb are different, I agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having previiusly travelled 150 miles (each way) to a meet, only to be told by text when I got there and was waiting that they "had to go to their mothers", not very far. Wouldnt do that again unless I happened to be heading that way anyway (my work takes me all over the country). |
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"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.
Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x
Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!
I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.
Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x
Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????
Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed
I wouldn't travel far personally
Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before.
Interesting, can we ask them why you have joined a swingers site? And yes, it is a swingers site, the clue is in the name? Our default position is to assume anyone here is a swinger - if not shouldn’t you just be in a standard dating site, or tinder, or POF or something???
What is a swinger? What is the difference between this site and a "standard dating site"?
Anyone that doesn’t know what a swinger is shouldn’t really join a swingers site on our opinion.... probably get stated for that, but that’s the truth in our honest opinion.
So what is a swinger?
There are many different descriptions. What is yours?
An official description of swinging is as follows. Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from spontaneous sexual activity involving partner swapping or adding a third or more participants at an informal gathering of friends to planned regular social meetings to "hooking up" with like-minded people at a sex club.what swinging isn’t is just having a one on one friend with benefits. That’s just called having a fuck buddy. Starting to think we should start a separate threat on people’s different interpretation of what swinging is.....
Do a thread.
Fuck buddies and fwb are different, I agree. "
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"Having previiusly travelled 150 miles (each way) to a meet, only to be told by text when I got there and was waiting that they "had to go to their mothers", not very far. Wouldnt do that again unless I happened to be heading that way anyway (my work takes me all over the country)."
And this is the exact crux of the question and why we wondered how far people would travel for a one off or first meet..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd never go outside the city I live in for a meet. If I'm getting a holiday out of it then yes I might travel afar but not for a sex meet that's just insane. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Living in the midlands no where is too far however I would have to be really sure they were worth travelling for "
True! Being in the Midlands means everything is closer. It's all local |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I used to live in London I drove to Scotland. Approx 600 miles. An exciting road trip and well worth it. That was the start for the return visit to the magical Highlands 
That has been my longest road trip. There is no limit on miles/distance for me because I enjoy travelling. Looking forward to months ahead... |
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I’d travel ... I’ve no qualms about doing it 