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I don't get it about hotlists
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use it for people I notice in the forums. Perve before I message and then hopefully go to friends list x"
I'm similar. It's a great way of keeping track of the forum posts of a few interesting and witty members. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to use it when I'm looking, I add the ones I like or that catch my eye.
Then I go back over them more thoroughly to check if there are bits I've missed non smokers age (looking for Jason Momoa look a likes or looking for 10 foot cocks).
And start removing said unsuitable profiles.
I'm left with a few choice profiles to message which would probably suit me more.
I sometimes add some of the new joiners that catch my eye and if they finally add some pictures or a decent profile I re check if I still mett their new criteria.
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I have several on mine now that are there because I like their style of photos. One or two I can’t recall putting there and a few because I would like to get to know them a little bit better.
I only have one real hottie these days though  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"From what I've read, I certainly don't like the thought of being on a hotlist without me knowing.
I’ve just checked for you buddy. Don’t worry your not "
I think that if anyone was to be put on someone's hotlist, they must be given a notification showing who has hotlisted them rather than just be hotlisted without their knowledge or permission. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"From what I've read, I certainly don't like the thought of being on a hotlist without me knowing.
Don't worry about it. X"
I'm sure it's nothing to lose sleep over lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From what I've read, I certainly don't like the thought of being on a hotlist without me knowing.
Don't worry about it. X
I'm sure it's nothing to lose sleep over lol"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For profiles you like but will never be friends with.
You can like their pics etc, you dont have to friend list and meet everyone you like, so you can just hotlist and follow their public stuff."
If that's the case then I'll not bother as I don't feel comfortable adding people to a list without their knowledge or permission. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"For profiles you like but will never be friends with.
You can like their pics etc, you dont have to friend list and meet everyone you like, so you can just hotlist and follow their public stuff.
If that's the case then I'll not bother as I don't feel comfortable adding people to a list without their knowledge or permission."
If anyone cared that much they wouldn't be here. Everyone knows the hotlist function exists. |
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"For profiles you like but will never be friends with.
You can like their pics etc, you dont have to friend list and meet everyone you like, so you can just hotlist and follow their public stuff.
If that's the case then I'll not bother as I don't feel comfortable adding people to a list without their knowledge or permission."
So ask or tell them then x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For profiles you like but will never be friends with.
You can like their pics etc, you dont have to friend list and meet everyone you like, so you can just hotlist and follow their public stuff.
If that's the case then I'll not bother as I don't feel comfortable adding people to a list without their knowledge or permission.
So ask or tell them then x"
I would but I can't help but doubt they would want to respond to a message asking if they would want to be added to my hotlist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a good function.
Having a foot fetish, I can keep all my ladies locked away in that compartment, and bring them out to perv at whenever I like!!!  |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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If i see someone attractive but they live opposite end of country I'll hotlist for a perv when they upload new pics or certain ppl who do events I don't need to add as a friend to keep up and see what's what |
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"If i see someone attractive but they live opposite end of country I'll hotlist for a perv when they upload new pics or certain ppl who do events I don't need to add as a friend to keep up and see what's what "
You're on my hotlist Darlo  |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
the gym and random places |
"If i see someone attractive but they live opposite end of country I'll hotlist for a perv when they upload new pics or certain ppl who do events I don't need to add as a friend to keep up and see what's what
You're on my hotlist Darlo "
Ooh why thank you   
You'll make me blush |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I would get into it and start adding people but I can't help but feel like I'd be invading someone's privacy or that could be just the anxiety talking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to list people who continually add pics I think are hot. But I get bored very quickly and delete them within a day or 2.
No one on there currently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have several on mine now that are there because I like their style of photos. One or two I can’t recall putting there and a few because I would like to get to know them a little bit better.
I only have one real hottie these days though "
Aww thanks!
(You didn't mean me but I can dream...) |
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"I would get into it and start adding people but I can't help but feel like I'd be invading someone's privacy or that could be just the anxiety talking."
You would be invading their privacy no more than looking at their profile does.
If the profile is open to you then you have implied consent anyway. I really wouldn’t worry about these things. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would get into it and start adding people but I can't help but feel like I'd be invading someone's privacy or that could be just the anxiety talking.
You would be invading their privacy no more than looking at their profile does.
If the profile is open to you then you have implied consent anyway. I really wouldn’t worry about these things. "
I am trying not to. Perhaps it stems from my past social anxieties of fearing people wouldn't want to talk to me or would tell me to go away if I was to approach them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No you’re not. I don’t either. I don’t see the point as the person doesn’t know "
Exactly. What is the point of it if you can't know who's added you to their hotlist? |
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We use it for putting people on that we want to show each other later.
It’s like a holding net for potential playmates.
If the other says no, they’re off the hotlist.
Useful for stalking as well... |
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"No you’re not. I don’t either. I don’t see the point as the person doesn’t know
Exactly. What is the point of it if you can't know who's added you to their hotlist?"
How many times can you say the same thing in a thread.
If your approach was taken I'm sure some would stop using the hotlist on here and make their own list on their phones notes function or a piece of paper.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No you’re not. I don’t either. I don’t see the point as the person doesn’t know
Exactly. What is the point of it if you can't know who's added you to their hotlist?
How many times can you say the same thing in a thread.
If your approach was taken I'm sure some would stop using the hotlist on here and make their own list on their phones notes function or a piece of paper.
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I never said that everyone should stop using it. If you want to use the hotlist, go ahead.
It's just I've been overcoming social anxieties over the past two years and for some reason still have trouble with certain approaches. |
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I use mine as a not list. There are only a few people on there, those who regularly host large bareback gangbang meets. I use it so that I get notifications of who’s verified them after these meets so I can block them. |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
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"Am I the only one who doesn't use hotlists?
I just don't understand them at all."
I use the feature and put all the women I'm interested in there.
Saves me doing multiple searches. Also if they are not interested, I take them out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess everyone has a different use for hotlists if they use them at all OP.
I use them to earmark those I might contact in future and for those who take good photos.
There's no right or wrong use or anything to get as such. |
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