How do you think she will take it??
I've been with my other half about 5years, was maybe a few months in and he told me he was bi, was abit of a shock, but knew he had needs I couldn't fulfil so thought we would have fun together with it 
(But after a previous sexless marriage I just want to try it all lol)
Do think you should tell her but dont tell her about being on this site just yet, see what her reaction to you being bi is first. X |
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I generally tell someone who I'm getting serious about, about my crossdressing, around the fourth or fifth date. Obviously as long as the conversation is heading in that direction.
So my answer would be honesty all the way  |
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It partly depends upon your relationship that you have with her, as well as any agreements that you've ever made together, such as not having secrets. Everyone has different expectations but if you're with someone, potentially for life, then it would be great to share (and thus potentially not having to hide) things between you.
Consider the implications for her - whether you're just starting to become aware, whether you've hidden something for a long time, told lies or been unfaithful etc. How you share your personal depths is going to partly depend on her. |
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After 33 years together I'd assume you'd be the one better equipped to answer this rather than strangers online who don't know you, your wife or any implications.
If I was you I would consider why you haven't told her before now, what might happen if you do and whether you were prepared to face that. |
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"All my life, and I haven’t told her because I think she would go ape"
She might go ape but do you think she could come to terms with it.
Life is really short....I think it's important to be who you really are. Easier said than done I know. Good luck with whatever you decide x |
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By *obytails OP Man
over a year ago
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"All my life, and I haven’t told her because I think she would go ape
She might go ape but do you think she could come to terms with it.
Life is really short....I think it's important to be who you really are. Easier said than done I know. Good luck with whatever you decide x"
Thanks Annabelle decision time is fast approaching xx |
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By *obytails OP Man
over a year ago
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"Mine knows, just doesn’t care. Which is par for the course with her, sadly!
That's a shame,you could have some good time's together introducing another guy into your bedroom. "
Such a massive step but we only live once x |
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"All my life, and I haven’t told her because I think she would go ape"
So you're going to tell her in the hope she'll divorce you? She'll out you and tell all your friends that you've been fucking men while you were married. |
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By *obytails OP Man
over a year ago
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"What level of bi are we talking?
A random suck on a cock to scratch an itch or you want MM sex to be a big part of your sex life going forward?"
A random suck and fuck but an mmf as a bonus xx |
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"Mine knows, just doesn’t care. Which is par for the course with her, sadly!
That's a shame,you could have some good time's together introducing another guy into your bedroom. "
I may or may not have mentioned this on a few occasions but zero interest  |
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"Mine knows, just doesn’t care. Which is par for the course with her, sadly!
That's a shame,you could have some good time's together introducing another guy into your bedroom.
I may or may not have mentioned this on a few occasions but zero interest "
Well you're on here so just do it with others. Two men being together aren't for everyone I suppose. |
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"Mine knows, just doesn’t care. Which is par for the course with her, sadly!
That's a shame,you could have some good time's together introducing another guy into your bedroom.
I may or may not have mentioned this on a few occasions but zero interest "
She should fuck whoever you tell her to. |
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"Mine knows, just doesn’t care. Which is par for the course with her, sadly!
That's a shame,you could have some good time's together introducing another guy into your bedroom.
I may or may not have mentioned this on a few occasions but zero interest
She should fuck whoever you tell her to. "
Like a good woman |
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"Mine knows, just doesn’t care. Which is par for the course with her, sadly!
That's a shame,you could have some good time's together introducing another guy into your bedroom.
I may or may not have mentioned this on a few occasions but zero interest
She should fuck whoever you tell her to. "
Oh no no, I don’t tell her to do anything, I wouldn’t dare!  |
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"What level of bi are we talking?
A random suck on a cock to scratch an itch or you want MM sex to be a big part of your sex life going forward?
A random suck and fuck but an mmf as a bonus xx"
I'll probably get torn to shreds for this, but personally, I wouldn't jeopardise a 33 year marriage for a bit of random cock sucking
If you want to live as openly bi however, it seems fair that she is fully aware |
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