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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Single guys can you please stop messaging us ladies like as if we’re are unpaid prostitute! Yes this is a swinging site but we still got standards it is very off putting & then you wonder why you can’t get a meet! Think before you send any messages  rant over |
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"Single guys can you please stop messaging us ladies like as if we’re are unpaid prostitute! Yes this is a swinging site but we still got standards it is very off putting & then you wonder why you can’t get a meet! Think before you send any messages rant over "
Why ?? Do you want paying then??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single guys can you please stop messaging us ladies like as if we’re are unpaid prostitute! Yes this is a swinging site but we still got standards it is very off putting & then you wonder why you can’t get a meet! Think before you send any messages rant over "
Another day. Another whinge about single blokes.
Here’s a thought. Put your filters up and do the hard work yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not every guy comes on to the forums. Putting it here is pointless, as well as the other 10 thousand threads which are exactly the same as this.
Block and move on, its not that hard |
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"Single guys can you please stop messaging us ladies like as if we’re are unpaid prostitute! Yes this is a swinging site but we still got standards it is very off putting & then you wonder why you can’t get a meet! Think before you send any messages rant over
Another day. Another whinge about single blokes.
Here’s a thought. Put your filters up and do the hard work yourself. "
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"I've never had these messages. Probably look like I give it away for free and easily.  "
I used to get them in the past... But realised that certain styles and quality of photo attracted those kinds of mails, as they were similar to those used by escorts on the site. Once I changed things around a bit they stopped. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single guys can you please stop messaging us ladies like as if we’re are unpaid prostitute! Yes this is a swinging site but we still got standards it is very off putting & then you wonder why you can’t get a meet! Think before you send any messages rant over "
couldn't agree more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single guys can you please stop messaging us ladies like as if we’re are unpaid prostitute! Yes this is a swinging site but we still got standards it is very off putting & then you wonder why you can’t get a meet! Think before you send any messages rant over
Another day. Another whinge about single blokes.
Here’s a thought. Put your filters up and do the hard work yourself. "
This
My FB did that and enjoyed her time on here way more and had more success with meets this way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single guys can you please stop messaging us ladies like as if we’re are unpaid prostitute! Yes this is a swinging site but we still got standards it is very off putting & then you wonder why you can’t get a meet! Think before you send any messages rant over
Another day. Another whinge about single blokes.
Here’s a thought. Put your filters up and do the hard work yourself. "
But if she uses filters, how can she blame the men?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. The type of blokes who send these messages are highly unlikely to read the forums, I doubt they read anything, but like nice shiny pictures. You just need to separate the wheat from the chaff by blocking and deleting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. The type of blokes who send these messages are highly unlikely to read the forums, I doubt they read anything, but like nice shiny pictures. You just need to separate the wheat from the chaff by blocking and deleting. "
I wonder what % of fab users look at the forums? Personally I’m finding them very entertaining  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. The type of blokes who send these messages are highly unlikely to read the forums, I doubt they read anything, but like nice shiny pictures. You just need to separate the wheat from the chaff by blocking and deleting. "
or use your filters....just have site supporters, people verified, only certain age men or just no men or no men, women, tv couples etc. Then you will get no messages at all.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive heard this a lot and have also heard why and how some have changed it.
Increase your filters and go look yoursef for meets. It's easy just to sit back and winge about all the mail, but you can easily stop that.
Certain photos will also bring certain types, so think about' how your photos are viewed and received.
Your profile header has a bigger impact than you may realise so use it wisely.
Careful with your updates, and what you say on the forums.
All this was given to me from a few female friends when I asked how they managed their mail box. They went from maybe 80-150/ day to 5-10 max. They also have gained a better, more appropriate and compatable audience to select from.
Hope that helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. The type of blokes who send these messages are highly unlikely to read the forums, I doubt they read anything, but like nice shiny pictures. You just need to separate the wheat from the chaff by blocking and deleting.
I wonder what % of fab users look at the forums? Personally I’m finding them very entertaining "
A prominent mod corrected me once assured me it was only about 2% and not the optimistic 5-8 I'd mentioned in reply once.
Conclusion don't take what forumites say as fab opinions. So just ignore all that I've said. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Ive heard this a lot and have also heard why and how some have changed it.
Increase your filters and go look yoursef for meets. It's easy just to sit back and winge about all the mail, but you can easily stop that.
Certain photos will also bring certain types, so think about' how your photos are viewed and received.
Your profile header has a bigger impact than you may realise so use it wisely.
Careful with your updates, and what you say on the forums.
All this was given to me from a few female friends when I asked how they managed their mail box. They went from maybe 80-150/ day to 5-10 max. They also have gained a better, more appropriate and compatable audience to select from.
Hope that helps."
This is very sound advice. Quite why people don't do this is rather beyond me!
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"Single guys can you please stop messaging us ladies like as if we’re are unpaid prostitute! Yes this is a swinging site but we still got standards it is very off putting & then you wonder why you can’t get a meet! Think before you send any messages rant over "
Sorry, tottaly didn't get that was the arrangment? Yes your completely right, it's ridiculous and rude to assume you'd work for free. Would be handy if we have a break down of rates though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive heard this a lot and have also heard why and how some have changed it.
Increase your filters and go look yoursef for meets. It's easy just to sit back and winge about all the mail, but you can easily stop that.
Certain photos will also bring certain types, so think about' how your photos are viewed and received.
Your profile header has a bigger impact than you may realise so use it wisely.
Careful with your updates, and what you say on the forums.
All this was given to me from a few female friends when I asked how they managed their mail box. They went from maybe 80-150/ day to 5-10 max. They also have gained a better, more appropriate and compatable audience to select from.
Hope that helps.
This is very sound advice. Quite why people don't do this is rather beyond me!
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Alternatively change your user name to Midastouch. It has the same desired effect  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Single guys can you please stop messaging us ladies like as if we’re are unpaid prostitute! Yes this is a swinging site but we still got standards it is very off putting & then you wonder why you can’t get a meet! Think before you send any messages rant over
Sorry, tottaly didn't get that was the arrangment? Yes your completely right, it's ridiculous and rude to assume you'd work for free. Would be handy if we have a break down of rates though."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive heard this a lot and have also heard why and how some have changed it.
Increase your filters and go look yoursef for meets. It's easy just to sit back and winge about all the mail, but you can easily stop that.
Certain photos will also bring certain types, so think about' how your photos are viewed and received.
Your profile header has a bigger impact than you may realise so use it wisely.
Careful with your updates, and what you say on the forums.
All this was given to me from a few female friends when I asked how they managed their mail box. They went from maybe 80-150/ day to 5-10 max. They also have gained a better, more appropriate and compatable audience to select from. Yeah it have! All men are blocked
Hope that helps."
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"Single guys can you please stop messaging us ladies like as if we’re are unpaid prostitute! Yes this is a swinging site but we still got standards it is very off putting & then you wonder why you can’t get a meet! Think before you send any messages rant over "
Oooh i love your profile text when you say you only meet professional people, do you mean you've narrowed it down to people that earn money?
Of course lets not forget prostitution is one of the oldest professions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single guys can you please stop messaging us ladies like as if we’re are unpaid prostitute! Yes this is a swinging site but we still got standards it is very off putting & then you wonder why you can’t get a meet! Think before you send any messages rant over "
What kind of things do they say? |
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