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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do so many guys on here think calling a grown woman a ‘good girl’ will do them a favour? I don’t call anyone a ‘good boy’ when I really want to be nice, only when being highly sarcastic. Opinions?  |
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"Why do so many guys on here think calling a grown woman a ‘good girl’ will do them a favour? I don’t call anyone a ‘good boy’ when I really want to be nice, only when being highly sarcastic. Opinions? "
But I am a good boy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do so many guys on here think calling a grown woman a ‘good girl’ will do them a favour? I don’t call anyone a ‘good boy’ when I really want to be nice, only when being highly sarcastic. Opinions? But I am a good boy "
Damn it! |
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"Why do so many guys on here think calling a grown woman a ‘good girl’ will do them a favour? I don’t call anyone a ‘good boy’ when I really want to be nice, only when being highly sarcastic. Opinions? "
It doesn’t bother me if from someone I know already |
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"Why do so many guys on here think calling a grown woman a ‘good girl’ will do them a favour? I don’t call anyone a ‘good boy’ when I really want to be nice, only when being highly sarcastic. Opinions? "
I think I’m a good girl 
My husband has another opinion!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's just harmless role play fun in a lot of cases OP. There's two grown women on this thread I'd be tempted to call girl now I know they like it "
Not in my case though. I mean in messages??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find that calling her a good girl under the right circumstances has a magical effect : she’s turns truly wild and the fun takes another dimension.
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Should have been clearer. I mean by random guys who don’t know me in their messages and not by lover/s... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find that calling her a good girl under the right circumstances has a magical effect : she’s turns truly wild and the fun takes another dimension.
Should have been clearer. I mean by random guys who don’t know me in their messages and not by lover/s..."
Gotcha! And yes if it comes from a random stranger, if there is no history behind it, it’s a bit weird. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!
Same for cupcake!"
Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!
Same for cupcake!
Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why "
God knows! My soft center maybe |
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"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!
Same for cupcake!
Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why "
How about ‘honeybum’ ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!
Same for cupcake!
Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why
God knows! My soft center maybe "
But cupcake?????????!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!
Same for cupcake!
Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why
How about ‘honeybum’ ?"
Petal? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!
Same for cupcake!
Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why
How about ‘honeybum’ ?"
Well seeing my profile pic this one isn’t too bad I suppose..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!
Same for cupcake!
Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why
How about ‘honeybum’ ?
Petal?"
Northern. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!
Same for cupcake!
Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why
How about ‘honeybum’ ?
Petal?
Northern."
Nah dunno wat u mean |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I can't imagine using any term of endearment (babe, hun, good girl, sweety etc etc) with anyone I don't know, or barely know - would just feel a little presumptuous and awkward to me, and more than a touch creepy in some instances |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't imagine using any term of endearment (babe, hun, good girl, sweety etc etc) with anyone I don't know, or barely know - would just feel a little presumptuous and awkward to me, and more than a touch creepy in some instances "
Yes, I’m trying to see it differently but I totally agree. Hate Hun too. |
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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago
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"It's just harmless role play fun in a lot of cases OP. There's two grown women on this thread I'd be tempted to call girl now I know they like it
Not in my case though. I mean in messages???"
I agree. In messages its just cringe inducing.
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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago
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"It's just harmless role play fun in a lot of cases OP. There's two grown women on this thread I'd be tempted to call girl now I know they like it
Not in my case though. I mean in messages???
I agree. In messages its just cringe inducing.
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Also good girl is something I hear parents saying when a child clears it's plate or makes it to the loo before having an accident... Or it's what I used to say to my family's Labrador when she returned a tennis ball after I'd thrown it.
As those are the associations I make. My immediate reaction is I'm not a child or a dog...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's just harmless role play fun in a lot of cases OP. There's two grown women on this thread I'd be tempted to call girl now I know they like it
Not in my case though. I mean in messages???
I agree. In messages its just cringe inducing.
Also good girl is something I hear parents saying when a child clears it's plate or makes it to the loo before having an accident... Or it's what I used to say to my family's Labrador when she returned a tennis ball after I'd thrown it.
As those are the associations I make. My immediate reaction is I'm not a child or a dog...
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OMG. So true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on who and when lol in the right circumstances and the right person it really does get me going. But also depends on my mood as sometimes it will just make me want to be naughty too lol
The wrong person and wrong situation will likely get a left hook |
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"Why do so many guys on here think calling a grown woman a ‘good girl’ will do them a favour? I don’t call anyone a ‘good boy’ when I really want to be nice, only when being highly sarcastic. Opinions? "
I use "good boy" in scenes. It's a power play if a guy you don't know uses it towards you imo.
To use language that reduces the others status (adult to child) is common in BDSM ageplay.
Use of "baby" names like girl, babe, doll etc usually irritate me if it's an initial conversation it'll often end in a block. |
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I'm a woman. Enough said.
Anyone who calls another 'good girl' wants to dominate anyone who likes being called a 'good girl' wants to be dominated and not take responsibility.
If that's what they like then more power to their elbow.
I'm an adult in all situations in my life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a woman. Enough said.
Anyone who calls another 'good girl' wants to dominate anyone who likes being called a 'good girl' wants to be dominated and not take responsibility.
If that's what they like then more power to their elbow.
I'm an adult in all situations in my life. "
Well you certainly have a way with words. With you 100% |
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"Women, finding new shit to moan about on here since 2009. "
But....but..what about teh menz?? 
Do they not moan?
"Oooh I'm so horny and nobody will meet me"
"You keep calling 45 yr old women baby and you're 20 years old and living at home still getting your mum to iron your underpants"
"But I'm horny and need to empty my balls"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Women, finding new shit to moan about on here since 2009.
But....but..what about teh menz??
Do they not moan?
"Oooh I'm so horny and nobody will meet me"
"You keep calling 45 yr old women baby and you're 20 years old and living at home still getting your mum to iron your underpants"
"But I'm horny and need to empty my balls"
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Love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Revising my opinion a bit.
Random stranger in first message - weird and creepy. You're right.
In bed - still oh yes please.
In messages with established flirty tone, hell yeah.
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"Revising my opinion a bit.
Random stranger in first message - weird and creepy. You're right.
In bed - still oh yes please.
In messages with established flirty tone, hell yeah.
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Interrupting this thread to appreciate your username
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interrupting this thread to appreciate your username
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Thank you!!!! So many blokes have earnestly told me I've made a terrible faux pas using my own name.... Face palm! Tbh it was very relevant when I joined (trying to get over someone and never one of life's heroines) but strangely not of late! It acts as a good filter tho!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t really give it much thought. I may have called someone a good by at some point though. I didn’t read anything into it though. "
That's my favourite thing. Call me that and I will absolutely melt |
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Interrupting this thread to appreciate your username
Thank you!!!! So many blokes have earnestly told me I've made a terrible faux pas using my own name.... Face palm! Tbh it was very relevant when I joined (trying to get over someone and never one of life's heroines) but strangely not of late! It acts as a good filter tho!! "
Ya, there's those that get it and it's probably a good conversation starter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Interrupting this thread to appreciate your username
Thank you!!!! So many blokes have earnestly told me I've made a terrible faux pas using my own name.... Face palm! Tbh it was very relevant when I joined (trying to get over someone and never one of life's heroines) but strangely not of late! It acts as a good filter tho!!
Ya, there's those that get it and it's probably a good conversation starter "
I tried to friend you - but I'm too old!! |
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