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By *heFuzz OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi - sorry to restrict this, but figure you’re who I am most interested in listening to on this.
We all know that fab can be frustrating for single guys, so rather than throw my toys out of the pram, I’d like to learn from it.
When I send out messages, I generally look to find out if I’m the type of guy that they are interested in, and and attach a non-dick pic.
As a quick show of hands, is this preferred?
Or does it make me look too polite when truth be told I’m much more of a perv at heart! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People will look at your message then your profile, maybe even the other way around.
Your profile is blank, no matter how good your message is, that will turn people off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People will look at your message then your profile, maybe even the other way around.
Your profile is blank, no matter how good your message is, that will turn people off"
I mean, come on! There isn't even a profile heading! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People will look at your message then your profile, maybe even the other way around.
Your profile is blank, no matter how good your message is, that will turn people off
I mean, come on! There isn't even a profile heading!"
You've been here a year! How do you not know this yet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women tend to look for a face they fancy. A profile that shows similar tastes and a polite message that introduces themselves and shows interest to a particular part of their profile.
Ultimately, if they're not attracted the conversation goes no further.. |
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By *heFuzz OP Man
over a year ago
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"People will look at your message then your profile, maybe even the other way around.
Your profile is blank, no matter how good your message is, that will turn people off
I mean, come on! There isn't even a profile heading!
You've been here a year! How do you not know this yet "
Maybe I’m not as regular a user as others... not exactly crime. But your thoughts are appreciated. |
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By *heFuzz OP Man
over a year ago
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"To be honest I only ever contact straight single women.
And what are you contacting them for?"
To see what they are interested in and if we might be on the same page. Don’t want to make assumptions. |
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By *heFuzz OP Man
over a year ago
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"The blank profile is a massive turn off.... "
Thank you... I used to have text there, but figured no-one read it. Plus, was in two minds of why I was on here for a while. So figure it would be better to chat. |
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By *heFuzz OP Man
over a year ago
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"Women tend to look for a face they fancy. A profile that shows similar tastes and a polite message that introduces themselves and shows interest to a particular part of their profile.
Ultimately, if they're not attracted the conversation goes no further.. "
That’s fair... I agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi - sorry to restrict this, but figure you’re who I am most interested in listening to on this.
We all know that fab can be frustrating for single guys, so rather than throw my toys out of the pram, I’d like to learn from it.
When I send out messages, I generally look to find out if I’m the type of guy that they are interested in, and and attach a non-dick pic.
As a quick show of hands, is this preferred?
Or does it make me look too polite when truth be told I’m much more of a perv at heart!"
No title, no text to give an idea of who you are and what you want/offer. I would pass on by. |
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"As mentioned above, women will generally read the profile before looking at the message - and you don't have one! "
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This! When I was on here as a single straight lady I would have deleted message after viewing your profile and finding it blank! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
All you really need has been said above OP, particularly about your profile and pics which will always be key - however a couple of things to consider...
You say in your OP that you are only looking for feedback from straight ladies - just a thought but other guys, may actually have some valuable feedback based on their experience, especially the ones who find the site meets their expectations.
Sending messages is but one way of approaching the site OP, and while it may work for some, it's not for everyone, and not without it's drawbacks if it's the only approach you use. Consider getting along to group socials or clubs as well, or getting more involved in the forums and/or chat rooms, which are all good ways of not only getting to know people, but of getting yourself known too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi - sorry to restrict this, but figure you’re who I am most interested in listening to on this.
We all know that fab can be frustrating for single guys, so rather than throw my toys out of the pram, I’d like to learn from it.
When I send out messages, I generally look to find out if I’m the type of guy that they are interested in, and and attach a non-dick pic.
As a quick show of hands, is this preferred?
Or does it make me look too polite when truth be told I’m much more of a perv at heart!"
Looks fine to me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi - sorry to restrict this, but figure you’re who I am most interested in listening to on this.
We all know that fab can be frustrating for single guys, so rather than throw my toys out of the pram, I’d like to learn from it.
When I send out messages, I generally look to find out if I’m the type of guy that they are interested in, and and attach a non-dick pic.
As a quick show of hands, is this preferred?
Or does it make me look too polite when truth be told I’m much more of a perv at heart!"
To me that’s the right way to do things |
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