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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do people really need to justify their preferences?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do people really need to justify their preferences?"

Apparently so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it."

Why would anyone need an excuse for their preferences? ?

Hasn't this subject been done to death?

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it."

Which part of Asia are we talking about?

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By *ilth500Man over a year ago

Merseyside

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well everything should have a reason ..

and a preference too

This is not a moan but rather see what and how people think !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I have no preference regarding race, not that I’ll ever justify that to anyone. I certainly don’t throw a wobbler when I see a great profile but she specifies bbc only, each to their own and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In Newcastle there's hardly any Japanese or Chinese women about on fab, I really wish there was I wouldn't mind having a chat and getting to know a Asian girl.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well everything should have a reason ..

and a preference too

This is not a moan but rather see what and how people think !!"

A preference does not have to have a reason.

What do people think?? They have preferences just as you have.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because over a billion Asians aren't their type apparently.

But what can you do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never seen a profile that says no Asian women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well everything should have a reason ..

and a preference too

This is not a moan but rather see what and how people think !!

A preference does not have to have a reason.

What do people think?? They have preferences just as you have."

So when u say you prefer a certain thing over other .. it's just for no reason apparently ??

It's just because it is .. amazing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well everything should have a reason ..

and a preference too

This is not a moan but rather see what and how people think !!

A preference does not have to have a reason.

What do people think?? They have preferences just as you have.

So when u say you prefer a certain thing over other .. it's just for no reason apparently ??

It's just because it is .. amazing

Pretty much yeah

I prefer Chinese food over Indian food. Just because. No reason

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I like all races.

I can't stand passive aggressive people.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman over a year ago

London

You want excuses?

Here you go.

Out of about 10 or more Asian guys I have come across through this site one (1) had excellent manners and treated me as a human being. All the others... Don't ask. Let us just say that some cultures are not compatible with each other. Plus there are so many men on this site that women need to minimise, not maximise the number of people they talk to and meet.

Good luck though.

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By *en-xxxMan over a year ago

coventry

Not really an explanation needed is there tbh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it."

No need for an excuse people meet who ever they like and not meet who ever they choose not too. Who are you to question peoples personal choices ????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well everything should have a reason ..

and a preference too

This is not a moan but rather see what and how people think !!

A preference does not have to have a reason.

What do people think?? They have preferences just as you have.

So when u say you prefer a certain thing over other .. it's just for no reason apparently ??

It's just because it is .. amazing

Pretty much yeah

I prefer Chinese food over Indian food. Just because. No reason"

Also - I’m not one of those people who say ‘no asians’ or ‘no blacks’ as I don’t have a preference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never seen a profile that says no Asian women."

Spot on: Western standards of beauty, racism and the portrayal of Asian men in media as meek and unattractive (and black men as dangerous and hypersexual) create unhelpful precedents.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it."

Just out of interest - why do you think people put "no Asians" on their profiles?

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By *ister KinkyMan over a year ago

Sussex

I prefer Canon cameras over Nikon. They both take stunning pictures and do the same job.

So why do I prefer the Canon? No idea, no reason, I just do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

No need for an excuse people meet who ever they like and not meet who ever they choose not too. Who are you to question peoples personal choices ????"

Looking forward to the answer to that one.

Just might out the kettle on. ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though. "

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

No need for an excuse people meet who ever they like and not meet who ever they choose not too. Who are you to question peoples personal choices ????"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldnt discriminate over race I've seen people of all races that I'm attracted to. But if I'm not attracted I'm not attracted. And even a woman who I know is good looking I still might not be attracted to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it."

I haven't had a Asian woman yet because I haven't. Is that a good excuse?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

No need for an excuse people meet who ever they like and not meet who ever they choose not too. Who are you to question peoples personal choices ????"

You feel offended .. lol

I am not questioning their choices , just a reason to avoid someone

You don't want to .. then don't post here haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though.

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

Which culture though? There are many diverse cultures in Asia.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

All of the Asian guys who have contacted me have been short, and I have a preference for tall men. That's my 'excuse'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though.

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

Regardless of any reasons you might suspect, let me ask, do you think anyone wants to meet someone with a massive chip on their shoulder?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

No need for an excuse people meet who ever they like and not meet who ever they choose not too. Who are you to question peoples personal choices ????

You feel offended .. lol

I am not questioning their choices , just a reason to avoid someone

You don't want to .. then don't post here haha"

Correction your the one who's offended because your bringing this rubbish up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

No need for an excuse people meet who ever they like and not meet who ever they choose not too. Who are you to question peoples personal choices ????

You feel offended .. lol

I am not questioning their choices , just a reason to avoid someone

You don't want to .. then don't post here haha

Correction your the one who's offended because your bringing this rubbish up."

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

No need for an excuse people meet who ever they like and not meet who ever they choose not too. Who are you to question peoples personal choices ????

You feel offended .. lol

I am not questioning their choices , just a reason to avoid someone

You don't want to .. then don't post here haha

Correction your the one who's offended because your bringing this rubbish up."

How come I am offended .. lol

I just asked why is their no Asian tag on so many profiles !! Having a discussion

Have I said anything that shows any disgust

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love to hear the opinion of an Asian woman on this topic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've never seen a profile that says no Asian women."

That answer says it all .. about the hypocrisy

No man will ever say no to Asian woman .. but why is it absolutely opposite other way around

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

No need for an excuse people meet who ever they like and not meet who ever they choose not too. Who are you to question peoples personal choices ????

You feel offended .. lol

I am not questioning their choices , just a reason to avoid someone

You don't want to .. then don't post here haha"

Listen the choice of who a woman sleeps with is totally 1000% up to them. They dont need an excuse as you put it. Now you tell me where and when I can post I think your very arrogant

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never seen a profile that says no Asian women.

That answer says it all .. about the hypocrisy

No man will ever say no to Asian woman .. but why is it absolutely opposite other way around

It’s obviously because they’re all racist zzzzz

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could we stop? Before things get out of hand?

As alot of people have said we all have preferences.

We can't help how the world and our existence/minds have shaped itself, it's what it is and the only way to get through it all is cooperation and patience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

No need for an excuse people meet who ever they like and not meet who ever they choose not too. Who are you to question peoples personal choices ????

You feel offended .. lol

I am not questioning their choices , just a reason to avoid someone

You don't want to .. then don't post here haha

Listen the choice of who a woman sleeps with is totally 1000% up to them. They dont need an excuse as you put it. Now you tell me where and when I can post I think your very arrogant "

The word you're looking for is .. YOU'RE

not your! Post it whenever and wherever you like but most probably it will be removed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never seen a profile that says no Asian women.

That answer says it all .. about the hypocrisy

No man will ever say no to Asian woman .. but why is it absolutely opposite other way around

Ah! The mysteries of women are multitudinous

Do you think it's a particular part of Asia that women don't like the men of?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

couldnt have cared less about anyones race when i was meeting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To all those who aren't from an ethnic minority background I just want you to take a moment to consider how it feels to be discounted based on your racial heritage without people so much as even getting to see what you look like let leave what you're like as a person.

Are you entitled to your preferences? Absolutely.

Are those of us who are excluded because of the colour of our skin also allowed to feel aggrieved at being dismissed out of hand because of who we are?

Also yes.

The hostility shown in this thread is flabbergasting.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"couldnt have cared less about anyones race when i was meeting"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though.

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

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You struggle to find Pakistani women on here and I wish there was loads but they just don't come on, no idea why.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To all those who aren't from an ethnic minority background I just want you to take a moment to consider how it feels to be discounted based on your racial heritage without people so much as even getting to see what you look like let leave what you're like as a person.

Are you entitled to your preferences? Absolutely.

Are those of us who are excluded because of the colour of our skin also allowed to feel aggrieved at being dismissed out of hand because of who we are?

Also yes.

The hostility shown in this thread is flabbergasting."

I get your point, but me feeling aggrieved at being dismissed because of the colour of my skin on here is pointless. I get dismissed because of my height, my weight, my location, my age. Those traits are a part of who I am as much as my skin colour or ethnicity - on this site at least. To me "no Asians" is just a handy filter for me not to bother with that profile and move on, just as "no fat bastards" or similar would be

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Worth a search on this topic which crops up a couple of times a month.

If people are clear, it prevents yours and their time being wasted. Focus on those who may match you.

This post is somewhat confrontational imo, so unlikely to do you any favours op.

Meet people and get to know them so that they can decide if you are for them at clubs and socials, depending on 'excuses'

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Are you entitled to your preferences? Absolutely.

Are those of us who are excluded because of the colour of our skin also allowed to feel aggrieved at being dismissed out of hand because of who we are?

Also yes.

The hostility shown in this thread is flabbergasting."

I agree with a lot of what you say, however the op started it on a hostile note. I avoid profiles that state racial preferences, but the tone of the post even irritated me. Hostility begets hostility.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though.

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

Regardless of any reasons you might suspect, let me ask, do you think anyone wants to meet someone with a massive chip on their shoulder? "

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you entitled to your preferences? Absolutely.

Are those of us who are excluded because of the colour of our skin also allowed to feel aggrieved at being dismissed out of hand because of who we are?

Also yes.

The hostility shown in this thread is flabbergasting.

The OP wasn't hostile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though.

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

You struggle to find Pakistani women on here and I wish there was loads but they just don't come on, no idea why."

Maybe they don't like the double standards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Are you entitled to your preferences? Absolutely.

Are those of us who are excluded because of the colour of our skin also allowed to feel aggrieved at being dismissed out of hand because of who we are?

Also yes.

The hostility shown in this thread is flabbergasting.

The OP wasn't hostile. "

Thank you ..

I always believe a sane person is just around the corner lol

Don't know how the other people is thinking this as a hostile thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though.

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

You struggle to find Pakistani women on here and I wish there was loads but they just don't come on, no idea why.

Maybe they don't like the double standards."
. Which double standards are you meaning?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you entitled to your preferences? Absolutely.

Are those of us who are excluded because of the colour of our skin also allowed to feel aggrieved at being dismissed out of hand because of who we are?

Also yes.

The hostility shown in this thread is flabbergasting.

The OP wasn't hostile.

Thank you ..

I always believe a sane person is just around the corner lol

Don't know how the other people is thinking this as a hostile thread

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Which bit of Asia are you from op?.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though.

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

You struggle to find Pakistani women on here and I wish there was loads but they just don't come on, no idea why.

Maybe they don't like the double standards.. Which double standards are you meaning?"

That men of colour are excluded by the majority population (Asian men = perverts, meek, disrespectful and black men = dangerous and hypersexual) and women of colour are fetishised (Asian women = submissive and will do as told, black women = feisty and sassy)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though.

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

You struggle to find Pakistani women on here and I wish there was loads but they just don't come on, no idea why.

Maybe they don't like the double standards.. Which double standards are you meaning?

Those are stereotypes though, surely there's no truth in them?.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Are you entitled to your preferences? Absolutely.

Are those of us who are excluded because of the colour of our skin also allowed to feel aggrieved at being dismissed out of hand because of who we are?

Also yes.

The hostility shown in this thread is flabbergasting.

The OP wasn't hostile. "

I believe it was.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Are you entitled to your preferences? Absolutely.

Are those of us who are excluded because of the colour of our skin also allowed to feel aggrieved at being dismissed out of hand because of who we are?

Also yes.

The hostility shown in this thread is flabbergasting.

The OP wasn't hostile.

Thank you ..

I always believe a sane person is just around the corner lol

Don't know how the other people is thinking this as a hostile thread

Which bit of Asia are you from op?.

Who said I am Asian ..

lol

I am just having a discussion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though.

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

You struggle to find Pakistani women on here and I wish there was loads but they just don't come on, no idea why.

Maybe they don't like the double standards.. Which double standards are you meaning?

I can’t speak for everyone and I’d certainly never attempt to. Personally, I don’t see colour - I see people I like and people I don’t. I pity anyone that believes a stereotype but people make choices, they have preferences and nobody should seek justification for them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though.

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

You struggle to find Pakistani women on here and I wish there was loads but they just don't come on, no idea why.

Maybe they don't like the double standards.. Which double standards are you meaning?

‘I don’t see colour’ is daft....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you entitled to your preferences? Absolutely.

Are those of us who are excluded because of the colour of our skin also allowed to feel aggrieved at being dismissed out of hand because of who we are?

Also yes.

The hostility shown in this thread is flabbergasting.

The OP wasn't hostile.

Thank you ..

I always believe a sane person is just around the corner lol

Don't know how the other people is thinking this as a hostile thread

Which bit of Asia are you from op?.

Who said I am Asian ..

lol

I am just having a discussion

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I presumed you were from your op?.

Ok so which bit of Asia do you think people don't want to meet I mean it's vast and diverse and completely different from one side to the next.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though.

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

You struggle to find Pakistani women on here and I wish there was loads but they just don't come on, no idea why.

Maybe they don't like the double standards.. Which double standards are you meaning?

Those are stereotypes though, surely there's no truth in them?."

Stereotypes are dangerous because they foment lazy assumptions based on the belief that we know things about individuals because they belong to certain groups.

So even supposedly positive stereotypes are more often than not correlated to negative ones - e.g. Asians are studious therefore they're weak or black men are strong so they're less intelligent.

And if you are living in a society when you're in the minority where these tropes exist about you they can become self-fulfilling - you repeat something enough and it can become a truism.

I would strongly recommend people look at the individual before making sweeping assumptions.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though.

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

You struggle to find Pakistani women on here and I wish there was loads but they just don't come on, no idea why.

Maybe they don't like the double standards.. Which double standards are you meaning?

‘I don’t see colour’ is daft...."

Apologies, I don’t see race

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There may be some people who have very personal reasons as to why.

Let's say for example someone had a trauma inducing experience with an Asian person, they may not want to meet Asians for that reason.

Same as someone who may have had a trauma inducing incident with a guy with a beard may rule out all men with beards.

It doesn't mean they think all Asians, or all men with beards will do stuff that's traumatic, boxing them all off into the same place, it may just mean they don't want to put themselves or the other people in that position where they may react badly/unexpectedly.

I couldn't get down and dirty with anyone who had eyes like my ex, or walked the way he did. Doesn't mean I have an issue with these people, it means I'm carrying scars and have ghosts unfortunately.

Things aren't always as cut and dry as they may look on the outside.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though.

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

You struggle to find Pakistani women on here and I wish there was loads but they just don't come on, no idea why.

Maybe they don't like the double standards.. Which double standards are you meaning?

Those are stereotypes though, surely there's no truth in them?.

Stereotypes are dangerous because they foment lazy assumptions based on the belief that we know things about individuals because they belong to certain groups.

So even supposedly positive stereotypes are more often than not correlated to negative ones - e.g. Asians are studious therefore they're weak or black men are strong so they're less intelligent.

And if you are living in a society when you're in the minority where these tropes exist about you they can become self-fulfilling - you repeat something enough and it can become a truism.

I would strongly recommend people look at the individual before making sweeping assumptions."
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I love individuality alas we seem very keen on classing ourselves by groupings, gay, trans, black, Asian when it suits our needs but not keen when it doesn't.

I hear from lgbtvqtprsvp leaders speaking for all lgbtvqtprsvp people all the time on the news like there one entity, black leaders speak for black people, Muslim leaders speak for all Muslims, how does one Muslim leader know what millions of individual Muslims think?.

It's impossible, yet there paraded as if democratically elected and with the commanding voice of all Muslims and one entity, you follow that line and eventually everybody else stats treating you as one entity instead of the individual you are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This topic has deviated so far from the original point that addressing your point deserves a different thread altogether but I will say this: when you have 'community leaders' they are acting as figureheads for marginalised groups.

That's their whole raison d'etre.

Black, Asian, religious minority, gender-based (and many more) 'leaders' are there to advocate on behalf of those who aren't a part of civic discourse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This topic has deviated so far from the original point that addressing your point deserves a different thread altogether but I will say this: when you have 'community leaders' they are acting as figureheads for marginalised groups.

That's their whole raison d'etre.

Black, Asian, religious minority, gender-based (and many more) 'leaders' are there to advocate on behalf of those who aren't a part of civic discourse."
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I don't think anybody really understood the original point.

I tried delving deeper into what the fuck no Asians actually meant but nobody seems to know except a theory it's about colour which is frankly silly as there's white Asians, brown Asians and yellow Asians and every shade in-between.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's safe to say that in the UK the word Asian is synonymous with people of South Asian (Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi and Sri Lankan) origin.

OP was aggrieved at seeing profiles openly rejecting men from those backgrounds and asked why it was so commonplace.

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By *ung hiMan over a year ago

Northwest

Like your style xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though.

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

A clear bit of race baiting going on here to a lady as well...good luck with that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it."

The same as "No CD/TVS", "no fat" "No skinny" "no white" and "no Men"

Everyone has a preference. Get over it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

MrD

I think you will find a lot of people will understand how you feel. However, they will also disagree with you because this is about personal preferences + who we are attracted to. We are not talking about job interviews, products/services, accommodation etc etc where it would be unfair discrimination, there is a big difference + you need to bare that in mind.

I have probably seen just as many "no white guys" or "blacks only" as I have seen "no asians" and sure you think wow but she's so sexy that's not fair, but that doesn't make the reason racist. At the end of the day you have to be attracted to the person you want to have sex with. It may seem like discrimination to you but in this particular case it is not. It really is no different than someone saying BBC, big cocks, tall men, athletic men, etc only.

So the simple answer to your question is this...

These people simply are not sexually attracted to Asian men.

It might not seem fair, but it also isn't wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe I should have added that having an Asian man is on her her bucket list

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

The same as "No CD/TVS", "no fat" "No skinny" "no white" and "no Men"

Everyone has a preference. Get over it and move on. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do people really need to justify their preferences?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

Your post answer your question OP.

Pushy.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

It makes me laugh when people play the race card. 'Oh you don't want to meet me cos I'm asian/black/pink'. When the reality is I often dont even know what race they are, they have been rejected for being a dick. (Yeh I'm sexist - sue me)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ffs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"MrD

So the simple answer to your question is this...

These people simply are not sexually attracted to Asian men.

It might not seem fair, but it also isn't wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you entitled to your preferences? Absolutely.

Are those of us who are excluded because of the colour of our skin also allowed to feel aggrieved at being dismissed out of hand because of who we are?

Also yes.

The hostility shown in this thread is flabbergasting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it."

Excuse for what?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All down to preference, Also depends on individual, I do alright on here but I think thats due to my large package

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all have preferences OP

It's called " choice "

You have a choice also

It may be your attitude people dislike, not your skin colour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why won't you meet anyone over 54 OP?

You're so ageist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People don't need to explain their preferences. There could be a million and 1 reasons for any preference, and that's completely fine and up to them.

Look at it as a filter...they're not interested, one less message to send.

Personally, I don't give a shit where you're from or what colour your skin is, if i find you attractive and you're a decent person, great

I have no preference as far as race goes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This thread is odd.....

If I use the example of a fabber who is straight, but who's to say he or she might not enjoy a gay experience ten years from now and possibly enjoy it. But the said fabber describes themself and believe themself to be straight at this poo point in time, so they exclude gay guys/gals from the equation. They're allowed to do that without being a homophobe. Same applies to any choice a person makes on this site.

I'd have thought the OP would have the best pestpective and some insight to offer given that he's posted on the subject, yet its almost as if the replies aren't good enough and we've all somehow let him down.....

Maybe girls just aren't keen on a good old fashioned argumentative victim stance...? Who knows...?

Peace and love, I'm happy I genuinely hope you all are happy too, innit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This thread is odd.....

Maybe girls just aren't keen on a good old fashioned argumentative victim stance...? Who knows...?

Peace and love, I'm happy I genuinely hope you all are happy too, innit

Good points

These threads always seem to be baiting people. As soon as someone explains why they have this preference, the OP will argue their point. Tbh the subject has been and will be discussed over and over again. Some people get that it's merely a preference and not something to take personally, others won't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thought people had a choice who they wanted to meet on here. Thought this is why we had profiles and preferences on what we are looking for .

Should we all have blank profiles and just does not matter who we meet and who do we have sex with . Not be so picky ?

I like to have a choice who I meet and who I have sex with and not have someone tell me that I shouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This thread is odd.....

Maybe girls just aren't keen on a good old fashioned argumentative victim stance...? Who knows...?

Peace and love, I'm happy I genuinely hope you all are happy too, innit

Good points

I just read that back and I typed POO, by accident....!

Just made me snort out loud on a dead quiet train and now I'm being eyeball Ed by passengers..... Omg, my fat fingers really do let me down on occasion....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve been watching this thread with interest thinking whether or not I should throw my penny’s worth in at all. I’m an Asian woman who refuses to meet ‘Asian’ men specifically meaning Muslim men. Why? Media portrayal. Media portrayal of the Muslim culture. Recent cases of grooming by mostly brown Muslim men from Pakistan and India. It all stays with us and forms our biases. We all have biases, it’s part of being human...

Oh but I must add. The ‘Asian’ men as defined above who have contacted me or I have met have been utter disrespectful bas***ds. Bad luck on my part? Maybe. But you know the saying once bitten, twice shy. Stop playing the race/religion cards OP and face facts. Ok, people might be put off when they first read about your ethnicity but if you have a great profile and come across as being genuine in your messages, you have as much chance as anyone else on here of meeting someone. If you insist on being a whinging little fart with passive aggressiveness issues and a chip on your shoulder about colour/heritage being the only reason your messages are deleted, go back to nursery and grow some.

PS No complaints from any of the gorgeous white men I’ve messaged on here about my heritage, well, except one and perhaps that’s because he just didn’t like my face.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you entitled to your preferences? Absolutely.

Are those of us who are excluded because of the colour of our skin also allowed to feel aggrieved at being dismissed out of hand because of who we are?

Also yes.

The hostility shown in this thread is flabbergasting.

The OP wasn't hostile.

Thank you ..

I always believe a sane person is just around the corner lol

Don't know how the other people is thinking this as a hostile thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"couldnt have cared less about anyones race when i was meeting"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You want excuses?

Here you go.

Good luck though.

So you think a culture has an impact on how a woman should be treated ? Or is it the person himself .. does it mean other colour/race have a more chance to treat u better.. interesting

You struggle to find Pakistani women on here and I wish there was loads but they just don't come on, no idea why."
Hearing from some of my female Asian friends, I do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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Neither do I.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP you asked for opinions

You got them

I'm not everyone's cup of tea

Do i care?

NO.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who gives a shit? I dont

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP you asked for opinions

You got them

I'm not everyone's cup of tea

Do i care?

NO. "

I think that's what a lot of ppl don't get about forums. If you make a post it's YOUR party, but you've invited EVERYONE, so to make it a success I think it makes sense to be polite, fun, respectful, to reign in any disputes and avoid fighting to get to a conclusion and learn something, and most importantly of all to thank and recognise everyone for their contributions, because that's what makes a good post, imho obv, innit....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just never have done is all better the devil u know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve been watching this thread with interest thinking whether or not I should throw my penny’s worth in at all. I’m an Asian woman who refuses to meet ‘Asian’ men specifically meaning Muslim men. Why? Media portrayal. Media portrayal of the Muslim culture. Recent cases of grooming by mostly brown Muslim men from Pakistan and India. It all stays with us and forms our biases. We all have biases, it’s part of being human...

cards OP and face facts. Ok, people might be put off when they first read about your ethnicity but if you have a great profile and come across as being genuine in your messages, you have as much chance as anyone else on here of meeting someone. If you insist on being a whinging little

fart with passive aggressiveness issues and a chip on your shoulder about colour/heritage being the only reason your messages are deleted, go back to nursery and grow some.

PS No complaints from any of the gorgeous white

men I’ve messaged on here about my heritage, well, except one and perhaps that’s because he just didn’t like my face.

I can understand where your coming from, some men are open minded don’t rule out men like my self

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By *essons in LustCouple over a year ago

huddersfield

Are you entitled to your preferences? Absolutely.

Are those of us who are excluded because of the colour of our skin also allowed to feel aggrieved at being dismissed out of hand because of who we are?

Also yes.

The hostility shown in this thread is flabbergasting."

I would avoid anyone who states this in their profile and I don’t like hanging around with people with set rules like this as I do find it an odd thing to put without knowing a person first which I would prefer to do at clubs etc .

Guess I do have personal preferences and we have been messaged by guys or couples asking us to meet but when I’ve read their profile they have lists of disgust such as ‘eugh ! no bald men , or one hideous guy that compared a woman over 50 meeting younger guys as a dog trying to chase a car lol . He was messaging us !

So yeah ,

Can’t do with it all

We def have sexual preferences that turn us on but def no blocks on whole sections of society .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dismissing a whole race does come over as racist to me.

I've heard it from all races.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

PS No complaints from any of the gorgeous white men I’ve messaged on here about my heritage, well, except one and perhaps that’s because he just didn’t like my face.

I've been treated badly by white men, but I don't dismiss them all.

Using that reason I wouldn't be meeting anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

PS No complaints from any of the gorgeous white men I’ve messaged on here about my heritage, well, except one and perhaps that’s because he just didn’t like my face.

I've been treated badly by white men, but I don't dismiss them all.

Using that reason I wouldn't be meeting anyone. "

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By *essons in LustCouple over a year ago

huddersfield

"Dismissing a whole race does come over as racist to me.

I've heard it from all races."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also most asian women up to press iv not been attracted to that simple same with latino j lo type girls dont float my boat but i do like the look of some black women strange thing taste aint it

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By *essons in LustCouple over a year ago

huddersfield

"Also most asian women up to press iv not been attracted to that simple same with latino j lo type girls dont float my boat but i do like the look of some black women strange thing taste aint it "

Even I fancy jlo

( Lola)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also most asian women up to press iv not been attracted to that simple same with latino j lo type girls dont float my boat but i do like the look of some black women strange thing taste aint it

Even I fancy jlo

( Lola) "

not me

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

PS No complaints from any of the gorgeous white men I’ve messaged on here about my heritage, well, except one and perhaps that’s because he just didn’t like my face.

"
Well said

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By *xLedZepxx2Man over a year ago

Didcot

"Dismissing a whole race does come over as racist to me.

Where do you draw the line? Surely if someone is not turned on by people of a particular race they are entitled to say so on their profil, I see profiles state BBC only, no bald guys, no fat people, no older people, you could if you were easily offended make a discrimination case out of all of those

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dismissing a whole race does come over as racist to me.

I've heard it from all races."

Not finding people of a certain race or creed doesn't make you racist.

Discriminating against or being vile to someone because of their race does.

They really are two very different things.

Just because you don't find someone attractive doesn't mean you dislike them, or think they're a bad person.

I generally don't find short or super slim men attractive, doesn't mean I hate them, just that I simply don't want to fuck them.

The word 'racist' is thrown around too damn much on here.

Racism is disgusting, abhorrent and vile.

Preference is human nature.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dismissing a whole race does come over as racist to me.

I've heard it from all races.

Not finding people of a certain race or creed doesn't make you racist.

Discriminating against or being vile to someone because of their race does.

They really are two very different things.

Just because you don't find someone attractive doesn't mean you dislike them, or think they're a bad person.

I generally don't find short or super slim men attractive, doesn't mean I hate them, just that I simply don't want to fuck them.

The word 'racist' is thrown around too damn much on here.

Racism is disgusting, abhorrent and vile.

Preference is human nature.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never seen a profile that says no Asian women.

That answer says it all .. about the hypocrisy

No man will ever say no to Asian woman .. but why is it absolutely opposite other way around

The vast majority think with their dicks.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I've never seen a profile that says no Asian women.

That answer says it all .. about the hypocrisy

No man will ever say no to Asian woman .. but why is it absolutely opposite other way around

The vast majority think with their dicks."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

PS No complaints from any of the gorgeous white men I’ve messaged on here about my heritage, well, except one and perhaps that’s because he just didn’t like my face.

Well said

Bottle this woman she's a tonic!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dismissing a whole race does come over as racist to me.

I've heard it from all races.

Not finding people of a certain race or creed doesn't make you racist.

Discriminating against or being vile to someone because of their race does.

They really are two very different things.

Just because you don't find someone attractive doesn't mean you dislike them, or think they're a bad person.

I generally don't find short or super slim men attractive, doesn't mean I hate them, just that I simply don't want to fuck them.

The word 'racist' is thrown around too damn much on here.

Racism is disgusting, abhorrent and vile.

Preference is human nature.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dismissing a whole race does come over as racist to me.

I've heard it from all races."

I actually find your post a little racially insensitive, lumping all the peoples of Asia together like that. "Asian" isn't a race. Asia comprises many races and cultures.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The same excuse as bbc or no beards or no short people it’s called preference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dismissing a whole race does come over as racist to me.

I've heard it from all races.

Not finding people of a certain race or creed doesn't make you racist.

Discriminating against or being vile to someone because of their race does.

They really are two very different things.

Just because you don't find someone attractive doesn't mean you dislike them, or think they're a bad person.

I generally don't find short or super slim men attractive, doesn't mean I hate them, just that I simply don't want to fuck them.

The word 'racist' is thrown around too damn much on here.

Racism is disgusting, abhorrent and vile.

Preference is human nature.

Yep 100% agree.

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By *cgkcCouple over a year ago

Hitchin

In the Venn diagram of preference and racism there is an intersection for sure.

Needs acknowledging both ways.

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By *ollycouple71Couple over a year ago

manchester

"The same excuse as bbc or no beards or no short people it’s called preference "

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I like people, a person's race doesn't come into it.

On here, my response to someone is based on the information I can see on their profile, the message they've sent.

I got accused of being a racist last week

I'm still laughing.

My reason for declining their offer had nothing to do with one half of the couple being Asian, and everything to do with one half being 20yrs over my age preference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I got accused of being rascist once. Well what he actually said was "its because im black" He had no pictures on his profile and no reference to his colour in his profile. There was no way of knowing he was black

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The same excuse as bbc or no beards or no short people it’s called preference "

Except when it's racism.

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By *rwhite30Man over a year ago

deptford London

if some one doesnt fancy a certain race, thats not racism

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By *xLedZepxx2Man over a year ago

Didcot

"The same excuse as bbc or no beards or no short people it’s called preference

Except when it's racism."

It could be discrimination though if you were one of those people who are professionally offended, no different to me taking 'No Bi Guys' as homophobic, not that I would, I'm fat, older, bald and bisexual so stuff I often see people not liking in their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What if they *are* racist? Then what?

Force them to fuck someone they're not attracted to?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it."

My excuse for what ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it."

Not really any of your business to be honest. I dnt meet Asians or white Simple. Lady here

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"if some one doesnt fancy a certain race, thats not racism "

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By *rwhite30Man over a year ago

deptford London

"if some one doesnt fancy a certain race, thats not racism

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"if some one doesnt fancy a certain race, thats not racism

I'm sure we're all attracted to a certain look, not particularly related to race or colour

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By *rwhite30Man over a year ago

deptford London

"if some one doesnt fancy a certain race, thats not racism

I'm sure we're all attracted to a certain look, not particularly related to race or colour

yes like im very attracted to you

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

Why is this been raised.

I'm 5 foot 9.

If someone asks for 6 foot I accept it as a preference. I accept it

World's gone pc maD

I like dark haired ladies.

I'm not looking for blondes it's a preference . Get a life if you don't like it you have the choice to stay or leave

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"if some one doesnt fancy a certain race, thats not racism

I'm sure we're all attracted to a certain look, not particularly related to race or colour

yes like im very attracted to you

Thank you for the complement

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By *rwhite30Man over a year ago

deptford London

"if some one doesnt fancy a certain race, thats not racism

I'm sure we're all attracted to a certain look, not particularly related to race or colour

yes like im very attracted to you

Thank you for the complement

i would of done it in pvt but cant

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"if some one doesnt fancy a certain race, thats not racism

I'm sure we're all attracted to a certain look, not particularly related to race or colour

yes like im very attracted to you

Thank you for the complement

i would of done it in pvt but cant

thank you anyway

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Op your age limit is 54 well I'm 55 (I'm not,yet),what's your excuse for not meeting me?!

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By *rwhite30Man over a year ago

deptford London

"Op your age limit is 54 well I'm 55 (I'm not,yet),what's your excuse for not meeting me?!"

yeah lets hear it

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

Iv sent you a meet. Why did you turn me down

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

"Op your age limit is 54 well I'm 55 (I'm not,yet),what's your excuse for not meeting me?!"

I would never turn you down

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

"if some one doesnt fancy a certain race, thats not racism

I'm sure we're all attracted to a certain look, not particularly related to race or colour

I would never turn you down

yes like im very attracted to you

Thank you for the complement

i would of done it in pvt but cant

thank you anyway

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

Op disappeared....why!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op disappeared....why!!"

Well I did give him some good advice about going back to nursery and growing some...

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

I agree

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By *orbidden eastMan over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Very simple coming from the other side as in the British-born side it could be anything attraction or preference or maybe even upbringing but the plain and simple is what you like and me for example I’m open I’ve been with many races

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op disappeared....why!!

Well I did give him some good advice about going back to nursery and growing some..."

Really ? Where did I miss that ..

And what exactly do you grow in nurseries lol

What kind of nurseries did u go to .. is that where the problem started ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

Not really any of your business to be honest. I dnt meet Asians or white Simple. Lady here"

And to all the salty people out here .. I asked for genuine reasons !! if u don't want to give one why even post here .. seems a bit absurd

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What if they *are* racist? Then what?

Force them to fuck someone they're not attracted to?"

Nobody even mentioned this word .. lol

I'll give the people here an example ..

I don't wanna meet Asian people , because I don't like ..... ( can't think of anything

) lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t find them attractive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Asian" is NOT a race. This fact doesn't seem to be clear to some people.

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By *inkerbell67Woman over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

This is a bit racist dont you think ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What if they *are* racist? Then what?

Force them to fuck someone they're not attracted to?

Nobody even mentioned this word .. lol

I'll give the people here an example ..

I don't wanna meet Asian people , because I don't like ..... ( can't think of anything

) lol"

I don't wanna meet Asian people , because I don't like .....because my preference is for blonde hair/blue eyes. Precious few of those from Asia, and even fewer on this site

Ok?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

""Asian" is NOT a race. This fact doesn't seem to be clear to some people."

Exactly .. lol

So people nobody is accusing of being racist l.

The post above this user was the first sane answer I read

I don't find them attractive - simple and honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

No need for an excuse people meet who ever they like and not meet who ever they choose not too. Who are you to question peoples personal choices ????

Looking forward to the answer to that one.

Just might out the kettle on. ...."

I'm going to "out" my kettle as well. it's just been stood there gaily coloured for years I've always had my suspicions..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

""Asian" is NOT a race. This fact doesn't seem to be clear to some people."
what is it then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never seen a profile that says no Asian women.

That answer says it all .. about the hypocrisy

No man will ever say no to Asian woman .. but why is it absolutely opposite other way around

In all fairness mate the rules are always different between men and women. You need look no further than "body positivity" for that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What if they *are* racist? Then what?

Force them to fuck someone they're not attracted to?

Nobody even mentioned this word .. lol

I'll give the people here an example ..

I don't wanna meet Asian people , because I don't like ..... ( can't think of anything

) lol"

It's mentioned all through the thread.

The answer would be:

"I don't wanna meet Asian people , because I don't like ..... Asian people."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""Asian" is NOT a race. This fact doesn't seem to be clear to some people.what is it then"

It pertains to the continent which is peopled by many different races.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

No need for an excuse people meet who ever they like and not meet who ever they choose not too. Who are you to question peoples personal choices ????

Looking forward to the answer to that one.

Just might out the kettle on. ....

I'm going to "out" my kettle as well. it's just been stood there gaily coloured for years I've always had my suspicions.."

To write "No Asians" on a profile is ignorant in my eyes because it would be more polite to just respectfully decline any Asians who contacted you. If you did actually have a reason why you were prepared to rule out an entire multinational race of people from your fuck buddy list then you would keep it to yourself if you had any sense of what society sees as racism. Starting a thread about it in the Manor you've done op is also a little ignorant and mildly aggressive, in my eyes.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

""Asian" is NOT a race. This fact doesn't seem to be clear to some people.what is it then

It pertains to the continent which is peopled by many different races."
what races.

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

I asked for meet turned me down not his type I'm devastating!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""Asian" is NOT a race. This fact doesn't seem to be clear to some people.what is it then

It pertains to the continent which is peopled by many different races.what races. "

well, that's the million dollar question depending on which definition of race you happen to believe is the definitive one. But, according to population statistics and using the Carelton S Coon model currently living in Asia are people from the Caucasoid race, the Negroid race, and the Mongoloid race. The sub-division of ethnicities is even more diverse.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I asked for meet turned me down not his type I'm devastating!!!"
what?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

The same as "No CD/TVS", "no fat" "No skinny" "no white" and "no Men"

Everyone has a preference. Get over it and move on. "

If we remember rightly the OP has shown a preference too.

Does he not say on his profile that he won't have sex with other men?

Seems like there is one rule for others and not for OP?

Maybe we are wrong.

A pointless thread created for attention.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

The same as "No CD/TVS", "no fat" "No skinny" "no white" and "no Men"

Everyone has a preference. Get over it and move on.

If we remember rightly the OP has shown a preference too.

Does he not say on his profile that he won't have sex with other men?

Seems like there is one rule for others and not for OP?

Maybe we are wrong.

A pointless thread created for attention."

I think sexuality and preference based on area/race/colour is just a little different

based on your point I should probably fuck a pig too .. right ?

Don't worry I don't need attention of ppl who don't make sense lol

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your excuse then ..

Let's hear it.

The same as "No CD/TVS", "no fat" "No skinny" "no white" and "no Men"

Everyone has a preference. Get over it and move on.

If we remember rightly the OP has shown a preference too.

Does he not say on his profile that he won't have sex with other men?

Seems like there is one rule for others and not for OP?

Maybe we are wrong.

A pointless thread created for attention.

I think sexuality and preference based on area/race/colour is just a little different

based on your point I should probably fuck a pig too .. right ?

Don't worry I don't need attention of ppl who don't make sense lol "

Sad.....

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