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Yep. I had a lady come and stop at mine, I thought she was only gonna stay for a couple of nights, but it turned into 4, some of the messages that we exchanged beforehand were less than exhilarating, but to cut a long story short, she was as boring as fuck   |
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"I hate this when they look great, then you chat but can’t connect mentally due to lack of brain stimulation! Without that spark Its hopeless. Anyone else? "
Precisely this... I don’t go for looks, I need that mental connection and with that comes attraction |
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"Yep. I had a lady come and stop at mine, I thought she was only gonna stay for a couple of nights, but it turned into 4, some of the messages that we exchanged beforehand were less than exhilarating, but to cut a long story short, she was as boring as fuck "
and you lasted four nights  |
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"Yep. I had a lady come and stop at mine, I thought she was only gonna stay for a couple of nights, but it turned into 4, some of the messages that we exchanged beforehand were less than exhilarating, but to cut a long story short, she was as boring as fuck
and you lasted four nights "
Yeah, but even better than that, I agreed to spend 2 more nights with her at a room that she had booked at Chams for her birthday a few months later  |
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"Yep. I had a lady come and stop at mine, I thought she was only gonna stay for a couple of nights, but it turned into 4, some of the messages that we exchanged beforehand were less than exhilarating, but to cut a long story short, she was as boring as fuck
and you lasted four nights "
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"Yep. I had a lady come and stop at mine, I thought she was only gonna stay for a couple of nights, but it turned into 4, some of the messages that we exchanged beforehand were less than exhilarating, but to cut a long story short, she was as boring as fuck
and you lasted four nights
Yeah, but even better than that, I agreed to spend 2 more nights with her at a room that she had booked at Chams for her birthday a few months later "
Lol well she can’t have been that boring then  |
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I have a little leeway when looks/brawn work but if the personality is wrong, there's no interest. Very strong chains and a gag, can retain someone like Conan the barbarian, with plenty of attractive brawn in place, ready for service though |
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"Yep. I had a lady come and stop at mine, I thought she was only gonna stay for a couple of nights, but it turned into 4, some of the messages that we exchanged beforehand were less than exhilarating, but to cut a long story short, she was as boring as fuck "
She only stayed for 2
It just felt like 4 |
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We've only met one boring person during our time as swingers. It was a guy from another site who didn't stop talking, it was probably nerves.
In general the way a person looks isn't indicative of how interesting they are but if they're hot enough they won't be doing much talking anyway  |
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"I put it down to incompatibility.
They may be thinking the same about us."
Exactly. I know that some things I really enjoy talking about bore the socks off others. I remember a social meet we had with a really nice couple where it was obvious they were bored although they politely tried to conceal it and we tried to turn things round. |
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"I put it down to incompatibility.
They may be thinking the same about us.
Exactly. I know that some things I really enjoy talking about bore the socks off others. I remember a social meet we had with a really nice couple where it was obvious they were bored although they politely tried to conceal it and we tried to turn things round. "
This is why I like a good chat with someone, about anything other than sex, before we meet. |
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"I put it down to incompatibility.
They may be thinking the same about us.
Exactly. I know that some things I really enjoy talking about bore the socks off others. I remember a social meet we had with a really nice couple where it was obvious they were bored although they politely tried to conceal it and we tried to turn things round.
This is why I like a good chat with someone, about anything other than sex, before we meet."
Precisely  |
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By *ea monkeyMan
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"I put it down to incompatibility.
They may be thinking the same about us."
I agree. I met someone a while ago, on paper we should have been great together; same interests, similar life outlook, same humour but there just wasn't the spark there. |
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"Yep. I had a lady come and stop at mine, I thought she was only gonna stay for a couple of nights, but it turned into 4, some of the messages that we exchanged beforehand were less than exhilarating, but to cut a long story short, she was as boring as fuck
and you lasted four nights
Yeah, but even better than that, I agreed to spend 2 more nights with her at a room that she had booked at Chams for her birthday a few months later "
Has she read this yet?
Mrs |
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"If boring people was a international sport I’d be a world champion
I don’t believe you..."
That was why it took 5 days to respond. I’d sent you all to sleep with my last post |
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"I hate this when they look great, then you chat but can’t connect mentally due to lack of brain stimulation! Without that spark Its hopeless. Anyone else?
Same! Why is it so difficult?  "
I third this |
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