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By *irginie OP Woman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
I am perplexed by messages that just say “hey”, or “up to much?”. I never really know how to answer (well i don’t answer generally.
I guess the sender isn’t interested in how my day is going, or how busy my work is right now, or the fact that I just came back from the dentist.......
So what is the correct response?
V x
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Option 1: Delete
Option 2: Reply with "Hey" or "Not much, you?" and see how long you can keep it going
Option 3: Check profile, see they've been on your Hotlist forever and totally gush in your reply about how they have been, and how you're sl glad they wrote 
Option 4: Errrrr...ok forget option 4 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am perplexed by messages that just say “hey”, or “up to much?”. I never really know how to answer (well i don’t answer generally.
I guess the sender isn’t interested in how my day is going, or how busy my work is right now, or the fact that I just came back from the dentist.......
So what is the correct response?
V x
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Option 1
"Hey" / "Hey"
Option 2
"up to much" / " well I'm so glad you asked. I'm up to a lot of things, but can always find time to speak to someone about the word. And the word is love. Not a carmal love that you expect to find on a site like this, but a Universal love. And what name does this love have I hear you ask?
It is of course his sauciness himself, our savior the Flying Spaghetti Monster. As a pastafarian I can only cavort with other pastafarians so before we go any further, I would need you to see the light and devote your life to the FSM." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I struggle with these ones. I mean I really struggle.
"Hey" I totally ignore, the "up to much" well, that one is my issue.
I can understand why people ask it, but I tend to give honest replies if I respond, so it tends to be "getting ready for work" bla bla bla, or if I think they seem a bit of a doofus, I may respond with "just changed my tampon, will be doing the same again in an hour"
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This is tough one.
Do you write the whole war & peace, hoping to connect from that?
If I met someone in a club I’d start with a smile, maybe a cheeky wink then a conversation with ‘hi how are you’
I’d at least give them 5 minutes of my time before deciding if we had a connection etc |
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"This is tough one.
Do you write the whole war & peace, hoping to connect from that?
If I met someone in a club I’d start with a smile, maybe a cheeky wink then a conversation with ‘hi how are you’
I’d at least give them 5 minutes of my time before deciding if we had a connection etc"
But this isn't a club. You adapt to the medium. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd wager a bet on this thread having way more replies than a "hey how r u" message. Delete is my response unless they are lucky 1000 of 1000 said mails and they may get a verbal walloping.
My response when asked verbally would be "good thanks, yourself?" But I don't need to know how the random man with his nob sticking out is.  so no need to reply is how I deal with it.(junk) |
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"I'd wager a bet on this thread having way more replies than a "hey how r u" message. Delete is my response unless they are lucky 1000 of 1000 said mails and they may get a verbal walloping.
My response when asked verbally would be "good thanks, yourself?" But I don't need to know how the random man with his nob sticking out is. so no need to reply is how I deal with it.(junk)"
Yup. If I can read it without opening it, I don't open it. |
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"This is tough one.
Do you write the whole war & peace, hoping to connect from that?
If I met someone in a club I’d start with a smile, maybe a cheeky wink then a conversation with ‘hi how are you’
I’d at least give them 5 minutes of my time before deciding if we had a connection etc
But this isn't a club. You adapt to the medium. "
So you see someone on here you like, out of interest what would your opening message be to them? |
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"This is tough one.
Do you write the whole war & peace, hoping to connect from that?
If I met someone in a club I’d start with a smile, maybe a cheeky wink then a conversation with ‘hi how are you’
I’d at least give them 5 minutes of my time before deciding if we had a connection etc
But this isn't a club. You adapt to the medium.
So you see someone on here you like, out of interest what would your opening message be to them?"
I'd comment on their profile and why it interests me. |
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"This is tough one.
Do you write the whole war & peace, hoping to connect from that?
If I met someone in a club I’d start with a smile, maybe a cheeky wink then a conversation with ‘hi how are you’
I’d at least give them 5 minutes of my time before deciding if we had a connection etc
But this isn't a club. You adapt to the medium.
So you see someone on here you like, out of interest what would your opening message be to them?"
Faf ?? |
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"This is tough one.
Do you write the whole war & peace, hoping to connect from that?
If I met someone in a club I’d start with a smile, maybe a cheeky wink then a conversation with ‘hi how are you’
I’d at least give them 5 minutes of my time before deciding if we had a connection etc
But this isn't a club. You adapt to the medium.
So you see someone on here you like, out of interest what would your opening message be to them?
I'd comment on their profile and why it interests me. "
Yep that’s my normal approach on here... but Competition is obviously very fierce with the ratio of men to women |
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"This is tough one.
Do you write the whole war & peace, hoping to connect from that?
If I met someone in a club I’d start with a smile, maybe a cheeky wink then a conversation with ‘hi how are you’
I’d at least give them 5 minutes of my time before deciding if we had a connection etc
But this isn't a club. You adapt to the medium.
So you see someone on here you like, out of interest what would your opening message be to them?
I'd comment on their profile and why it interests me.
Yep that’s my normal approach on here... but Competition is obviously very fierce with the ratio of men to women"
It is. I'm afraid that's just the way it goes. Also, different people will like different things and there's no one approach that will work. |
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"This is tough one.
Do you write the whole war & peace, hoping to connect from that?
If I met someone in a club I’d start with a smile, maybe a cheeky wink then a conversation with ‘hi how are you’
I’d at least give them 5 minutes of my time before deciding if we had a connection etc
But this isn't a club. You adapt to the medium.
So you see someone on here you like, out of interest what would your opening message be to them?
I'd comment on their profile and why it interests me.
Yep that’s my normal approach on here... but Competition is obviously very fierce with the ratio of men to women
It is. I'm afraid that's just the way it goes. Also, different people will like different things and there's no one approach that will work. "
100% agree with that. I guess I need to work on my literacy skills, as I’m much more successful off of this site than on it x |
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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
"I am perplexed by messages that just say “hey”, or “up to much?”. I never really know how to answer (well i don’t answer generally.
I guess the sender isn’t interested in how my day is going, or how busy my work is right now, or the fact that I just came back from the dentist.......
So what is the correct response?
V x
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The correct response is "Hey I see you're nearby, fancy a social meet?" |
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"This is tough one.
Do you write the whole war & peace, hoping to connect from that?
If I met someone in a club I’d start with a smile, maybe a cheeky wink then a conversation with ‘hi how are you’
I’d at least give them 5 minutes of my time before deciding if we had a connection etc
But this isn't a club. You adapt to the medium.
So you see someone on here you like, out of interest what would your opening message be to them?
I'd comment on their profile and why it interests me.
Yep that’s my normal approach on here... but Competition is obviously very fierce with the ratio of men to women
It is. I'm afraid that's just the way it goes. Also, different people will like different things and there's no one approach that will work.
100% agree with that. I guess I need to work on my literacy skills, as I’m much more successful off of this site than on it x"
I think that's true for most guys. It's not you, most likely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we get a ;
Hey
We respond with ;
Bail. For a laugh you could try bale "
We could .....but that would be spelling hey “hay” ...it’s a clever response that works on many levels |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is tough one.
Do you write the whole war & peace, hoping to connect from that?
If I met someone in a club I’d start with a smile, maybe a cheeky wink then a conversation with ‘hi how are you’
I’d at least give them 5 minutes of my time before deciding if we had a connection etc
But this isn't a club. You adapt to the medium.
So you see someone on here you like, out of interest what would your opening message be to them?"
I'd comment on what it was that drew my attention to them. Or what it is my intentions are for them. I'd certainly not say hi how are you, as quite frankly I'd not care at that point, them being a complete stranger an all that. If after a few emails chatting I'd maybe ask how they are, as it's the polite thing to do or I'd want to know having been chatting for awhile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do guys expect the answer to be "fiddling with my fanny while I wait for the right guys to sweep me to bed"
Vs the reality.
"I'm not up to much because I've got a blinding headache, I'm sleep deprived, I'm in the middle of the household chores, all while suffering from trapped wind that's making my belly feel like an over-inflated basketball" |
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"Do guys expect the answer to be "fiddling with my fanny while I wait for the right guys to sweep me to bed"
Vs the reality.
"I'm not up to much because I've got a blinding headache, I'm sleep deprived, I'm in the middle of the household chores, all while suffering from trapped wind that's making my belly feel like an over-inflated basketball""
What a coincidence! I've just been squirting looking at your stunning profile, you gorgeous hunk of man meat. The laundry can wait. I'll be right over. |
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"Do guys expect the answer to be "fiddling with my fanny while I wait for the right guys to sweep me to bed"
Vs the reality.
"I'm not up to much because I've got a blinding headache, I'm sleep deprived, I'm in the middle of the household chores, all while suffering from trapped wind that's making my belly feel like an over-inflated basketball""
Now this reply gives me something to work with making conversation |
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"Do guys expect the answer to be "fiddling with my fanny while I wait for the right guys to sweep me to bed"
Vs the reality.
"I'm not up to much because I've got a blinding headache, I'm sleep deprived, I'm in the middle of the household chores, all while suffering from trapped wind that's making my belly feel like an over-inflated basketball"
What a coincidence! I've just been squirting looking at your stunning profile, you gorgeous hunk of man meat. The laundry can wait. I'll be right over. "
Ha ha. |
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By *irginie OP Woman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
"Do guys expect the answer to be "fiddling with my fanny while I wait for the right guys to sweep me to bed"
Vs the reality.
"I'm not up to much because I've got a blinding headache, I'm sleep deprived, I'm in the middle of the household chores, all while suffering from trapped wind that's making my belly feel like an over-inflated basketball"
What a coincidence! I've just been squirting looking at your stunning profile, you gorgeous hunk of man meat. The laundry can wait. I'll be right over. "
Hahahahaha
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"I am perplexed by messages that just say “hey”, or “up to much?”. I never really know how to answer (well i don’t answer generally.
I guess the sender isn’t interested in how my day is going, or how busy my work is right now, or the fact that I just came back from the dentist.......
So what is the correct response?
V x
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I wouldnt reply at all unless they send the exact same message again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do guys expect the answer to be "fiddling with my fanny while I wait for the right guys to sweep me to bed"
Vs the reality.
"I'm not up to much because I've got a blinding headache, I'm sleep deprived, I'm in the middle of the household chores, all while suffering from trapped wind that's making my belly feel like an over-inflated basketball"
What a coincidence! I've just been squirting looking at your stunning profile, you gorgeous hunk of man meat. The laundry can wait. I'll be right over. "
I  you |
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By *irginie OP Woman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
"I am perplexed by messages that just say “hey”, or “up to much?”. I never really know how to answer (well i don’t answer generally.
I guess the sender isn’t interested in how my day is going, or how busy my work is right now, or the fact that I just came back from the dentist.......
So what is the correct response?
V x
The correct response is "Hey I see you're nearby, fancy a social meet?""
They might say “yes”. Then I’d have to admit I was far too busy being up to stuff to squeeze them in.
V x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am perplexed by messages that just say “hey”, or “up to much?”. I never really know how to answer (well i don’t answer generally.
I guess the sender isn’t interested in how my day is going, or how busy my work is right now, or the fact that I just came back from the dentist.......
So what is the correct response?
V x
The correct response is "Hey I see you're nearby, fancy a social meet?""
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