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when people don’t understand that you can’t meet because you have kids
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This topic really annoys me because you will be talking for ages then they want a meet and you esplane you have children and they are so rude anybody else had this problem |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m a single parent and I can’t get time for it because i have my child all the time other than when they go up to there grans and when that happens nobody wants to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Time management and logistics of meeting when you have young kids isn’t easy.
Do you know dates in advance when you’re free? If you do you can add them to your profile text so people are aware.
No need for anyone to be rude. Block ‘em...  |
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Never had this problem to be fair. All of the women I met/tried to arrange a meet with had been perfectly understanding I'm a single parent with young kids. Many of them in the same boat as me so double hard to arrange something. Sometimes it was just not possible to arrange something but they've all been fine with it. |
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"I’m a single parent and I can’t get time for it because i have my child all the time other than when they go up to there grans and when that happens nobody wants to meet "
OP having a well written profile can help with this. Most single ladies and couples do actually read profiles so if you put on there that you have a child/children so meets need to be arranged at a mutually convenient date and time it will make a difference.
I can't just drop everything for a meet either because I'm a full time carer for my mum. Despite the fact some men don't read profiles and just look at the pictures, putting it on my profile has reduced the amount of "meet now" messages I get. |
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By *arex2Couple
over a year ago
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"This topic really annoys me because you will be talking for ages then they want a meet and you esplane you have children and they are so rude anybody else had this problem "
It's not just kids for is. It's parents and work too! Makes me think that these people don't understand life real life or have no concept of responsibility. It's hard! |
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