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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mentally - an overactive mind,only escape from it is sleep or reading.
Physically, tempted to say my mum tum,but realistically my arthritis is going to be a much more serious issue than a bit of flab.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got shit organisational skills which leads to lots of stress.
Physically I think my legs are a bit crap but I don't feel overly self-conscious about it. |
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By *educedWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham |
I'm an erratic, live for the moment kind of person who very rarely worries about stuff or the future which irritates some people who say I am irresponsible. I guess they see it as a flaw. I don't. Fuck them!
I guess my tummy is a little flabby but fuck it! It's my tummy. Is a flabby tummy really a flaw? I'm not tall enough but is being short a flaw.
So, I guess my flaw is I don't believe I have any flaws unless you count swearing as a flaw?
What is a flaw anyway? Do we really have flaws? We are who we are and for the most part we can't change that. I can only strive to lead the best life I can with the attributes I was born with.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm an erratic, live for the moment kind of person who very rarely worries about stuff or the future which irritates some people who say I am irresponsible. I guess they see it as a flaw. I don't. Fuck them!
I guess my tummy is a little flabby but fuck it! It's my tummy. Is a flabby tummy really a flaw? I'm not tall enough but is being short a flaw.
So, I guess my flaw is I don't believe I have any flaws unless you count swearing as a flaw?
What is a flaw anyway? Do we really have flaws? We are who we are and for the most part we can't change that. I can only strive to lead the best life I can with the attributes I was born with.
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Mine is a fine edged sword, as what I could call my biggest flaw is also one of my greatest assets.
My ADHD brain.
It never stops, it overthinks, it needs routine & order, it makes me constantly fidget, it forgets everyday stuff.
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It solves problems at lightening speed, I can react while others stand like statues, it's doesn't panic in a crisis it excels, I have a photographic memory. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is a fine edged sword, as what I could call my biggest flaw is also one of my greatest assets.
My ADHD brain.
It never stops, it overthinks, it needs routine & order, it makes me constantly fidget, it forgets everyday stuff.
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It solves problems at lightening speed, I can react while others stand like statues, it's doesn't panic in a crisis it excels, I have a photographic memory. "
I view my aspergers brain in a very similar way. A blessing or a curse, depending on the day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could sit and list my flaws
Being overly self critical should therefore top any list
I know I'm not all good
However, I am more good than I am bad and as long as that balance remains, I'm OK |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fall in love to quickly and lay my cards openly on the table. Go sue me "
Sure. How much have you got ? then I can state the right amount when I sue ya, save all the legal wrangling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My general quietness is probably viewed as a flaw. I'm just naturally quiet and not an active conversationalist. It can probably make new people I met feel a tad uneasy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you told us yours yet op?yep about 6th one down
If I have a flaw it's skipping over posts but I view that as time saving so it's actually a good trait.  "
I'm a serial scroller |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Confidence is rubbish, post loads of pics but actually hate the lack of tone to my physique. Working on it though, and could do with bigger boobs! Haha x
Viv xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My inability to filter what comes out of my mouth!not a flaw folks know where they stand that way"
Maybe but I definitely need to pick my moments and think before I speak. |
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Overthink over analyse
My Aspergers makes me my own worst enemy. But
I can conflict resolve and plan on the fly.
Physically because I’m a a bit of a lump I’m also clumsy and don’t have the internal confidence to match my frame sometimes. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Erm... Mentally; I distract myself and have an awful habit of not dealing with issues soon enough. Im also prone to overthinking things. I find it very hard to trust people and really don't suffer fools.
Physically; not a lot, I'm in the best shape of my life at the moment. My upper body strength isn't great but that's what you get with running, if I was bothered much, I'd do something about it.
Ultimately though, if I'm unhappy with something, then I work on it, a known flaw can be compensated for, an overused strength can be more of a hindrance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our flaws are not imperfections...they are what makes each and everyone of us unique...flaws should be recognised understood and embraced....for who we are as an individual. If another doesn't accept you because of a 'flaw'...then they deny there own also...which leads to a life of denial |
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Christ where do I start ...
I have no time for stupidity
I'm constantly paranoid about my health nowadays
I have no attention span
My brain works too well in some areas and not at all in others
Bits are falling off me
I have too much debt
And I'm turning into an old, miserable git .
Think that's all  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I think my Aspie brain, like Nell, is both a flaw and a blessing. Ish. I overthink the shit out of things but that can be wonderful for work - less so for relationships. It's not quite a flaw. Just a thing that makes me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think my Aspie brain, like Nell, is both a flaw and a blessing. Ish. I overthink the shit out of things but that can be wonderful for work - less so for relationships. It's not quite a flaw. Just a thing that makes me."
Your brain is just wonderful xx |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Mentally - lack of self-confidence and overthinking, coupled with an inability to act on things I really should, are probably my worst traits.
Physically - my gut
As to whether I'm happy as I am - mostly I am, but like everyone I have my off days |
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There is absolutely no way I'm donning sackcloth and ashes and publicly declaring my flaws like some kind of Chinese re-education camp. 
, but I also have alot of good point too, some days the bad outweigh the good and visa vera 