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Thank you all guys! It means a lot. I keep reading about the disrespect some profiles have for others. I try to be as respectful as I can!
In terms of vanilla life... It’s tricky. I struggle with social interactions so most times I dunno how to ask or talk to people.
But I have hobbies.
Hence me posting here. |
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over a year ago
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"Thank you all guys! It means a lot. I keep reading about the disrespect some profiles have for others. I try to be as respectful as I can!
In terms of vanilla life... It’s tricky. I struggle with social interactions so most times I dunno how to ask or talk to people.
But I have hobbies.
Hence me posting here. "
I'm socially awkward.. just say hi.. lots of lovely people here. |
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"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug.
No idea why you made this a race thing."
Because:
I am black.
And
Black is a kink in the swing community. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug.
No idea why you made this a race thing.
Because:
I am black.
And
Black is a kink in the swing community. "
So is lots of other things mate. My tuppence worth is only do what feels right for you and you will be fine. I get what your thinking, but there is no need to conform on here to what you perceive are others expectations mate...
Do what you think is right for you and go from there.
If it’s to much take a break and maybe reconsider where you want to be right now.
K |
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"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug.
No idea why you made this a race thing.
Because:
I am black.
And
Black is a kink in the swing community. "
But race is not a requirement for emotional or other support on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug.
No idea why you made this a race thing.
Because:
I am black.
And
Black is a kink in the swing community.
So is lots of other things mate. My tuppence worth is only do what feels right for you and you will be fine. I get what your thinking, but there is no need to conform on here to what you perceive are others expectations mate...
Do what you think is right for you and go from there.
If it’s to much take a break and maybe reconsider where you want to be right now.
K"
I think You are missing the fact that sometimes this is a good place just to find a friend as you can be so much open than you can be to your vanilla friends |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug.
No idea why you made this a race thing.
Because:
I am black.
And
Black is a kink in the swing community.
So is lots of other things mate. My tuppence worth is only do what feels right for you and you will be fine. I get what your thinking, but there is no need to conform on here to what you perceive are others expectations mate...
Do what you think is right for you and go from there.
If it’s to much take a break and maybe reconsider where you want to be right now.
K
I think You are missing the fact that sometimes this is a good place just to find a friend as you can be so much open than you can be to your vanilla friends "
Your right ... guess sometimes reaching out brings answers.. good point OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug.
No idea why you made this a race thing.
Because:
I am black.
And
Black is a kink in the swing community.
So is lots of other things mate. My tuppence worth is only do what feels right for you and you will be fine. I get what your thinking, but there is no need to conform on here to what you perceive are others expectations mate...
Do what you think is right for you and go from there.
If it’s to much take a break and maybe reconsider where you want to be right now.
K
I think You are missing the fact that sometimes this is a good place just to find a friend as you can be so much open than you can be to your vanilla friends
Your right ... guess sometimes reaching out brings answers.. good point OP"
I have today been cleared of cervical cancer and so have been through every emotion going. The only things that got me through were my husband and my friends...all of which i met through swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug.
No idea why you made this a race thing.
Because:
I am black.
And
Black is a kink in the swing community.
So is lots of other things mate. My tuppence worth is only do what feels right for you and you will be fine. I get what your thinking, but there is no need to conform on here to what you perceive are others expectations mate...
Do what you think is right for you and go from there.
If it’s to much take a break and maybe reconsider where you want to be right now.
K
I think You are missing the fact that sometimes this is a good place just to find a friend as you can be so much open than you can be to your vanilla friends
Your right ... guess sometimes reaching out brings answers.. good point OP
I have today been cleared of cervical cancer and so have been through every emotion going. The only things that got me through were my husband and my friends...all of which i met through swinging "
Bloody hell.. sending friendship is worth its weight in gold. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug.
No idea why you made this a race thing.
Because:
I am black.
And
Black is a kink in the swing community.
So is lots of other things mate. My tuppence worth is only do what feels right for you and you will be fine. I get what your thinking, but there is no need to conform on here to what you perceive are others expectations mate...
Do what you think is right for you and go from there.
If it’s to much take a break and maybe reconsider where you want to be right now.
K
I think You are missing the fact that sometimes this is a good place just to find a friend as you can be so much open than you can be to your vanilla friends
Your right ... guess sometimes reaching out brings answers.. good point OP
I have today been cleared of cervical cancer and so have been through every emotion going. The only things that got me through were my husband and my friends...all of which i met through swinging "
there is light at the end of every tunnel if you persevere I guess is the moral of your story... Congrats
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug.
No idea why you made this a race thing.
Because:
I am black.
And
Black is a kink in the swing community. "
But you’re also a nice guy and well known..those are also reasons people want to be your friend.. |
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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug.
No idea why you made this a race thing.
Because:
I am black.
And
Black is a kink in the swing community.
So is lots of other things mate. My tuppence worth is only do what feels right for you and you will be fine. I get what your thinking, but there is no need to conform on here to what you perceive are others expectations mate...
Do what you think is right for you and go from there.
If it’s to much take a break and maybe reconsider where you want to be right now.
K
I think You are missing the fact that sometimes this is a good place just to find a friend as you can be so much open than you can be to your vanilla friends
Your right ... guess sometimes reaching out brings answers.. good point OP
I have today been cleared of cervical cancer and so have been through every emotion going. The only things that got me through were my husband and my friends...all of which i met through swinging "
Hugs to both of you Xx |
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"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug.
No idea why you made this a race thing.
Because:
I am black.
And
Black is a kink in the swing community.
But you’re also a nice guy and well known..those are also reasons people want to be your friend.." Tiger, check your device. |
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"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug.
No idea why you made this a race thing.
Because:
I am black.
And
Black is a kink in the swing community.
So is lots of other things mate. My tuppence worth is only do what feels right for you and you will be fine. I get what your thinking, but there is no need to conform on here to what you perceive are others expectations mate...
Do what you think is right for you and go from there.
If it’s to much take a break and maybe reconsider where you want to be right now.
K
I think You are missing the fact that sometimes this is a good place just to find a friend as you can be so much open than you can be to your vanilla friends
Your right ... guess sometimes reaching out brings answers.. good point OP
I have today been cleared of cervical cancer and so have been through every emotion going. The only things that got me through were my husband and my friends...all of which i met through swinging "
I would love similar connections to what you found. Congratulations! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug.
No idea why you made this a race thing.
Because:
I am black.
And
Black is a kink in the swing community.
So is lots of other things mate. My tuppence worth is only do what feels right for you and you will be fine. I get what your thinking, but there is no need to conform on here to what you perceive are others expectations mate...
Do what you think is right for you and go from there.
If it’s to much take a break and maybe reconsider where you want to be right now.
K
I think You are missing the fact that sometimes this is a good place just to find a friend as you can be so much open than you can be to your vanilla friends
Your right ... guess sometimes reaching out brings answers.. good point OP
I have today been cleared of cervical cancer and so have been through every emotion going. The only things that got me through were my husband and my friends...all of which i met through swinging "
Sending you and your hubby massive hugs, glad you’ve made it through xx |
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"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug.
No idea why you made this a race thing.
Because:
I am black.
And
Black is a kink in the swing community. "
Not for me it isn't, it's a racist kink imho.
Hugs OP
Also did you know that houseflies hum in the key of F |
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"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug.
No idea why you made this a race thing.
Because:
I am black.
And
Black is a kink in the swing community.
So is lots of other things mate. My tuppence worth is only do what feels right for you and you will be fine. I get what your thinking, but there is no need to conform on here to what you perceive are others expectations mate...
Do what you think is right for you and go from there.
If it’s to much take a break and maybe reconsider where you want to be right now.
K
I think You are missing the fact that sometimes this is a good place just to find a friend as you can be so much open than you can be to your vanilla friends
Your right ... guess sometimes reaching out brings answers.. good point OP
I have today been cleared of cervical cancer and so have been through every emotion going. The only things that got me through were my husband and my friends...all of which i met through swinging "
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over a year ago
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"But sometimes I fear you only want to ‘friend’ me because i’m black cock.
But I could use a hug. "
Well it isn't doing your verifications any harm, some of us don't get any. Then again, there are more important things in life. |
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