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Honest to goodness I’ve have a cracking long weekend. I get back to find the hard work I’ve put in for months sorting out our large flat has been trashed. They even left the chicken I made for them on Thursday in the fucking slow cooker. I could fucking scream.
Every item of clothing five people own is strewn over the filthy kitchen and bathroom.
I’ve left and I’m now attempting to regain my happy with an icedcoffee but I’m not succeeding very well and that’s annoying me even more.
I’m breathing, I’m breathing... |
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over a year ago
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I'd be ranting also if I came back home to all that mess so don't blame you for leaving. Hopefully they will tidy it all up before you get back again. Ash |
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"Teenagers or adults?"
Two grown, lazy, greedy fat adults and three children, the oldest of whom is 15 and a delight. They are expected to do all of it whilst the adults stay in bed and stuff their faces with shite.
Fucking fuckers. |
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"The cheek!
Check yourself into a luxury hotel and stay till the flat is tidied up and a welcome home dinner is on the table. Charge the cost of the room back to offenders!
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I have money for coffee and bus fare and I’m on school run in the morning.
There is no chance of changing the situation, I just want to let it roll off me so I can not feel like I do right now. |
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I'd say clear it up now or be put out for a few days.
When my kids were young we had a chart on each of their rooms with incentives on number of stars gained. One daily task was to tidy up room. I remember eldest being the type that always pushed the line. When a bit older after charts were stopped she'd refused to tidy after repeated asking. That night at midnight after she'd been asleep an hr or so I woke her up and told her to tidy it now.
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"I'd say clear it up now or be put out for a few days.
When my kids were young we had a chart on each of their rooms with incentives on number of stars gained. One daily task was to tidy up room. I remember eldest being the type that always pushed the line. When a bit older after charts were stopped she'd refused to tidy after repeated asking. That night at midnight after she'd been asleep an hr or so I woke her up and told her to tidy it now.
She never had to be asked too much after that "
I’ve been even more of a bitch than that but sadly, my daughter is the sort that hoarding programs are made off. |
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"I'd say clear it up now or be put out for a few days.
When my kids were young we had a chart on each of their rooms with incentives on number of stars gained. One daily task was to tidy up room. I remember eldest being the type that always pushed the line. When a bit older after charts were stopped she'd refused to tidy after repeated asking. That night at midnight after she'd been asleep an hr or so I woke her up and told her to tidy it now.
She never had to be asked too much after that
I’ve been even more of a bitch than that but sadly, my daughter is the sort that hoarding programs are made off. "
Going away to uni did them a lot of good too. Still one to send away . Cost a bit though but made them stand up on their own two feet. |
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I'm lost for words, it's appalling what they've done! There would be one option, for them to sort it immediately,giving attention to nothing else - I'd be mad but also not willing to impact upon my wellbeing. Bastards! |
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"I'd say clear it up now or be put out for a few days.
When my kids were young we had a chart on each of their rooms with incentives on number of stars gained. One daily task was to tidy up room. I remember eldest being the type that always pushed the line. When a bit older after charts were stopped she'd refused to tidy after repeated asking. That night at midnight after she'd been asleep an hr or so I woke her up and told her to tidy it now.
She never had to be asked too much after that
I’ve been even more of a bitch than that but sadly, my daughter is the sort that hoarding programs are made off.
Going away to uni did them a lot of good too. Still one to send away . Cost a bit though but made them stand up on their own two feet."
I stayed with the boy child this weekend, he’s 34 and lives in a swish apartment, hates mess and things on show, he even polishes the wall sized mirror in the bathroom every day. |
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"I'm lost for words, it's appalling what they've done! There would be one option, for them to sort it immediately,giving attention to nothing else - I'd be mad but also not willing to impact upon my wellbeing. Bastards!"
I find it so bloody disrespectful and it causes them no end of stress and argument. It never happens when I’m organising it all.
I came back to dinner cooking and mountains of wet washing everywhere so now there’s nowhere for me to hang mine up, I’ll have to wait until tomorrow.
I often wonder if my standards are freakishly high but a toilet not covered in dry shit and a swept kitchen floor is probably a basic standard
isn’t it? With 6 people in the house these things need constantly sorting.
They are all out tomorrow, I’ll get it up to no-need-to-call-social-services standard then. |
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"I'm lost for words, it's appalling what they've done! There would be one option, for them to sort it immediately,giving attention to nothing else - I'd be mad but also not willing to impact upon my wellbeing. Bastards!
I find it so bloody disrespectful and it causes them no end of stress and argument. It never happens when I’m organising it all.
I came back to dinner cooking and mountains of wet washing everywhere so now there’s nowhere for me to hang mine up, I’ll have to wait until tomorrow.
I often wonder if my standards are freakishly high but a toilet not covered in dry shit and a swept kitchen floor is probably a basic standard
isn’t it? With 6 people in the house these things need constantly sorting.
They are all out tomorrow, I’ll get it up to no-need-to-call-social-services standard then."
Hope today is better. |
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This shit happened once when I'd been away with work to Germany, the kids decided to have a party. At first things looked good when I got back, then I noticed little bits out of place and started to wonder.
Whisky topped up with water to the point where it was almost water...lol I got them both in the kitchen, grilled them literally PMSL and finally my daughter came clean. Worst of it was the boys mate was fucking his girlfriend in my bed!
So the PS3, laptop, and clothes went in the bin and fucking stayed there too.
What pissed me off more than anything was the trust betrayal and the fact that after they'd been rumbled they turned on each other like a right pair of grasses...lol
Little Twats, don't you just love 'em?
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"Today I got a last minute interview so I’ve just got back from that.
Coffee and washingnext...
Are you still tidying up after the little buggers?!  "
Yep, to my standard. I have to share the bathroom and kitchen, I like mine clean and easily accessible. |
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"Today I got a last minute interview so I’ve just got back from that.
Coffee and washingnext...
Are you still tidying up after the little buggers?!
Yep, to my standard. I have to share the bathroom and kitchen, I like mine clean and easily accessible. "
When you're done, could you just nip over to mine? Ta.  |
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"Today I got a last minute interview so I’ve just got back from that.
Coffee and washingnext...
Are you still tidying up after the little buggers?!
Yep, to my standard. I have to share the bathroom and kitchen, I like mine clean and easily accessible.
When you're done, could you just nip over to mine? Ta. "
Many spondolicks later... |
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