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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In these modern times do you think it's ok if a lady pays for the hotel for the night or should the gent be the one too ,or do you think going Dutch is the answer, interested to hear your views and stories |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In these modern times do you think it's ok if a lady pays for the hotel for the night or should the gent be the one too ,or do you think going Dutch is the answer, interested to hear your views and stories"
Whoever stays in the room for the rest of the night.
If both stay till morning then split 50/50.
Mrs |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it’s whatever you agree after listening to each other.
50-50 is fair but I really don’t mind, it’s just if it’s always one way and you get the feeling someone is taking the piss"
 I don't mind if I'm staying for work - otherwise I'd expect an equal split. Or maybe they pay for dinner/drinks. |
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It depends on the circumstances.
I'm meeting someone soon that is travelling around 200 miles to meet me, so I am paying for the hotel as he has the expense of travelling all that way. If it was someone local then I would want to split the cost. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So general consensus is what ever feels right between the parties ,to be honest I thought there would be more indignation as to who would be expected to pay it just goes to show how times have changed in the last 10/20 years and for the better |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's a waste of a room miss lolonly guy I actually sleep with is my hubby lol
Wouldn't force my morning bedhair/face on anyone else  "
should of seen me this morning I looked like death warmed up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In these modern times do you think it's ok if a lady pays for the hotel for the night or should the gent be the one too ,or do you think going Dutch is the answer, interested to hear your views and stories"
If im staying in it and away from home. I will pay
The same if i have asked someone.
But then again I didn’t want them to stay |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet guys who are able to accommodate or who offer to arrange a hotel at their expense. I never stay overnight. I usually insist on a social first too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"50/50 always
What if he needs a few bottles from the mini bar afterwards, to help with the anal pain?  "
Firstly. I don’t do bums.
Secondly. As if he’d even make it to the mini bar by the time I’d finished with him  |
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I think it purely a matter of what arrangement you both come to based on your respecrive circumstances. I don't really see whether you a man or a woman comes into it. It's about making a fair arragment that all are comfortable with. |
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Done all sorts of arrangements over the years including joining people on work nights away, taking turns to pay with a regular play mate and one pays the hotel and the other buys dinner...whatever works for you both at the time |
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"In these modern times do you think it's ok if a lady pays for the hotel for the night or should the gent be the one too ,or do you think going Dutch is the answer, interested to hear your views and stories
Whoever stays in the room for the rest of the night.
If both stay till morning then split 50/50.
Mrs "
Got it in one I think simple really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I suggest a hotel, then I'll pay for it.
If I suggest coffee or a meal then I pay.
If he pays I always offer half. If it's refused then it's on the premise I pay next time.
If he does pay for the hotel, I will pay for food, drink whatever. |
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