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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Firstly I don’t have any 
However when you read some of these is it to blow smoke up each other’s arses??
Are there ever any that say, for example, an utter snide, waste of time etc.
Just curious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I gave you a verification that said you were an absolute twat, a crap shag, lasted two seconds and cried while you came, would you show that on your profile? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I gave you a verification that said you were an absolute twat, a crap shag, lasted two seconds and cried while you came, would you show that on your profile?"
Probably not. 
However would it be more balanced if good/bad were shown ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I gave you a verification that said you were an absolute twat, a crap shag, lasted two seconds and cried while you came, would you show that on your profile?
Probably not.
However would it be more balanced if good/bad were shown ??? "
But nobody wants people to know that there’s a bad side to them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I gave you a verification that said you were an absolute twat, a crap shag, lasted two seconds and cried while you came, would you show that on your profile?
Probably not.
However would it be more balanced if good/bad were shown ???
They don’t but others might.
Kind of “check a trade.com” idea. But “rate a fabber”
But nobody wants people to know that there’s a bad side to them "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I gave you a verification that said you were an absolute twat, a crap shag, lasted two seconds and cried while you came, would you show that on your profile?
Probably not.
However would it be more balanced if good/bad were shown ???
They don’t but others might.
Kind of “check a trade.com” idea. But “rate a fabber”
But nobody wants people to know that there’s a bad side to them "
They don’t but others might.
Kind of “check a trade.com” idea. But “rate a fabber”
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Firstly I don’t have any
However when you read some of these is it to blow smoke up each other’s arses??
Are there ever any that say, for example, an utter snide, waste of time etc.
Just curious "
On my old profile I had one that said ' such an ignorer'... that was it. It was because after meeting, i missed a lot of his messages. I found it funny so i displayed and he wasn't wrong  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Firstly I don’t have any
However when you read some of these is it to blow smoke up each other’s arses??
Are there ever any that say, for example, an utter snide, waste of time etc.
Just curious "
Im sure there are...
One of mine isn't very complimentary but it was written by an eejit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc "
A time waster is usually someone who doesn't turn up... hard to give a veri in that scenario |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc "
What do you class as a ‘time waster’ ? |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc "
People can lie and say bad things as much as they can blow smoke up someones arse though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc
A time waster is usually someone who doesn't turn up... hard to give a veri in that scenario "
This could be like “time waster” list that people could check. If they appear a 3 times say, they are to be avoided. Just a thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can sometimes read between the lines though. If there is no mention of wanting to see them again but they gush about people would be silly to pass them by, i sometimes read that as trying to pass them off to the next fab user  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc
What do you class as a ‘time waster’ ?"
Someone who arranges a meet and continuously fails to show. Could be an example |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc
People can lie and say bad things as much as they can blow smoke up someones arse though. "
True and that’s a definite danger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc
What do you class as a ‘time waster’ ?
Someone who arranges a meet and continuously fails to show. Could be an example "
But then how can you verify them? Unless they have been on cam to each other, it’ll be classed as a fake verification (which it would be) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc
A time waster is usually someone who doesn't turn up... hard to give a veri in that scenario
This could be like “time waster” list that people could check. If they appear a 3 times say, they are to be avoided. Just a thought "
That could be used in bitterness or sour grapes though. Anyone can give a veri if they are verified themselves, even if they haven't met that person. If someone then tries to argue they hadn't met that person with the mods, it may be contried as trying to remove it just because it's a negative veri. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc
A time waster is usually someone who doesn't turn up... hard to give a veri in that scenario
This could be like “time waster” list that people could check. If they appear a 3 times say, they are to be avoided. Just a thought
That could be used in bitterness or sour grapes though. Anyone can give a veri if they are verified themselves, even if they haven't met that person. If someone then tries to argue they hadn't met that person with the mods, it may be contried as trying to remove it just because it's a negative veri. "
Contrived* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This iant trip advisor also If you posted anything that made someone look bad they have the power to show that or not but yet still appear verified on the profile so it would never matter only between the 2/3/4 people with the meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc
A time waster is usually someone who doesn't turn up... hard to give a veri in that scenario
This could be like “time waster” list that people could check. If they appear a 3 times say, they are to be avoided. Just a thought
That could be used in bitterness or sour grapes though. Anyone can give a veri if they are verified themselves, even if they haven't met that person. If someone then tries to argue they hadn't met that person with the mods, it may be contried as trying to remove it just because it's a negative veri. "
Why would there be bitterness??
I am just throwing it out there. You see people wanting to improve the site etc.
No easy way i suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc
A time waster is usually someone who doesn't turn up... hard to give a veri in that scenario
This could be like “time waster” list that people could check. If they appear a 3 times say, they are to be avoided. Just a thought
That could be used in bitterness or sour grapes though. Anyone can give a veri if they are verified themselves, even if they haven't met that person. If someone then tries to argue they hadn't met that person with the mods, it may be contried as trying to remove it just because it's a negative veri.
Why would there be bitterness??
I am just throwing it out there. You see people wanting to improve the site etc.
No easy way i suppose "
Okay, but I can say that three times now you’ve stood me up.
Prove to the mods that it didn’t happen  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc
A time waster is usually someone who doesn't turn up... hard to give a veri in that scenario
This could be like “time waster” list that people could check. If they appear a 3 times say, they are to be avoided. Just a thought
That could be used in bitterness or sour grapes though. Anyone can give a veri if they are verified themselves, even if they haven't met that person. If someone then tries to argue they hadn't met that person with the mods, it may be contried as trying to remove it just because it's a negative veri.
Why would there be bitterness??
I am just throwing it out there. You see people wanting to improve the site etc.
No easy way i suppose
Okay, but I can say that three times now you’ve stood me up.
Prove to the mods that it didn’t happen "
I have never stood you up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc
A time waster is usually someone who doesn't turn up... hard to give a veri in that scenario
This could be like “time waster” list that people could check. If they appear a 3 times say, they are to be avoided. Just a thought
That could be used in bitterness or sour grapes though. Anyone can give a veri if they are verified themselves, even if they haven't met that person. If someone then tries to argue they hadn't met that person with the mods, it may be contried as trying to remove it just because it's a negative veri.
Why would there be bitterness??
I am just throwing it out there. You see people wanting to improve the site etc.
No easy way i suppose
Okay, but I can say that three times now you’ve stood me up.
Prove to the mods that it didn’t happen
I have never stood you up "
Prove it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc
A time waster is usually someone who doesn't turn up... hard to give a veri in that scenario
This could be like “time waster” list that people could check. If they appear a 3 times say, they are to be avoided. Just a thought
That could be used in bitterness or sour grapes though. Anyone can give a veri if they are verified themselves, even if they haven't met that person. If someone then tries to argue they hadn't met that person with the mods, it may be contried as trying to remove it just because it's a negative veri.
Why would there be bitterness??
I am just throwing it out there. You see people wanting to improve the site etc.
No easy way i suppose
Okay, but I can say that three times now you’ve stood me up.
Prove to the mods that it didn’t happen
I have never stood you up
Prove it"
Stop
Post negative stuff about me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc
A time waster is usually someone who doesn't turn up... hard to give a veri in that scenario
This could be like “time waster” list that people could check. If they appear a 3 times say, they are to be avoided. Just a thought
That could be used in bitterness or sour grapes though. Anyone can give a veri if they are verified themselves, even if they haven't met that person. If someone then tries to argue they hadn't met that person with the mods, it may be contried as trying to remove it just because it's a negative veri.
Why would there be bitterness??
I am just throwing it out there. You see people wanting to improve the site etc.
No easy way i suppose
Okay, but I can say that three times now you’ve stood me up.
Prove to the mods that it didn’t happen
I have never stood you up
Prove it
Stop
Post negative stuff about me"
But why shouldn’t I? You stood me up three times now and others should know
See how easy it would be to abuse? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc
A time waster is usually someone who doesn't turn up... hard to give a veri in that scenario
This could be like “time waster” list that people could check. If they appear a 3 times say, they are to be avoided. Just a thought
That could be used in bitterness or sour grapes though. Anyone can give a veri if they are verified themselves, even if they haven't met that person. If someone then tries to argue they hadn't met that person with the mods, it may be contried as trying to remove it just because it's a negative veri.
Why would there be bitterness??
I am just throwing it out there. You see people wanting to improve the site etc.
No easy way i suppose "
If the system were designed to show every verification given and someone who was a timewaster was allowed to be shamed, what stops people from using this as a tool to be vidictive? That the person was not a timewaster at all. How could this be monitored/ proven? Believe me, there are some members on fab who would use it negatively. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hear what people are saying but you get profile updates about “time wasters”
Just thinking it might be a way to get rid of time wasters etc
A time waster is usually someone who doesn't turn up... hard to give a veri in that scenario
This could be like “time waster” list that people could check. If they appear a 3 times say, they are to be avoided. Just a thought
That could be used in bitterness or sour grapes though. Anyone can give a veri if they are verified themselves, even if they haven't met that person. If someone then tries to argue they hadn't met that person with the mods, it may be contried as trying to remove it just because it's a negative veri.
Why would there be bitterness??
I am just throwing it out there. You see people wanting to improve the site etc.
No easy way i suppose
Okay, but I can say that three times now you’ve stood me up.
Prove to the mods that it didn’t happen
I have never stood you up
Prove it
Stop
Post negative stuff about me
But why shouldn’t I? You stood me up three times now and others should know
See how easy it would be to abuse? "
I know
There’s got to be a better way I would think.
Ps-it was you that stood me up. I’m blocking you |
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"This iant trip advisor also If you posted anything that made someone look bad they have the power to show that or not but yet still appear verified on the profile so it would never matter only between the 2/3/4 people with the meet"
As in x & y were great company, but z was a total pillock |
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