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Struggling to leave swinging
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi Folks, I’ve Been a swinger near 20
Years. I’ve meet someone but I’m finding it hard to leave the scene totally. I’ve not played with anyone since myself and her went exclusive. Any help appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Delete your profile
I’ve done that a few times. But I keep coming back
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Ok, but this profile has many verifications as recent as two months ago, so you haven’t tried deleting this profile.
At the very least, hide it. |
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I try advise people this all the time. If you feel like you can't leave the swinging lifestyle then don't. Find someone who is equally interested in it.
Do you know what unhappiness leads to? Cheating. And that hurts more than just breaking up with someone because you want different things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Folks, I’ve Been a swinger near 20
Years. I’ve meet someone but I’m finding it hard to leave the scene totally. I’ve not played with anyone since myself and her went exclusive. Any help appreciated "
What is preventing you from leaving?
What is the worst thing that could happen if you did leave?
What is the worst thing that could happen if you don’t? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I try advise people this all the time. If you feel like you can't leave the swinging lifestyle then don't. Find someone who is equally interested in it.
Do you know what unhappiness leads to? Cheating. And that hurts more than just breaking up with someone because you want different things. "
 If she won't swing, dump her. Let her find someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Typical stupid man letting women tell him what to do
You one of those women haters we have around here from time to time"
defo not a woman hater lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I try advise people this all the time. If you feel like you can't leave the swinging lifestyle then don't. Find someone who is equally interested in it.
Do you know what unhappiness leads to? Cheating. And that hurts more than just breaking up with someone because you want different things. "
I totally appreciate your message. The issue is not that I’m unhappy. I’m very very happy. I just miss the buzz of swinging |
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By *ightLeeCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi Folks, I’ve Been a swinger near 20
Years. I’ve meet someone but I’m finding it hard to leave the scene totally. I’ve not played with anyone since myself and her went exclusive. Any help appreciated "
You need to find someone who wants to swing with you if this is what you are into and don’t want to give it up. If she doesn’t know you need to tell her and if you do and she isn’t into it then maybe she isn’t the one. You wouldn’t want to lie and deceive her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi Folks, I’ve Been a swinger near 20
Years. I’ve meet someone but I’m finding it hard to leave the scene totally. I’ve not played with anyone since myself and her went exclusive. Any help appreciated
You need to find someone who wants to swing with you if this is what you are into and don’t want to give it up. If she doesn’t know you need to tell her and if you do and she isn’t into it then maybe she isn’t the one. You wouldn’t want to lie and deceive her. "
I Defo don’t want to lie. But I am lying as we speak lol thank you x |
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