I have thee up most respect for women please believe me if I didn’t I wouldn’t be saying/asking this first lol x
With first meet a casual meet no probs
yeah I get all that side of things and if there’s a connection between you both etc etc x
So why Is it so wrong/pc wrong
If we just put it straight out there and said I/we you is in need of a really good SHAGGING forget about the formalities let’s just crack on xx
Why is that wrong xx |
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It’s not that it’s wrong,
I just prefer to know anyone I’m gonna play with before hand, makes me enjoy the sex more.
I’ve got straight to it a couple of times and been lucky, but I’d rather not go to a meet with the expectation of play and then not play cause I’ve not liked what I’ve seen etc! People leave Disappointed and frustrated.
Plus I’m amazed at the amount of people I’ve met over the last 3+ years that don’t look anything like their photos and ended a social with a thanks but no thanks! |
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"So say if a blokes profile write up
basically said in a nutshell I’m on here for a good/ time and to be fucked ridiculous Etc etc
Would that be accepted? X "
You can put whatever you like on your profile. |
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"So say if a blokes profile write up
basically said in a nutshell I’m on here for a good/ time and to be fucked ridiculous Etc etc
Would that be accepted? X "
It might it might not people have the right to meet or decline to meet who they like no matter what you put on your profile. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"It’s not that it’s wrong,
I just prefer to know anyone I’m gonna play with before hand, makes me enjoy the sex more.
I’ve got straight to it a couple of times and been lucky, but I’d rather not go to a meet with the expectation of play and then not play cause I’ve not liked what I’ve seen etc! People leave Disappointed and frustrated.
Plus I’m amazed at the amount of people I’ve met over the last 3+ years that don’t look anything like their photos and ended a social with a thanks but no thanks! "
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"The up tight PC fun police twats lol x
Which is why a lot of us nowadays hold back which is bollocks I’m much prefer straight to the point say how it’s is scenario xx"
I don’t think it’s ‘PC fun police twats’ I think it’s people who would rather know beforehand they are meeting the person in the photos, they have a connection, and they meet in a public place for safety. |
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"The up tight PC fun police twats lol x
Which is why a lot of us nowadays hold back which is bollocks I’m much prefer straight to the point say how it’s is scenario xx
I don’t think it’s ‘PC fun police twats’ I think it’s people who would rather know beforehand they are meeting the person in the photos, they have a connection, and they meet in a public place for safety. "
The attitude would put me off. No doubt anyone saying they'd changed their mind would be called names.  |
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"So say if a blokes profile write up
basically said in a nutshell I’m on here for a good/ time and to be fucked ridiculous Etc etc
Would that be accepted? X "
He should have whatever he wants on his profile. Some people won't like it but so what? If all he wants is a fuck, just say so. It will attract people who want the same. |
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"The up tight PC fun police twats lol x
Which is why a lot of us nowadays hold back which is bollocks I’m much prefer straight to the point say how it’s is scenario xx"
im direct too but girls like being seduced in most cases in my experience not just told i wanna shag speadem like some sex doll |
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"You're free to say what you want and to to state this in your profile. Don't be surprised however if the feedback and interest you receive is less than positive."
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"See I’m extremely open when it comes to
2 concenting adults on the same wave length wanting the same thing
It’s society that makes you think it’s wrong x "
I tend to decide for myself what's right and wrong... |
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"You're free to say what you want and to to state this in your profile. Don't be surprised however if the feedback and interest you receive is less than positive.
ooooo i can see right up your nose nice tits btw  "
Stop looking at my nose |
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"See I’m extremely open when it comes to
2 concenting adults on the same wave length wanting the same thing
It’s society that makes you think it’s wrong x "
No it’s the fact I’d rather know I’m safe and not fucking someone I’m not attracted to |
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"I’m holding back on what I really put just to be politically correct
And that’s wrong etc Isn’t it ???? "
You put what you wanna put on your profile buddy.
Also - if you click reply+quote we’ll know who you’re replying to |
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"See I’m extremely open when it comes to
2 concenting adults on the same wave length wanting the same thing
It’s society that makes you think it’s wrong x "
Which is exactly why some want a social first, to find out if you are on the same wavelength.
If everyone was honest in their profiles and messages it might not be so necessary but when so many write what they think the other wants to hear it's a bit difficult to judge. |
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"You're free to say what you want and to to state this in your profile. Don't be surprised however if the feedback and interest you receive is less than positive.
ooooo i can see right up your nose nice tits btw
Stop looking at my nose "
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"So say if a blokes profile write up
basically said in a nutshell I’m on here for a good/ time and to be fucked ridiculous Etc etc
Would that be accepted? X "
I'd be more attracted to that than the full info on their life. Some of us are here for sex only. Real NSA x |
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Mine has never said anything different.
I probably say it in terms more socially acceptable to me but that's what I was always after and that's what I got.
N.S.A....... No romance. No meals. No strings. No hang ups. No pretence. No clingy people.
Have genitals-will travel.
But not just with anyone obvs.
Definitely not with someone who offers a'shag'( even though that's what it is )
and ONLY with people I am attracted to. Which was often decided before I agreed to meet and then cemented after ONE drink or coffee. The clincher moments. |
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"The up tight PC fun police twats lol x
Which is why a lot of us nowadays hold back which is bollocks I’m much prefer straight to the point say how it’s is scenario xx"
oooops...... I'm all in favour of P.C. it's what stops racism , sexism and homophobia.
The misinterpretation of it is what leads to problems and also the demonising of anyone who holds a certain viewpoint.... say like calling them fun police or twats etc......
If you can't get laid look closer to home... ffs.
' I can't get shagged cos people won't let me is what you are actually saying.' .
( I do know that i'm actually pissing in the wind here ) |
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Do what you want I guess?
But I once met a couple for an initial social. The Male immediately started suggesting I go upstairs and sort his wife out. I'd barely sat down.
He also came across as arrogant and crass with a slightly bigoted attitude.
I'd have regretted anything happening if I found out during or after, that, that was who they were about?
Sure theres physical attraction but smiles, laughter and connection keep that initial thing going. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"The up tight PC fun police twats lol x
Which is why a lot of us nowadays hold back which is bollocks I’m much prefer straight to the point say how it’s is scenario xx
oooops...... I'm all in favour of P.C. it's what stops racism , sexism and homophobia.
The misinterpretation of it is what leads to problems and also the demonising of anyone who holds a certain viewpoint.... say like calling them fun police or twats etc......
If you can't get laid look closer to home... ffs.
' I can't get shagged cos people won't let me is what you are actually saying.' .
( I do know that i'm actually pissing in the wind here ) "
I agree, what that sentence says is "I can't say what I want to say because it's disrespectful and rude and people actually complain about that stuff now" |
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Why do you keep blaming the PC Police? I don't see them cracking down on people who like to insta-fuck.
They usually have other battles that they fight. Ones where people are being dick to others. Exclusion based on ignorance, questionable preferences and political stuff.
How quick you want to jump into bed with others probably wouldn't even pop up on their radar.
Think you may have your terminology a bit wrong. Though I can see why you fall foul of them if you call them "Twats" For not having the same moral compass as you. |
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It's not wrong.. it's just whether the wording attracts or doesn't..
if you've had conversation with someone and say that then you're directing it at them.
If you use it genetically it gives a different message.
Only you can attract the kind of person you're after so it works or it doesn't.
Like everything it's not everyone's cup of tea. |
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