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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Right folks advice needed

I rarely get a response back from messages!

What am I doing wrong is it me? Is it my profile?

Help me please haha x

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Because your messages are Fowler than most other guys'

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan  over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Maybe your messages are badly written?

Extract from your profile;

'Me med build always horny'

...you get my point?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Your profile is nothing but sex in one way or another, so when you message a woman and they read your bio, they know you're only messaging them to be a cum depository

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By *en-xxxMan  over a year ago

coventry


"Right folks advice needed

I rarely get a response back from messages!

What am I doing wrong is it me? Is it my profile?

Help me please haha x"

We all do mate. Majority of women are very ignorant on here. They forget what this site is lol.

Lots of nice women on here to though. Suppose you just have to be patient and respect the fact women get 500 messages a day lol

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By *uzukiNo1Woman  over a year ago

Rhyl

Yes, no....maybe I dunno....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fab straight

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I do try and make my messages decent and don't just say I want to fuck etc

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By *hortarseWoman  over a year ago

Norfolk

Are you sure your sending messages out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have a dick made of chocolate

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

There's no reason that you shouldn't get responses O.P. Bear in mind that the people responding to you don't get them either

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Lost me?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman  over a year ago

Yorkshire

I get around 200 messages a day. Some ladies will get many more. I think they can be forgiven for not having a ‘how are you’ conversation with every man/woman/couple

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Right folks advice needed

I rarely get a response back from messages!

What am I doing wrong is it me? Is it my profile?

Help me please haha x

We all do mate. Majority of women are very ignorant on here. They forget what this site is lol.

Lots of nice women on here to though. Suppose you just have to be patient and respect the fact women get 500 messages a day lol "

This site is a place where people can arrange to meet if they both interest each other. If not, the delete without reply rule exists for good reason.

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

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Seriously though OP, I, nor does anyone else know what kind of messages you are sending out. Do you just pick random targets without seeing if you match what they are looking for? Maybe explain why you can't accommodate perhaps, as a lot of ladies will see that as a sign that you're attached in some way.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There's no solid reason why your not getting responses. It could be due too any number of reasons and maybe non of the reasons your expecting.

I'd say look at other guys profiles and see there verifications; if any. You may find your not the only one in the same situation.

It could just be you don't fit the criteria they are looking for.

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

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"Lost me?"

Press Reply + quote, then we will know which post you are answering

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I get around 200 messages a day. Some ladies will get many more. I think they can be forgiven for not having a ‘how are you’ conversation with every man/woman/couple "

But, how are you?

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford

Are you straight, all of your friends are Tv's

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I do try and make my messages decent and don't just say I want to fuck etc

"

Exactly how are you making them 'decent'?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You could lick pussy all day everyday? Think I'd get bored after a while.

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"You could lick pussy all day everyday? Think I'd get bored after a while."

I guess that's why he's special and it's worthy of mention, I'm sure it's not just a boastful and idle claim, people don't do that!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You could lick pussy all day everyday? Think I'd get bored after a while.

I guess that's why he's special and it's worthy of mention, I'm sure it's not just a boastful and idle claim, people don't do that! "

Should I message for a number then? As per instructions in profile?

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"You could lick pussy all day everyday? Think I'd get bored after a while.

I guess that's why he's special and it's worthy of mention, I'm sure it's not just a boastful and idle claim, people don't do that!

Should I message for a number then? As per instructions in profile?"

Only if you want your pussy licking ALL day EVERY day, otherwise its a waste of the man's talents

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't think it makes a big difference what men have on a profile.. Because men are 10 a penny and will allways struggle to get messages.

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"You could lick pussy all day everyday? Think I'd get bored after a while.

I guess that's why he's special and it's worthy of mention, I'm sure it's not just a boastful and idle claim, people don't do that! "

I tried it once back in ma 20's, it didn't go well, it lasted about 20 minutes before I had to come up for air

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Right folks advice needed

I rarely get a response back from messages!

What am I doing wrong is it me? Is it my profile?

Help me please haha x"

To me your profile isn't exactly honest and that puts me off. The straight bit when you are looknig for TV's makes me think what else is not true I would think that is the same for others too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You could lick pussy all day everyday? Think I'd get bored after a while.

I guess that's why he's special and it's worthy of mention, I'm sure it's not just a boastful and idle claim, people don't do that!

Should I message for a number then? As per instructions in profile?

Only if you want your pussy licking ALL day EVERY day, otherwise its a waste of the man's talents"

True. I don't have all day. I work full time. Oh well.

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By *atcake1973Man  over a year ago

stoke on Trent

So many looking

No one doing or saying anything

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just another man saying "i could lick pussy all day long" put a dic pic as your profile and youd be top of the orginal list on fab!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just another man saying "i could lick pussy all day long" put a dic pic as your profile and youd be top of the orginal list on fab!! "

In a nutshell

Respect goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Your profile doesn't read as if you are 37.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ok so I will change the profile and go from there!

Thanks everyone x

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By *ebjonnsonMan  over a year ago

Maldon


"I get around 200 messages a day. Some ladies will get many more. I think they can be forgiven for not having a ‘how are you’ conversation with every man/woman/couple "

I probably get one message a month. Guys, we can’t ever comprehend getting 200 messages a day. Think about it ——

Don’t really know what I’m getting at here other than it’s madness, OP looks great and I’m sure a decent guy but the numbers involved and I’m sure the amount of dumb messages just make it impossible. Nobody can handle 200 messages a day!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Your profile doesn't read as if you are 37. "

Horny as fuck usually come from teenagers or those not fully matured.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I get around 200 messages a day. Some ladies will get many more. I think they can be forgiven for not having a ‘how are you’ conversation with every man/woman/couple

I probably get one message a month. Guys, we can’t ever comprehend getting 200 messages a day. Think about it ——

Don’t really know what I’m getting at here other than it’s madness, OP looks great and I’m sure a decent guy but the numbers involved and I’m sure the amount of dumb messages just make it impossible. Nobody can handle 200 messages a day! "

Forgive my ignorance but what is OP

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP - Original Poster

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Right folks advice needed

I rarely get a response back from messages!

What am I doing wrong is it me? Is it my profile?

Help me please haha x"

Your profile is meh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP - Original Poster"

I wanted to know this, but thought I would look stupid if I asked lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Right folks advice needed

I rarely get a response back from messages!

What am I doing wrong is it me? Is it my profile?

Help me please haha x

We all do mate. Majority of women are very ignorant on here. They forget what this site is lol.

Lots of nice women on here to though. Suppose you just have to be patient and respect the fact women get 500 messages a day lol "

Its not about being ignorant, as you say women get MANY messages a day, even those you wouldn’t perhaps expect to, ( like us big girls) I used to try n reply to all but it gets tedious and takes ages then a lot of guys just message again with “Why”? Or loads of abuse so its just easier to delete, some great blokes on here but some bloody nasty ones to that spoil things for the good guys x

The fact you cant accommodate wont help, a lot of women wont accommodate for safety reasons x

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

TBH your profile is like dozens of others, just here for fun and looking for sex, believe it or not a lot of women need their brain stimulated after all it is the largest sexual organ, if you cant be bothered to do that, then don't bother to complain is my opinion

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"TBH your profile is like dozens of others, just here for fun and looking for sex, believe it or not a lot of women need their brain stimulated after all it is the largest sexual organ, if you cant be bothered to do that, then don't bother to complain is my opinion "

Forgot to mention, can't accommodate usually means in a relationship if not married, so easily avoidable that will be the main reason!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP - Original Poster"

Namaste

Thanks

No question is ever silly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

welcome

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP - Original Poster

I wanted to know this, but thought I would look stupid if I asked lol "

I saved ya the bother lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You need to be a bit more demanding in your profile with a list of must haves in CAPITALS. Upload a numbers of pics of your cock from different angles in black and white and change your username to Pussy Slayer or words to that effect.

Before you know it you’ll be drowning in it.

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith


"Right folks advice needed

I rarely get a response back from messages!

What am I doing wrong is it me? Is it my profile?

Help me please haha x"

I can’t help with your messages mate, but your profile could use tweaking;

Change your profile title to “Looking for fun times” Using the word ‘need’ infers you’re only thinking about yourself

Lose the two lines where you invite people to message you, they make you sound desperate. If people are interested in you, they will contact you

Women generally don’t like men who talk about ‘licking pussy’, so change that line to something like “I’m a passionate man with a lot to give”.

Maybe tweak it some more by correcting your punctuation too, so it reads better.

Hope this helps, good luck fella

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You need to be a bit more demanding in your profile with a list of must haves in CAPITALS. Upload a numbers of pics of your cock from different angles in black and white and change your username to Pussy Slayer or words to that effect.

Before you know it you’ll be drowning in it."

Instantly becoming Every girls dream fab catch

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