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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile is nothing but sex in one way or another, so when you message a woman and they read your bio, they know you're only messaging them to be a cum depository |
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By *en-xxxMan
over a year ago
coventry |
"Right folks advice needed
I rarely get a response back from messages!
What am I doing wrong is it me? Is it my profile?
Help me please haha x"
We all do mate. Majority of women are very ignorant on here. They forget what this site is lol.
Lots of nice women on here to though. Suppose you just have to be patient and respect the fact women get 500 messages a day lol ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"Right folks advice needed
I rarely get a response back from messages!
What am I doing wrong is it me? Is it my profile?
Help me please haha x
We all do mate. Majority of women are very ignorant on here. They forget what this site is lol.
Lots of nice women on here to though. Suppose you just have to be patient and respect the fact women get 500 messages a day lol "
This site is a place where people can arrange to meet if they both interest each other. If not, the delete without reply rule exists for good reason. |
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Seriously though OP, I, nor does anyone else know what kind of messages you are sending out. Do you just pick random targets without seeing if you match what they are looking for? Maybe explain why you can't accommodate perhaps, as a lot of ladies will see that as a sign that you're attached in some way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's no solid reason why your not getting responses. It could be due too any number of reasons and maybe non of the reasons your expecting.
I'd say look at other guys profiles and see there verifications; if any. You may find your not the only one in the same situation.
It could just be you don't fit the criteria they are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get around 200 messages a day. Some ladies will get many more. I think they can be forgiven for not having a ‘how are you’ conversation with every man/woman/couple "
But, how are you? |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"You could lick pussy all day everyday? Think I'd get bored after a while."
I guess that's why he's special and it's worthy of mention, I'm sure it's not just a boastful and idle claim, people don't do that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could lick pussy all day everyday? Think I'd get bored after a while.
I guess that's why he's special and it's worthy of mention, I'm sure it's not just a boastful and idle claim, people don't do that! "
Should I message for a number then? As per instructions in profile? |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"You could lick pussy all day everyday? Think I'd get bored after a while.
I guess that's why he's special and it's worthy of mention, I'm sure it's not just a boastful and idle claim, people don't do that!
Should I message for a number then? As per instructions in profile?"
Only if you want your pussy licking ALL day EVERY day, otherwise its a waste of the man's talents |
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"You could lick pussy all day everyday? Think I'd get bored after a while.
I guess that's why he's special and it's worthy of mention, I'm sure it's not just a boastful and idle claim, people don't do that! "
I tried it once back in ma 20's, it didn't go well, it lasted about 20 minutes before I had to come up for air ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right folks advice needed
I rarely get a response back from messages!
What am I doing wrong is it me? Is it my profile?
Help me please haha x"
To me your profile isn't exactly honest and that puts me off. The straight bit when you are looknig for TV's makes me think what else is not true I would think that is the same for others too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could lick pussy all day everyday? Think I'd get bored after a while.
I guess that's why he's special and it's worthy of mention, I'm sure it's not just a boastful and idle claim, people don't do that!
Should I message for a number then? As per instructions in profile?
Only if you want your pussy licking ALL day EVERY day, otherwise its a waste of the man's talents"
True. I don't have all day. I work full time. Oh well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just another man saying "i could lick pussy all day long" put a dic pic as your profile and youd be top of the orginal list on fab!! "
In a nutshell
Respect goes a long way |
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"I get around 200 messages a day. Some ladies will get many more. I think they can be forgiven for not having a ‘how are you’ conversation with every man/woman/couple "
I probably get one message a month. Guys, we can’t ever comprehend getting 200 messages a day. Think about it ——
Don’t really know what I’m getting at here other than it’s madness, OP looks great and I’m sure a decent guy but the numbers involved and I’m sure the amount of dumb messages just make it impossible. Nobody can handle 200 messages a day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get around 200 messages a day. Some ladies will get many more. I think they can be forgiven for not having a ‘how are you’ conversation with every man/woman/couple
I probably get one message a month. Guys, we can’t ever comprehend getting 200 messages a day. Think about it ——
Don’t really know what I’m getting at here other than it’s madness, OP looks great and I’m sure a decent guy but the numbers involved and I’m sure the amount of dumb messages just make it impossible. Nobody can handle 200 messages a day! "
Forgive my ignorance but what is OP ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right folks advice needed
I rarely get a response back from messages!
What am I doing wrong is it me? Is it my profile?
Help me please haha x"
Your profile is meh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right folks advice needed
I rarely get a response back from messages!
What am I doing wrong is it me? Is it my profile?
Help me please haha x
We all do mate. Majority of women are very ignorant on here. They forget what this site is lol.
Lots of nice women on here to though. Suppose you just have to be patient and respect the fact women get 500 messages a day lol "
Its not about being ignorant, as you say women get MANY messages a day, even those you wouldn’t perhaps expect to, ( like us big girls) I used to try n reply to all but it gets tedious and takes ages then a lot of guys just message again with “Why”? Or loads of abuse so its just easier to delete, some great blokes on here but some bloody nasty ones to that spoil things for the good guys x
The fact you cant accommodate wont help, a lot of women wont accommodate for safety reasons x |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
TBH your profile is like dozens of others, just here for fun and looking for sex, believe it or not a lot of women need their brain stimulated after all it is the largest sexual organ, if you cant be bothered to do that, then don't bother to complain is my opinion |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"TBH your profile is like dozens of others, just here for fun and looking for sex, believe it or not a lot of women need their brain stimulated after all it is the largest sexual organ, if you cant be bothered to do that, then don't bother to complain is my opinion "
Forgot to mention, can't accommodate usually means in a relationship if not married, so easily avoidable that will be the main reason! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need to be a bit more demanding in your profile with a list of must haves in CAPITALS. Upload a numbers of pics of your cock from different angles in black and white and change your username to Pussy Slayer or words to that effect.
Before you know it you’ll be drowning in it. |
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"Right folks advice needed
I rarely get a response back from messages!
What am I doing wrong is it me? Is it my profile?
Help me please haha x"
I can’t help with your messages mate, but your profile could use tweaking;
Change your profile title to “Looking for fun times” Using the word ‘need’ infers you’re only thinking about yourself
Lose the two lines where you invite people to message you, they make you sound desperate. If people are interested in you, they will contact you
Women generally don’t like men who talk about ‘licking pussy’, so change that line to something like “I’m a passionate man with a lot to give”.
Maybe tweak it some more by correcting your punctuation too, so it reads better.
Hope this helps, good luck fella
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You need to be a bit more demanding in your profile with a list of must haves in CAPITALS. Upload a numbers of pics of your cock from different angles in black and white and change your username to Pussy Slayer or words to that effect.
Before you know it you’ll be drowning in it."
Instantly becoming Every girls dream fab catch ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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