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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah
And I’ll fight them 1v1
And win"
Jokes aside, no I’m not competitive. I really couldn’t care what everyone else is up to, I’ll do me and that’s that really |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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No there's not and nor is anyone ruining it for anyone but themselves either.
Both of these things regularly appear to be rolled out, especially by single guys, as something to blame when the site doesn't live up to their expectations, when It's usually their expectations being incorrectly set that are at fault. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I reckon I'm unique (not all in a good way) but if ppl do like me then it's not in the same way as they feel about any other fucker on here... So, no real competition, just plenty of people to learn from 
In any case I have all I need rn 
I do see ppl getting stressed out and insecure by fab forum fame mind and posting dribble and it makes me  in my mouth a little on occasion.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there competition here or just other members?
Do you regard those seeking the same as you as 'competition'?"
Nope, what's to be competitive about, its all down to personal tastes either there is attraction or not.. I personally don't give a rats arse about anyone else thoughts about me I have nothing to be competitive about just what you see is what you get.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I felt I had to compete for someone's attention, then that's not the person for me. "
This 
If I click with someone that's all that matters. If their interest is taken by someone else that's cool, I hope they have fun and I'll move on too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A good few years ago it sometimes felt like a competition on here. Not too sure if there was a lack of men to go around but I found a lot of women were meeting or wanting to meet the same ones at the same time.
Although I do suspect a few of the guys were stirring it up as well, which didn’t help matters... 
Nowadays I don’t see it that way at all, thank gawd. |
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I've been on here for about 13 years now, but I've never seen it as a competition. I've not sent a faf message for about 10 years now and just talk utter balderdash on here 
If it goes to pm and we click, then all is good, if it leads nowhere, then no tears are shed here, this is just another tool in ma box, I'm still capable of going out and making all the ladies swoon in real life with ma fancy patter as well 
I wish.... |
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"I've been on here for about 13 years now, but I've never seen it as a competition. I've not sent a faf message for about 10 years now and just talk utter balderdash on here
If it goes to pm and we click, then all is good, if it leads nowhere, then no tears are shed here, this is just another tool in ma box, I'm still capable of going out and making all the ladies swoon in real life with ma fancy patter as well
I wish.... "
Swoon, now there's a word I haven't heard for a while. Swoon, it has a courtly quality to it. I think I will take the opportunity to swoon tomorrow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I felt I had to compete for someone's attention, then that's not the person for me.
This
If I click with someone that's all that matters. If their interest is taken by someone else that's cool, I hope they have fun and I'll move on too. "
This |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there competition here or just other members?
Do you regard those seeking the same as you as 'competition'?
What do you think OP?"
I don't (but then again I'm not competitive in the slightest)
I do, however, think that some people see competition in everything, including here
I didn't expect many (if any) to admit to it though
And you ?
What's your thoughts ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there competition here or just other members?
Do you regard those seeking the same as you as 'competition'?
What do you think OP?
I don't (but then again I'm not competitive in the slightest)
I do, however, think that some people see competition in everything, including here
I didn't expect many (if any) to admit to it though
And you ?
What's your thoughts ?"
I think it's a very fierce competition. On all sides. I can't compete so I don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I do think there are some that see it as competition on here.
When myself and B first got together I was shocked at the amount of other couples who told me of their experiences when becoming a couple from here. Running theme was the same few women who'd shown a small amount or no interest in the male half of the couple when he was a single man were now showing a large amount of interest now he was no longer single.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, I don't compete for attention.
If I get the vibe they're not interested or more keen on someone else I move on. I'm certainly not competing with anyone for a cock that's not attached to my husband.
Sin. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I don’t compete. If i feel i have to i lose interest, i just don’t have that go getting kind of personality.
Although i have met men and then had their previous meets contact them and ask if I was better than them. The women then have gone on to gawp at my profile very frequently. Why? I dunno. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My honest opinion.
I think there are a fair few on here, who see it as a competition & quite often throw their toys out of the pram when they don't get their own way.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do think there are some that see it as competition on here.
When myself and B first got together I was shocked at the amount of other couples who told me of their experiences when becoming a couple from here. Running theme was the same few women who'd shown a small amount or no interest in the male half of the couple when he was a single man were now showing a large amount of interest now he was no longer single.
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Sounds familiar.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My honest opinion.
I think there are a fair few on here, who see it as a competition & quite often throw their toys out of the pram when they don't get their own way.
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Are you the current 'not single' man prize? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not competitive... we all have something different to bring to the bedroom
I bring a cheese platter and a selection of crackers "
No crudities, pickles or chutneys ?  |
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