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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you know if there's potential?
Can you tell by someone's profile if you're likely to get on?
Does it take a few messages? Weeks of chat?
How quickly do you decide whether it's worth arranging to meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to base it on forum interactions can they make me laugh then go to pm can we flow humour once im laughing via pm its meet time if close once i seduce them its sex time  |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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With you Rubi, it was lust at first sight.
Some I've got to like by learning about their qualities from what they post on the forums and some I've had an instant attraction to only to lose it after reading their forums posts or status updates. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually get a good idea from profile text and the sort of pics they have. I always chat for a while first though and even then I only meet for a social. That’s when I know if there’s potential. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
If they meet my preferences 'on paper' I'll arrange to meet them for a coffee pretty quickly. I'll know whether I want to meet them again for sex within minutes. Although that can often change, depends on how they are, what they say etc. Poor buggers!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Second message. If they don’t get my humour/sass then it’s a no go.
Suprisingly some of the bare profiles with nothing on them have hilarious men behind them. "
Yep it’s the ones with funny profiles you have to watch, they’ll bore you silly once you start getting to know them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can only judge (Yes,contrary to fabled fab law,we all judge) someone on meeting in person.
The smell ,the eye contact,those teeth,that unscripted humour,that breath....none of that you get on breathing in selfies and copy and paste compliments.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not usually, no. I just wander the threads bemused, and messages, well cave men are a bit slow.You may have to club me before I get the message...
Strangely though with some I just know, from the first message, or even before. They never quite seem to happen though..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you can tell far better, a few days after the initial euphoria of the first message.
Conversations a little brief. Generic responses. Probably speaking to several people saying the same thing.
The chase is over, they need to test someone else's appetite! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know pretty quickly that I might like to meet someone and they quickly work out they don’t really want to meet me."
Snap!
Today has been so strange, I’ve exchanged messages with a few people then as soon as I ask for a face pic I get blocked!
Surely it helps to see what someone looks like or is that just me?  |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"I usually get a good idea from profile text and the sort of pics they have. I always chat for a while first though and even then I only meet for a social. That’s when I know if there’s potential. "
This is the same for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know pretty quickly that I might like to meet someone and they quickly work out they don’t really want to meet me.
Snap!
Today has been so strange, I’ve exchanged messages with a few people then as soon as I ask for a face pic I get blocked!
Surely it helps to see what someone looks like or is that just me? "
No it’s pretty much par for the course. I’m going back to not being arsed about meeting, it takes much less effort and the rewards are just the same |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How bout you rubi "
Initially their profile, if I like their pics and the text makes me laugh then that's a good starting point but I think probably within a few messages I know if we could click. I can be a bit obscure with my humour and they either get it or they don't.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How bout you rubi
Initially their profile, if I like their pics and the text makes me laugh then that's a good starting point but I think probably within a few messages I know if we could click. I can be a bit obscure with my humour and they either get it or they don't.
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the ones who dont have funny bones missing lass your a funny broad see im even going chicago town pizza on ya  |
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"Do you know if there's potential?
Can you tell by someone's profile if you're likely to get on?
Does it take a few messages? Weeks of chat?
How quickly do you decide whether it's worth arranging to meet? "
Two messages
Actually, I've sometimes made a decision before the first message... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll already find them attractive from their pics and profile. I'll know if we'll be compatible after chatting a while. I'll know if I'll meet them whenever I've sussed them out. That could happen quickly but with some it takes a while. Those I can't suss out over messaging I'll never meet. I don't meet for socials so I have to be sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you know if there's potential?
Can you tell by someone's profile if you're likely to get on?
Does it take a few messages? Weeks of chat?
How quickly do you decide whether it's worth arranging to meet?
Two messages
Actually, I've sometimes made a decision before the first message..."
Decision: "noooooo way!!" |
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"Do you know if there's potential?
Can you tell by someone's profile if you're likely to get on?
Does it take a few messages? Weeks of chat?
How quickly do you decide whether it's worth arranging to meet?
Two messages
Actually, I've sometimes made a decision before the first message...
Decision: "noooooo way!!""
Lololololololol! |
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