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So despite having a ‘no married men unless they come with their wife’ on my profile I still get approached by a number of them. One recently said this is a site for cheaters. I suggested it’s a site for swingers being overtaken by single (or not) men.
So, what is Fab? Swingers, cheaters, or both?
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Surely it’s whatever members want it to be?
The biggest problem seems to be what the OP described in their post - members either ignoring people’s preferences or pretending to be something they’re not. |
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"So despite having a ‘no married men unless they come with their wife’ on my profile I still get approached by a number of them. One recently said this is a site for cheaters. I suggested it’s a site for swingers being overtaken by single (or not) men.
So, what is Fab? Swingers, cheaters, or both?
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You should report that person ppl like that are making this site turn I to something it's not ment to be and killing it to be fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So despite having a ‘no married men unless they come with their wife’ on my profile I still get approached by a number of them. One recently said this is a site for cheaters. I suggested it’s a site for swingers being overtaken by single (or not) men.
So, what is Fab? Swingers, cheaters, or both?
You should report that person ppl like that are making this site turn I to something it's not ment to be and killing it to be fair "
Report them for what? Not reading her profile or for cheating? |
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"So despite having a ‘no married men unless they come with their wife’ on my profile I still get approached by a number of them. One recently said this is a site for cheaters. I suggested it’s a site for swingers being overtaken by single (or not) men.
So, what is Fab? Swingers, cheaters, or both?
You should report that person ppl like that are making this site turn I to something it's not ment to be and killing it to be fair "
Please don't report someone just because they ignored what is written on a profile, there is nothing in the site rules stating you have to read a profile. |
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"So despite having a ‘no married men unless they come with their wife’ on my profile I still get approached by a number of them. One recently said this is a site for cheaters. I suggested it’s a site for swingers being overtaken by single (or not) men.
So, what is Fab? Swingers, cheaters, or both?
You should report that person ppl like that are making this site turn I to something it's not ment to be and killing it to be fair
Please don't report someone just because they ignored what is written on a profile, there is nothing in the site rules stating you have to read a profile."
The fact he's saying it's a site for cheaters would set our alarm bells ringing im afraid, it's not the not reading the of the profile. This is a trust issue if we have ppl blatant cheating this site will go to the dogs and it will be because of ppl like that |
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"Surely it’s whatever members want it to be?
The biggest problem seems to be what the OP described in their post - members either ignoring people’s preferences or pretending to be something they’re not."
Yes, this. Who has the time or inclination to through to the genuine people?
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"So despite having a ‘no married men unless they come with their wife’ on my profile I still get approached by a number of them. One recently said this is a site for cheaters. I suggested it’s a site for swingers being overtaken by single (or not) men.
So, what is Fab? Swingers, cheaters, or both?
You should report that person ppl like that are making this site turn I to something it's not ment to be and killing it to be fair
Please don't report someone just because they ignored what is written on a profile, there is nothing in the site rules stating you have to read a profile.
The fact he's saying it's a site for cheaters would set our alarm bells ringing im afraid, it's not the not reading the of the profile. This is a trust issue if we have ppl blatant cheating this site will go to the dogs and it will be because of ppl like that "
There will have been people cheating from day 1 of this site. Still not a reason to report people |
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"So despite having a ‘no married men unless they come with their wife’ on my profile I still get approached by a number of them. One recently said this is a site for cheaters. I suggested it’s a site for swingers being overtaken by single (or not) men.
So, what is Fab? Swingers, cheaters, or both?
You should report that person ppl like that are making this site turn I to something it's not ment to be and killing it to be fair "
I won’t report, but I agree. It’s why I often stay away or keep my profile hidden. |
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What ever i wish 1st its an easy way to chat to my friends without my phone buzzing like a vibrating penis in my pocket
Second i can go on forums and take the piss and get my attention fix
3 i can get my cock out and save the moments its majesty and beauty shine bright and D cos my girl is on here so i can say lovely things to her Z im not a swinger im just blake |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So despite having a ‘no married men unless they come with their wife’ on my profile I still get approached by a number of them. One recently said this is a site for cheaters. I suggested it’s a site for swingers being overtaken by single (or not) men.
So, what is Fab? Swingers, cheaters, or both?
You should report that person ppl like that are making this site turn I to something it's not ment to be and killing it to be fair
Please don't report someone just because they ignored what is written on a profile, there is nothing in the site rules stating you have to read a profile.
The fact he's saying it's a site for cheaters would set our alarm bells ringing im afraid, it's not the not reading the of the profile. This is a trust issue if we have ppl blatant cheating this site will go to the dogs and it will be because of ppl like that
There will have been people cheating from day 1 of this site. Still not a reason to report people "
People have cheated since the dawn of time. Even really nice people do it. I'd rather spend my time with a pack of friendly dogs anyway  |
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"So despite having a ‘no married men unless they come with their wife’ on my profile I still get approached by a number of them. One recently said this is a site for cheaters. I suggested it’s a site for swingers being overtaken by single (or not) men.
So, what is Fab? Swingers, cheaters, or both?
You should report that person ppl like that are making this site turn I to something it's not ment to be and killing it to be fair
Please don't report someone just because they ignored what is written on a profile, there is nothing in the site rules stating you have to read a profile.
The fact he's saying it's a site for cheaters would set our alarm bells ringing im afraid, it's not the not reading the of the profile. This is a trust issue if we have ppl blatant cheating this site will go to the dogs and it will be because of ppl like that "
Also nothing reportable about cheating on their partner. |
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You think it’s bad on here, you should check out some other so called Swinger sites.
I recently joined a site I saw advertised somewhere, just to have a look. It has some good features but there are no couple profiles on there, only single male and single female. It seems very odd having a site marketing itself for swingers but having no couples on there when the traditional definition of swinging is exchanging partners. I still joined, basically because I’m nosy lol. Having a look around there, like Fab, it’s very single male dominated. Oh and also like Fab, ladies get messages saying how much they like the profile when it has no text or photos |
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"You think it’s bad on here, you should check out some other so called Swinger sites.
I recently joined a site I saw advertised somewhere, just to have a look. It has some good features but there are no couple profiles on there, only single male and single female. It seems very odd having a site marketing itself for swingers but having no couples on there when the traditional definition of swinging is exchanging partners. I still joined, basically because I’m nosy lol. Having a look around there, like Fab, it’s very single male dominated. Oh and also like Fab, ladies get messages saying how much they like the profile when it has no text or photos "
Oh I get so many of these! If I’m feeling bored or snarky I’ll reply asking what it was they liked so much and where the photos (not the photo) they can see are. |
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"You think it’s bad on here, you should check out some other so called Swinger sites.
I recently joined a site I saw advertised somewhere, just to have a look. It has some good features but there are no couple profiles on there, only single male and single female. It seems very odd having a site marketing itself for swingers but having no couples on there when the traditional definition of swinging is exchanging partners. I still joined, basically because I’m nosy lol. Having a look around there, like Fab, it’s very single male dominated. Oh and also like Fab, ladies get messages saying how much they like the profile when it has no text or photos
Oh I get so many of these! If I’m feeling bored or snarky I’ll reply asking what it was they liked so much and where the photos (not the photo) they can see are. "
I got thrown off the site after about an hour.......couldn’t resist asking someone what it was about my blank profile and lack of pictures that they found so alluring. I suspect he didn’t like it and reported me |
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"You think it’s bad on here, you should check out some other so called Swinger sites.
I recently joined a site I saw advertised somewhere, just to have a look. It has some good features but there are no couple profiles on there, only single male and single female. It seems very odd having a site marketing itself for swingers but having no couples on there when the traditional definition of swinging is exchanging partners. I still joined, basically because I’m nosy lol. Having a look around there, like Fab, it’s very single male dominated. Oh and also like Fab, ladies get messages saying how much they like the profile when it has no text or photos
Oh I get so many of these! If I’m feeling bored or snarky I’ll reply asking what it was they liked so much and where the photos (not the photo) they can see are.
I got thrown off the site after about an hour.......couldn’t resist asking someone what it was about my blank profile and lack of pictures that they found so alluring. I suspect he didn’t like it and reported me "
Ah you spoil sport you ?? |
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"You think it’s bad on here, you should check out some other so called Swinger sites.
I recently joined a site I saw advertised somewhere, just to have a look. It has some good features but there are no couple profiles on there, only single male and single female. It seems very odd having a site marketing itself for swingers but having no couples on there when the traditional definition of swinging is exchanging partners. I still joined, basically because I’m nosy lol. Having a look around there, like Fab, it’s very single male dominated. Oh and also like Fab, ladies get messages saying how much they like the profile when it has no text or photos
Oh I get so many of these! If I’m feeling bored or snarky I’ll reply asking what it was they liked so much and where the photos (not the photo) they can see are.
I got thrown off the site after about an hour.......couldn’t resist asking someone what it was about my blank profile and lack of pictures that they found so alluring. I suspect he didn’t like it and reported me
Ah you spoil sport you ??"
I said the same thing about them, booted just as I was having fun |
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To be fair throughout my time on fab and the club scene as a single and part of a couple I/we have come across a suprising number of men and (a little more surprisingly) lots of women (on their own and as part of another couple) who are cheating. I/we don't get judgy because we don't live in their shoes, the world can be complex and they are all sovereign adults. I dont think its any secret really on the scene as most people once you get chatting to them in a club are fairly open about their other halves not knowing what they get up to. So it seems in my/our experience that:
A: Cheating people is very much part of the scene (for whatever reason).
B: Women seem to be nearly just as prolific as men. Although often a bit more subtle than some of the men. |
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"To be fair throughout my time on fab and the club scene as a single and part of a couple I/we have come across a suprising number of men and (a little more surprisingly) lots of women (on their own and as part of another couple) who are cheating. I/we don't get judgy because we don't live in their shoes, the world can be complex and they are all sovereign adults. I dont think its any secret really on the scene as most people once you get chatting to them in a club are fairly open about their other halves not knowing what they get up to. So it seems in my/our experience that:
A: Cheating people is very much part of the scene (for whatever reason).
B: Women seem to be nearly just as prolific as men. Although often a bit more subtle than some of the men."
Don’t disagree. And I don’t care what others do until they try to be dishonest with me and then give me grief for sticking with my own beliefs.
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"To be fair throughout my time on fab and the club scene as a single and part of a couple I/we have come across a suprising number of men and (a little more surprisingly) lots of women (on their own and as part of another couple) who are cheating. I/we don't get judgy because we don't live in their shoes, the world can be complex and they are all sovereign adults. I dont think its any secret really on the scene as most people once you get chatting to them in a club are fairly open about their other halves not knowing what they get up to. So it seems in my/our experience that:
A: Cheating people is very much part of the scene (for whatever reason).
B: Women seem to be nearly just as prolific as men. Although often a bit more subtle than some of the men.
Don’t disagree. And I don’t care what others do until they try to be dishonest with me and then give me grief for sticking with my own beliefs.
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I suppose my point was that the scene is full of people like this. So fab simply replicates the scene to a certain extent. I would say (in answer to the question) fab is not necessarily for either or both, nor is it not for them. I don't see anything to say they are not permitted on here and therefore just as entitaled to representation as much as anyone else on here. However I do get the frustration that people are trying to get in with you despite what your profile says. It wastes both your time and theirs. Seem to me this is more a question of people not reading profiles and not respecting people's specifications in general. |
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"To be fair throughout my time on fab and the club scene as a single and part of a couple I/we have come across a suprising number of men and (a little more surprisingly) lots of women (on their own and as part of another couple) who are cheating. I/we don't get judgy because we don't live in their shoes, the world can be complex and they are all sovereign adults. I dont think its any secret really on the scene as most people once you get chatting to them in a club are fairly open about their other halves not knowing what they get up to. So it seems in my/our experience that:
A: Cheating people is very much part of the scene (for whatever reason).
B: Women seem to be nearly just as prolific as men. Although often a bit more subtle than some of the men.
Don’t disagree. And I don’t care what others do until they try to be dishonest with me and then give me grief for sticking with my own beliefs.
I suppose my point was that the scene is full of people like this. So fab simply replicates the scene to a certain extent. I would say (in answer to the question) fab is not necessarily for either or both, nor is it not for them. I don't see anything to say they are not permitted on here and therefore just as entitaled to representation as much as anyone else on here. However I do get the frustration that people are trying to get in with you despite what your profile says. It wastes both your time and theirs. Seem to me this is more a question of people not reading profiles and not respecting people's specifications in general."
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