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Patience is the key
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve seen this comment made numerous times, regarding men and their chances of success on here. But how patient is patient, I understand not to expect to have a meet in the first few weeks, or maybe the first month, but when it rolls over to 2 months, do you carry on hoping for the best or do you call it quits?
Also, how patient would you woman be, what time frame would you give yourselves before you decided to call it a day, cause I suspect it wouldn’t be anything like what men are expected to wait for. Just wondering what your thoughts are ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing is there is no set time frame. You could hit it off with the first person you speak to or you could be here years and never get a response.
The best you can do is optimise your chances and hope for the best. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do I optimise my chances ?
It says you have hidden your profile?"
Men message me with their cocks and I don’t know how to stop it, so I hide. I only looking for sexy women’s. |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
If you went out on a Saturday and didn't find a girl in two months would you stop going out. Would you maybe still go out and chat with people in the hope one day someone compatible might just be in the same place at the same time  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do I optimise my chances ?
Good profile, use the site facilities like the forum or chatrooms, attend socials, clubs etc. "
Thank you for the advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do I optimise my chances ?
It says you have hidden your profile?
Men message me with their cocks and I don’t know how to stop it, so I hide. I only looking for sexy women’s."
Block them with your message filters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do I optimise my chances ?
It says you have hidden your profile?
Men message me with their cocks and I don’t know how to stop it, so I hide. I only looking for sexy women’s."
I know the feeling |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you went out on a Saturday and didn't find a girl in two months would you stop going out. Would you maybe still go out and chat with people in the hope one day someone compatible might just be in the same place at the same time "
This is a very good example, I have never thought of it like that |
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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago
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Depend's on how you measure time?
If your on here 24/7 and after 6 month's still no answer to a message nor a meet, your doing something wrong and need to sort that.
If you just spend maybe an hour or two a day, send maybe 5 message's within that time frame, then 6 month's isn't really that long.
I can be on here for a few hour's in a day (after work and gym) and sometime's not log on for a week or two.
Oh and can I say, never message angry, tired, d*unk or on a sugar rush (maybe just me with the sugar).
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do I optimise my chances ?
It says you have hidden your profile?
Men message me with their cocks and I don’t know how to stop it, so I hide. I only looking for sexy women’s.
I know the feeling"
They say they are all straight too, which is confusing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do I optimise my chances ?
It says you have hidden your profile?
Men message me with their cocks and I don’t know how to stop it, so I hide. I only looking for sexy women’s.
Block them with your message filters. "
This I didn’t know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I give it 24 hours then disappear again. It usually doesn't even get to that long before I give up. "
I like your funny profile. Think I’ll give it a bit longer but I’m tired of messaging the women in here and I hear nothing back. I read the profile and put in the word they ask for and still nothing’s |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I give it 24 hours then disappear again. It usually doesn't even get to that long before I give up.
I like your funny profile. Think I’ll give it a bit longer but I’m tired of messaging the women in here and I hear nothing back. I read the profile and put in the word they ask for and still nothing’s "
Thank you. 
You have more patience than me. I don't understand the 'be patient' saying. I could find 50 people I like and mail them all on day 1. If no-one replies what else is there to do? I don't want to look further afield because that's too far. So game over.
Maybe wait a few weeks and see if anyone new joins. Forums can be interesting in the meantime. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I give it 24 hours then disappear again. It usually doesn't even get to that long before I give up.
I like your funny profile. Think I’ll give it a bit longer but I’m tired of messaging the women in here and I hear nothing back. I read the profile and put in the word they ask for and still nothing’s
Thank you.
You have more patience than me. I don't understand the 'be patient' saying. I could find 50 people I like and mail them all on day 1. If no-one replies what else is there to do? I don't want to look further afield because that's too far. So game over.
Maybe wait a few weeks and see if anyone new joins. Forums can be interesting in the meantime. "
Ive messaged all the local ladies except the ones asking for big peniss, cause mine isn’t big, but he does work and I am keen. I have seen the forums, but don’t understand why some people talk about other things on a sex site. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh, you don't know how it works? You take a ticket, sit down and wait for your number. Current waiting time is 2 years. "
As long as I’m in front of you in the queue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I give it 24 hours then disappear again. It usually doesn't even get to that long before I give up.
I like your funny profile. Think I’ll give it a bit longer but I’m tired of messaging the women in here and I hear nothing back. I read the profile and put in the word they ask for and still nothing’s
Thank you.
You have more patience than me. I don't understand the 'be patient' saying. I could find 50 people I like and mail them all on day 1. If no-one replies what else is there to do? I don't want to look further afield because that's too far. So game over.
Maybe wait a few weeks and see if anyone new joins. Forums can be interesting in the meantime.
Ive messaged all the local ladies except the ones asking for big peniss, cause mine isn’t big, but he does work and I am keen. I have seen the forums, but don’t understand why some people talk about other things on a sex site."
Yeah I know, it's weird. It's like they have lives and interests that don't involve sex. Wtf |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I give it 24 hours then disappear again. It usually doesn't even get to that long before I give up.
I like your funny profile. Think I’ll give it a bit longer but I’m tired of messaging the women in here and I hear nothing back. I read the profile and put in the word they ask for and still nothing’s
Thank you.
You have more patience than me. I don't understand the 'be patient' saying. I could find 50 people I like and mail them all on day 1. If no-one replies what else is there to do? I don't want to look further afield because that's too far. So game over.
Maybe wait a few weeks and see if anyone new joins. Forums can be interesting in the meantime.
Ive messaged all the local ladies except the ones asking for big peniss, cause mine isn’t big, but he does work and I am keen. I have seen the forums, but don’t understand why some people talk about other things on a sex site.
Yeah I know, it's weird. It's like they have lives and interests that don't involve sex. Wtf"
I agree, it is weird. |
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"I give it 24 hours then disappear again. It usually doesn't even get to that long before I give up.
I like your funny profile. Think I’ll give it a bit longer but I’m tired of messaging the women in here and I hear nothing back. I read the profile and put in the word they ask for and still nothing’s "
OP does it really surprise you that nobody is replying to you when your profile is hidden?
Here's how I deal with the many messages I receive, many others on fab do something similar.
The first thing I do is look at the profile before I read the message. If it's a hidden profile or if I don't see anything that captures my interest I delete the message without reading it.
If they have made an effort with their profile I may read the message. If the message is rude/crude, just a "hi how are you" type, is obvious they haven't read my profile, is an obvious copy and paste message etc I will delete their message without bothering to reply.
If they get this far and I haven't yet deleted their message but I'm not interested I may send a "thanks but no thanks" if they have clearly taken time to think about what they said to me.
One thing I haven't mentioned yet is I don't chat to that many people at once because I don't want to lose track. Therefore even if I am interested in them it may be the case of bad timing and it's a not right now, maybe some other time.
I hope that helps you a little, good luck OP. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I give it 24 hours then disappear again. It usually doesn't even get to that long before I give up.
I like your funny profile. Think I’ll give it a bit longer but I’m tired of messaging the women in here and I hear nothing back. I read the profile and put in the word they ask for and still nothing’s
OP does it really surprise you that nobody is replying to you when your profile is hidden?
Here's how I deal with the many messages I receive, many others on fab do something similar.
The first thing I do is look at the profile before I read the message. If it's a hidden profile or if I don't see anything that captures my interest I delete the message without reading it.
If they have made an effort with their profile I may read the message. If the message is rude/crude, just a "hi how are you" type, is obvious they haven't read my profile, is an obvious copy and paste message etc I will delete their message without bothering to reply.
If they get this far and I haven't yet deleted their message but I'm not interested I may send a "thanks but no thanks" if they have clearly taken time to think about what they said to me.
One thing I haven't mentioned yet is I don't chat to that many people at once because I don't want to lose track. Therefore even if I am interested in them it may be the case of bad timing and it's a not right now, maybe some other time.
I hope that helps you a little, good luck OP."
Thank you for your reply, I usually send photos if my profile Is hidden. Just hiding to stop men messaging, before I didn’t know how to block them. Lol |
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"I give it 24 hours then disappear again. It usually doesn't even get to that long before I give up.
I like your funny profile. Think I’ll give it a bit longer but I’m tired of messaging the women in here and I hear nothing back. I read the profile and put in the word they ask for and still nothing’s
OP does it really surprise you that nobody is replying to you when your profile is hidden?
Here's how I deal with the many messages I receive, many others on fab do something similar.
The first thing I do is look at the profile before I read the message. If it's a hidden profile or if I don't see anything that captures my interest I delete the message without reading it.
If they have made an effort with their profile I may read the message. If the message is rude/crude, just a "hi how are you" type, is obvious they haven't read my profile, is an obvious copy and paste message etc I will delete their message without bothering to reply.
If they get this far and I haven't yet deleted their message but I'm not interested I may send a "thanks but no thanks" if they have clearly taken time to think about what they said to me.
One thing I haven't mentioned yet is I don't chat to that many people at once because I don't want to lose track. Therefore even if I am interested in them it may be the case of bad timing and it's a not right now, maybe some other time.
I hope that helps you a little, good luck OP.
Thank you for your reply, I usually send photos if my profile Is hidden. Just hiding to stop men messaging, before I didn’t know how to block them. Lol"
You could send dozens of photos but if I look at your profile and it's hidden I would delete your message without reading it or looking at the photos.
People have told you on this thread how to block men from messaging you so why are you still hiding? |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"I give it 24 hours then disappear again. It usually doesn't even get to that long before I give up.
I like your funny profile. Think I’ll give it a bit longer but I’m tired of messaging the women in here and I hear nothing back. I read the profile and put in the word they ask for and still nothing’s
Thank you.
You have more patience than me. I don't understand the 'be patient' saying. I could find 50 people I like and mail them all on day 1. If no-one replies what else is there to do? I don't want to look further afield because that's too far. So game over.
Maybe wait a few weeks and see if anyone new joins. Forums can be interesting in the meantime.
Ive messaged all the local ladies except the ones asking for big peniss, cause mine isn’t big, but he does work and I am keen. I have seen the forums, but don’t understand why some people talk about other things on a sex site."
Aha you think this is a sex site and not for swingers in a lifestyle.... Join a swingers site where everyone wants sex with everyone and by the time you have wrote your 1 line profile they will be lining up for a shag. Good luck OP. And for us talking everything and anything when all we should be doing is talking about sex, shame on you.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I give it 24 hours then disappear again. It usually doesn't even get to that long before I give up.
I like your funny profile. Think I’ll give it a bit longer but I’m tired of messaging the women in here and I hear nothing back. I read the profile and put in the word they ask for and still nothing’s
Thank you.
You have more patience than me. I don't understand the 'be patient' saying. I could find 50 people I like and mail them all on day 1. If no-one replies what else is there to do? I don't want to look further afield because that's too far. So game over.
Maybe wait a few weeks and see if anyone new joins. Forums can be interesting in the meantime.
Ive messaged all the local ladies except the ones asking for big peniss, cause mine isn’t big, but he does work and I am keen. I have seen the forums, but don’t understand why some people talk about other things on a sex site.
Aha you think this is a sex site and not for swingers in a lifestyle.... Join a swingers site where everyone wants sex with everyone and by the time you have wrote your 1 line profile they will be lining up for a shag. Good luck OP. And for us talking everything and anything when all we should be doing is talking about sex, shame on you. "
Ah thank you for being so friendly, have a lovely evening.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I give it 24 hours then disappear again. It usually doesn't even get to that long before I give up.
I like your funny profile. Think I’ll give it a bit longer but I’m tired of messaging the women in here and I hear nothing back. I read the profile and put in the word they ask for and still nothing’s
OP does it really surprise you that nobody is replying to you when your profile is hidden?
Here's how I deal with the many messages I receive, many others on fab do something similar.
The first thing I do is look at the profile before I read the message. If it's a hidden profile or if I don't see anything that captures my interest I delete the message without reading it.
If they have made an effort with their profile I may read the message. If the message is rude/crude, just a "hi how are you" type, is obvious they haven't read my profile, is an obvious copy and paste message etc I will delete their message without bothering to reply.
If they get this far and I haven't yet deleted their message but I'm not interested I may send a "thanks but no thanks" if they have clearly taken time to think about what they said to me.
One thing I haven't mentioned yet is I don't chat to that many people at once because I don't want to lose track. Therefore even if I am interested in them it may be the case of bad timing and it's a not right now, maybe some other time.
I hope that helps you a little, good luck OP.
Thank you for your reply, I usually send photos if my profile Is hidden. Just hiding to stop men messaging, before I didn’t know how to block them. Lol
You could send dozens of photos but if I look at your profile and it's hidden I would delete your message without reading it or looking at the photos.
People have told you on this thread how to block men from messaging you so why are you still hiding?"
I’m rewording my profile to get the women more interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I give it 24 hours then disappear again. It usually doesn't even get to that long before I give up.
I like your funny profile. Think I’ll give it a bit longer but I’m tired of messaging the women in here and I hear nothing back. I read the profile and put in the word they ask for and still nothing’s
Thank you.
You have more patience than me. I don't understand the 'be patient' saying. I could find 50 people I like and mail them all on day 1. If no-one replies what else is there to do? I don't want to look further afield because that's too far. So game over.
Maybe wait a few weeks and see if anyone new joins. Forums can be interesting in the meantime.
Ive messaged all the local ladies except the ones asking for big peniss, cause mine isn’t big, but he does work and I am keen. I have seen the forums, but don’t understand why some people talk about other things on a sex site.
Yeah I know, it's weird. It's like they have lives and interests that don't involve sex. Wtf"
They should probably be banned or something for not being 24 hr sex people . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's Shag's catch phrase, lol.
Seriously though, if you're thinking that you've been more than patient after just 2 months you really need to think about what your expectations were of the site. And then realign them.
Did you expect that you just needed to create a profile with a couple of lines of text and be fighting the ladies off with a shittt stick within 5 minutes of joining?
Sorry to burst your bubble sunshine but this is not instashag.
You need to put in tons of effort.
Single men MASSIVELY outnumber women and couples on fab. The ration varies depending on different peoples perception, but is something like 100 to 1. Upwards.
Most guys won't get a meet within their first 6 months of being here. Some fair better, but many fair a lot worse.
Just because you find someine you want to fuck, doesn't mean tgat they feel the same way about you.
So, have you been patient enough?
No. Not by a long chalk. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I've waited two years to meet a particular person in the past.
I could meet a number of people immediately (I seem to attract the 'in your area tonight' messages) but that doesn't interest me. Lots of the wrong attention is as bad as no attention.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's Shag's catch phrase, lol.
Seriously though, if you're thinking that you've been more than patient after just 2 months you really need to think about what your expectations were of the site. And then realign them.
Did you expect that you just needed to create a profile with a couple of lines of text and be fighting the ladies off with a shittt stick within 5 minutes of joining?
Sorry to burst your bubble sunshine but this is not instashag.
You need to put in tons of effort.
Single men MASSIVELY outnumber women and couples on fab. The ration varies depending on different peoples perception, but is something like 100 to 1. Upwards.
Most guys won't get a meet within their first 6 months of being here. Some fair better, but many fair a lot worse.
Just because you find someine you want to fuck, doesn't mean tgat they feel the same way about you.
So, have you been patient enough?
No. Not by a long chalk."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"......but don’t understand why some people talk about other things on a sex site."
Ah, and there's your first mistake.
This is a swingers site.
I think you have a lot of learning to do, as it seems that you have very little understanding ofvthe swinging lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"......but don’t understand why some people talk about other things on a sex site.
Ah, and there's your first mistake.
This is a swingers site.
I think you have a lot of learning to do, as it seems that you have very little understanding ofvthe swinging lifestyle."
Yes, I have much to learn in the ways of the swing. |
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OP - you’re making the mistake of thinking “I want sex, and these women want sex, it’s a PERFECT match”.
You need to realise that women on Fab are offered sex all day everyday. At any time on any given day, women can turn on who’s near, change their status to something suggestive, put up a meet and have a dozen offers of sex within the hour.
You think it goes like this:
Woman: I want sex
Man: Me too!
Woman: Let’s do it!
But really it goes like this:
Woman: I want sex
Man 1: Me too!
Man 2: Me too!
Man 3: Me too!
Man 4: Me too!
Man 5: Me too!
Man 6: Me too!
Man 7: Me too!
Man 8: Me too!
Man 9: Me too!
Man 10: Me too!
Man 11: Me too!
You: Me too!
So you need to stand out by having a good profile, good veris (go to a social or a club to get them), seem safe, easy going, nice pics...
Then she’ll choose you.
You don’t need to be perfect. At least half the guys who respond to her will have crap profiles/no pics/inappropriate messages. But you need to be the best you can.
Best of luck. X |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"......but don’t understand why some people talk about other things on a sex site.
Ah, and there's your first mistake.
This is a swingers site.
I think you have a lot of learning to do, as it seems that you have very little understanding ofvthe swinging lifestyle.
Yes, I have much to learn in the ways of the swing."
And the roundabouts. Sometimes the seesaw, too.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP - you’re making the mistake of thinking “I want sex, and these women want sex, it’s a PERFECT match”.
You need to realise that women on Fab are offered sex all day everyday. At any time on any given day, women can turn on who’s near, change their status to something suggestive, put up a meet and have a dozen offers of sex within the hour.
You think it goes like this:
Woman: I want sex
Man: Me too!
Woman: Let’s do it!
But really it goes like this:
Woman: I want sex
Man 1: Me too!
Man 2: Me too!
Man 3: Me too!
Man 4: Me too!
Man 5: Me too!
Man 6: Me too!
Man 7: Me too!
Man 8: Me too!
Man 9: Me too!
Man 10: Me too!
Man 11: Me too!
You: Me too!
So you need to stand out by having a good profile, good veris (go to a social or a club to get them), seem safe, easy going, nice pics...
Then she’ll choose you.
You don’t need to be perfect. At least half the guys who respond to her will have crap profiles/no pics/inappropriate messages. But you need to be the best you can.
Best of luck. X"
Thank you Mrs Trellis, I am always very polite when messaging the ladies, it was the way I was brought up. I know men have to be patient on here and women less so. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"......but don’t understand why some people talk about other things on a sex site.
Ah, and there's your first mistake.
This is a swingers site.
I think you have a lot of learning to do, as it seems that you have very little understanding ofvthe swinging lifestyle.
Yes, I have much to learn in the ways of the swing.
And the roundabouts. Sometimes the seesaw, too.
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Yes those to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do I optimise my chances ?
Good profile, use the site facilities like the forum or chatrooms, attend socials, clubs etc.
Or own tits like hers  "
Who’s tits ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i'm coming up to 4 1/2 months probably doesn't help I live in the arse end of nowhere, the only women close enough that i'm interested in aren't bothered, and the only women who have approached me first with interest are miles away
I don't have a deadly disease that will kill me if a cougar doesn't sit on my cock though so I think i'll survive |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
the gym and random places |
The way I look at it... if it's meant to happen it will. Can't plan these things. You might chat to 1000 people before you hit it off.
When I moved to the north east I couldn't get a meet for love nor money. 8 months and zero
So i started up large scale socials in the area. I might meet thousands of people in a year who attend but hardly ever "meet" anyone.
Patience is something I've never mastered either so I just have to chill |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh, you don't know how it works? You take a ticket, sit down and wait for your number. Current waiting time is 2 years. "
Bloody hell. I must have blinked and missed my turn.....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well, I haven't had sex in over 2 years, so this site doesn't just not work for some men, it means it doesn't work for me either  "
With a body like yours this surprises me |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"......but don’t understand why some people talk about other things on a sex site.
Ah, and there's your first mistake.
This is a swingers site.
I think you have a lot of learning to do, as it seems that you have very little understanding ofvthe swinging lifestyle.
Yes, I have much to learn in the ways of the swing."
you most definitely do have a lot to learn.. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
A lot of the time when us gals get a message we will look at the profile first. If there is nothing to see because it's rubbish or hidden like yours we move on to the next message and so on.... |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Well, I haven't had sex in over 2 years, so this site doesn't just not work for some men, it means it doesn't work for me either
With a body like yours this surprises me"
Why? Local men just can't seem to stimulate my mind, never mind my body, I really don't understand how men have so little concept of how to interact with the opposite sex, and it is not just on here!
It does truly baffle me how the art of conversation is dead and gone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"......but don’t understand why some people talk about other things on a sex site.
Ah, and there's your first mistake.
This is a swingers site.
I think you have a lot of learning to do, as it seems that you have very little understanding ofvthe swinging lifestyle.
Yes, I have much to learn in the ways of the swing.
you most definitely do have a lot to learn.."
Thank you once again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well, I haven't had sex in over 2 years, so this site doesn't just not work for some men, it means it doesn't work for me either
With a body like yours this surprises me
Why? Local men just can't seem to stimulate my mind, never mind my body, I really don't understand how men have so little concept of how to interact with the opposite sex, and it is not just on here!
It does truly baffle me how the art of conversation is dead and gone "
I’m very good at stimulating a ladies mind first, I have lots of interesting questions to ask. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Well, I haven't had sex in over 2 years, so this site doesn't just not work for some men, it means it doesn't work for me either
With a body like yours this surprises me
Why? Local men just can't seem to stimulate my mind, never mind my body, I really don't understand how men have so little concept of how to interact with the opposite sex, and it is not just on here!
It does truly baffle me how the art of conversation is dead and gone
I’m very good at stimulating a ladies mind first, I have lots of interesting questions to ask."
So you ask even more questions from the female rather than discuss things? I often have messages that say tell me a bit more about you, when their profile is shite and basic?
No, read what is there, then maybe ask something if you are on the same wavelength with your own profile, otherwise, I am not giving out wank fodder |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well, I haven't had sex in over 2 years, so this site doesn't just not work for some men, it means it doesn't work for me either
With a body like yours this surprises me
Why? Local men just can't seem to stimulate my mind, never mind my body, I really don't understand how men have so little concept of how to interact with the opposite sex, and it is not just on here!
It does truly baffle me how the art of conversation is dead and gone
I’m very good at stimulating a ladies mind first, I have lots of interesting questions to ask.
So you ask even more questions from the female rather than discuss things? I often have messages that say tell me a bit more about you, when their profile is shite and basic?
No, read what is there, then maybe ask something if you are on the same wavelength with your own profile, otherwise, I am not giving out wank fodder "
I take interest in what the lady is saying, then ask questions, that way it gives me time to think of my next question. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Unfortunately as I have said before on other posts it’s just the law of averages in you. You just Gotta be persistent that’s just how it is "
I will stay persistent |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A lot of the time when us gals get a message we will look at the profile first. If there is nothing to see because it's rubbish or hidden like yours we move on to the next message and so on...."
Thank you for the advice, your photos are very artistic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Unfortunately as I have said before on other posts it’s just the law of averages in you. You just Gotta be persistent that’s just how it is
I will stay persistent "
Apparently persistent lasts about 10 minutes |
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