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Mental all the way for me, it's all about the wonder of what we don't know, can't see and haven't touched. Such a turn on only got to worry about the over excitement when you do get to touch eventually ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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"I find having my mind stimulated far more arousing, than staring at a set of abs & a chiseled jaw line.
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I have been attracted to men who have a lot of body fat, and very little muscle. |
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When I first met my late husband and he asked me out I told him I didn't feel that way about him. I didn't, I wasnt attracted to him and then a strange thing happened over time of getting to know him on a friend level we fell in love. It just shows the power of personality and mind. |
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"When I first met my late husband and he asked me out I told him I didn't feel that way about him. I didn't, I wasnt attracted to him and then a strange thing happened over time of getting to know him on a friend level we fell in love. It just shows the power of personality and mind." I'm hoping thats how I fall for someone again eventually, physical attraction does help but I think mental is the bigger and better option
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Hmmm...If there can be only one (like Highlander) then on a site like this it's going to be physical.
I want to get into your pants, not check out your IQ...
If that makes me shallow I can live with that ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"Hmmm...If there can be only one (like Highlander) then on a site like this it's going to be physical.
I want to get into your pants, not check out your IQ...
If that makes me shallow I can live with that "
I don't think that's shallow at all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Physical attraction. I can always read a book if I need mental stimulation. "
Or just give your wang a rub, they do say men think with their man meat.
Ok, maybe not you. You is a special
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I would have to say physical out of those two options. In reality i need both. But in that situation, no mental stimulation is going to make me want to get my kit off if i dont fancy them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Casual fuck, physical attraction.
Long term both."
Definitely this!!... If its just to have naughty naked fun then physical, but anything more than just a quick shag needs to have both!! X |
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I am only attracted by appearance. It's not choice, it's just the only thing that attracts me in a sexual way. I think women's requirements are more complex. I have worked with many men who claimed looks were unimportant - you should have seen their heads swivel when an attractive woman entered the office! I think there is a lot of political correctness about this issue on the part of men. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
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Hmmm.. Difficult one, need the physical attraction but if their a knob forget it no matter how hot they look, so shows personality is needed, so think would have to pass if not registering at least an 8 on both
Maybe that’s why we don’t meet much where we take our clothes off lol, it’s difficult to find a couple where both are what we are attracted to with personalities to match |
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Mental. I can appreciate physical attraction though there has to be an element of mental attraction, will we get on, how do we agree what boundaries.
Also, without the mental attraction how do you learn new experiences? |
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"When I first met my late husband and he asked me out I told him I didn't feel that way about him. I didn't, I wasnt attracted to him and then a strange thing happened over time of getting to know him on a friend level we fell in love. It just shows the power of personality and mind."
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