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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Another thread make me think. Doesn't happen too often..
If you have two or more nsa friends with benefits, but you don't tell each about the others, are you cheating? |
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"Another thread make me think. Doesn't happen too often..
If you have two or more nsa friends with benefits, but you don't tell each about the others, are you cheating?"
Isn’t that the point of nsa! There is no commitment.... if you disclose to either or other surely you just create the very thing most of us try to avoid - Jealousy! .... |
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"Another thread make me think. Doesn't happen too often..
If you have two or more nsa friends with benefits, but you don't tell each about the others, are you cheating?"
Absolutely not, if you or they think it is it's not a nsa fwb |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. We aren't in a relationship and haven't made a commitment, so I'm not cheating on anyone.
Both my long term partners know I see other men though.
If a man asks for exclusivity I tell him I only do that in a committed relationship.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t class it as cheating, however I make it clear to any guy I meet that I will be meeting other guys. It’s only fair"
Why do you feel the need to if it's nsa?
Do you ever get any bad reactions to your honesty? |
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"I wouldn’t class it as cheating, however I make it clear to any guy I meet that I will be meeting other guys. It’s only fair
Why do you feel the need to if it's nsa?
Do you ever get any bad reactions to your honesty?"
I just want it clear up front. And, surprisingly for a swingers site, a lot of guys don’t like that
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another thread make me think. Doesn't happen too often..
If you have two or more nsa friends with benefits, but you don't tell each about the others, are you cheating?"
No strings attached means not needing to inform someone of anything you don't care to share, to me. If i was meeting someone NSA, i would in fact assume they were meeting someone else as i had no right to expect monogamy. Thats why it's NSA  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think everyone knows what cheating is. It's not ambiguous as a concept.
It's been happening since the year dot, and the most non assuming of people have done it.
However! I never understand the people who create threads about it shouting out loud their positions and woes, then feel hard done by.
Very few people are actively hounded on this site if they are cheating; but just going quietly about ones business is surely the wiser option? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn’t class it as cheating, however I make it clear to any guy I meet that I will be meeting other guys. It’s only fair
Why do you feel the need to if it's nsa?
Do you ever get any bad reactions to your honesty?
I just want it clear up front. And, surprisingly for a swingers site, a lot of guys don’t like that
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That's what I thought is probably the reality of such situations, despite all the nsa blah. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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Yes you are because you're not being totally honest are you. If you have to lie or hide it then you have to ask yourself why.
It's just an open and honest conversation to have with someone. Give another the option to be part of it or not. I'd be very pissed off because it's not what I seek from someone and I'd just walk away. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes you are because you're not being totally honest are you. If you have to lie or hide it then you have to ask yourself why.
It's just an open and honest conversation to have with someone. Give another the option to be part of it or not. I'd be very pissed off because it's not what I seek from someone and I'd just walk away."
Once again, the reality.. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"No. NSA implies no relationship so therefore it's not cheating. "
This. Stating it’s NSA means you’ve no strings - the key is whether it’s been clearly stated and understood between you and the other person and dynamically revisited if it feels it’s changing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes you are because you're not being totally honest are you. If you have to lie or hide it then you have to ask yourself why.
It's just an open and honest conversation to have with someone. Give another the option to be part of it or not. I'd be very pissed off because it's not what I seek from someone and I'd just walk away."
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