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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They may have had a genuine excuse to cancel. i apreciate the cancelations can happen thats life but the no longer on site sorry no  "
changed thuer mind?
with women involved those things can happen lol |
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By *imshard OP Man
over a year ago
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"at least tthey let you know.
give you chance to spend time with the wife and work on your marriage instead "
i aint had sex since november believe me i try got flowers today instead of waiting till tomorrow and wont get a thing i have my needs and im wearing my hand out lol  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"They may have had a genuine excuse to cancel. i apreciate the cancelations can happen thats life but the no longer on site sorry no "
you have only been on three months and as you stated you are married so that may put some off meeting you anyway, i am sure if you are positive rather than concentrating on the negative it will get better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"at least tthey let you know.
give you chance to spend time with the wife and work on your marriage instead i aint had sex since november believe me i try got flowers today instead of waiting till tomorrow and wont get a thing i have my needs and im wearing my hand out lol "
im hardly amarriage councellor(sp) but surely talking things over with the missus, and walking away if not happy, is preferable to trying to fcuk around behind her back.
not to mention, you have been on for 3 months, so thats prety much since you stopped have 'relations' with your OH.
maybe putting more attantion into this than her? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"at least tthey let you know.
give you chance to spend time with the wife and work on your marriage instead i aint had sex since november believe me i try got flowers today instead of waiting till tomorrow and wont get a thing i have my needs and im wearing my hand out lol "
Well tomorrow is valentines day,im sure the flowers can go to good use,you may not need to use your hand after that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" dont see point in lying"
ah, you never said your missus knows.
thats a whole different ball game.
sorry for being so judgemental.
erm, yeah, as has been said, people disappear all the time, so just have to suck it up fella. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" dont see point in lying
ah, you never said your missus knows.
thats a whole different ball game.
sorry for being so judgemental.
erm, yeah, as has been said, people disappear all the time, so just have to suck it up fella."
He didn't lol he said:
im always up front tell whoever im chatting to im married dont see point in lying then the can say yes or no
So he's honest with us....
But back to the OP. The profile deletions don't mean they're genuine - you have no idea what's going on in their lives, bad relationship, illness, family death etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The profile deletions don't mean they're genuine - you have no idea what's going on in their lives, bad relationship, illness, family death etc"
That should say the deletions don't mean they're NOT genuine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" dont see point in lying
ah, you never said your missus knows.
thats a whole different ball game.
sorry for being so judgemental.
erm, yeah, as has been said, people disappear all the time, so just have to suck it up fella.
He didn't lol he said:
im always up front tell whoever im chatting to im married dont see point in lying then the can say yes or no
So he's honest with us....
But back to the OP. The profile deletions don't mean they're genuine - you have no idea what's going on in their lives, bad relationship, illness, family death etc"
i know, hun. i was being selectively smartarsed.
funny how OP can be 'up fornt' and 'not lie' to people he wants to fuck behind his missus back, but is quite happy to keep her in the dark. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" dont see point in lying
ah, you never said your missus knows.
thats a whole different ball game.
sorry for being so judgemental.
erm, yeah, as has been said, people disappear all the time, so just have to suck it up fella.
He didn't lol he said:
im always up front tell whoever im chatting to im married dont see point in lying then the can say yes or no
So he's honest with us....
But back to the OP. The profile deletions don't mean they're genuine - you have no idea what's going on in their lives, bad relationship, illness, family death etc
i know, hun. i was being selectively smartarsed.
funny how OP can be 'up fornt' and 'not lie' to people he wants to fuck behind his missus back, but is quite happy to
keep her in the dark. lol"
Phew I was worried about your eye sight then!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" dont see point in lying
ah, you never said your missus knows.
thats a whole different ball game.
sorry for being so judgemental.
erm, yeah, as has been said, people disappear all the time, so just have to suck it up fella.
He didn't lol he said:
im always up front tell whoever im chatting to im married dont see point in lying then the can say yes or no
So he's honest with us....
But back to the OP. The profile deletions don't mean they're genuine - you have no idea what's going on in their lives, bad relationship, illness, family death etc
i know, hun. i was being selectively smartarsed.
funny how OP can be 'up fornt' and 'not lie' to people he wants to fuck behind his missus back, but is quite happy to
keep her in the dark. lol
Phew I was worried about your eye sight then! "
oh no, my eyesight is perfect.
how you doin??? lol. |
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By *imshard OP Man
over a year ago
kirkcaldy |
yes i am a bas,,rd but il tell you this about me i love her with all my heart would do any thing for her
but november was my last time before that was august before that was may im sorry but i need more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes i am a bas,,rd but il tell you this about me i love her with all my heart would do any thing for her
but november was my last time before that was august before that was may im sorry but i need more "
MAY #
june
july
AUGUST #
sept
oct
NOV #
dec
jan
FEB #
hey mate, i have spotted a pattern, you are on a promise this month!
no need to thank me, just go wash your cock and be ready! |
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By *imshard OP Man
over a year ago
kirkcaldy |
"yes i am a bas,,rd but il tell you this about me i love her with all my heart would do any thing for her
but november was my last time before that was august before that was may im sorry but i need more
MAY #
june
july
AUGUST # gona hit the bath lol
sept
oct
NOV #
dec
jan
FEB #
hey mate, i have spotted a pattern, you are on a promise this month!
no need to thank me, just go wash your cock and be ready!"
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"yes i am a bas,,rd but il tell you this about me i love her with all my heart would do any thing for her
but november was my last time before that was august before that was may im sorry but i need more "
you poor thing, my heart bleeds for you |
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"at least tthey let you know.
give you chance to spend time with the wife and work on your marriage instead i aint had sex since november believe me i try got flowers today instead of waiting till tomorrow and wont get a thing i have my needs and im wearing my hand out lol
im hardly amarriage councellor(sp) but surely talking things over with the missus, and walking away if not happy, is preferable to trying to fcuk around behind her back.
not to mention, you have been on for 3 months, so thats prety much since you stopped have 'relations' with your OH.
maybe putting more attantion into this than her?"
in many years of swinging experience i have never met a cheat who was willing to put any effort into fixing things at home.
The ones who do are not on swinging sites trying to get a fuck behind their partners back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes i am a bas,,rd but il tell you this about me i love her with all my heart would do any thing for her
but november was my last time before that was august before that was may im sorry but i need more
you poor thing, my heart bleeds for you"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No you don't deserve it
And yes I love timewasting, I love spending the day with my kids peeing the guy off that is horny and thinks I should dump them for him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps the Op's wife does want sex....just not with him
Maybe she's got her own secret account on here and is being shagged bandy and he just doesn't know it!
poetic justice, one would think
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Anyway cant see how they are timewasters. You knew you wouldnt be meeting them as two left and two cancelled. A timewaster to me is if someone arranges a meet and just doesnt turn up. I should have had a meet with a guy ive seen a couple of times tonight but hes got manflu so i sent him to bed with a beechams, would hardly call him a timewaster |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps the Op's wife does want sex....just not with him
Maybe she's got her own secret account on here and is being shagged bandy and he just doesn't know it!
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I had to read that twice , thought it said shagged brandy   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"time wasters just give everyone else on this site a bad name, its shit because some people are on here and genuine and it ruins the site for everyone else"
again, timewasters is such a subjective term.
someone who's kid falls ill at the last minute so says they wont go out and give you your jollies?
timewaster?
someone who change thier mind and let you know?
timewaster?
someone who doesnt teurn up when you hae been sa in a pub for an hour?
timewaster?
only the last one from those, imo, is such.
ateotd life is life, shit happens. if it happened to you, you would like to have a second chance. give people a little bit of a chance. family will always come way above this shit |
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no i dont mean for reasons like that, of course there will be times when people cant make it for genuine reasons, im refering to when people who talk and arrange meet then dont even have the manners to message to say i cant make it etc |
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If they have left the site then its unlikely they were genuine, but as your not i dont see how you can complain 
