I'm single and probably never considered myself a proper "swinger". I've never played with a couple as wary of the dynamics and over stepping the mark and also even though I find some women attractive I wouldn't say I'm bi, although would try, having never truly played witg a woman how can I judge.. So as couples what are your experiences like how do you like to play and for all you singles what are your experiences...
I quite like the idea of the social side we well..
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over a year ago
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We’ve been luck enough to meet some great couples on here and have only had really positive experiences, we enjoy the social side and all the flirting as well as all the sexy stuff  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you want to play with a couple? What attracts you to the idea?
I think finding someone who you're compatible with is the main thing. It's easy to feel used in that kind of situation but with the right people it's good fun. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I've done the swinging thing as a couple and as a single.
As a couple it was about fantasies and exploring them together, finding what worked for us within our dynamic and boundaries.
As a single it's a lot more fluid and about chemistry, I found that finding how I fitted into the chemistry with them and their dynamic was essential. |
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over a year ago
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I've swung as both a single female and part of a couple. As long as everyone is open about what they expect things tend to go rather well.
There are some awesome couples around, just have to find one who suit your desires  |
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It's something I've never explored and curious.. I'm not sure if I would maybe just enjoy the social side more.. But yes have always avoided it because of the dynamics.. So was interested to hear what you guys had to say
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over a year ago
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I like 1 on 1 sex tried couple swap dont like it im too competitive
Accidently started a gangbang didnt like that same reason
Yet to try a ffm 3 some but im sure i will soon enough |
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"It's something I've never explored and curious.. I'm not sure if I would maybe just enjoy the social side more.. But yes have always avoided it because of the dynamics.. So was interested to hear what you guys had to say
Xx"
My advice would be to try a few socials, you'll soon know if it's something you want to pursue  |
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"It's something I've never explored and curious.. I'm not sure if I would maybe just enjoy the social side more.. But yes have always avoided it because of the dynamics.. So was interested to hear what you guys had to say
Xx
My advice would be to try a few socials, you'll soon know if it's something you want to pursue "
Yes because I'm not overly bi I'm not sure how that would work in a couples scenario.. Maybe better with MMF Hahaha but I think the social side is a good starting point definitely xx |
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I don't think I'm a swinger in that I don't actively look for anything in particular. I tend to just float around and see who or what pops up and decide then if it's something I'd want.
I've spent time with 2 couples, one was terrible and the dynamic was all wrong but the other was amazing. It really depends on who you met and how you gel with them but don't feel like you have to do things a certain way, follow your heart on what feels right for you and don't worry about labels. |
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"I like 1 on 1 sex tried couple swap dont like it im too competitive
Accidently started a gangbang didnt like that same reason
Yet to try a ffm 3 some but im sure i will soon enough "
think that means im not a swinger either just a good shag |
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"It's something I've never explored and curious.. I'm not sure if I would maybe just enjoy the social side more.. But yes have always avoided it because of the dynamics.. So was interested to hear what you guys had to say
Xx
My advice would be to try a few socials, you'll soon know if it's something you want to pursue
Yes because I'm not overly bi I'm not sure how that would work in a couples scenario.. Maybe better with MMF Hahaha but I think the social side is a good starting point definitely xx"
Lots of couples include straight ladies and/or ladies who are happy to share without playing with the women they meet. Do whatever feels right for you lovely |
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from what you've said it's probably best for you to start via the social route.
it really does works best if the vibe is right between the three people involved as opposed to a two plus one
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We have only had threesomes with fully Bi women whose main interest would be girl on girl so we tend to play as a threesome of soft play where all three get and give pleasure in a fluid environment, D will watch at times, take pics or fetch toys but he isn’t there to watch a show, each time has been very different but the involvement of all three is the key dynamic for us.
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
Stafford |
You can beat a females soft body and they way they touch you Vs a man. In my experience it's so different being with a woman ignoring the obvious differences. They're just more in tune as they have the same as you and already know how to push those right buttons |
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"We have only had threesomes with fully Bi women whose main interest would be girl on girl so we tend to play as a threesome of soft play where all three get and give pleasure in a fluid environment, D will watch at times, take pics or fetch toys but he isn’t there to watch a show, each time has been very different but the involvement of all three is the key dynamic for us.
Jo.Xx"
That sounds how it should be... There are times when I think this would be hugely erotic but then Im not sure if I would miss the male interaction too??? But if your in that situation maybe not? Xx |
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"You can beat a females soft body and they way they touch you Vs a man. In my experience it's so different being with a woman ignoring the obvious differences. They're just more in tune as they have the same as you and already know how to push those right buttons "
This is why I am curious for these reasons x |
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I'm not sure if you only want answers from couples with a bi lady, if so I apologise in advance but our point of view might apply to your query.
We like to meet single men and couples. The way we play is a bit different to many hence we don't meet often. However we tend to avoid people with no experience of the things we like because if it becomes clear during a meet that they aren't enjoying it, it can be very disappointing and awkward for everyone |
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"We have only had threesomes with fully Bi women whose main interest would be girl on girl so we tend to play as a threesome of soft play where all three get and give pleasure in a fluid environment, D will watch at times, take pics or fetch toys but he isn’t there to watch a show, each time has been very different but the involvement of all three is the key dynamic for us.
Jo.Xx
That sounds how it should be... There are times when I think this would be hugely erotic but then Im not sure if I would miss the male interaction too??? But if your in that situation maybe not? Xx"
It is hugely erotic for us and although D is extremely sensual he is still very manly in his touch, I also need the male interaction  this is why we try to ensure all three are involved at all times. It is all about finding what you are comfortable with and I agree having a social beforehand to ensure that all three connect is probably best
Jo.Xx |
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"We have only had threesomes with fully Bi women whose main interest would be girl on girl so we tend to play as a threesome of soft play where all three get and give pleasure in a fluid environment, D will watch at times, take pics or fetch toys but he isn’t there to watch a show, each time has been very different but the involvement of all three is the key dynamic for us.
Jo.Xx
That sounds how it should be... There are times when I think this would be hugely erotic but then Im not sure if I would miss the male interaction too??? But if your in that situation maybe not? Xx
It is hugely erotic for us and although D is extremely sensual he is still very manly in his touch, I also need the male interaction this is why we try to ensure all three are involved at all times. It is all about finding what you are comfortable with and I agree having a social beforehand to ensure that all three connect is probably best
Jo.Xx"
listening and learning master jedis |
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"I'm not sure if you only want answers from couples with a bi lady, if so I apologise in advance but our point of view might apply to your query.
We like to meet single men and couples. The way we play is a bit different to many hence we don't meet often. However we tend to avoid people with no experience of the things we like because if it becomes clear during a meet that they aren't enjoying it, it can be very disappointing and awkward for everyone"
No don't apologise... I wanted to hear from all aspects. Its really interesting xx |
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"We have only had threesomes with fully Bi women whose main interest would be girl on girl so we tend to play as a threesome of soft play where all three get and give pleasure in a fluid environment, D will watch at times, take pics or fetch toys but he isn’t there to watch a show, each time has been very different but the involvement of all three is the key dynamic for us.
Jo.Xx
That sounds how it should be... There are times when I think this would be hugely erotic but then Im not sure if I would miss the male interaction too??? But if your in that situation maybe not? Xx
It is hugely erotic for us and although D is extremely sensual he is still very manly in his touch, I also need the male interaction this is why we try to ensure all three are involved at all times. It is all about finding what you are comfortable with and I agree having a social beforehand to ensure that all three connect is probably best
Jo.Xxlistening and learning master jedis"
Oh we are far from masters  as you know we are very new to the scene, it seems everyone has there only style of play, a way they feel comfortable with, we are just the same. We are still learning and progressing on our experience 
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