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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was chatting with someone about random things and the conversation was flowing. Then out of the blue she said that I haven't talked about sex and she went on to say..
"I'm not sure if I should be offended by that or not"
So now I'm thinking are you Fabsters all engaging in sexual conversations in private chats Or what?
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don't.
Truthfully, if there's no reference to sex at all, I do wonder if they fancy me or they are politely entertaining my witterings. That's down to my own questionings and not a reflection of them really. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don't.
Truthfully, if there's no reference to sex at all, I do wonder if they fancy me or they are politely entertaining my witterings. That's down to my own questionings and not a reflection of them really."
See I've been told on other apps that the women are fed up of men trying it on with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate any sexual chat in messages it puts me off straight away! Yes I’m on a swinging site but I not a piece of meat either being the gentleman always wins with me |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don't.
Truthfully, if there's no reference to sex at all, I do wonder if they fancy me or they are politely entertaining my witterings. That's down to my own questionings and not a reflection of them really.
See I've been told on other apps that the women are fed up of men trying it on with them. "
Yeah, I imagine a lot of women are - if you want to meet men and all they want is to fap to words on a screen you send them, that must get a bit frustrating. In the past when I've been messaging and it's been a case of talking to a typing erection, it's been a turn off. It's difficult to navigate.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not a huge fan of sex talk. Flirty double entendres I don't mind as part of a convo, but straight into sex talk gets on my tits.
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oy practice what u preach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not a huge fan of sex talk. Flirty double entendres I don't mind as part of a convo, but straight into sex talk gets on my tits.
Poy practice what u preach "
Get off my tits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not a huge fan of sex talk. Flirty double entendres I don't mind as part of a convo, but straight into sex talk gets on my tits.
Poy practice what u preach
Get off my tits "
sorry my hand slipped all that oil |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
It's very rare any of the conversations I have in here are sexual as such, and certainly not before I've met someome - we may discuss sex and sexuality in broad terms much in the same way as the type of things you see being discussed in the forums, but even that is usually after a fair few messages have been exchanged.
I'd never lead with a sexual message, in fact it's been commented on that some people who I've chatted to for ages we've not even broached the subject of sex.
I always talk about boundaries etc if I'm meeting someone but again in a very broad brush way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like a bit of flirting and subtle sex chat but not until we have established a bit of a connection. Sex chat with a stranger is just weird.
I'm not a stranger so when are we doing this "
Ooohhh baby slide your peepee in my vag  |
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"I like a bit of flirting and subtle sex chat but not until we have established a bit of a connection. Sex chat with a stranger is just weird.
I'm not a stranger so when are we doing this
Ooohhh baby slide your peepee in my vag "
Ffs slow down I haven't tasted it yet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Occasionally, but there are very few guys that can hold a sexually oriented conversation without being crude or vulgar ... "
I think the same applies to women too.
I have allways had the feeling that the women who are quick to sext are the least likely to meet up for sex. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Occasionally, but there are very few guys that can hold a sexually oriented conversation without being crude or vulgar ...
I think the same applies to women too.
I have allways had the feeling that the women who are quick to sext are the least likely to meet up for sex. "
Or not actually women at all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Occasionally, but there are very few guys that can hold a sexually oriented conversation without being crude or vulgar ...
I think the same applies to women too.
I have allways had the feeling that the women who are quick to sext are the least likely to meet up for sex.
Or not actually women at all"
Yeah true  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I think there's also a distinction to be made between discussing sex and sexuality on an intellectual level and sex chat/cybersex - they're two *very* different things.
The latter has it's time and place but certainly not within the first few messages with someone |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
To answer the thread header "How to chat to ladies on Fab" though OP - the answer is simple - exactly how you'd chat to them off Fab, and take your lead from how the conversation flows, just the same as you would in the real world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it when guys message me and we have random chats about nothing in particular!! Actually shows there is more too then then just getting their dicks wet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love it when guys message me and we have random chats about nothing in particular!! Actually shows there is more too then then just getting their dicks wet."
This ^^ I got some dance class recommendations the other day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bump "
Oh no! We'd only been chatting 5 minutes and I mentioned sex. Were you badly shocked?
But why as my mentor did you not gently point out my error? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just talk about what you want to, if it's sex chat or just run of the mill random shite.
You will never make everyone happy and just because you tip toe around the subject just in case you offend then no point in chatting 
Predtending that you're not on here to fuck or play is not going to increase your chances of a fuck so just be who you are.
Some will like and some will not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope.. never.. it's friendly chat only until I meet someone.. which is very rare. "
That’s how we play it, use fab as a platform to meet then let the games begin in real life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was chatting with someone about random things and the conversation was flowing. Then out of the blue she said that I haven't talked about sex and she went on to say..
"I'm not sure if I should be offended by that or not"
So now I'm thinking are you Fabsters all engaging in sexual conversations in private chats Or what?
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Maybe it’s a man. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Like most here I love a chat about things and not only boring sex chat.
Why would she feel offended because I didn't chat about sex though. "
She didn't - she made a tongue in cheek comment about not knowing whether to feel offended or not because you hadn't - you're reading a lot more into it than there probably is, it was probably just her way of offering you an opening to take it in thag direction, or at least to see how you'd react. |
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I find it annoying when guys just try and sext straight away. I don't like to sext just so the other person can have a wank... It makes me feel cheap.. I also don't like to sext too much if its not going to be a reality as I just get too fustrated haha and end up getting the raging horn which is really bad if I can't have sex so it's a fine balance..
Yes I talk about sex especially if someone asks what you enjoy etc..I don't mind that at all. But I hate it when guys just expect you to sext straight away.
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