"I think it would be a good idea to be able to block people from viewing your profile if they don't fit your age criteria. Our who's looked at you box is overflowing with kids. Any thoughts?"
Since when did it harm anyone to look?
If as you say, your who’s looked is full of kids, then report them to admin as members have to be over 18. If you mean that they are younger than you are looking for, then so be it. They looked at your profile and decided that you are not for them/not what you’re looking for |
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over a year ago
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"Our block list is long enough without adding hundreds more. To each their own but I don't get a buzz from some 20 year old looking at us."
Do you get a buzz from people in your age range looking at you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It wouldn't make any difference to me as I don't really look at who's looked at me. I figure if they liked what they saw, they'd make contact of some kind. "
im too cheap to care
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can see how this would be good for some.
However I don’t think there’s much harm in looking really.
If those who you aren’t interested in, looking at your profile bothers you and is making your experience on here negative. Maybe it’s best to hide your profile and seek people out yourself & see how that works? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our block list is long enough without adding hundreds more. To each their own but I don't get a buzz from some 20 year old looking at us."
But they’re just looking...
I’m sure plenty of 20 year olds have looked at you in the street too. It’s harmless, if they cannot message you, I don’t see the issue? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Our block list is long enough without adding hundreds more. To each their own but I don't get a buzz from some 20 year old looking at us.
But they’re just looking...
I’m sure plenty of 20 year olds have looked at you in the street too. It’s harmless, if they cannot message you, I don’t see the issue?"
Me neither  |
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It would not be high on my priorities list for fab to spend money in. It generally doesn't bother me but I've been here so long that it seems standard for people to look and explore. I frequently click on a forum thread username, instead of reply to it, so not all viewers are purposeful in the way you expect.
I think the bigger need for many is to apply the message filters |
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"Our block list is long enough without adding hundreds more. To each their own but I don't get a buzz from some 20 year old looking at us.
Do you get a buzz from people in your age range looking at you?"
Of course, that's why the age range! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it would be a good idea to be able to block people from viewing your profile if they don't fit your age criteria. Our who's looked at you box is overflowing with kids. Any thoughts?"
yes op I agree I believe better filters would work or if you're looking for ladies 40 50 that's all that should be able to view excellent idea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see the site as a social place where people can interact. Like hanging out in a pub, yeah you might not speak to everyone there but looking does no harm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've had pics stolen and sent to vanilla friends so yes.
at the time we had single men blocked so if they wasn't able to see our pics and profile it would have saved alot of upset I think
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But anyone of any age or any sex could do that? |
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"We've had pics stolen and sent to vanilla friends so yes.
at the time we had single men blocked so if they wasn't able to see our pics and profile it would have saved alot of upset I think
But anyone of any age or any sex could do that? "
That is true but it wasn't it was a fella that knew one of our friends |
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If the facility was there then it's up to each person/couple to do as they please. As can be seen from profiles not everyone is into the same kink. So it follows that if we don't want to be viewed by a certain section that's our choice same as others wishing to be viewed is their choice. |
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"We've had pics stolen and sent to vanilla friends so yes.
at the time we had single men blocked so if they wasn't able to see our pics and profile it would have saved alot of upset I think
But anyone of any age or any sex could do that?
That is true but it wasn't it was a fella that knew one of our friends "
Yet your profile pic still quite clearly shows the female of your couple
You are aware that on a phone, if you hold your finger on the profile pic and press 'view image', it enlarges the thumbnail ?
Anyone who is registered with the site can do that unless they are blocked
They don't need to be verified, photo verified or even pay a membership - as long as they are registered, they can view your profile pic quite clearly, even if the photo isn't in your public gallery |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our block list is long enough without adding hundreds more. To each their own but I don't get a buzz from some 20 year old looking at us."
500 is your limit anyway. |
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over a year ago
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Seeing as a lot of people view in stealth mode, you probably don’t realise how many people have viewed you, especially if it’s more than a hundred as unless you check pretty regularly you wouldn’t know. As someone else said if you’re that bothered about who views you either hide your profile and do the searching yourself or put photos on there that you’re not bothered about who views you. Even if you’ve got message filters set up, you’re still going to get messages from people you’re not interested in, just delete and move on. |
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"We've had pics stolen and sent to vanilla friends so yes.
at the time we had single men blocked so if they wasn't able to see our pics and profile it would have saved alot of upset I think
But anyone of any age or any sex could do that?
That is true but it wasn't it was a fella that knew one of our friends
Yet your profile pic still quite clearly shows the female of your couple
You are aware that on a phone, if you hold your finger on the profile pic and press 'view image', it enlarges the thumbnail ?
Anyone who is registered with the site can do that unless they are blocked
They don't need to be verified, photo verified or even pay a membership - as long as they are registered, they can view your profile pic quite clearly, even if the photo isn't in your public gallery "
it's not an issue to us any more we aren't doing nothing wrong |
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"We've had pics stolen and sent to vanilla friends so yes.
at the time we had single men blocked so if they wasn't able to see our pics and profile it would have saved alot of upset I think
But anyone of any age or any sex could do that?
That is true but it wasn't it was a fella that knew one of our friends
Yet your profile pic still quite clearly shows the female of your couple
You are aware that on a phone, if you hold your finger on the profile pic and press 'view image', it enlarges the thumbnail ?
Anyone who is registered with the site can do that unless they are blocked
They don't need to be verified, photo verified or even pay a membership - as long as they are registered, they can view your profile pic quite clearly, even if the photo isn't in your public gallery
it's not an issue to us any more we aren't doing nothing wrong "
you never were |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had all sorts view my profile and fab my profile. It is when I het messages and winks I would rather them fit my criteria. No harm is done just by being viewed though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our block list is long enough without adding hundreds more. To each their own but I don't get a buzz from some 20 year old looking at us.
500 is your limit anyway."
Is it? I had better slow down then :p |
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buggers for it.